Debnamcarey: Some Things Just Come Outta Nowhere That Got You Like 🥴😬😂

i have been very booked and busy the past couple of years, but i'm afraid that well has run dry at the moment. i have nothing booked so far, so the future is kind of unclear for me, but such is the nature of this beast. i hope something good comes my way soon. what about you? aside from the brand new wife and beautiful baby.

Tell me about all the projects you got going on at the moment. Y'always seem to be a busy little cherub. | @alyvas

ELEONORE TOULIN, LAURA HARRIER & ALYCIA DEBNAM-CAREY Photographed by Amanda Charchian for her new book "A Very Bad Man"

i'll be honest with you i hate the whole influencer culture. a lot of them deserve their platform, but some of them just irk me. it might be an unpopular opinion, but it's mine nonetheless. you can tell the ones in the crowd did not have parents who introduced them to the classics, and if they did then they should be ashamed for not paying tribute to one of the greatest living legends. imagine coming out on live stage, playing your entire soul to that crowd, and they give you a mid reaction at best? i couldn't relate. i would have been sat— front and center. you may not be freddie, and no one could ever be as legendary, but you are phenomenal, and i think you have such potential to be the greatest of your generation. i didn't go. i'll be honest i've never been to one. i'd love to go, but definitely not to coachella. i love more of the less sought out festivals. those are always the most fun.

i know coachella is known as the influencer olympics but i was so bummed that people don't realize what a gift sir brian is. a guitar virtuoso, an astrophysicist and one of the most legendary names rock history. plus, he's recovering from a medical event and he still played like that?? geez, he deserves his flowers so much. oh gosh, that's so kind of you to say. i had this crazy idea of wanting to play the song and trust me, i had so many people tell me i was a headcase for it but i think it paid off. i know i'm not freddie, there's literally no one that can ever match that man but i still had the best time showing respect to a band that i grew up listening to. did you go the coachella this year? are you usually a festival goer?

alycia: hello friend! i've been doing well! been all over the place promoting my latest project. life has finally started to slow down for me and i'm able to breath again. what about you? i've been snooping your insta and saw you've had a few things going on. so proud of you! alycia: i saw you came out with your own condiment line! i'm not exaggerating when i say i wanna try them all. i'm gonna have to grill myself a fat steak to try all of them.

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glen: alycia! how've you been friend? we need to hang out soon because it's been too long. glen: also, you need to send me your address because i have some smashin' condiments i need to send you. // @alyvas

oh, it was definitely a waste of time. that's what happens when you follow a boy around only to have him ghost you right after. but it's his loss, not mine. i just think you are putting a lot of pressure on my shoulders here, but i guess if i've been deemed the bills good luck charm then i should proudly own that title. i'll do you one better, i'll actually go to a game this year. just send me the game dates and i'll try and attend as many of them as i can.

Come on, I bet it wasn't a waste of time. Where did you go? Listen, it's because I know you're going to help us win. It wasn't a fluke! It's going to happen again, trust me. We didn't really lose any games once you started to pay attention to the games last season, so if I tell you when they are will you pay attention to them this upcoming season too?

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aussie hell is the worst kind of hell to find yourself in, so the studio should be shaking in their boots. i feel like that's why my love for marvel isn't as much as it used to. i feel like they were trying to milk that cow as along as they could, and after a while the quality started to go down— at least for some films. i love that for you, because if that title doesn't invoke fear into the studio then i don't know what will. i would love to marvel in a spiderman movie, but i don't know if that will ever come.

alright, alright — message received loud and clear. i’m honestly a little scared for the studio now... aussie hell sounds intense, and i fully support it. you’re absolutely right though — if they hadn’t been off making seventeen different spin-offs and squeezing every drop out of the multiverse, maybe we’d already be swinging through another film by now. but hey, i admire the commitment. i’ll consider this your official application to be the voice of the people — and if i do end up in those meetings, i’ll just casually drop, “alycia debnam-carey is not impressed and she’s sharpening her boomerang,” yeah? also, side note — if you ever want to cameo and show them how it’s done, i’m just saying… you'd make a killer addition to the spider-verse.

you won't screw things up, i promise. just apply all those cool uncle skills, and double it. your baby is going to be so loved, and you have a whole army of people behind you that are going to be there to help you, myself included. i plan to jump in and help as much as i can. it'll give me practice for my own kids one day.

god i hope that i will be. i have no idea how to actually raise a baby, being a fun uncle i'm great at. being a real parent, not sure about that part... but you are right i have great partner in this with Kars, i just don't want to screw things up...

exactly! maybe the little terror gene will skip my kids and go straight to my brothers kids. it's what he deserves for being a pain in my ass for so long. i can understand that. i feel like modeling is much harder to get work, especially after a certain point because the standards that have been set for us, especially women, they feel like a woman can't still be sexy once she turns thirty. that's why i'm so thankful the little bit of modeling i do is for work related photoshoots. i don't think i could cut it in that side of the business long term. that is understandable. hopefully you both can make it, and if not i will carry you both with me in spirit. oh definitely, i think at this point they come as a packaged deal. i've heard that i have a whole heap of people i have to battle for that spot, but i'm fully prepared to duke it out. regardless if you sound like your mum, it's sound advice. i actually have been letting life just happen, and i think it finally threw me a bone— a whole bag of them actually. i think that's a fair deal. i love the way you look at it though. it is just a piece of paper, and it has no real substance to the love that you have for your partner.

that is absolutely right! they will be your little terrors and nobody else could call them little terrors but you because you had to birth them and raise them. haha but i seriously couldn't see you having anything close to a nightmare of a child. you're far too sweet for that. oh most definitely! i feel like it keeps you on your toes. i had a similar situation with modeling. especially after i stepped back from Victoria's Secret. i haven't really had a loss for work but there was a brief period where i wasn't sure of where it was going to come from, especially after i had Elijah. i hide my bumps pretty well but it does get pretty hard to do some of these shoots when you're six to eight months pregnant and about to pop. oh most definitely! if we can, we definitely will be there. i'm sure he'll make the time regardless. i just have to be in NYC a good nine point nine tenths of the time because i've got the boys and i can't just up and move out to Los Angeles. he has been the greatest discovery of 2025 yet. well, him and this little one. but i can kind of lump those two together, right? makes sense? i wouldn't have one without the other. you and Lucy are definitely going to be rivaling at that one. she's already trying to make arrangements to camp out at my place in NYC and feel all up on the little slice. i completely understand you there. but i definitely recommend just going with the flow of things and letting it happen when it happens. don't let time get in your way of doing the things that make you happy just on your own while you are still young. good lord i'm talking like my mother now. i'll make you a deal. how about we all focus on the slice for now and once they're born we can then start obsessing over the engagement ring. i hope he doesn't think that is going to be necessary before i have this little one. because there is absolutely no rush in that from me. i'd be just fine if we never got married. it's just a piece of paper at this point. it doesn't really prove how much love two people have for each other. that can't be shown on paper.