Okay, you can think whatever you want of the new 13 reasons why season, but one thing we can all agree on - this season really showed guys showing affection towards each other and saying "i love you" and that's great. We don't see that very often, and it's important to show that men can be affectionate with their friends and that's what I'm thankful for this season
Gladly dude
Exept for you, @anananina
YES TO EMBRACING SEXUAL FLUIDITY YES TO NORMALIZING CASUAL QUEERNESS
#bl tropes who? #the lgbt energy in this building is astronomical!
wb @ misha collins, apparently
Oh god, this really strikes a chord. I struggle a lot with my identity as a queer girl because I never feel "queer enough". I identify as bi, and I have since I was 13. However, my attraction to women differs greatly from my attraction to men, and the attraction I feel towards women is more romantic than physical. And every time I am attracted to a man I start overthinking and my anxiety comes into play. I almost start shaming myself for liking men. This always makes me feel like I'm feigning my queerness and I don't deserve a place in queer spaces. The bisexual label puts some kind of pressure on me, and from time to time I don’t even want to identify as anything because I’m too confused. I’m sorry, I can’t really help, but I felt like sharing because I found someone like me and it made me feel a little bit better. At the end of the day, I know that all my crushes on girls were genuine, and I remember how and what I felt. Keeping that in mind helps me feel more secure
sometimes i feel so pressured to be “queer enough”. i know it’s the internalized biphobia, but i just feel so guilty when i talk about my attraction to women and fem-aligned people. in my attempt to become ok with my attraction to men and my own identity as a man that i lost my ability to be ok with my attraction to women. especially because my attraction to women isn’t exactly the type that men are expected to feel. i don’t want to be the dominant one in the relationship, i relate to posts that are like “i want a strong sword wife” instead of the other way around. i want to say “i love women so much” and not worry about feeling like that makes my attraction to men any less queer.
i care a lot about my place in the LGBT+ community, and i know that my place as the B in the lgBt community relates to my attraction to the same and other genders so i know it’s ok to still have m/f attraction and still secure in my indentity, hell my identity is partially BUILT on that attraction, but i feel so uncomfortable about it.
if anyone who’s bisexual or pansexual or any other multi sexual identity has any advice on feeling more secure in your m/f attraction while still feeling “queer enough” i would love some advice
Tumblr is just a nice little place where you can take off your ‘real person’ face and roll around in piles of garbage tailored to your unhinged hyperfocus five minutes before you stand up and go back to your zoom meeting
And I would like to apologize to all of my friends who don’t watch The Magicians who have to put up with my constant ranting about this show. I’m sorry. It’s not going to stop.
I hope this fandom never dies
I don’t know if somebody has done this before and I don’t care. That’s the first meme i ever made and I’m proud of it!
In other news: I finally started 👀 Merlin and I 😍 it!!!
Richard Papen in The Secret History be like: is Henry gay? Is Julian gay? Is Francis gay? Am I gay?
Matthias and Nina's relationship dynamic in Six of Crows can be summed up in these lyrics:
Well, tell me do you hate me
Or do you wanna date me?
It's kinda hard to tell
'Cause your eyes are looking crazy
- Saint Motel, "Van Horn"
Ravenclaw: School, I can feel it, closing in on me like a coffin
3 hours ago
Ravenclaw: SCHOOL SUPPLIES! I LOVE SCHOOL SUPPLIES
Multifandom freak|| Post whatever I'm interested in at the moment|| mainly gay shit
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