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repeal pride flag ban in Durango Colorado schools
banning of Pride flags and BLM flags in Durango Colorado schools
on October first, the Durango 9r made the decision to ban pride flags and Black Lives Matter flags from school classrooms. Please sign our (the student’s) petition to stand up for basic human rights and self expression.
OUR EXISTENCE IS NOT POLITICAL. IT IS HUMAN.
or go to change.org and find the petition “Repeal Durango School District’s Political Symbol Policy”
Reblog if you support non-binary people <3
(I'm trying to prove a homophobic person in my class wrong :3)
Hope you all had a nice pride month 💞
You guys are beautiful, don't let anyone say otherwise!
Also comes with a nice speedpaint! https://youtu.be/QGTZCcKLRaI
Hey everybody! HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! 🏳️🌈
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🩷
Sorry if I haven't posted in awhile, I've been super busy with school and preparing for exams. I will still continue to post future projects as soon as possible. Have a good Pride everyone! 😉
Please like the video, we need more things like this.
Current Mood: Crying While Watching Blue’s Clues Pride Song
|| Okay guys, we have some options now and neither are nice but they are the most possible we have now for confirmation Dad For One, What do you think will happen? ||
// Anyways, HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! //
I love being genderfluid because everyday it's like opening up the treasure chest of identity and getting a fun little surprise
I love being genderfluid because my friends are all supportive and hearing them ask for my pronouns when they're unsure is genuinely so sweet after years of hearing how "awful it is to be queer" from my family
I love being genderfluid because my boyfriend calls me his girlfriend/partner/boyfriend no questions asked and it makes me feel all happy and giddy
I love being genderfluid because I love being me and I'm so glad to finally know more about who that is!
Happy Day of the rainbow people! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ We are all so fucking awesome and are making it through the hardest shit with PIZAZZ. Simply spectacular ✨
So, a reminder to all my fellow struggling queers, we are valid, real, amazing, and gonna kick those homophobic/transphobic motherfuckers asses!
Celebrate yourself. You deserve it. You deserve respect (and may even command it!) Most of all we all deserve love ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤍🤎
🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Happy Pride Month! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
I haven't seen this version anywhere so I made one!
Can we get some wonderful head-canons for all the papas and how they would support their s/o, assistants, ghouls, and siblings of sin during pride month? Sincerely a gay trans man who is very much a Papa simp💕
Hey, so I decided to just make a small list of general Ministry Pride headcanons - Jez
Pride in the Ministry headcanons
Pride is a very big thing in the Ministry.
I mean, have you seen he Papas? The Ghouls? Come on, there's no homophobia allowed.
Ghouls are absolutely allowed to bully anyone who is a homophobe. In extreme cases, they're allowed to attack.
Ministry was never really big on trafitional gender norms, anyway.
For example, you get to pick if you want to be called a Sister, a Brother or just a Sibling of Sin.
They are also very lenient on what you wear. You can be female aligned and wear male clothes. You can be male aligned and wear female cothes. Hell, you can be whatever gender you want, as long as you pick stuff from the general dress code, you're good.
The ministry actually has a fund for its trans community! They collect money throught the rest of the year and then, once you deal with the paperwork, you will entitled to ask for the Ministry to cover at least a part of your transision journey.
While they're not big on decor in the Ministry in general, Pride is one of the very few exceptions. The decoractions are subtle, but it's very clear.
Siblings of Sin can also get pride-themed rosaries and other accesories.
And the deisgns are either quirky and egdy or actually really incredibly gothic yet subtle.
The Ghouls like to wear little capes with their flags!
Terzo has a seperate set of Pride robes where the usual purple is replaced with the colors of the bisexual flag.
Secondo occasionally wears pride-themed ties or socks. Not underwear, though, he doesn't wear underwear.
He does get his nails painted for the occasion with Terzo, though.
Primo gets his nails painted, too. By Samael and Obyzouth.
He wears small rainbow pins.
The twins are allowed to dye some of their hair if they want. And paint their nails.
Mountain wears rainbow socks! All the ghouls do, but since Mountain rarely wears shoes, it's mostly visible on him.
Cumulus gives Proud Mom Hugs™ to anyone who needs them. Aurora copies her, wanting to do something nice, too.
Swiss and Aether pick that up, but instead of offering hugs, they run up to siblings, twirl them and run away.
They later get Phantom, Cirrus and Sunshine to join.
Rain chases after them and apologizes to everyone as he tries to stop them. Sodo chases after them to beat their asses.
