When You're An Enlightened Beta Loser It's Important To Stop On Images Like This And Really Reflect On

My wife has told all kinds of her friends and even mine. They're all aware that she dates a black man while still being married to me. I won't pretend that it was easy finding out she had told so many people and even used the word cuckold with them... But now despite the ridicule it often comes with, particularly from her friends that never actually approved of me in the first place...I find it comforting in many ways. And when one of her friends puts me down or reminds me of just how much of a loser I am, I find joy in their critique of me and really appreciate the ongoing reminders of my true place in the world. It's very helpful

You long ago accepted that your wife needed to have sex with other men in order to be sexually satisfied. And you’ve tried to be a loving and supportive beta cuckold for her – even helping her set up her tinder account, and never complaining even when she would spend the whole night with another man. But so far she has been quite discreet about her cuckolding and has never even told her best friend. That is about to change, however – because now that she has a real boyfriend, the two of them want to date openly – and when they start going places in public as a couple, it is inevitable that friends, and family, will learn that she cuckolds you.

When you're an enlightened beta loser you inevitably find yourself loving this exact situation. All of the women you crush over and obsess about are taken by real men and fucking them passionately on a regular basis. And while she moans his name between gasps, the last person she'd even remotely be thinking about is you. A loser knows his crush doesn't care about him. A loser knows that it's his job to only hump his fist to thoughts of how amazing and gorgeous she looks all intertwined with her real man boyfriend. A loser never wastes an ounce of thought on being the one she's with. Saying your daily mantras is helpful here...you should openly recite out loud over and over "he fucks, I suck. He fucks, I suck." "All for him... nothing for me. All for him... nothing for me" "She wants a man, not a disgusting loser. She wants a man, not a disgusting loser". Let the shame wash over you and replace your desire for love. Shame is beta love

An enlightened beta loser sees a photo like this and immediately recognizes all of the things that can go very wrong. For example, rather than just enjoying how gorgeous she is, and how hot her lingerie and heels are, a loser can't fight the perseverating thoughts of "is my penis big enough? Can I last long enough? Will she laugh at me? Will she mock me if I can't get the job done? What if I can't find her clit? What if I get too nervous?" And many more. Performance anxiety, nervousness and worry flood a beta loser's brain creating a truly fearful response to a situation like this. This is why the truly enlightened are keenly aware that pussy is not for them. Not now. Not ever. Pussy is exclusively the domain of real men who don't have a single one of these thoughts and know how to take her, ravish her and leave her wanting more and more. Losers are a disappointment. And yes, she would mock you and laugh at you and tell all her friends how horrible the experience was with you. This is why a smart loser will never even attempt to venture outside of the friend zone.

An enlightened beta loser would never spend time thinking if an opportunity like this presented itself. It's a losers job to lick all of that grime off the bottom of her shoes. She shouldn't have to do it or even ask. A loser knows that this is one of his primary jobs in life. To be her obedient shoe licker. So when she sticks her shoe out you should immediately thank her and drop to the floor and immediately show her how passionate you are about cleaning

For the enlightened and at peace beta this is what a beautiful end to the night looks like. Your wife/gf/crush/obsession is still out with a real man doing the dirtiest of things and moaning his name and asking for more and more and more while you're at home making sweet gentle passionate love to her shoes over and over and over and prematurely ejaculating a mere teaspoon at most of beta slime at a time. You were never good enough for her. You never will be. Deep down you know that. This is why these moments and memories are perfect for everyone. Those images of her and her boyfriend having incredible sex running through your mind...and you having your beta way with her shoe getting off to it all... This is where you were always meant to be in life. Celebrate it. Enjoy every minute of it. Soak in every second of the rejection and shame and be thankful for it #bliss #perfection

An excellent example of beta loser porn. When you're a loser, your entire fixation and focus should be on the soles of a woman's boots. Your thoughts should be monopolized by obsessing over how incredible the filth would taste if you were only given a chance to clean them with your tongue. You should never be thinking of any other part of her body. This is the ONLY place you should ever look when showing your respect for a woman whether you cross paths in the real world or when looking at porn. A true beta loser learns he can more than meet all of his own perverse and disgusting needs simply by immersing himself in the beauty and perfection of her well worn dirty boots. A loser neither needs or deserves any additional forms of attention

Part of the journey to becoming truly enlightened as a beta loser is trusting the women you have encountered in the past as well as those you're encountering now. As human beings we all strive to be truly seen for who and what we are. The women who have laughed at you, made fun of you, looked at you in disgust, who have blown you off...these women all truly "saw" and "see" you for what you are...a total loser. Through their disdain for you they were also providing you an invaluable bit of feedback about yourself. They were being honest. You're a loser and deserve to be rejected by all women. The women that have been kind to you or who are kind to you are being dishonest to you and doing you a disservice and are confusing you. They're doing it out of their own sense of guilt and not wanting to just be direct and black and white with you. They aren't doing it because you aren't a loser. They just don't want to personally feel bad for you being a loser and needing to point it out to you. At all times a loser on the road to enlightenment always takes the first woman described above and values her overt rejection over anything else. After all she is speaking the truth. These are the sorts of women that a loser should ultimately obsess over

When you're a beta loser this is mandatory behavior. If you aren't doing this already out of instinct then you need to work harder at this... Being a loser means playing your part and maximizing your effort. Staring at a woman's feet and shoes is an act of respect even if it makes her think you're a freak. While women can spot a loser from 100 feet away, it is also your responsibility to save her the time by actually being what you are and not hiding it. This is a basic responsibility for losers whether at work or out in the community

Correct obvious really

Be honest... You don't even care what she looks like or what she's wearing. You saw the sole the way you were supposed to and your eyes were fixated and the impact was already made. You're now thinking about licking it clean for her and hoping you might get the chance to sniff it...that is beta sex my friends. All day every day. Her shoes have definitely replaced your need for pussy. If so, congratulations you've finally arrived

When you're a beta loser this is exactly the approach you take in life once you become enlightened and accept yourself. A loser does not look at women selfishly like something they need to possess or conquer. A loser accepts that all women want bad boys and alpha males. Your only role in her life is to serve and to contribute to making it easier for her to find the sort of man she wants and deserves. 'Rubbing it out' in the friendzone, alone at home is the only way you should get yourself off...and while you do that you should only be imagining how hot she looks in another man's arms