I'm surprised that with all the shifting advice and posts preparing people for life in a certain dr, no one's ever (to my knowledge) made a post on shifting as another gender/sex. Like I feel it'd be fairly easy to write about? I mean it's not like it's fantastical aliens or vampires, it's just a different body. Why hasn't anyone done a post like "what to expect if you're shifting as amab/afab"?
the doubt method
this is a shifting method for the doubters out there. the ones who try to affirm or act as if they’re in their dr yet they contradict themselves by thinking that they’re still in their cr and feel bad about it.
what you have to do is choose two of your drs. the first one (dr 1) is the reality where you’re planning to go, the second one (dr 2) is a reality that you simply like but it’s not your priority.
start affirming of being in your dr 2, but then contradict yourself by saying sentences like “ugh i just know thats not true because i’m actually still in dr 1, that’s so annoying, i really want to be in my dr 2 yet i’m still in dr 1, why??” you basically have to rant about it.
this is similar to when you go against your affirmation out of doubts like “no i’m still in my cr :((“ so you would use this to your advantage and instead go “no i’m still in my dr 1 :((“.
try this and see yourself shift.
edit: someone on tiktok informed me that there’s a similar method so make sure you check that one too, it’s called the nowehere method.
you ask me what’s the point, and i reply that it’s living. then you say you give up, and i giggle because giving up on something you think about everyday is not the most logical choice. then you get angry and i just watch because the only thing i see is someone wanting something so much that provokes in them such powerful emotions. who are we without a goal?? and the most poetic thing about this………. you realising, in the end, that it was worth it
Hey girly girl, how to shift? Like, I can't reach the void state, so that's out. Methods don't work for me, cause I get frustrated and roll over to sleep. Manifesting IDK IT TAKES AGES... and affirming there my thoughts drift off.. and rn I am unmotivated to shift when I try, but I rlly do WANT to go home. ☹️
how to shift : your all-in-one guide . . . (the only things you have to know…ever !)
i , what even is shifting? shifting is the art of moving your consciousness from one reality to another. it’s not magic, it’s not luck, it’s just focus and belief wrapped in a little cosmic bow. think of it like choosing which movie to watch. you’re the one holding the remote.
ii , forget the void for a sec : the void state is not the only way, nor is it the end-all-be-all. think of it like one specific door in a house with infinite entrances. if the void’s being dramatic, just walk around it. shifting doesn’t need that kind of fanfare. you can shift in any state: sleepy, frustrated, even mid-yawn.
iii , methods, shmethods : methods are tools, not rules. if you’re trying one and it’s not vibing with you, ditch it! think of methods as cute little recipes; if you don’t like what you’re cooking, toss in your own spices. and guess what? you don’t even need a method. your intention is the main character here, and everything else is just the supporting cast.
iv , manifesting doesn’t have to take ages : manifesting isn’t about sitting there like a monk waiting for enlightenment. it’s like planting seeds: you plant them, you water them, and then you trust the sun to do its thing. start small. affirm gently. even a passing thought like, “ugh, i’m so over this reality” is a mini-manifestation in itself. you’re building the vibe brick by brick.
v , affirmations are your sneaky little sidekick : if your thoughts drift, let them. you’re not running a military bootcamp in your brain. affirmations work even when you’re distracted because they’re sneaky like that. say them casually, like you’re humming a song. “i’m already there” or “it’s happening now.” keep it simple and breezy.
vi , unmotivation nation… we’ve all been there : listen, shifting doesn’t demand motivation; it demands surrender. the kind of surrender that’s like, “ok, universe, you win. take me where i need to go.” you’re allowed to rest in the in-between. you’re allowed to feel blah. you’re allowed to be human and divine at the same time.
vii , you already want it? guess what. it’s yours : wanting to go home is half the battle won. the desire is your proof. it’s like your reality is already calling you, whispering your name through the veil. stop thinking of it as trying and start thinking of it as returning. you don’t try to breathe, do you? you just breathe. shifting is the same.
꒰ basic steps, simplified :
◞ set your intention : decide where you’re going and get crystal clear about it. script it out if that helps.
◞ prepare your space : make your environment cozy. this isn’t mandatory, but it helps set the mood.
◞ choose a method or freehand it : julia method, raven method, bla bla bla method, affirming till you fall asleep, visualising, just vibing, it’s all valid.
◞ focus or daydream : picture your dr, feel it, or simply say, “i’m already home.”
◞ surrender : let go of the pressure. relax into the process. let the universe work its magic.
꒰ some final tips :
◞ romanticise the process : make shifting feel dreamy, not stressful. light a candle, sip some tea, wear your favourite socks. vibe check your environment.
◞ detach from the outcome : this isn’t a college exam; you don’t need an a+ in shifting. let the energy flow.
◞ sleepy shifting is underrated : drifting off with your dr in mind? chef’s kiss.
◞ turn frustration into power : that “uuuugh why isn’t it working” energy? channel it into something fierce. you’re the god of your reality. act like it.
that's it. that's literally it. you don't need ANYTHING else except your mind. bam.
remember, you’re not chasing shifting. you’re already holding hands with it, swaying gently in the wind like a little cosmic dance. shifting isn’t something you achieve; it’s something you allow. you’re the prophet of your own life, the controller of the sands. so go forth, messiah in training, and shift like the world is your oyster. because it is.
people shifting on accident and then being absolutely mind boggled is my fav genre
how i feel after putting my personality here in this reality to be the same as in other realities. im aware that there are other versions of myself, but im comfortable with how i am right now
When anti shifters call it psychosis but I'm on medication against anxiety that is also used against psychosis in higher doses and I still shift, channel, and see visions basically daily
(It's such an amusing argument too, because okay, honey, I'll have my 700 year long psychosis where I have the best time of my life and you can go to work okay?💚)
I’m doing a Philosophy paper on Asexuality. Please reblog if you think Love without Sex is possible! I really need the data. Like if you think love has to have sex.
Everything is made up, even the law of gravity. You create everything, and you give meaning to all the things that exist. You can exist without all your creations, but all the creations can’t exist without you. Everything is you, but in another form of consciousness. You are the creator, things happen bc you allow it to happen. This is why you can’t fail, bc reality follows you with no exception. —But reality shows me the opposite of what I want — you say. It's bc you decide is this way. What you see is not the reality, is what you decide. You don’t need the 5 senses to know your name. The same way, you don’t need to “see” your desire to know is already yours. The 5 senses is a human and imitated condition. And we’re not human. Everything that we are aware of is a real experience, in fact, there’s no difference between what we imagine and what we feel with our senses. However, we label it as different things. The point of this post is to remind you, everything is made up, and you can change it, now. Don’t need to wait until you’re ready, bc you’ll never be.
honestly there’s nothing left to be said. you already know how to shift even if you think you don’t. you’re not missing the “hidden key”. girl, you’ve got it in you, you just need to utilize that skill and take the leap. i get you’re afraid, you’re trying everything, but please do not be so hard on yourself. listen to your intuition, believe in shifting however you see fit, it’s YOUR journey, YOUR reality.
you want to let go and detach? if that’s the way for you, fuckin do it !!
you like robotically affirming and persisting in your narrative every hour? please do so, queen!!!
you want to blast subliminals and meditations all night long? be my guest ;)
please quit listening to others all the time. take a post that resonates with YOU, and bring your desires into fruition because…honey, it was always yours.
how I be listening to music knowing good and well I'm stealing ts for my discography