going through my followers and blocking every man I see = self-care
What helped you become more and more confident?
Getting into fitness, changing my appearance, continuing my education, my high standards, not giving a single fuck about what people think about me
@claytonwelchj
if theres something i hate more than men , it’s broke men
Men will lie to you, manipulate you, play the victim, cheat on you, gaslight you.. there are no exceptions. Even if you think you found a man who is different - in the end they all turn out to be like this.
this is basically a summary of everything you need to do to level up
Essential Steps followed by the most successful courtesans:
She drastically improves her appearance.
She upgrades her knowledge of etiquette and manners and improves her social skills.
She changes her environment in order to increase the chances of meeting men with money.
She makes a conscious decision to stop associating herself with men of lesser means and inferior position.
She continues climbing no matter what, because settling is never an option.
From ‘How to Date Like a Courtesan’ by Celeste Mgboli
Monica Bellucci
A woman’s descent into herself culminates in death. The old “her” must die in order for rebirth to occur. Her image of herself as victim must die. Her view of herself as wrong, damaged, worthless, unattractive, incompetent must die. Her callous apathy toward her own suffering must die.
- Eating in the Light of the Moon: How Women Can Transform Their Relationship with Food Through Myths, Metaphors, and Storytelling, Anita Johnston
use men - never let them use you
Honestly fuck this millennial pink pseudo wellness bullshit about being gentle to yourself and always practicing mindfulness and committing acts of self care by consuming Product™️, I’m gonna continue being that bitch faced waif in all black running around the city at ungodly hours with wads of cash and ritalin in a designer bag and a peppermint vape hanging out the side of my mouth, texting on two phones simultaneously.
there is no shame in this game