Copia and Terzo spend a lot of time with the children in the Ministry, teaching them about tolerance and how love is love. <3
Subtle Pride Flag Masterpost
All my subtle pride flags so far compiled into one post.
Lesbian
Gay
Bisexual
Pansexual
Transgender
Non-Binary
Genderfluid
Demisexual
Aromantic
Asexual
AroAce
Progress
Remastered, better quality versions now available.
The genderfluid urge to do T and become a drag queen
I have been making these pride cookies and I think the side and end pieces are my favorite.
Even if they look imperfect when you turn them around they’re just as beautiful as the rest.
Being Bigender- what it’s like.
I know there are already a few posts about being bigender and what it means, but I kind of wanted to make my own so I could share some of my own knowledge and experiences on being bigen.
Bigender: The Definition
Bigender is a gender identity described as being two genders- either simultaneously [both genders at the same time], fluidly [switching between the two] or partially [sort of like being a percentage/amount of each]. It falls under the nonbinary umbrella and is one of the many multigender identities out there, one of the more well known ones in fact [genderfluid probably being the most well known].
Q- Do the two genders have to be “Girl and Boy”?
Absolutely not. This is probably the most asked bigender-related question that I know of, and I’d like for it to be known that the two genders you experience do not have to be binary. A bigender preson could be a combination of a binary gender and nonbinary gender [example: girl and agender] or two nonbinary genders [example: androgyne and neutrois]. Bigender is not defined as only being man and woman.
Difference between Bigender and Genderfluid
Bigender and genderfluid may share some similar aspects, but the main difference is that bigender is just defined as being any two genders, and it’s not a requirement to be fluid between them. Genderfluid is shifting between multiple genders, which doesnt have to be limited to two or only binary genders. These can overlap and can used simultaneously as a label if you wish, but essentially these are very different identities.
Q- If you’re bigender, are you trans? Or half-trans or something?
Y’know, that’s just up to the bigender/nonbinary individual to decide. I don’t consider myself trans, and for a while I didn’t even consider myself nonbinary. I’m not cis, and I relate a lot to transgender experiences- so sure, I could technically consider myself trans. But it’s not something that appeals to me as a label, so I don’t really use it. You can just be you, and you don’t have to be a part of the trans community or even in the nonbinary community if you don’t want to.
You can also have surgery/ name change/ go on hormones if you’re bigender btw, it’s alllll up to you.
Presentation
And another thing- no, you do not have to present/dress like both of your genders to be bigender. Or switch between clothing or whatever. You can present however you like- clothing doesn’t dictate your identity in any way. It’s just fabric. Wear it however you want!
For example, I prefer to only present as masculine.
Q- Do you have to be 50% / half of both genders to be bigender?
Nope. If the genders are not felt simultaneously or fluidly and are instead felt partially each, then the metaphorical “percentage” can be anything. A bigender person may feel 60% one gender and 40% the other, or someone else may be more 70% and 30%, and then sometime they can even be 10% or 90% or even 1% and 99% and etc, etc, etc.
If the amount of gender experienced can be at any percent, what’s to stop me from calling myself demigender instead of bigender?
[Demigender- feeling partially, but not fully a gender. Common names are demigirl, demiboy, etc.]
The truth is, similar to how [bi]sexual/romantic, [poly]sexual/romatic and [pan]sexual/romantic all overlap, and it’s really up to the person to choose which label they prefer, it’s up to the bigender/demigender individual to choose what they’d want to call themselves, because these terms CAN* overlap as well.
*ALSO. IMPORTANT. Demigenders don’t necessarily only experience two genders. A few people have corrected me on this mistake- demigenders can also experience more than two or even only experience the one gender they feel the most, without needing another gender to fill up the metaphorical space. It’s just defined as experiencing mostly but not entirely a gender.
Q- Do you have to have separate sets of pronouns for each gender, or even two chosen names?
Nah. This isn’t a requirement. You can be bigender and have as many or as little names or sets of pronouns as you want, and they don’t have to “match” your genders either. A boy/girl bigender could use only one name and use they/them, or an agender/boy bigender could be using two names and she/her + he/him, or neopronouns, or etc. The combinations are endless, so it’s up to the individual to figure out what they want.
And again, the names do not have to necessarily correspond with your genders by society’s standards- by which i mean you don’t have to have a “boy” name or a “girl” name or a neutral name unless that’s what you want.
