In My Home City, Oh To Have Been Lucky Enough To Be There 😂

I didn’t really want to go in at first. It ended up being the first time I watched her with another guy. Of all the experiences we’ve had, it is still my favourite.

Dares Completed

I wrote in my last post below about Louise raising my bucket list and her little game that resulted in her saying I can pick ten more items and she will commit to doing at least six of them in the next six months. In reality, my “bucket list” is nothing more than a compilation of dares copied from here on tumblr. My favourite 100 if you like. Some are copied directly, some have been slightly modified and there is just a few that I actually wrote myself.

This is the list of those dares that Louise has actually done. It probably looks like she is a raging exhibitionist and super experienced hotwife. Let me just say that is absolutely not the case. Whilst the hotwife thing pretty much exploded into something huge in a short time, it actually took over twenty years from the first time I mentioned my fantasy and over four years from the time we seriously talked about it. She had tried via dating sites but just couldn’t bring herself to do it, not until an unexpected blowjob one night for her friend Tom.

Even just the sexy dares are very few and far between, the list of completed ones below is all there is to tell. She is actually super shy, and really not confident of showing her body. She still will absolutely not go braless anywhere apart from around the home. She still struggles to wear a sexy bikini anywhere apart from when we’re away on holiday, she is almost terrified of bumping into someone we know if she wears one.

She’s been married once before, to a very controlling and jealous guy. He would freak out if another guy so much as looked at her, the thought of wearing something sexy when he was around just never happened. He was also very picky about her appearance, telling her things like her boobs were too saggy after having her first child. Although we have broken down most of those things I am sure they still play on her mind, at least sub-consciously. There is no doubt having sex with other guys has given her confidence an enormous boost. I think Grant has especially done that, he is quite a bit younger and to have had him lusting after her, telling her lots of dirty things he wants to do to her sexy body and the like has given her a boost that I could not give. There’s nothing like hearing it from another guy I guess.

But then, just occasionally and even before Tom, the dormant, naughty Louise would come out. I would often see and experience it for myself after a few margaritas or white wines and, over the last four or five years, see glimpses without the help from a little bit of alcohol. Louise has always had a thing for massages, in her own words she just loves to be touched. Our first real dirty little secret occurred when I organised an interstate trip for a tantric massage for her. It wasn’t perfect, but the guy did fill her with compliments and he did have a hard on for the whole massage, all of which helped her self-esteem. Whilst nothing else remotely sexual happened for another few years, there was a noticeable change in her “sexiness”, especially over the summer and in the way she dressed. Suddenly, and thankfully, cleavage started to become normal as did shorter dresses.

I should also say Louise has loved going to the nude beach for several years now, for a long time it was the one and only thing where I’d get a chance to show off my sexy wife. She started off still being pretty demure about it all, we’d walk forever to get past the crowd and she’d get really uncomfortable when guys got close. Those barriers are well and truly gone now, she no longer cares who or how many people are around or what they see, there has even been a few special times when she had made sure a lucky guy has gotten to see all the goods.

So here’s the cut from my 100, the list of 49 completed bucket list items (haha, I did not know we were so close to fifty!).

Wear short dresses with sexy underwear

Wear short dresses without underwear

Wear a dress that is slightly see through, with sexy underwear

Wear a dress that is slightly see through with no underwear

- these are all regular occurrences, she often wear dresses like this now. I actually really like the slightly see through ones with her sexy underwear. We went shopping at a big Ikea store once, after the beach. She had on a white dress that was just a bit see through, with a black bikini bottom underneath. I pulled the bikini bottom up high, up her bum so it looked cheeky and she walked around the shop like that for a while, it was very sexy to me. She wears the same dress without underwear, or a bikini, underneath but it actually isn’t anywhere near as noticeable as something sexy and contrasting. I’m working on getting her to wear her red thong bikini underneath it one day, with a stop at the shops planned on the way home. Wish me luck.

Wear a short, loose or split skirt/dress on a breezy day with sexy underwear

- this happened just once, way before any dares or the like ever happened. We went out for lunch and she was wearing a long dress that has a big split right up the side (I loved that dress, it was very sexy). The wind caught it and blew the front of it right open, fortunately for me right as two guys were approaching us. Louise got all embarrassed and held on to the dress tightly for the rest of the walk to our car, I thought it was super hot. It was also well before she knew any details about my big fantasies but, that day, she did get some confirmation that I love her dressing sexy.

Wear a dress that is very see through, with no underwear - twice

- The first time was at a hotel while we were on holiday, she took her wet bikini off (that was naughty and sexy in itself) and walked to our room just wearing a very, very see through black cover up. We passed two gardeners who definitely would have gotten a good look.

- The second time was after a morning at the nude beach, she has a short, flowery black dress that she sometimes wear. She was washing her feet under an outdoor shower, the way the sunlight was made her dress very see through, she had no bikini bottoms on and her pussy could be very clearly seen. There was people everywhere too, mostly guys, one stood watching her waiting for the shower, he had to have seen. I actually had no idea the dress was so see through and made the mistake of telling her (ha ha), now she won’t wear that one to the nude beach in case we see someone we know on the way back to our car. I should clarify that the nude beach is a walk along the sand from a popular, public beach. We have to come back past the main beach and then into the big car park, there’s usually heaps of people around.

Go very see through on the balcony

- she has done this twice, once during the same holiday as the see through walk mentioned above, we were on the second floor and the same gardeners were working just below us. She wore the same see through cover up while leaning against the rail, having a glass of wine.

