Hai Guys :3

Abuse has a goal behind it, and a lot of the time, it's about changing the victims behavior. If someone screams at you for not doing X activity, eventually you learn to do X activity. If someone hits you when you defy them, eventually you learn not to defy them. If someone abuses you frequently enough, and you begin to break down to their will... It is possible to reach a point where it may seem like you're not being abused anymore.

They don't yell anymore because you stay quiet and do what you're told. They don't threaten you anymore because you don't voice even the slightest disagreement or need. What used to be screaming fighting arguments have become lectures at your expense. They may even praise you for doing what they want you to. And all those mundane moments - breakfast, the rare kind act - stand out more. Your perception of the relationship skews even more. It's all normal now.

And it's still abuse. It's just reached its end goal - wearing you down so badly that they don't need to overtly abuse you anymore to get what they want. All they need to do is make a joke, or complain to guilt you, or tell you want to do/not to do, etc. etc. The fact that's all it takes now doesn't make what's happening to you less severe - if anything, it means you're in much, much more danger than you could realize.

It's abuse. It's horrific. It's just not obvious anymore... and that's terrifying. You deserve so, so much better. You deserve to truly be safe - not to have your wellbeing held behind fearful compliance. That's not safety. That's not love. That's abuse. It being psychological doesn't make it less dangerous.

Octocon is actually endo neutral but yes

Octocon is a new app for systems. It's anti endo and made by traumagenic systems. It also has a discord bot that is a lot easier to use than pk in my opinion. You can also sync your app and the bot so you can edit alters in the app. The app is on android already and coming to IOS soon. Hope this helps some people :)

(If you're in a server, I recommend adding this bot as more people are starting to use it instead of pk and tupperbox)

Happy birthday, welcome to the old people ranks /j

‘help me i’m dying’ a minor begs as they bleed out on the side of the road

‘MINORS DNI!!’ i reply as the clock strikes midnight on my 18th birthday

We're just out here chilling while it pours so much our backyards fixing to be a new pool

I love that I’m getting these notifications like a hurricane’s not coming

Yeah definitely not, they might be if tumblr let you change your answer but alas

Original comic by Rasenth

site that you can type in the definition of a word and get the word

site for when you can only remember part of a word/its definition 

site that gives you words that rhyme with a word

site that gives you synonyms and antonyms

[Text: This system is constantly afraid everyone is going to leave them.]

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I'm uranic which means I'm attracted to the internet and the internet.

Help??

I'm asexual which means I'm attracted to the exit.

Well...I mean...accurate?

Wordmoji dump

Have ssmall energy right now, dont know if I'll make non wordmojis for a bit but feel free to request word mojis, will do anything, prns, names, anything mildly nsfw, ect...

Words in order

Same Petre Agere Tired Twice Headache Twisted Wonderland Drive Safe Wordmoji Anxiety Alright Hazbin Hotel Too Dark Fuck Splitting