the purpose of friends is to have people who unconditionally hate your shitty exes & relatives. like maybe YOU have a complex relationship with your father but i sure don't. i'm outside his house with a gun. he's not the unforgivable asshole who raised me he's just an unforgivable asshole
i cannot hate myself into a version of me i will love.
Storm by Zdzisław Jasiński
The Valkyries by kkvaksha [instagram]
Nesta is actually so brave for reading smut in a place where everyone can smell your horniness.
Go off and get off, queen. Let them know. 💅
The Valkyries by kkvaksha [instagram]
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"will you match my freak" no. i'm freakier than you. this is a competition and i'm winning
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Doing right by yourself might hurt at first. It might make you sad. It might leave you questioning. It might feel like loss. But that's part of the healing. That's part of choosing yourself. That's part of growing. That's part of becoming. Do it anyway.
gentle reminder: healing is not linear. I know that setbacks are frustrating, but we will get through this. I love you.
of all the people, I hoped it'd be you to come and free me, take me away to show me my home where I was born where I belong
Do not let them consume you. They don’t define who you are.
Love yourself enough to sit with the discomfort of growth because you know you deserve better.
Maren Vestik Hole
viktor vs cait innit
Vander: I've always liked the name Violet. Silco: *snorts a line* Hey, you know what I like?
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i think about this very often to but to be alive is such a privilege. you can smell flowers, eat freshly baked cookies, lose yourself in the pages of a new book, listen to heartwarming music and read soul crushing poetry, meet kind and funny people, learn something new. i think the miracle is in waking up every day
Focus on what you can control: your actions, your mindset, your heart.
— Nikita Gill
Validating yourself sounds like:
• “I’m allowed to feel tired.”
• “It’s okay to take a break.”
• “I don’t have to be perfect.”
• “I deserve love & care.”
• “I can handle this.”
• “I’m allowed to feel uncertain.”
• “My feelings matter.”
• “I’m doing my best today.”
• “It’s okay to feel what I feel.”
• “I’m allowed to say no.”
• “I deserve peace.”
• “I don’t need to rush.”
• “I’m enough, just as I am.”
• “I trust myself to get through this.”
• “I’m learning & growing.”
• “My emotions are valid.”
— Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment
At the end of the day, you must choose your own peace and progress above all else.
You’ve carried the weight of others’ safety; now, your own peace deserves top priority. Some burdens aren’t yours to carry.
i always forget how much of a hell getting up in the morning during the cold months is until im trying to get dressed taking frost damage like ough augh ugha oagh uagh