As we say in russian:
(if it smells like crap everywhere then it's you who shat yourself)
I HATE tiktok and the Internet in general rn for the obsession with "oh this person's smellyyy" "Brother it STINKS over here" "BOO 💧🧼🧽🚿" and stuff like that. I wish I could put into words how demeaning and patronising that whole idea is and people implying anyone they don't like doesn't wash.
For one there's something grating about being insulted in a manner like we're in nursery again. But also WHY is that the go to insult. Why do you associate these things? Especially to those you deem "chronically online". Like I don't want to sound pathetic but it feels so nasty to me.
is it extreme to say this feels tied to ableism? And classism too?
I need to see their ingame interaction please 💔
LOOK AT THEM SO LOVELY 😭💖💖😭💖
Hi there!! May I request a fischlisa (Fischl × Lisa) stimboard and/or wallpaper please? 👉👈
@b0gdasha
Them!
I don't know what to start with, but I'm pretty sure you've seen a lot of antis on Twitter, Tiktok, Instagram, etc, but probably never heard of antis on telegram. Because telegram is a messenger, not a typical social media where you post stuff and get followers. Well, antis on telegram are even worse that... Anything, to be honest. And I would like to address one undescribably awful and disgusting situation, which had place in proship friendly space on telegram
So, there is a popular form of russian public channels which is called confessions, where you can almost absolutely anonymously (or completely anonymously, it depends) post any confession on a specific topic. BTD confessions, genshin confessions, queer confessions, etc. And there is one of channels which is friendly to proshippers:
Hardqueer (also known as queer against cancel culture) — is a person who doesn't bend to cancel culture in a way it exist now. This term, as far as I know, came from queer telegram spaces
This channel sometimes posts confessions about being a proshipper and hating antis. Nothing spectacular, you might think, and you'll be right! But antis (or, how mod of this channel calls them, "softqueers") found hardqueer confessions due to multiple reposts within confessions community.
Softqueer (also known as pro cancel culture queer) — is a person who supports cancel culture and cancels any problematic person. In terms of proshipping, not every anti is a softqueer, but every softqueer is an anti
Before I continue, I must mention that this dividing of queers is pretty unnecessary imo, but in this case I shall use this terminology so you could understand what's going on within all this "soft/hardqueer" situation
With this being said, antis... Well...
Translation:
— Mfs who spam my dms with cp are you okay?
— Where's the fucking logic? "THE MOD OF HARDQUEER CF IS SO BAD, SHE DATES A GIRL YOUNGER THAN HER... WELL LET'S SPAM HER DMS WITH CP 🤩🤩🤩"
— I really wonder how softies (softqueers) get so much cp like 🧐🧐🧐
At first I thought that this were not antis' doing since there are some MAP confessions' users who spam others with cp as well, so I asked mod directly about this
Translation:
— Btw this might be one of the MAPs confs doing and not softs (softqueers) but I can be wrong
— This were exactly softies (softqueers) doing, which harassed me for things I HAVEN'T EVEN DONE, called me a pedophile, insulted me and seems like as an apology spammed with cp
She could tell this were antis because her bot for confessions (which is supported by Livegram bot) shows nicknames of people sending anonymous messages, so she saw this were her ex acquaintances from "softqueer" community
Now this shit is serious. I could just ignore all this thing if it didn't involve possible csem. Antis on telegram literally send proshippers and neutralshippers scem in order to... I don't even know. Traumatize them probably? While saying they "protect traumatized from abuse people". What a hypocrites. There is no excuse for this. Yes, "hardqueers" may be wrong in some aspects of their ideology imo (for example they don't care about slurs since in Russia it's a normal thing to say slurs you can't reclaim etc), but it's not an excuse for such behavior. Even though there are no proofs of this situation being true besides my screenshots and her (mod's) words, there is also no proofs that this DIDN'T happen. And we are talking about CSEM. And I think direct screenshots of scem being sent in bot would be considered as spreading csem which I don't want to do. So the only thing I left to do is to hope you'll pay your attention to this disturbing and terrible situation. I would be grateful if you'd reblog this to your page so more people would know what's going on. And if you are a telegram user, PLEASE, BE CAREFUL. There are some people with bad tendencies who can hurt you. Telegram's anonymous politics may be hurtful for your mental health. Block any suspicious users, report them and their messages, and take a break from the internet in case something like this happens to you
You might think this situation is fake or it was made up in order to blacken the reputation of antis, but there is the link to channel I am talking about, where you can see all messages by yourself:
You probably have to register with your phone number to see messages though
Keep yourselves safe, please 🙏
When you're in 90% of dni lists so you pull this move:
I finally found a part time job that I enjoy
I found a new hobby (lolita fashion)
I made some new friends this summer thanks to furmeets
I'm not giving up and keep getting professional help with my severe depression (it's hard, but I want to believe that one day I can finally feel something and live happily)
I accepted myself as a proshipper!! That's kind of dangerous to say it out loud due to antis activities on the internet, but I want to be myself and not to hide my true identity and interest
I created this blog where I am finally being myself with comship stuff
I keep improving at drawing no matter how hard it is sometimes due to 0 ideas and no inspiration (I love drawing so much)
I continue living despite some suicidal thoughts and destructive behaviors and I don't want to give up on my live yet!!
