Some people will not like this.
Autistic people are the authority on how to support autistic people- not parents, not ABA therapists- autistic people
Acting like you know what is best for autistic people as a whole and speaking over autistic adults who try to help parents learn how they can support their kids is not advocating for your child.
Instead of supporting organizations like Autism Speaks try looking at places like the Autism Self Advocacy Network
Autistic people regardless of their level of support needs deserve to be treated with respect and given the resources to communicate their needs themselves as best as possible. Sometimes that requires extra help from caregivers- it does not make you able to speak for the community
When autistic adults say something is more harmful than helpful it is not your place to tell us that we are wrong. :)
AITA for striking my (M43) son (M20) when he rejected me as his father?
I understand that the title might have you thinking the worst, but please hear me out.
I didn't have a relationship with my son for basically all his life. This was due to my circumstances at the time: I went through a major personal tragedy and was severely injured, to the point of being on life support. To this day I have a lot of issues with my health.
I recently reconnected with my son. I immediately invited him to meet my boss (M92), in hopes that I could set him up with a job opportunity. I feel that this is significant. As far as I know, my son has been working in menial jobs in agriculture, but then apparently chose to leave that life and - to my shock - join a criminal syndicate.
I felt as if getting a good government job would be a way to turn over a new leaf in his life, especially given his past. However, he immediately became combative. I attempted to give him some guidance in managing his emotions, but he rejected that as well.
I'm sad to say that the argument became physical. Some blows were exchanged, but in the end, I was angry enough to strike him. I immediately felt very bad, and decided to offer him the government job on the spot. He rejected me again, and chose to leave very abruptly. I haven't had any contact with him since.
So, AITA?
Edit: Yes, I admit that to call it striking him was an understatement. To clarify, I cut off his hand.
Edit: However, I feel like it should be stated that I myself am a quadruple amputee and we have excellent healthcare.
Edit: I did not immediately identify myself as his father when we met. I think this was my mistake. I think he would have been much more receptive of my message had I done so. As it stands I only told him of our relationship after I had struck him.
Edit: My wife is not in the picture. To my knowledge she passed before his birth.
im probably the only one who finds this funny but hey content is content
Omega and Crosshair from the Bad Show
Ahsoka and Gandalf the White things got mixed-up in the World Between Worlds
sabaton lyrics (especially from early songs) are so funny to me. none of these words wanted to be in that verse and yet there they are
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Just want to send a special thanks to the Republic Commando series for kindly reminding me that clones aRE CLAUSTROPHOBIC BECUASE tHEY SPENT A MAJORITY OF THEiR TIME IN A BACTA TANK