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From the amazing and powerful Mistress Rane Lane. She's been like a guide and mentor to me over the years.

"How submission will make a man more attractive.

I will try to explain what I mean by submission making a man more attractive to women. A lot of people in BDSM think that FLR will produce a man who is weak. They fear he'll sound like the Dickens character, Uriah Heep. (not the rock band.) This is not so. As I mentioned, Butler is no longer pretty, or strong, or rich, but women love him.

Some of his attractiveness is that he has been under my heel for over 17 years. All men have a tendency to say the wrong thing, miss a social cue, or be unintentionally rude. Butler had good social skills when I met him but he has been through the fire. I have refined him. He moves through the female world now much more like an older wiser diplomat. Women are charmed by him.

I started thinking about what he has that interests women. For one thing he listens to them. He will turn to a woman, look her in the eye, and completely give her his attention. That is rare. He doesn't interrupt except to ask a question to deepen his understanding of what she is telling him. He is genuinely interested. This makes him utterly disarming. Women tell him secrets.

Also, they see how he treats me. He is not obsequious, but he is always aware of me. If the wind starts blowing, he quietly produces a shawl. If my drink is getting low, a new one finds its way into my hand. Women notice these small gallantries. Also, he knows me. He remembers little things like how I like my coffee, how to order a meal for me if I'm late, etc. He pays attention.

Finally, women hear how he talks about me and they see how he looks at me. When he gazes at me, women see that he completely loves me. A lot of women want to be known and heard and looked at like Butler looks at me. Consequently, women like him.

FLR when it's done correctly makes a man better and more attractive. If I fall off of a cliff, Butler will have a lot of women knocking on his door to comfort him.

Besides, I don't really believe in the concept of beta and alpha males. Butler would be an alpha male in a wilderness survival setting but a complete beta in a video game. Setting often establishes dominance.

Nevertheless, to the extent the beta and alpha males exist, it is clear that while in the vanilla world alphas might enjoy sex with more women, betas enjoy more sex with the same woman. In the final tally underestimated betas often find themselves in more sexual circumstances than the misunderstood alphas. Butler lives in an erotic atmosphere that we have created for him as my servant. It is filled with sexual tension and kink. He lives in the world he wanted. How many alphas end up like that, especially in their latter years?

Submissive male life is wonderful."

You were not one for these large Hollywood social events... or any large social events really. But your wife, Margot, did occasionally force to come along to these.

Lately she made you come along more often. You quickly realized she needed you beside her. She always kept you close by. She seemed enjoy chatting with you more than anyone else.

You looked at the wedding ring around your finger then briefly down toward the chastity cage she'd locked around your cock. Your dick twitched as soon as you looked at it, your whole body started buzzing as your thoughts went to her.

Maybe that's why she enjoyed having you close a lot more. She made you travel with her all the time right after she locked you. Now ever since right before the start of the barbie promo tour, the only time the cage went off was on the airport.

You finished up in the bathroom and went back out to find Margot. You quickly noticed her in the crowd, looking amazing as always and that dress made her so fucking beautiful. It looks like she hadn't noticed you had to take a short break.

You decided you shouldn't get back empty handed and went to the bar first to grab a drink for her.

"Hey... there you are." She immediately noted with a sweet smile when you approached her. You smiled and gave her the drink you had picked up.

"Sorry, needed a quick bathroom break." You apologized. Margot took the drink from you and stepped closer. Her free hand quickly reached between your legs and gave you a good, hard squeeze.

"Nggg.... fffuck." You quietly muttered as pain shot through your body.

"You don't go away from me without telling me, love." She said with a smile keeping a firm grip on your balls.

"S.sorry." You apologized again in a pained voice, Margot squeezed you a little harder.

"S.sorry, Mistress." You quickly corrected before she let go of you. Your body trembled and you took a deep breath.

"That's better. I will have to punish you for this properly when we get to the hotel room tonight."

"Yes, Mistress." You reply, feeling a shiver shoot up your spine. You know a very red bottom for you is coming up.