You know what, i want to do something nice and positive.
Anyone that sees this, tell me something you are proud of. It doesnt matter how big or small it is. It could be you graduating college or it could be you just managed to get out of bed today. It doesnt matter what.
I want you to tell me something you did that your proud of, and i want to congratulate you on it. Everyone deserves to be congratulated on things they are proud of.
It can be on or off anon. I just want to spread some positivity to the world some.
Reblogging again because I'd like more people to see this
One of my friends who is an anti and a comshipper in denial (human x non-human, dubcon/noncon, angst enjoyer) told me recently that liking non-con and abuse in fiction is okay but enjoying kodocon and incest in the same fiction is not
And I was wondering... Why are these two things (which are BOTH morally wrong irl and are BOTH illegal or harmful irl, which BOTH can be triggering to someone and BOTH can be pretty much enjoyable to someone in fiction) treated differently? Why are those aspects of dark fiction treated so... Well... Twofold?
Abuse, guro, eroguro, murders (and any brutal crimes in general), kodocon, pedo/zoo/necrophilia, non/dubcon, severe mental illnesses etc description falls under darkfic definition, as far as I can tell, and antis tend to enjoy some parts of it (the greatest example of it is YanSim, Danganronpa and some psychological horrors enjoyers) with no shame, but at the same time they shame comship/kodocon/noncon enjoyers for the same thing. Isn't that weird?
My theory is, they treat these things differently because these things mostly present romantic or sexual stuff and so are pretty easy to be romanticized and sexualized. But:
Not every dark romantic or sexual fiction is meant to be seen as romantic/sexual in general and is meant to be romanticized or sexualized. From my experience, I would say it works vice versa. Romantic or sexual fiction can be used as a vent, as a representation of sexual traumatic experience, as an intentionally disturbing and triggering media (for horrors and thrillers), as an appeal to reflection of the essence of romantic/sexual relationships and behaviors between humans etc
Everything, in fact, can be romanticized or sexualized, no matter of its content. People romantize and sexualize mental illnesses, neurodiversions, murders, self-harm, suicide, cannibalism etc — everything that is NOT sexual or romantic in the first place. That's why, for example, different fetishes and eroguro exist
Romanticizing and sexualizing something in fiction and in real life is really different. Yes, in some cases fiction CAN affect reality and vice versa (for example how drawn porn can make you have certain fetishes, even though the porn you consumed were not, in fact, real), but it's NOT as common as antis and pro-cencorship people think. The only reasons (from what I know) people think fiction reflects real life unspoken rules are that they are either not mature enough to separate fiction from reality or their perception of reality is way too disrupted. So, if you're not a teenager/adult or if you know fiction can affect the way you treat real people, do not consume the fiction that you think can alter your brain into thinking dark fiction presents what's right and what's wrong, what you can do and can't do. And if you're a parent, please, watch your children and control the stuff they consume till they're mature enough. That's it
Also I would like to mention that it's OKAY to dislike, hate or despise dark fiction, or even people that consume this kind of stuff, as long as you don't assault, insult, or try to make real human beings feel bad about themselves in any way
This screenshot is not mine I just find it funny