> The College I Attended Was Small And Very LGBT Friendly. One Day Someone Came To Visit And Used The

> The college I attended was small and very LGBT friendly. One day someone came to visit and used the word “gay” as a pejorative, as was common in the early 2000s. A current student looked at the visitor and flatly said, “we don’t do that here.” The guest started getting defensive and explaining that they weren’t homophobic and didn’t mean anything by it. The student replied, “I’m sure that’s true, but all you need to know is we don’t do that here.” The interaction ended at that point, and everyone moved on to different topics. “We don’t do that here” was a polite but firm way to educate the newcomer about our culture. […]

> It turns out talking about diversity, inclusion, and even just basic civil behavior can be controversial in technical spaces. I don’t think it should be, but I don’t get to make the rules. When I’m able I’d much rather spend the time to educate someone about diversity and inclusion issues and see if I can change how they see the world a bit. But I don’t always have the time and energy to do that. And sometimes, even if I did have the time, the person involved doesn’t want to be educated.

> This is when I pull out “we don’t do that here.” It is a conversation ender. If you are the newcomer and someone who has been around a long time says “we don’t do that here”, it is hard to argue. This sentence doesn’t push my morality on anyone. If they want to do whatever it is elsewhere, I’m not telling them not to. I’m just cluing them into the local culture and values. If I deliver this sentence well it carries no more emotional weight than saying, “in Japan, people drive on the left.” “We don’t do that here” should be a statement of fact and nothing more. It clearly and concisely sets a boundary, and also makes it easy to disengage with any possible rebuttals.

> Me: “You are standing in that person’s personal space. We don’t do that here.” > Them: “But I was trying to be nice.” > Me: “Awesome, but we don’t stand so close to people here.”

> Them: Tells an off-color joke. > Me: “We don’t do that here.” > Them: “But I was trying to be funny.” > Me (shrugging): “That isn’t relevant. We don’t do that here.”

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“One factor that makes interaction between multi-ethnic groups of women difficult and sometimes impossible is our failure to recognize that a behaviour pattern in one culture may be unacceptable in another, that is may have different signification cross-culturally … I have learned the importance of learning what we called one another’s cultural codes. An Asian American student of Japanese heritage explained her reluctance to participate in feminist organizations by calling attention to the tendency among feminist activists to speak rapidly without pause, to be quick on the uptake, always ready with a response. She had been raised to pause and think before speaking, to consider the impact of one’s words, a characteristic that she felt was particularly true of Asian Americans. She expressed feelings of inadequacy on the various occasions she was present in feminist groups. In our class, we learned to allow pauses and appreciate them. By sharing this cultural code, we created an atmosphere in the classroom that allowed for different communication patterns. This particular class was peopled primarily by black women. Several white women students complained that the atmosphere was “too hostile.” They cited the noise level and direct confrontations that took place in the room prior to class as an example of this hostility. Our response was to explain that what they perceived as hostility and aggression, we considered playful teasing and affectionate expressions of our pleasure at being together. Our tendency to talk loudly we saw as a consequence of being in a room with many people speaking, as well as of cultural background: many of us were raised in families where individuals speak loudly. In their upbringings as white, middle-class females, the complaining students had been taught to identify loud and direct speech with anger. We explained that we did not identify loud or blunt speech in this way, and encourage them to switch codes, to think of it as an affirming gesture. Once they switched codes, they not only began to have a more creative, joyful experience in the class, but they also learned that silence and quiet speech can in some cultures indicate hostility and aggression. By learning one another’s cultural codes and respecting our differences, we felt a sense of community, of Sisterhood. Representing diversity does not mean uniformity or sameness.”

