“The only safety is in money… Money is a woman’s only power in this world. Make it your solace and your dream and one day wealth, real lasting wealth will make you free.”
— Margaret Wells, Harlots (via brownstatuesquesugarbaby)
So many asks: why am I so successful? Why do I never get played? How do I run through these men so easily?
Always remember that all of these men have virtually no idea what they’re doing. Sexual and emotional incompetence is beyond insidious. The concept of womanhood is vague and barely registers to them. They are filled with unwarranted and unearned notions of superiority. They are incredibly insecure and easily manipulated. Act accordingly.
discipline is liberation
“Only the disciplined are truly free. The undisciplined are slaves to moods, appetites and passions.”
— Stephen Covey, The 8th Habit (via movemequotes)
if you feel the need to “check out the competition” you’re hoeing backwards. there is nobody who can bring to the table what YOU bring, focus on yourself. competition doesn’t exist.
All men cheat so marry the richest one
Haha, honestly my advice to half of the queries in my inbox is genuinely just:
1) Shut up. Enough with the pathetic temper tantrums.
2) Realize you are not exceptional or special in any way in your situation and many individuals have been through the exact same or worse and managed to succeed.
3) Find a tangible plan and work. Do it now. Don’t wait.
4) Any time you want to bitch, whine and complain or project your problems onto someone else? That’s your signal to focus, grit your teeth and work harder.
Just quietly upgrade your appearance, secure your financial future, invest, and max out on the benefits of it all. And don’t say a word about it in public.
I had an ex “SD” aka client when I was a sugar baby that tried to plan a date with me recently, he canceled the day prior so I told him I’ll need a cancellation fee and future deposit in the form of a gift card if he’d like to see me again and he was shook
Absolutely embarrassing the things I used to put up with from a man. SA was POISON
if theres something i hate more than men , it’s broke men
use men - never let them use you