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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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scarf//dress//nails//lipstick

Newcrest 10:00pm

Alana and Zoe walking

Alana: im scared i don’t know anyone here

Zoe: there all lovely people you’ll love them

Alana: but i might not

Zoe: yeah but your probably be drunk most of the time

Alana: i guess so

ugghhhhhhhh.........

important.

I don’t like to ask for help, and i really don’t do it when it’s about me. But this time i just NEED help. I live in the countryside, there are a lot of forests here. Two days ago, my sister went for a walk with her dog, our dog found a bag in the bushes. There was a small puppy in this bag. He was totally frozen, he was shivering. He was very scared.  He was put in a bag and had tied his paws with a string - so he would not be able to escape. There was no food or water for him. The dog was clean, so he probably was not homeless and this is the worst. Someone just threw him out and left him to die. I have no idea how long he was lying there. In my country it is very cold now, so it was completely frozen. We took him to the vet, we did not even know if he would survive. I have to pay for each day he spent at the clinic, for his medication and care. It is possible that the dog will have his leg/legs amputated. I want to help him and pay for his treatment, because i feel responsible for him. He is so tiny and innocent, and i just don’t understand how people can be so cruel. I do not have a job at the moment, the only money I have is from the scholarship from my uni, but it is not much in my country :/ If you can spare anything at all, you can donate and help me. If you can’t donate, please, reblog. It is very important to me that other people can see my post.

If you want to donate anything, you can click here

or my kofi page (idk if it makes any difference for someone but…)

marcus: we weren’t supposed to drink the wine its for our dinner party 

alana: i know but its so good....i could drink it everyday

marcus: are you tipsy?

alana: of course not are you?

marcus: i think so...

alana: it’s fine i bought two bottles

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rana: hAve yoU beEn heRe bEforE?

Adrian: n0 n0t reAlly.

rana: wEll it’s mAde especially f0R vAmpIREs 

Adrian: y0u Up f0R A spAR

Definitely going to this , when I do it I will post little updates like who’s married an so on this account ❤️

♫ musical legacy challenge ♫

do ya like musicals? do ya play the sims? if so, this challenge is for you! even if you haven’t listened to any musicals in your life, feel free to use this challenge to add some spice to your gameplay!!  this is a spin on the classic ten generation legacy challenge, using a musical as the theme for each generation.

* once again, prior knowledge of each musical is not needed, though i have added links to one of the songs of each musical… it’s optional to listen to them, but still highly recommended since they’re just songs

shout-outs 2: @simslovly @livvsims @wlwsims @gabbythesimmer @peachiepixels for giving me suggestions !!

basic rules:

1. no money cheats !! 

2. play on a normal lifespan

3. heirs do NOT have to be biologically related

4. you can live wherever you want, move houses, etc., unless otherwise stated

5. the number of kids doesn’t matter unless otherwise specified

6. you have to complete the aspiration for each generation. if an aspiration is not specified, choose whichever and still complete it. however, the chosen aspiration cannot be the same as one already in the challenge

7. not a requirement, buuut if you choose to do this, tag it as #musical legacy challenge or tag me in it or smthn bc i would love to see it <3

8. some stuff required a game pack or EP, in that case, just modify it to suit your needs!!

generational rules under the cut !

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