New Sugar Babies Piss Me Off

starting the day by going to the gym and making the stairmaster my bitch

This reminds me of people who give me compliments on my appearance and quickly add something like “well it´s easy for you - you are genetically blessed” or “I only have to look at food and gain weight.”.. something along those lines. You can explain your workout regime, strict diet, skincare routine or general lifestyle choices all you want - they just keep talking about genetics or they will start to look down on you for the effort you put into your looks. The truth is that they want all those things (being in good shape, having better skin, etc.) but they want it to be easy. These people don´t want to hear how much discipline it takes, how much time, energy and money you have to invest in order to maintain a certain look. Talking about how some people have it easier, because of money or genetics or whatever won´t get you anywhere. 

Not to be a total rude bitch tho… but I work out almost everyday, I limit if not abstain from junk food, I drink plenty of water, I only drink certain types of alcohol and absolutely no soda. I get my lips injected, I see a dermatologist, I’m planning on getting lipo + non invasion nose job + Botox jaw contouring soon. I have hair extensions, I get my lashes and eyebrows dyed and maintained every two weeks… I get my nails all jacked up every three. I go tanning. I literally spend thousands of dollars a year on hair, skin, nails and makeup. Not to mention the dancer wardrobe I’ve accumulated… and anyone who thinks I shouldn’t make more money after all this effort can literally suck my ass!

Always expect better than the best. Creativity and audacity is how you get it. The status quo (clinging to groups, needing reassurance) will make you work the rest of your life. Others are irrelevant. Oversaturation in a market does not matter. 

A woman’s descent into herself culminates in death. The old “her” must die in order for rebirth to occur. Her image of herself as victim must die. Her view of herself as wrong, damaged, worthless, unattractive, incompetent must die. Her callous apathy toward her own suffering must die.

-  Eating in the Light of the Moon: How Women Can Transform Their Relationship with Food Through Myths, Metaphors, and Storytelling, Anita Johnston

“The only safety is in money… Money is a woman’s only power in this world. Make it your solace and your dream and one day wealth, real lasting wealth will make you free.”

— Margaret Wells, Harlots (via brownstatuesquesugarbaby)

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I got two men to pay for my place for a year upfront so I’m pocketing half of it. Truly iconic

women at my gym in their 40s and 50s that are in better shape than most 20-somethings are my workout motivation

Tell us more on how to manipulate guys 👀

Yesss so as promised here’s a few things to do

1.When you get to know someone, don’t reveal about yourself and ask them a lot about them. They will like the attention and at the end, realize they don’t know much about you, which will give an air of mysteriousness. Meanwhile, you’re collecting as much info about them to figure out what they like, what they dislike and what they seek. Then as the relationship progress, give hints and pretend to be their ideal person from the information you collected. That’s exactly what guys that want to get in your pants do. They sell a dream and once they know you caught the bait, they switch their personalities and stop pretending. Most likely will blame that change on something you did and you’ll go on a mission to change him back to how sweet and perfect he was before, but it was in fact a personality that was forged to fool you.

2.The silent treatment : most people hold to their pride a lot, give hints here and there that 1, you don’t text a lot so when you get distant and cold over text they’ll grasp on to that hope to explain any sudden disappearance, and 2, that you have pride and never go back to people that have wronged you (so when they upset you over something minor, give them the silent treatment and get them used to be the one to come back to talk and make things right and apologize), so you weaken their pride and ego and condition them to coming back to you always.

3.Lie lie lieeee, but be smart about it and don’t mix your stories up and make them believable. I always tell guys they are my firsts or 2nd, so they feel special. You have to sell yourself as someone untouchable and unattainable. But don’t go tell a guy he’s your first when you’ve fucked his cousin and PLEASE wait a decent amount of time before getting intimate. The Madonna/Whore complex really is a thing, I believe the best way to make a guy obsess over you is to project both/so he can’t fit you in a particular box : you’re out of his range, you’re untouchable, you’re divine yet so humane, sexy and carnal, so bullshit the hell out of him. Also you cheated? You lied? He caught you ? DENY! Never admit when you fucked up, even if you want to do it out of spite and hurt him. I’ll bury my secrets and all my lies with me when I die! If you have friends that can back your lies up for you and bullshit him to sell an image of you to him, it’s even better ‘’omg X is typically so cold with guys, I’ve never seen her like that with anyone but you’’.

4.Love bombing is great but you have to assert your superiority and how good, wonderful you are. For exemple, comments here and there about what your usual ideal type is to make him feel insecure and eager to compete and be the best not to lose you. The mistake I believe a lot of girl make is to be a man best source of support and let them get too comfortable, like yes he has to feel good when he is with you, but the point is that what you tell him when you love bomb him is to make him feel good only when he’s with you and insecure when he’s not with you, not feed him to make him delusional and overconfident. Play with his insecurity, redirect it so he feels lucky to be with you, don’t cure it. He has to constantly be under the impression that since you’re better than him, you can leave at any given moment and he’ll never find someone like that ever again.

5.Reinforce good behavior with love bombing and attentions targeting their specific love languages (ex: act overly excited and bubbly after he gives you a gift, if you’re typically colder be more tender and engage in more physical contacts, hug him, rub his arm scratch his hair, etc), and punish behavior you don’t like with silent treatment and ghosting (and really ghost don’t tell him anything just disappear without a word). They are your Pavlov’s experiments. :)

Dating a broke man is stupid, marrying a broke man is even dumber and having children with a broke man is child abuse.