Let's All Take A Moment To Just Stop, Stare And Genuinely Appreciate How Gorgeous This Photo Is. Literally

When you're a beta loser, this should be your only focus. Averting your focus to a woman's shoes and boots when you're in her presence tells her exactly what you are... nothing more than a loser that's unworthy of her time and attention. Women find this sort of behaviour creepy and gross. Regardless of this, you should endeavour to make this sort of behaviour so prevalent in your life that it becomes instinctive and natural for you to stare at women's shoes and boots. You should work on this to the point of not even thinking about it, just doing it. In the long run you're doing her a favor by identifying what you are without her having to do any of the work to figure it out. You lustfully looking at those beautiful boos while she looks at you in disgust is the only way it should ever be for you. Learn to love for and crave her disgust and rejection.

Anyone who has followed my blog knows that this is exactly the sort of behaviour that is highly encouraged for beta losers. Your eyes should be firmly on women's shoes all day, every day when there is a woman in your presence. It doesn't matter what's on her feet, sneakers, flip flops, sandals, boots, heels...that's where you need to be starting. At all times. Not only will this make it glaringly obvious that you're a foot freak and a loser, but it will also solidify your own personal shame. No real man would even have the thought, let alone the arousal a loser gets. My wife wears heels and boots almost every day to work and comes home literally laughing about all the beta losers she caught obsessing over her feet and shoes. She frequently points out that the minute a woman catches you staring at her feet she knows exactly what you are, and "man" it isn't. So get practicing! Always stare downward. Make it blatantly obvious for women so that they can go home and laugh at you too.

I very highly encourage all beta losers to purchase at least one ultra feminine outfit either off Amazon or from a thrift shop or even a real store. While you may be hesitant or resistant to this idea or try to tell yourself it's 'not your thing'.... Just try it. Then put it on. It's remarkably freeing and will feel way better than you ever thought it could... Before long I'd even be willing to bet you that you'll be frustrated when life is busy and you CAN'T dress up and play with yourself

An enlightened loser looks at this image and just inherently knows he's unworthy of her attention and affections let alone sexual gratification of any form with her. An enlightened loser knows it's his job to obsess over her, fawn over her, buy her nice things, pay for her dates with other men, all while receiving literally nothing at all in return. An enlightened loser is happiest when being rejected and denied and takes comfort in knowing she's frequently out having hot passionate sex with another man. A real man that is not a loser. A real man that can make her scream and beg. A man that she drops to her knees in front of and worships his cock like it's a slice of pure heaven. A man she just can't get enough of. That will never be how she looks at or responds to a loser. A loser derives sexual pleasure from his fist, secretly pumping away to the scent of her shoes while thinking of her having sex with this man over and over and thinking about how grateful you are that she rejects you and will literally never ever choose you

Who doesn't love a pair of cuckold husband's sitting at home and passing the time together and playing while their wives are out with real men having a great time that will also inevitably involve hours of hot passionate sex? A sexless cuckold husband at the bottom of the food chain has needs too and they sure aren't ever going to be met by a woman's touch. Not ever. Once you start, it never stops. On the plus side this sort of behaviour becomes very very natural in no time at all. You don't even need to be passable to feel the lust grow and swell (no pun intended) ♥️

Shoe cleaning is never seen as a punishment by an enlightened beta loser. This is the ultimate reward for all of your hard efforts. This Is an opportunity to show her how much you obsess and crush over her and a way to be intimate with her since she won't ever touch you. A beta loser with an opportunity like this laid before him knows what he has been given and approaches this task as if he's been given the gift of the best sex he'll ever have

Think of it like this...once you open Pandora's box, it can never be closed. Even if you stop, nothing will ever be the same. You can't go back in time and your wife who has gotten to live a dream can't go back in time. But here's the thing... Up front it can be hard to let go... There may be some immediate pain at first...but this is your destiny. This is what's supposed to happen to you...And when you're done fighting and being raw about it you'll find an even better life waiting patiently to embrace you and hold you and love you... And at that point the pain is gone. Just like ripping a band aid. You'll finally be where you were meant to be. You'll finally be an enlightened beta loser and your personal sex life will never have been better and you'll wonder why you struggled and fought so hard against this for so long... welcome home beta loser brother. We're here to support you ♥️

You did have concerns when the therapist first recommended cuckolding, but now that things have progressed to this point, yo realize that all you can do is to take her advice about being the best cuckold you can be, even if that means no longer being able to have sex with your wife.

