Haha, Honestly My Advice To Half Of The Queries In My Inbox Is Genuinely Just:

How do you follow with the "no excuses no days off" mood and rhythm ? what are your advice on self motivation vs laziness ?

Laziness doesn’t get you abs or paid

my current struggle

Do you know how hard it is to concentrate on school work when you know you’re barely going to use the degree and your future most likely entails you on a yacht in Greece with an old man

THIS

Determine who needs to be lied to and who doesn’t need to be lied to. Not everyone deserves your honesty because not everyone is honest.

“And when she was hurt, oh man, she was brusque, she was the meanest and the most brutal one around. She pulled the knife out of her back, the knife they stabbed her with, then massacred them one by one.”

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Identity is a prison and I refuse to be locked up

This reminds me of people who give me compliments on my appearance and quickly add something like “well it´s easy for you - you are genetically blessed” or “I only have to look at food and gain weight.”.. something along those lines. You can explain your workout regime, strict diet, skincare routine or general lifestyle choices all you want - they just keep talking about genetics or they will start to look down on you for the effort you put into your looks. The truth is that they want all those things (being in good shape, having better skin, etc.) but they want it to be easy. These people don´t want to hear how much discipline it takes, how much time, energy and money you have to invest in order to maintain a certain look. Talking about how some people have it easier, because of money or genetics or whatever won´t get you anywhere. 

Not to be a total rude bitch tho… but I work out almost everyday, I limit if not abstain from junk food, I drink plenty of water, I only drink certain types of alcohol and absolutely no soda. I get my lips injected, I see a dermatologist, I’m planning on getting lipo + non invasion nose job + Botox jaw contouring soon. I have hair extensions, I get my lashes and eyebrows dyed and maintained every two weeks… I get my nails all jacked up every three. I go tanning. I literally spend thousands of dollars a year on hair, skin, nails and makeup. Not to mention the dancer wardrobe I’ve accumulated… and anyone who thinks I shouldn’t make more money after all this effort can literally suck my ass!

he paid for it.. might as well enjoy how it looks on my body

the la perla stays on during sex

High tea with my BFF 💞

The only good thing about growing up in a patriarchal society that forces the male gaze on everyone is that we are taught how to act, how to look and how to speak in a way that men find desiarble and therefore we learn how to manipulate men without even realizing it.