“People Do Not Seem To Realize That Their Opinion Of The World Is Also A Confession Of Character.”

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“Wasn’t friendship its own miracle, the finding of another person who made the entire lonely world seem somehow less lonely? Wasn’t this house, this beauty, this comfort, this life a miracle?”

— Hanya Yanagihara, A Little Life

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İlişki mi yaşıyoruz, dayak mı yiyoruz belli değil.

Zamanımızı geçiriyoruz bu dünyada. Olan bu.

❝ Mantık ne kadar sarsılmaz olsa da, yaşamak isteyen bir insanın önünde duramazdı. ❞

•Franz Kafka - Dava

"All perfectly known futures are past.  They have happened virtually.  It is only the true future that is the surprise." -Alan Watts

by _shuto_films

I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.