dont censor sex, abuse, suicide, dont censor it. we dont have censors like tiktok does, you wont be banned for talking about these things and tagging them properly helps people avoid them (also, we dont have shadowbanning here)
you follow who you follow, and you see posts from who you follow or what you search. the 'for you page' is basically useless here. this also brings me to my next two points
we get it, on tiktok you have to crosstag for reach, but thats not really a thing here. just tag your posts properly (also posters often leave more info about the post in the tags!! and when you reblog stuff you can leave your own notes in the tags, kind of like the old "repost comments" on tiktok)
"viral" isnt really a thing on here (at least not for the average blogger). your posts will probably get 2-10 likes and you wont get nearly as many followers than on tiktok. thats just how tumblr is
tiktok is VERY discussion based, and while tumblr is much more discussion based than other social medias, its still not a good place for ragebait/discourse. dont interact, itll make your experience worse in the end, just block and move on
this is tumblr, not tiktok. dont diss old tumblr users for how they use the site or try to change them, thats like going into someone elses house and trying to rearrange their furniture. we've been here longer and we're familiar with the site and its culture, either find your niche, adapt, or find a different app
headphones aren't enough. i need the song to stab me in the chest
Maybe this therapy shit is working
Confession: i dont want to be popular, i don’t care about clout i just don’t
I just want money to buy coords and merch of my oshi, i’ll do anything for money.
How idolising jirai blogs looks like
All hail the angel bat (I am going to make an angel bat oc just you wait)
Hot girl problems
i really wish more of the community was able to act normally about plus size jirais. I want to be able to talk about not being able to find any girly kei outfits in sizes above M without a swarm of skinny jirais acting condescending and being fatphobic.
everyone says "taking mental health days is totally fine!!!" until those "mental health days" end up lasting months
for some people a warm bubble bath and a few nights of binging Netflix can bring them back to a point where they can be a functioning member of society again
but for me, my mental illness has denied me the right to feel like a member of society to begin with
this world isn't meant for people like me
teeth dividers || free to use
18. Where I spew my thoughts out for strangers to see. Vent blog/rant blog/gush blog
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