dask-s-folly
This is where I dump things I made or steps of projects I work in
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I love being transgender and I'll never stop.
Today was scary but raising 3k with my sister and being with my girlfriend filled me with hope. I love being transgender and I'll never stop.
Reference sheet of my silly little gurl!
A beautiful duet. This was kinda my last idea for Amber Isle fanart, so I'll change tracks for a bit, but im surely to visit it again!
Are you gonna buy something or did you just came in for a stroll??? (also, clean your feet next time)
Im really liking amber isle, I like to think that my paleosona is nice... but she might have to practice on her patience a bit (tho if you had your 3rd customer come in a break a thing on a day, you would be pissed too) ~~she is totally not head over heels over Adi~~
Been having a good time on Amber Isle. Being totally normal about Adi. Decided to draw the two best mayor advisors around.
Im also playing a lot of Workers and Resources: Soviet Republic, so... one more member I guess
Anyone needs a boss melted?
Man, they nerfed Lunafaction??? I've only played destiny for a short while, between forsaken and the season of opulence, but my favorite combo was always Merciless + Lunafaction. Who needs Whispers when you have these two?
Im WAY happier with this drawing than with the rest of my inktober ones, but those where experimental and took like... i dunno, a quarter of the time of this one
So, I had a great day today... buuuut i kinda ran out of time to draw, so I made this thing hella quick. Not really proud, I really dont like "painting" so ill stick to lineart from now on.
This is Monica, my current dnd character, she is a druid from a homebrew circle that can turn into aberrations, and... well, have you ever made a really cool idea for a character, and then 4 or 5 sessions in... you realize that you accidentally made Alex Mercer? yeeee....
Gonna try Inktober this year, gonna do mostly sketches and not full art as im slow as heck drawing. This was supposed to take one hour and it took like 4. And its a bit rushed.
Anyway, this is my shark farmer that I made in Stardew Valley using the anthro farmer mod. I got really attached to the character to upgrade her to a full OC. And while it was SV, a game I love... In my heart, I will always be a Harvest Moon girl.
Im doing a blender course, and one of the modules was about making a Dinosaur. I... went a bit off topic, and made a fully dragon Ariel. The first time I accidentally set the rendering with cycles to use the cpu, and it gave me a remaining time of 4hs, lol.
Monica! My new DnD character, a tiny mewling that is totally 100% completely normal, nothing weird with her!
This was also my first time animating, and it was way easier than expected, and fun! I hope to animate things more in the future.
Cris the Moth!
A friend encouraged to make a moth, so, i decided to get a burger, and when I came back, @bun0nthemoon had posted a pic of their moth was eating a burger... it was a sign! I had to do this
while coloring, I pasted a ref on the wrong layer... and wow, this is me when i get to eat a burger:
me
thoughts
I've been needing to read something like this. This made me so hopeful.
Hey, allo anon with an ace partner here. I wanted to say thank you so much for the well wishes! I figured I would send this in here again, so anyone else who is curious about what this experience looks like from the other side can see it.
My girlfriend came out to me a little over 2 years into our relationship. At the time it surprised me a lot, because she'd never given me any signs that she wasn't enjoying what we were doing. After we talked more I understood that she wasn't repulsed by sex and she didn't hate it, but she didn't really love it either and wanted to stop doing it for a while (so a sex-neutral ace).
Honestly, at the time, I did get anxious about it. Not just because of social conventions, but because I had viewed sex as an important bonding part of our relationship. I don't do well with change, and I was super worried about how a lack of sex would change our dynamic. I also had some insecurities about my own body, and my girlfriend admitting that she didn't see me as sexy was upsetting. But after speaking to my therapist, I realized that I was projecting my own issues on to the relationship. So I spoke with her again, and she reassured me that she wanted to be with me, and that she was confiding these feelings because she trusted me. She likes how I look, she just doesn't have the same sexual impulses I do.
So, I realized this was pretty much like cuddling. I love physical touch a lot, and I want to cuddle for a much longer time than she does. I like it when someone lies on top of me. She doesn't want me on top of her chest during cuddling. She still cuddles with me, but she tells me when she's satisfied, and we stop.
A few months went by, and I noticed that she wasn't spending any less time with me; she was actually spending more. We would still call every evening when we didn't meet up in person, we would still joke around, and she still told me she loved me and did everything she could to show it to me. We also began trying out new stuff together, and playing games and watching stuff more often. We also still had plenty of physical intimacy with things like cuddling and kissing, which made me really happy.
I realized that I didn't feel like anything was missing from the relationship. I just needed her to show and tell me she loved me in the ways she normally did. Sure, I am still attracted to her that way, but it wasn't something that would make or break the relationship.
It's been years since she came out, and at this point, I never expect anything sexual. It happens rarely, and I always check in with her multiple times before and during. We stop at any point she tells me. There are quite a few hard boundaries about what is and isn't off limits, and I always keep them in mind. I would rather satisfy myself forever than make her uncomfortable, and she knows it.
It's been over 5 years and we are still going strong. I am hoping to ask her to marry me in the next few years, because honestly, I can't picture wanting anyone else by my side. She is kind, funny, beautiful, intelligent, and treats me well. I could never ask for anything more from a partner.
Thank you SO MUCH for sharing. I myself definitely lack knowledge of what it feels like from an allo's perspective, so this was very educational for me, but beyond that... You have no idea how much hope this gives me.
From you being aware of how much sex meant to you in the context of your relationship and still being fine without it, to just... Heck, even your therapist for not blaming her for the situation. Therapy is still very much, in my country at least, an area where the absence or lower levels of sexual attraction will be hastily labelled as something wrong physically or mentally, so... Yeah, the amount of relief I felt reading that, you have no idea. And I can only imagine how much your partner appreciates it too.
Honestly I teared up a bit reading this - I sincerely wish you guys all the best and I hope you have a bright future ahead! (Also fun fact, seems you guys have been together as long as my partner and I have, it's nice to be able to relate to that too hehe^^)
cant, only cops came, i wont speak to cops
about to get into a psy ward, im scared
about to get into a psy ward, im scared
This is so true
me coming out to my mom for the 4th time
Completed on Dec. 24th. 2023 Spent all night working on this! Happy I got it done and drew something, especially of me no less!
#Moomin
freedom at last :)
tsunami and a seal ^_^
[Image ID: Tsunami from Wings Of Fire swimming underwater, facing the surface, smiling and reaching and towards a seal. End ID]
Self-affirmation, uh, finds a way