Honestly fuck this millennial pink pseudo wellness bullshit about being gentle to yourself and always practicing mindfulness and committing acts of self care by consuming Product™️, I’m gonna continue being that bitch faced waif in all black running around the city at ungodly hours with wads of cash and ritalin in a designer bag and a peppermint vape hanging out the side of my mouth, texting on two phones simultaneously.
facts?
I’ve seen women with synthetic wigs, press on nails, and $7.99 perfume make it, I’ve seen fat women and thin women make it, I seen women who are flat out disabled make it, and I’ve seen women who people assumed would never make it make it. The one thing they all have in common is discipline and the one thing they all share is that they had the personalities and the will to find a way to survive and get what they wanted. If you’re unable to find a way to make life work for you then maybe it’s on you and not on the rest of the world.
she’s an icon, she’s a legend and she is the moment
Men will lie to you, manipulate you, play the victim, cheat on you, gaslight you.. there are no exceptions. Even if you think you found a man who is different - in the end they all turn out to be like this.
use men - never let them use you
High self-worth is essential as water, sleep, and oxygen. You must believe you deserve space. You must believe you are worth “it”. And then take that a little higher, and add your wildest dreams to this ecosystem. Our thoughts nourish our mind. When we think happy/exciting thoughts, our mind actively searches for these things in our surroundings to reaffirm and validate them. Even if we don’t yet have it, when we think about a big dream or goal, our mind starts pinpointing the opportunities that lead us to achieving these desires. Whenever you feel lost in life, go back to the drawing board of your self-esteem. Build yourself up again, as many times as you need to, even when it feels like you are starting over. Self-love, vibrations and energy is an important priority like sleep, water, and nutrition. Channel your highest self-regard before bed. Just a little reminder: when you’re struggling with a difficult situation, the best thing you can do is INSIST on championing yourself. Do not compromise. Do not falter. You are special.
I had an ex “SD” aka client when I was a sugar baby that tried to plan a date with me recently, he canceled the day prior so I told him I’ll need a cancellation fee and future deposit in the form of a gift card if he’d like to see me again and he was shook
Absolutely embarrassing the things I used to put up with from a man. SA was POISON
@claytonwelchj
New sugar babies piss me off
I try and guide young girls away from putting themselves in situations to get raped or arrested and I get it thrown in my face
I learned all my lessons the hard way and it took me a long time to find a real sponsor. I just so happened to find him online but news flash anyone legit in the game lives and breathes this lifestyle and can get a man like that anywhere. You are all so fixated on SA and that’s where you will fail. And not to mention end up with some traumatic experiences
Screw off and unfollow me if you think my advice is bullshit. I was dumb and new at one point and I sure wish I listened to those girls that had been around the block a few times
Monica Bellucci