They/Them
They/them (at least in the English language) are definitely considered THE neutral pronouns and like the go-to to use for anyone. And they usually are, there’s nothing wrong with that- it’s good to use on strangers, people you don’t know the pronouns of, or people who just prefer those pronouns- all very good situations to use them in! However, I’d also like to point out- as I don’t see it pointed out much- that it is not applicable to those who you know the pronouns of and they don’t include it in their list of pronouns/ express that they don’t like it used on them. It’s not a good way to get around using pronouns you’re uncomfortable with/ don’t want to make an effort to use either. It’s not a good alternative to someone’s neopronouns, or multiple/fluxuating pronouns, or just to use on anyone who doesn’t want them used. Just don’t.
This applies to every gender identity, not just bigenders.
Q- If I’m bigender, how does that affect my other orientations? Should I consider myself bi, gay, etc?
Unfortunately, currently popular lgbt+ terms [especially in relation to sexuality or romantic orientation] are not really suited for nonbinary people. There isn’t much of a way to describe our attraction unless you’re pansexual/romantic or aroace, so there isn’t really a good answer to this, other than you’ll have to figure out what sounds best to you. Like, what would it mean for a boy/girl bigender person to consider themselves gay [not just as an umbrella term]? Would they be only interested in other bigender people, or would that mean they like both girls and boys? See, there isn’t really a perfect solution. Personally I call myself asexual and pan grey-aromantic, which means that I feel no sexual attraction and rarely feel any romantic attraction, but if I do it can be to anyone regardless of gender. I feel like this covers me pretty well, so it’s up to you to make do with whatever terminology you have available [or if you want, just make your own]!
What it’s like being bigender
Well for starters, no two bigender people are the same, nor have the same experiences. I am probably the most stereotypical form of bigender- I’m boy/girl, I use he/him and she/her pronouns, and I even have two names, in fact one is a “boy” name and the other is a “girl” name. As much as I’d like to share alternative bigender stories, I can only tell you mine, so keep in mind that this isn’t the universal truth for all of us.
For me, I’m simultaneously both of my genders- I’m not 70% one and 30% the other, nor am I fluid between the two. At all times, I feel 100% girl and 100% boy. “Isn’t that the same as androgyne?” somebody may want to ask [maybe]. Well, no. In the form of a visual, pretend there are two tinted lenses [say, yellow and blue] and stacking them on top of each other makes green, while still being separate physically. Androgyne would be more like just having a green tinted lense, without needing to stack anything.
Anyway, how is it like? My insight to being bigender in the real world is well, kind of uneventful, as I’m extremely closeted and don’t intend to come out any time soon. Most of my experiences happen internally. I sometimes get annoyed that people use only one set of pronouns for me, because although I don’t mind he or she, I would still prefer for them both to be used at about the same amount. [I try to even it out by playing games where I get to choose to have my other pronouns used]. I feel comfortable using any binary-gendered terms for myself [ex: queen, king, brother, etc] and it’s funny to me when people “correct” themselves after saying something that isn’t usually associated with my agab [because I don’t pass]. I can relate to a lot to both female and male experiences. I get uncomfortable when people tell me I’m just one gender [ex: calling me just a boy/girl, repeatedly]. I do have dysphoria, both social and physical. I plan on getting surgery someday. I actually only discovered I was bigender last summer, so less than a year ago. That’s my story.
Canon bigender representation in the media [That I know of]
There is none, lol. Zilch none. Multigender people often get thrown under the bus when it comes to any rep, and the most we get is the occasional genderfluid character [Magnus Chase, Adventure time, some animes]. Although, I guess you could consider BMO from adventure time bigender, as BMO has fluctuaites between she/her and he/him pronouns in the show [but I think the writers confirmed BMO as genderfluid, not bigender]. And Marco Diaz from Star vs the forces of evil HAS been sort of coded as bigender, but in the newest season the writers seem to have completely butchered that and it’s kinda a train wreck right now so. Idk. Anyways, even if this was official confirmed-by-the-creators canon, then they still stick to the stereotypical binary bigenders and although that’s very relatable to me, I’d like to see more diverse bigen characters. So that’s my insight on that.
If anyone knows of any actually canon bigender rep then hit me up lmao, I’d really love to know about it. I might make a list.
Q- How can I write a bigender character?
Read everything above, so you at least have some standard knowledge about it. If you have additional questions, my ask is always open and you are also free to message me privately. I’ll be glad to help anyone out who has trouble with this, or anything bigender related really.
