Slaps And Kisses

Slaps and Kisses

This is one of the rituals that we perform in private to ensure our relationship remains unequal. Sure, slapping a submissive across the face is nothing new, but with us, there is a deeper meaning to it.

I don’t need to slap him hard, as it’s not the physical pain that counts, rather it’s the feeling of power and control I get when slapping his face, and the humility it forces upon him. A gentle backhand with only the flick of my wrist is sufficient. If I am wearing my leather gloves, I will remove one and lightly slap him with it.

When I slap him, I am conveying the message “I own you and can do whatever I damn well please to you”, and for a few months, I actually said the words out loud to him each time to drive that meaning into him with repetition. Now when I slap him, I don’t say it anymore, but in his mind, he hears the message loud and clear.

After slapping him, I hold my hand out to him. His part of the ritual is to feel the humiliation from the slap, and submit. To show his submission, he kisses the hand that slapped him conveying the message “ Yes Ma'am, you own me and I surrender to your control”. When I said my part out loud, he answered me out loud.

When I first created this ritual, I would slap him at random a few times a day just to remind both of us our roles and places in this relationship. It worked great and have expanded on it since.

When we first started, he would take my hand in his while kissing it, but now I have him clasp his wrists behind his back and hold them there instead as it’s a much more submissive and vulnerable pose. He must maintain eye contact with me while kissing the hand that beats him.

Every so often, I may feel that I don’t see enough submission in his eyes and slap him again. If I slap him a second time, he has to get down and kiss my bare feet, or lick the patent leather ballet slippers I tend to wear around the house, as they are comfortable and perfect for licking.

I now use it to control his speech as well. If he says something I find offensive, or is just boring me with what he is saying, a quick backhand across the face shuts him up immediately and he kisses my hand and remains silent until I allow him to speak again.

So, in summation, the ritual is quick, efficient, and gets the point across. I feel powerful as he experiences humility which helps to maintain the inequality we both feel is important in our female-led relationship.

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dangerousangleofadream

3 years ago

Regarding the husband you're seeking, does he have to be dominant in nature? To avoid chastity himself? He'd also have to avoid jealousy, considering the amount of attention you would be giving to other boys' penises? Certainly a tall order... Maybe there's a guy who could give you four kids and like a decade before finally wanting to try it? Although listening to you makes that sound like it'll be difficult!

No, he would not have to be sexually dominant or some sort of “alpha.” But he would have to be one hell of a man.

1) He’d have to be intelligent, able to see through my mental tricks.

2) He’d have to be kind and patient, able to withstand my manipulation without anger.

3) He’d have to be confident as a lion, not jealous or needy…

4) …but humble as a lamb, not threatened by me making more money or being popular with men.

5) He’d have to be reeeealy good with kids, or at least be eager to learn.

6) He’d have to be a good listener, yet not overly swayed by my hypnotic words.

7) He’d have to have a passion, a hobby that drives him to learn, create or discover something that he can do or be that impresses me.

8) That’s all. Notice I didn’t say anything about him being handsome, muscular, popular or rich? Those qualities are vanity traits and uninteresting to me. (Okay, I can be swayed by a cute face. I admit it.)

In theory, if he were in chastity it shouldn’t be a problem. I would be happy to be married to a chaste man. But in practice, men just crumble before me when chaste. So the search continues!

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dangerousangleofadream

7 months ago