I used to desire pussy and I used to think of myself as a man. That said my wife took the time to show me that I'm actually a loser and should never ever want pussy ever again. She showed me how much of a simp and a weak willed pushover I am, she showed me just how pathetic I am at sex, particularly because I don't even last 20 seconds. She showed me just how badly my performance was impacting her happiness. She confided in a few of her friends and then had them verbalize and reinforce these same messages to me. They laughed at how bad I am at sex. They taunted me at times. They talked down to me and took my wife out on girls nights so she could meet real men that are the opposite of what I am. It wasn't long until the cuckold ultimatum came. If I was going to stay then I would have to accept her seriously dating and that I would be getting nothing sexual from her and that there would be humiliating tasks in my future. I was terrified and I was at times on the fence. But she knew I would give in and not say no to her. Today I'm happier than I have ever been. I'm free from performance anxiety and worries over blowing my load too quickly. I get to live sex vicariously through my wife's antics with her boyfriend. I accept my place at the bottom and accept all the degrading things that come along. I not only embrace them but look forward to them. That IS sex for a beta loser. I could never leave at this point. Pussy legitimately terrifies me and scares me. I do not want pussy any longer and never will. Pussy is not for me. Pussy is for men like my wife's boyfriend and all of his friends. I am a loser and I'm proud to be a loser. I am finally exactly where I belong and want to be

These are very natural feelings for beta losers. We don't deserve sexual gratification in any form from women and we are being selfish if we have any expectations at all that a woman will provide us with one of the above gratifications the OP shared. We are disappointments in the sexual world and not "curable". It is only natural for a beta male to work hard to back off of these thoughts and train his mind to be free of thoughts of being touched. Now certainly you can and should be free to imagine your wife/gf/crush touching OTHER men and fulfilling all of the desires of OTHER men in the most carnal of ways. Just never thoughts of her touching you. Your own (insert your favorite beta term for you penis here) should only be satisfied by your own hand or by an inanimate object that's guided by your own hand. These are important beta lessons to learn and embrace

Fraud

The rare times my penis would get pussy, a HJ or a FJ it would feel good, sure... but during and afterward I could never escape the feeling, the thought "I don't deserve this". After cumming I felt like a fraud. My penis shouldn't have came this way, it didn't deserve this, I'm being selfish expecting her touch. This is what real men get not me.

The only way that feels right for a beta like me to cum is with my hand. I'm nervous, but looking forward to a masturbation only 2023 for my little dick!

This is exactly the direct sort of conversation and choice my wife gave me. It wasn't a fun way of playing or exploring. It wasn't me that coaxed her into the idea. I was her girlfriends that kept insisting that her sex life with me was not normal and that being married didn't mean she had to tolerate a lifetime of disappointment. While I don't exactly profess to know the exact moment that all clicked for her, she certainly was more than direct when she sat me down to tell me she was going to start seeing other people with or without my blessing. For her it was a done deal and only one choice was left to make...whether I'd stay or go. Her knowing I'm entirely beta and a loser probably allowed her to hedge her bets in what my decision would be prior to even approaching me with all of this but in the end she was right. I stayed. I'm sure that lowered me even further in her eyes in terms of being a man, but I don't regret one second of my choice. I'm free from the shame and the pressures of knowing I'm a sexual failure. That's all someone else's job now. No more embarassment after cumming In under 10 seconds. No more warm cheeks from shame as I see that disappointed expression on her face. Just pure beta bliss for me now and it's better than I could ever have imagined. I love being a beta loser. It was what I was born to be. It's all so clear now.