You Know You've Reached The Pinnacle Of Loser Enlightenment When Your Mind, Body And Soul Knows Beyond

A beta loser's sole purpose in life is to ensure that his wife/gf/crush has all of her needs met so that she can spend more time either with her real boyfriend if she has one, or finding one if she doesn't. This means you devote all of your time to supporting her relationship or potential relationship with another man. A loser provides encouragement, emotional support, menial errand and task completion, as well as buying her hot clothes, lingerie, jewelry, stockings and heels for her to wear on her dates to maximize her potential for getting laid by the real man object of her desires (which will never be you to be clear). A loser does all of this thoughtfully and tirelessly without ever expecting acknowledgement or a reward from her. You do it because you cherish and love her even though you're just "a replaceable thing" to her....

These are very natural feelings for beta losers. We don't deserve sexual gratification in any form from women and we are being selfish if we have any expectations at all that a woman will provide us with one of the above gratifications the OP shared. We are disappointments in the sexual world and not "curable". It is only natural for a beta male to work hard to back off of these thoughts and train his mind to be free of thoughts of being touched. Now certainly you can and should be free to imagine your wife/gf/crush touching OTHER men and fulfilling all of the desires of OTHER men in the most carnal of ways. Just never thoughts of her touching you. Your own (insert your favorite beta term for you penis here) should only be satisfied by your own hand or by an inanimate object that's guided by your own hand. These are important beta lessons to learn and embrace

Fraud

The rare times my penis would get pussy, a HJ or a FJ it would feel good, sure... but during and afterward I could never escape the feeling, the thought "I don't deserve this". After cumming I felt like a fraud. My penis shouldn't have came this way, it didn't deserve this, I'm being selfish expecting her touch. This is what real men get not me.

The only way that feels right for a beta like me to cum is with my hand. I'm nervous, but looking forward to a masturbation only 2023 for my little dick!

Think of it like this...once you open Pandora's box, it can never be closed. Even if you stop, nothing will ever be the same. You can't go back in time and your wife who has gotten to live a dream can't go back in time. But here's the thing... Up front it can be hard to let go... There may be some immediate pain at first...but this is your destiny. This is what's supposed to happen to you...And when you're done fighting and being raw about it you'll find an even better life waiting patiently to embrace you and hold you and love you... And at that point the pain is gone. Just like ripping a band aid. You'll finally be where you were meant to be. You'll finally be an enlightened beta loser and your personal sex life will never have been better and you'll wonder why you struggled and fought so hard against this for so long... welcome home beta loser brother. We're here to support you ♥️

You did have concerns when the therapist first recommended cuckolding, but now that things have progressed to this point, yo realize that all you can do is to take her advice about being the best cuckold you can be, even if that means no longer being able to have sex with your wife.

My wife has told all kinds of her friends and even mine. They're all aware that she dates a black man while still being married to me. I won't pretend that it was easy finding out she had told so many people and even used the word cuckold with them... But now despite the ridicule it often comes with, particularly from her friends that never actually approved of me in the first place...I find it comforting in many ways. And when one of her friends puts me down or reminds me of just how much of a loser I am, I find joy in their critique of me and really appreciate the ongoing reminders of my true place in the world. It's very helpful

You long ago accepted that your wife needed to have sex with other men in order to be sexually satisfied. And you’ve tried to be a loving and supportive beta cuckold for her – even helping her set up her tinder account, and never complaining even when she would spend the whole night with another man. But so far she has been quite discreet about her cuckolding and has never even told her best friend. That is about to change, however – because now that she has a real boyfriend, the two of them want to date openly – and when they start going places in public as a couple, it is inevitable that friends, and family, will learn that she cuckolds you.

Becoming an enlightened beta loser is all about a personal journey towards acceptance of yourself. It is only when you realize who and what you are that you will be set free, and happiness will ensue. It's okay to be a loser and to be at the very bottom of the sexual food chain where women will provide you with a lifetime of rejection, scorn and denial. It's okay that you will be eternally pussy free. Obsessing over impossible to attain women (the crueler the better) and showing them just how pathetic and disgusting you can be is all you need to concern yourself with. In other words, all you need to do is be yourself!

When you're a beta loser and feel the undeniably strong urge for intimacy, you do not waste an ounce of your energy in being inappropriate and thinking about trying to be with a woman. Intimacy... particularly sexual intimacy begins and ends right here with a pair of her lovingly well worn shoes. Their scent is full of her pheromones and will literally addict you to her more and more as you sniff...and pulling your ick stick while doing so doubles down and rewires the pleasure and reward centre within your brain. Call it the double whammy. Entrapped by her pheromones, and reinforced by your own conscious actions. A beta male should be terrified of pussy and obsessed with the shoe. Thoughts of inappropriate behavior with a woman are disrespectful and it is absolutely not your place to be having out of control thoughts like that. Your role as a beta loser and reject is to ensure your wife/gf/crush never has to put up with you, and that all of her needs and conditions are met so that she can live her best life, at peace and away from losers

When you're a beta loser you need to accept your inadequacies and even deepen them at times. Women are extremely adept at recognizing beta traits... sometimes even before you're ready to accept them. A good beta takes an inventory of his traits and embraces them and understands that women don't want these traits in a man. As such you need to help women find real men to date and fall in love with. Your place and role is as a servant...the quiet helper in the background. It's what you were born for ♥️. Read this list over...how many define you? Be honest. Embrace yourself

There's very little I can add to what has already succinctly and accurately been said by the enlightened losers above. Clubs and bars, parties, flirting drinking and dancing is for real men and real women. Your presence there is not wanted and you would be very out of place in any of these settings. Staying home and spending your nights reject rubbing is both mandatory and appropriate. Leave alphas alone on weekends

Stay home and rub.

The women are out there, thankful you’re staying away, leaking alone to pics. While they have real sex with Alpha men. Know your place.

Hi . I am new here and want to know more about the lifestyle . Can we talk ?

sure we can. DM me and im happy to answer any of your questions

You're wife/gf/crush/obsession is out for dinner and drinks that will definitely end in her having the best sex of her life at her boyfriend's house while you, the beta loser....you're home, all alone, wining and dining breathing in their scent, running your tongue along the soles...and getting ready to give her shoes the best oral sex they've ever had and while you're probably a little ashamed of yourself for what you're about to do, you definitely aren't apologetic. It's not your first time and it definitely won't be your last time ♥️ #betaweekends #betasex