Only SOME of the other multigenders that are similar/relate to Bigender [for those who may want to know more]
Trigender- Like bigender, but experiencing three genders instead of two
Polygender- experiencing multiple genders but not all.
Pangender- same thing but as all genders [this however, does not include genders that aren’t within your experiences, because there are some genders that belong to indigenous groups and cultures and more that can only be used by those who belong in those groups. Pangender has gained some controversy because of this, so remember that it never includes anything one can’t claim.]
Demigender- feeling partially but not totally a gender.
Genderfluid- being fluid between genders [can be any genders, any amount of them and for any amount of time]
If you feel like I need to change anything about this post, then I’m open to suggestions/criticism as I’m never satisfied with what I write and am willing to make changes as needed!
So I made this because why not. It’s the quoiromantic pride flag.
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Quoiromanticism
Quoiromanticism is something that needs to be more known. From what I can tell, it’s a lot more common to be quoiromantic than people think.
Quoiromantic has multiple names other than quoiromantic, including WTFromantic, whatromantic, and there’s one that I’ll get into more later.
Quoiromantic is an inability or extreme difficulty telling the difference between romantic and platonic attraction.
How do you pronounce it?
It’s pronounced like “kwa” - romantic. “quoi” is french for “what”, and is pronounced “kwa”.
I really don’t like the term, what now?
There isn’t really another term for it (unless in a situation otherwise specified), so if the term is uncomfortable for you (just doesn’t feel right, don’t like the questiony implication, etc..) you could probably make a new one or just use arospec (aromantic spectrum) as your identity but the definition of quoiro as an explanation for your orientation.
I have {alexithymia/ASD/other neurodivergence} and I think thats why I can’t tell the difference. Am I still a valid quoiromantic?
Yes. Neurodivergence can affect identity and that’s still valid. It doesn’t matter if you wouldn’t be quoiromantic if you weren’t neurodivergent. You are neurodivergent. Now, there’s a term specifically for ND people that is similar to quoiromantic but with one thing added to the definition: inability or extreme difficulty telling the difference between romantic and platonic attraction due to neurodivergence. This word is Nebularomantic. This is easier for me to pronounce (quoi makes my mouth feel weird) which is part of why I like it so much.
I think I might be quoiromantic but I know I’m only attracted to {guys/girls/nb people/some combination}. How can I know that if I can’t tell the difference?
I know it’s weird, but orientations are weird and individual too. I’m quoiromantic and I know I’m gay. For me it’s because I can see myself with other guys and masculine nonbinary people, but not with girls or feminine nonbinary people (androgynous nonbinary people are kinda a coin toss). However, this is never person specific. It’s really weird.
So.. do quoiromantics just have ‘crushes’ on all their friends?
Well, it’s weird. There are various terms recommended for quoi “crushes”. The most common is “plush” but I find it kinda… :/ like it reminds me of kids toys and that seems kinda weird to me. One that was recommended was quoish (pronounced kwash) but it sounds kinda like crush anyway. I also saw quish (pronounced and spelled “squish” without the “s”) and that one seems pretty good to me. Also, no. Some quoiromantics can’t even tell if they experience romantic attraction or just have really strong “friend crushes” (a “squish”). We often get confused on whether or not we have crushes on all our friends. I always use outside variables. Not on how I feel about them, but more on ‘there are these that disqualify someone from me being in a romantic relationship with them’ (see ‘how can i tell im only attracted to {guys/girls/nb people/some combination}).
I saw something about how quoiromantic isn’t an orientation but just a modifier?
People who say this are the ones who say “you can be quoiromantic and arospec but it doesn’t make you arospec”. What they mean is “Must be This Sure to be Arospec™”. And it’s really just like “ok thanks! me, who cant tell the difference between romantic and platonic attraction, will just! check if I experience romantic attraction!” You can be quoiromantic and not consider yourself arospec (just like nonbinary people can consider themselves not trans). Quoiromantic is an arospec identity in the same way as nonbinary is a trans identity. Because of it, you are included unless otherwise specified.
im back for like a day 😻
okar so i got like 20 minutes to post sthm before i disappear again 😭 but since its pride month i figured i make sthm to post- anyways
GO LESBIANS 💥💥🏳️🌈
(im so tired rn life is so hard sometimes 😭)
anyways low quality cartman 😻
does david king is gay?
hi frank is trans cannot be convinced otherwise
this is a very messy doodle but enjoy danny’s little man
Oop forgot this... Imma just leave it here
actually finished the pride drawing :D anyways pretty late but happy pride (again!)