— Bell Hooks, Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center (pages 57-58)


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Digimon Adventures / Tri ~ x Kagerou Project / Mekakucity Actors “ Toumei Answer ” [“Transparent Answer”/“Invisible Answer”] AMV [ music ( C ) Jin ] [ V O C A L O I D : I A ] featuring implied DUO/SHIP: Taichi Yagami [“Tai Kamiya”] x Koushiro(u) Izumi [“Izzy Izumi”] also known as [Taishiro(u)] + can be read as Koushiro x Taichi x Meiko [TaiKouMei] as OT3/Polyship

PAST AMVS / VIDEO EDITS IN THIS SERIES: Kagerou Daze (Heat-Haze Daze) / Children Record [+Adv Chosen] / RED / Additional Memory and Imaginary Reload music edits for KageDaze / Days (short edit) / Lost Time Memory / Yesterday Evening / Summertime Record / Shounen Brave [+Jou] / Outer Science [+Villains] / Headphone Actor (short edit) / DAZE (short version / TV Size OP) / KOUSHIROS ? CYBER JOURNEY [+Maki] / Brave Heart x Kaien Panzermast [+Chosen Children] / Night Tales Deceive [Yobanashi Deceive] / [KOUSHIRO’S] Imaginary World / Mekakushi Code [Blindfold Code] [+Yamato&Sora&Adv Chosen] / Ultramarine Rain [+Mrs Yoshie Izumi; Izumis] / Imagination Forest [+Mimi&Jou]

REPEATVERSE/EXTENDED STORY INTRODUCTION: HERE REPEATVERSE FIC/VERSE: HERE (*note: extended summary contains some spoilers for the fic) [However, it also explains the worldbuilding involved and plot setup!] (YOU DO NOT NEED TO READ THE FIC TO WATCH THE AMVs) [This is INTENDED to provide an alternate means of storytelling!!]

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Please read under the ‘read more’ for commentary on the AMV/making of + for the full lyrics to the song !! ! (+ for content warnings !!!) THIS AMV MAY BE UPDATED IN THE FUTURE.

This AMV can be basically summed up as   ( PARTICULARLY IN TRI ) [ BUT ALSO INCLUDING DIRECTOR KAKUDOU’S NOVELS DETAILS ] “ ACTUALLY, Taichi Yagami + Koushiro Izumi + Meiko’s various inner conflicts ARE ALL INCREDIBLY SIMILAR IN A LOT OF WAYS ”

LYRICS PREVIEW:

                               The A L A R M that rings out:

                                    TELLS ME     A L O N E ,

                   “ You’re   A   ’ COLD-HEARTED ‘   GUY , H U H ”

Even if I put together those  MYSTERIOUS ANSWERS  after so long I’ll still be able to understand them COMPLETELY somehow

                            “ At this rate ,  EVEN IF   I   [ XXX ],

                  SOMEONE ELSE  w i l l  j u s t  —– [ … ] ”

                                     … Just whispering that ,

                                      … is SO     F O O L I S H .

                         Though these drifting days   R E P E A T ,

… I get this STRANGE FEELING [ whenever ] YOU’RE   a b s e n t

                                   “ From THE WINDOW , how is

                           That   EMPTY SEAT   r e f l e c t e d ? ”

                         I thought I had  KNOWN YOU , B U T

       I HAD {NOT} UNDERSTOOD   /// ANYTHING ///   ABOUT YOU .

                                 [ YOU ] kept on CONCEALING IT ,

                                          … BEHIND A SMILE.

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Digimon Adventure Tri. ~ Bokura No Mirai Featuring Characters: Tentomon (& Koushiro[u] Izumi) + Meiko
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Digimon Adventure Tri. ~ Bokura No Mirai Featuring Characters: Tentomon (& Koushiro[u] Izumi) + Meiko

Digimon Adventure tri. ~ Bokura no Mirai featuring Characters: Tentomon (& Koushiro[u] Izumi) + Meiko Mochizuki; ~ Supporting each other (from afar, or not)

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No, it is not in fact okay to call someone with a mental illness “crazy”. It’s not “not a big deal”, and it’s not “just a joke”. It’s an awful outdated stigma that needs to die. And yes this includes other people with mental illnesses. I don’t care if you’re not offended by it. A lot of us already have to deal with either stigma or hiding our symptoms to stay away from stigma, so take your “just a joke” and throw it in the trash where it belongs.

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