"Good boy." She called you before taking a sip. She then took you by the hand and back to mingling. When you got home though you quickly were ordered to undress and stand facing the glass windows of the penthouse. Your shivered as you planted your hands on the wall feeling so exposed and vulnerable.

You could hear her walking behind you. "You know you've been a bit naughty today, don't you?" She asked you as you caught a hint of her in the reflection on the window.

"Y.yes, Mistress." You reply.

"Open your mouth." She then ordered you. As soon as you did she slid a gag into your mouth. She then moved to the bed and grabbed a whip.

Your breathing started to quicken as you started to anticipate your punishment. Soon you groaned and bit the gag as the whip struck your ass.

Margot did not go easy on you, striking you again and again leaving your groaning loudly. You constantly bit down on the gag.

Needless to say, after a good hard punishment followed by plenty of aftercare you ended up in bed ready to sleep with your caged cock nestled against her ass.

FEMDOM IDEAS FOR COUPLES

FEMDOM IDEAS

NOTE: The following information is considered Public Domain Information. i do not know the name of the list compiler as i received this information via a mailing list. If You are the owner of this writing and wish to have it removed from this site, please send email indicating the article that you wish to have removed. Thank You. FEMDOMslave Here are some ideas on how to tease, humiliate, punish, and torment Your favorite male submissive. Have fun! This is a list of ideas and activities for Dominant Women to use on their submissive men. i’m posting this list because i hope people will continue to send comments and additions It could be used as a starting point for couples who would like some new ideas… As a basis for various games (a couple rolls of the dice to see where his future lies, spin the wheel… someone mentioned using the daily lottery numbers for determining the ‘punishment of the day’…) Please add Your ideas. Thank You very much. List of Teases: - Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he’ll “Do Anything to please You” - Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on. - Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet. - Have him address You as ‘Mistress’ - Have him kiss Your ass…make him beg to kiss Your ass. - Tie his hands and have him undress You with his mouth/teeth. - Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time. - Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while You read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your shoes. - Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails! - Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever You please. - Show Your slave Your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission. - Tie Your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum. -Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with Your beauty. -Scratch him with Your finger nails. -Tickle him. Pinch his nipples. -Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg. -Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do. -Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises -Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again. - Rub his face against Your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with Your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick You. - Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss Your ass…stay just out of reach. - Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator. - Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He’ll be Your little brown noser and love it. - Make him lick the dildo clean. - Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience. - Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor. - Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well)  

List of Humiliations:  Once he’ll “Do Anything to please You” here’s some ideas that will keep Your slave attentive and in his proper place, and will hopefully be entertaining for You. - Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid. - Make him do housework naked or dressed in women’s clothes. - Have him pamper You, have him: - give You a foot/back/full body massage - give You a pedicure/manicure, - paint Your finger/toe nails. - bathe You/shave your legs. - cook and serve You a nice dinner. - Make him hand wash Your panties and lingerie. - Make him polish Your shoes with his tongue. - Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash, like a dog. - Attach a leash to his balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that. - Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes. - Ride him around as Your pony boy…spurs? a riding crop? - Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him. (don’t forget the fuck-me red lipstick!) - Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly. - Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don’t let him, punish him if he does. - Make him screw himself with a dildo. - Make him earn his rewards; for example: - Allow him to kiss Your ass after the dishes are done. - 1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of Yours.  5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes You cum 5 times.  Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to make You cum. - If You think he’s earned an orgasm, make him cum on Your feet or Your ass and then make him lick You clean. - Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until You give him permission. When You give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all. (keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as You want) - If he’s really horny and bothering You, You may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner… 3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time. - Always make him lick You clean after sex. - When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive. - Lock a padlock on his balls. - Give him a golden shower. - Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him. Punish him if You don’t think it’s good enough. Make him post it to the net (and send it to me to add to the list) List of Punishments:  If he’s not performing to Your satisfaction, or You just feel the need to assert Your right to punish Your slave. - Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hair brush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails…) - Tie him in an uncomfortable position. - Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them. - Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together) - Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists. - In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable. - Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs. - Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage. - Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever. - Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on. - Enema. - Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels. - Deny him orgasms for a long period of time. - Have him lick You clean after you pee. - Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples. - Drip candle wax on him. - Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics, yoga…) - Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie

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