Haha Probably Not, Just Feel A Bit Guilty, As An Adult Who Sleeps With Copious Amounts Of Stuffies

I was today years old when I learned that when you type “otp: true” in AO3 search results it filters out fics with additional ships, leaving only the fics where your otp is the main ship

Okay I just wanted to say that I understand that people reacted too heavily about me "grooming a minor".

I understand that in last years content creator after content creator let us down with those accusations being true.

But please use common sense. I'm not dating a little kid. They are literally gonna be 18 this year. We are 3 years apparently.

And please stop thinking that every person that is with someone has to have sex. This is just disgusting that it's the first thing you thought about. If you never met any person on ace spectrum you would know that we say the most sexual jokes while being often repulsed by sex itself. I'm one of those people.

We also set boundaries at the beginning of our relationship. I never did anything outside of set boundaries.

I also never met with them in real life. We live on two ends of the world being USA and Poland ( as you can see by my polish wordmojis)

We also didn't plan to meet any time soon.

Parents and siblings on both sides knew that we were close.

No inappropriate pics were even exchanged.

No erp even happened (I'm traumatized by RP turning into ERP in my younger years so I'm NEVER doing any RP with anyone)

So yeah there you go. Full list of things I have been accused of. Non of them are true. You could ask anyone who knew about us and Gerald themselves (maybe not now since that whole mess took a tool on them)

And all of them would say the same thing. That we are in a consenting, happy relationship. And I really want you to understand that.

I love hearing about the vibes I give off cause I honestly have no idea

hi :3

Hey Mikey

system ask meme

🍄 - how did you get your system name?

👾 - funniest out of context system quote?

🎉 - favorite system holiday?

🌙 - do you have subsystems?

☕ - what is switching like for you?

💫 - are there any hobbies you all have?

💾 - what's your headcount?

👻 - do your alters/headmates have different voices or speech patterns?

🎨 - does anyone in your system like art?

🥀 - how easily does the system split?

🦖 - is your system fictive-heavy? factive-heavy? neutral?

🎵 - what songs remind you of your alters/headmates?

❓ - how much amnesia do you experience?

🎮 - what do your alters/headmates do in their free time?

🪐 - what is headspace like for you?

🍐 - are there any non-human alters/headmates?

🪫 - what do you all do to recharge?

🌧️ - how does the system cope with stress?

🔦 - how did you discover your system?

🌟 - do any alters help out with school/work?

🌊 - who are your frequent fronters?

🎁 - have you ever bought your alters/headmates things?

☘️ - what are your introjects/fictives usually sourced from?

💬 - free space!! tell me about something!

It really does, like, you're so talented? And you follow me? But why? /pos

Shoutout to my amazing mutuals by the way, I know we don't talk but y'all are amazing

having a mutual who’s a good artist literally feels like beyonce saw me at a supermarket and decided to make me her best friend

[Text: This system has BPD traits.]

[Small text: (Borderline Personality Disorder)]

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Random thing on Pinterest giving me motivation to take a shower for the first time in days???

what actually are endogenic systems?

• Endogenic is an umbrella term that refers to all systems that are not completely traumagenic in origin.

Why are some people claiming to be endo?

• people claiming to be endogenic systems may:

• be misdiagnosed, they may not have DID/OSDD and may have a different disorder.

• may not have researched. Which is not a excuse. You cannot claim to have any disorder without any level of research.

• they may be a traumatic system in denial of there trauma.

• singlets with fractitious disorders [Factitious disorders are conditions in which a person deliberately and consciously acts as if they have a physical or mental illness when they are not really sick.]

•singlets misidentifying normal experiences

• singlets who enjoy "being a system" finding it fun etc

Why can't endos exist?

• as previously stated. DID/OSDD is a TRAUMA RESPONSE DISORDER. you cannot have it without trauma literally.

• OSDD/DID occurs because of childhood trauma between the ages 4-9 (commonly). Because extreme trauma happens when the majority of your "personality" is formed by then. the trauma interferes with your personality development, causing the formation of other alters to help cope with that trauma / deal with the brunt of the trauma and survive day to day life.

• OCDD/DIDs can only be formed through trauma.

Why are endos so harmful?

• they spread very harmful misinformation. (Even the idea of being endogenic, forming without trauma)

they spread dangerous misinformation and stigma (demonising roles (persecutors for example)) impossible beliefs (alter death, sys hopping etc)There growing presence in general on many platforms

• endos trying to say that they have any experience to anything close to the serious trauma that causes DID/ OSDD is so so harmful to actual DID/ OSDD have had to live through and survive.

• WE ARE ALREADY STIGMATISED AND DEMONSIED IN ALL SORTS OF MEDIA AS IS.

• IT IS SO HARMFUL AND HURTFUL TO SYSTEMS WHO HAVE ACTUALLY SURVIVED AND BEEN THROUGH THE HORRORS AND TRAUMA THAT CAUSES DID/OSDD - OUR TRAUMAS ARE NOT BADGES FOR YOU TO WEAR.

- blurred asf