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oh, hey, just saw you are streaming! could you make a casper Plush for Flethermouse? this is her character, Casper https://toyhou.se/13042015.casper https://www.furaffinity.net/user/fleder-maus/

Live stream time. Going to be streaming for 2 hours today so come and join! If you want to see a character sculpted reblog this post with a full body colored ref and ill put it on the list.

Live Stream: https://www.twitch.tv/yeeshastone/about

I've been needing to read something like this. This made me so hopeful.

Hey, allo anon with an ace partner here. I wanted to say thank you so much for the well wishes! I figured I would send this in here again, so anyone else who is curious about what this experience looks like from the other side can see it.

My girlfriend came out to me a little over 2 years into our relationship. At the time it surprised me a lot, because she'd never given me any signs that she wasn't enjoying what we were doing. After we talked more I understood that she wasn't repulsed by sex and she didn't hate it, but she didn't really love it either and wanted to stop doing it for a while (so a sex-neutral ace).

Honestly, at the time, I did get anxious about it. Not just because of social conventions, but because I had viewed sex as an important bonding part of our relationship. I don't do well with change, and I was super worried about how a lack of sex would change our dynamic. I also had some insecurities about my own body, and my girlfriend admitting that she didn't see me as sexy was upsetting. But after speaking to my therapist, I realized that I was projecting my own issues on to the relationship. So I spoke with her again, and she reassured me that she wanted to be with me, and that she was confiding these feelings because she trusted me. She likes how I look, she just doesn't have the same sexual impulses I do.

So, I realized this was pretty much like cuddling. I love physical touch a lot, and I want to cuddle for a much longer time than she does. I like it when someone lies on top of me. She doesn't want me on top of her chest during cuddling. She still cuddles with me, but she tells me when she's satisfied, and we stop.

A few months went by, and I noticed that she wasn't spending any less time with me; she was actually spending more. We would still call every evening when we didn't meet up in person, we would still joke around, and she still told me she loved me and did everything she could to show it to me. We also began trying out new stuff together, and playing games and watching stuff more often. We also still had plenty of physical intimacy with things like cuddling and kissing, which made me really happy.

I realized that I didn't feel like anything was missing from the relationship. I just needed her to show and tell me she loved me in the ways she normally did. Sure, I am still attracted to her that way, but it wasn't something that would make or break the relationship.

It's been years since she came out, and at this point, I never expect anything sexual. It happens rarely, and I always check in with her multiple times before and during. We stop at any point she tells me. There are quite a few hard boundaries about what is and isn't off limits, and I always keep them in mind. I would rather satisfy myself forever than make her uncomfortable, and she knows it.

It's been over 5 years and we are still going strong. I am hoping to ask her to marry me in the next few years, because honestly, I can't picture wanting anyone else by my side. She is kind, funny, beautiful, intelligent, and treats me well. I could never ask for anything more from a partner.

Thank you SO MUCH for sharing. I myself definitely lack knowledge of what it feels like from an allo's perspective, so this was very educational for me, but beyond that... You have no idea how much hope this gives me.

From you being aware of how much sex meant to you in the context of your relationship and still being fine without it, to just... Heck, even your therapist for not blaming her for the situation. Therapy is still very much, in my country at least, an area where the absence or lower levels of sexual attraction will be hastily labelled as something wrong physically or mentally, so... Yeah, the amount of relief I felt reading that, you have no idea. And I can only imagine how much your partner appreciates it too.

Honestly I teared up a bit reading this - I sincerely wish you guys all the best and I hope you have a bright future ahead! (Also fun fact, seems you guys have been together as long as my partner and I have, it's nice to be able to relate to that too hehe^^)

Cris the Moth!

A friend encouraged to make a moth, so, i decided to get a burger, and when I came back, @bun0nthemoon had posted a pic of their moth was eating a burger... it was a sign! I had to do this

while coloring, I pasted a ref on the wrong layer... and wow, this is me when i get to eat a burger:

its me :)

i've never had a proper sona representing me before but pretty much all of my friends have one so I figured id finally make one for myself

OC by Capypara, Drawing by Fledermouse

Finally got some free time to do a live stream today! Consider sliding by and getting your character sculpted live!

link to stream: https://youtu.be/VC9JQgbZwNQ

to submit your character simply reblog this post with a full body, colored ref and be available in the stream for any follow up questions!

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Hey everyone, meet Team Fable! from my hacked run of PMD:EoS! We have, Pooch the Poochyena, Hazel the Mareep, and Neffy the Swablu.

Pooch's and Neffy's models by Jav Papercraft (Poochyena - Swablu) Hazel's model by Brandon from Paperpokes (Mareep)

I modded the rom to start with Poochyena and Mareep, and it took me like a week, 2 months later SkyTemple got released and made the process trivial ¬¬. As characters, they are... ok, they are good but the move pool sucks till after the evolutions, and I kinda hate that in this game you kinda need a pokemon exclusively to have the Friendly IQ, but Altaria is awesome in any shape.

Team Fable

Pooch the Poochyena (Human) - Sky Blue Bow

Poochyena was the first model I assembled! and way before getting the idea of making my pmd teams. I choose him because he was mostly gray and wasn't sure if painting them in crayons was a good look.

Hazel the Mareep (Partner) - X-Ray Specs

I love this model, it's my fave, i really liked how solid it feels but it does look fluffy, and very in model. I had to increase the size as the og model was half the size, and I kiiiinda overdid it, but i love how big she looks around the other models. Oh, and when taking the photos forgot to add the xray specs ¬¬

Neffy the Swablu (Recruit) - Friend Bow

Wait, swablu has a tail? i learned that whit this model, i think this was my fastest model to assembly, its both easy and small. Not much else.

been sitting on this one for a WHILE

tsunami and a seal ^_^

[Image ID: Tsunami from Wings Of Fire swimming underwater, facing the surface, smiling and reaching and towards a seal. End ID]