A woman’s descent into herself culminates in death. The old “her” must die in order for rebirth to occur. Her image of herself as victim must die. Her view of herself as wrong, damaged, worthless, unattractive, incompetent must die. Her callous apathy toward her own suffering must die.
- Eating in the Light of the Moon: How Women Can Transform Their Relationship with Food Through Myths, Metaphors, and Storytelling, Anita Johnston
Most people already know what they need to do in order to reach their goals and be successful. Putting the work in and staying consistent is the part where most of them fail and so they never reach their full potential. It´s okay if things don´t go perfect but the key is to keep going. Don´t give up and don´t let temporary emotions or laziness get in the way of your success. You know what you need to do... now do it.
if you want a nice body, go get it. if you want to become a lawyer, study your ass off. if you want nice hair, pick a style and get it done. stop being afraid and motivate yourself. find yourself. find your happiness, because it’s out there waiting for you.
This reminds me of people who give me compliments on my appearance and quickly add something like “well it´s easy for you - you are genetically blessed” or “I only have to look at food and gain weight.”.. something along those lines. You can explain your workout regime, strict diet, skincare routine or general lifestyle choices all you want - they just keep talking about genetics or they will start to look down on you for the effort you put into your looks. The truth is that they want all those things (being in good shape, having better skin, etc.) but they want it to be easy. These people don´t want to hear how much discipline it takes, how much time, energy and money you have to invest in order to maintain a certain look. Talking about how some people have it easier, because of money or genetics or whatever won´t get you anywhere.
Not to be a total rude bitch tho… but I work out almost everyday, I limit if not abstain from junk food, I drink plenty of water, I only drink certain types of alcohol and absolutely no soda. I get my lips injected, I see a dermatologist, I’m planning on getting lipo + non invasion nose job + Botox jaw contouring soon. I have hair extensions, I get my lashes and eyebrows dyed and maintained every two weeks… I get my nails all jacked up every three. I go tanning. I literally spend thousands of dollars a year on hair, skin, nails and makeup. Not to mention the dancer wardrobe I’ve accumulated… and anyone who thinks I shouldn’t make more money after all this effort can literally suck my ass!
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Rich whore energy is using a white envelope as your wallet
I think I just expected that someday someone would come along who was like me and because they were like me they would care about what I was hiding and dig it out of me with a blunt instrument but that person has never come and they never will and instead of mourning that I should just turn the blunt instrument onto myself and show what I find to others
Success in hoeing is subjective, however. If you’re falling in love with married or taken men, when you’re supposed to be getting paid, your business is shit and you are completely immature. If you’re nearing thirty or over thirty, and you’re getting played by men? Lol. You would be amazed how many women aren’t even hoeing for money, truly, but for validation. Get a hobby, don’t waste your time. Better yet get a lobotomy and stop writing confessionals when you could be making money
“Discipline is getting up at six A.M. in Hollywood when you’d rather be in New York waking at eleven. Discipline, too, is learning something new and strange or refusing a second piece of cinnamon toast. Discipline is not putting things off until tomorrow. If today is for buying spring clothes, you buy them. If now is the time to take singing lessons, you take them now, not next year. Next year you can take singing lessons, too, but they are next year’s lessons. There’s a time for everything.”
— Grace Kelly on self-discipline (Photoplay - February 1955)
THIS
Determine who needs to be lied to and who doesn’t need to be lied to. Not everyone deserves your honesty because not everyone is honest.
Just quietly upgrade your appearance, secure your financial future, invest, and max out on the benefits of it all. And don’t say a word about it in public.
going through my followers and blocking every man I see = self-care