- The first time was a couple of years earlier, holidaying at the same place actually. It was probably the very first real and deliberate exhibitionist type thing she ever did. We were in a ground floor room and she went outside to hang towels on a rack, wearing just a very sheer, white cover up. I told her how sexy it was and was pleasantly surprised when she came out with drinks and nibbles. We sat on the ground floor balcony for a couple of hours and an older guy in the room next to us even joined us for a beer. She didn’t stand up while he was there but he could very clearly see her boobs. She got really turned on and fucked me wildly before we showered to go to dinner that night.

Open your legs for an up skirt flash, wearing sexy underwear - twice

- an Uber driver got to see this one night, I completely missed it but she told me about it when we got inside.

- the second time happened last summer, it was one of her real take me by surprise moments. We went to my longest and “bestest” mate’s place for afternoon drinks one hot afternoon, another friend and his wife were also there. Louise wore a little summer dress, with underwear one (a fairly conservative bra but with a sexy pair of high cut panties). Us three guys were in the pool when she came over and sat on the edge, with her lower legs in the water. As she sat down, I got a really good upskirt view and I felt fairly sure that either two might have too. The same happened when she got up to get another drink, and again when she sat down again. That time, after getting a drink, the other two girls also came and sat on the edge of the pool (they were wearing shorts), I thought Louise was being a bit careless, or maybe just carefree, as she was making no attempt to stop her panties from being seen. She had her legs parting as she swirled the water with her feet, she even had her knees tucked up under her chin for a bit there. I doubt the other girls would have seen or even noticed but, from the pool itself, us three guys couldn’t have missed it. When we got home, I told her what we were seeing and that I thought it was very sexy, expecting that she didn’t actually know how much of a show she was putting on. But no, I learned it was all very deliberate and for my benefit, she even asked if I noticed how H kept going back to right in front of her and that she thought he even gave up on trying to not get noticed looking. Yeah, it was very hot.

Flash your ass to another man in public

Flash your pussy to another man in public

Open your legs for an up skirt flash, no underwear

- these three all happened when I had my fuel incident, written about in an earlier post here.

Drive or sit in the passenger seat bottomless

Get naked in the car and show off to truckers

- she has done these two several times, the first time a trucker saw her naked in the car was the fuel incident day, it was what got her turned on and made the big exhibition event happen. Going bottomless, or pulling her dress up is a regular occurrence. There was one time we felt sure she got seen too, by an old guy who walked up to the side of our car, to cross the road in front of where I had stopped. It wasn’t intentional, she was just sitting cross legged with her dress pulled right up, neither of us were paying attention and didn’t even notice the old guy until he did a double take and looked straight in through the front windscreen. I hope he enjoyed it.

Wear a Brazilian cut bikini bottom at a public pool or beach

- she has several cheeky bikini bottoms but she actually won’t wear them in public very often, normally just when we’re away on holiday (her fear of being seen by some we know stop it from being regular). The few times she has done it, when on holiday, have been sexy highlights for me. One of the times was when we were lying around a resort pool on sun lounges, I was coming back from getting drinks and she was lying on her stomach wearing her sexy red thing bikini. A passing guy did the full head turn thing as he walked on by her, I loved telling her about it whilst she sipped that margarita!

Get changed at back of car

- she did this at the beach one day, when we got back to the car, changing from a bikini and cover up into a pair of shorts, bra and t-shirt. Unfortunately, there was nobody around but she did get fully naked.

Go nude on the balcony

A pic of her bare boobs pressed against glass. Balcony? Elevator? Shop window? Fridge section of a grocery store?

- she came close enough with these two during one of little weekend away type holidays. I got the boobs on the window photo from our balcony after dinner one night and then, the next morning, got one of her fully naked on the balcony folding up the towels. It was very early in the morning and I don’t think she got seen but still, it was fun.

Get the mail naked

- there was no mail to get but one night, after a couple of margaritas, she did walk to the mail box and back, completely naked.

Skinny dip in the pool when friends are around

- paid this one after she skinny dipped in my mate Steve’s pool, which led to more than just a skinny dip that night.

Send sexy photos to another man

- she sent bikini shots to Tom well before they ever properly got together.

- She sent the same shots to a guy we met through some dog training we were doing, I actually though, for a while, that there was a chance she might have sex with him. He would have been the first but it didn’t eventuate.

Go to a nude beach and spread your legs to give all the men full visual access.

- this is almost a common occurrence now. It was one of her dares the first time it happened. Then, a couple of times, I asked her to do it when a particular guy used to come and sit near us. She has probably done it, or bent over in front of a guy, at least another half a dozen times now without me asking. That’s the deliberate times, I’m not counting the incidental stuff that happens when you’re naked on the beach, just when she has very deliberately given someone the full show.

Sext someone

- she did some mild sexting with the dog training guy, she told him she would make him tap out if they ever got together in a bedroom and said something about how her oral skills would be something new for him (there had been blowjob inferences in what they were talking about at the time).

- she did some really dirty stuff when she was trying the adult dating profile thing, with two guys that she thought about taking things further with (before she got cold feet). She very explicitly talked about sucking their cocks and how she would love to taste their cum. One of the guys asked where he could put his “big Italian cock” and she told him no holes were off limits, she even told him something like “yes, I would love to feel your big bare cock cumming in my arse.”

Openly talk dirty to another man on the phone in front of your husband.

- she did this with Grant one night before he came home for a weekend (she really was quite dirty too).

Be spanked by someone

- Grant and her regular massage guy have both done this for her, it is something she has always loved.

Talk dirty in the bedroom, tell me what he’s doing to you.

- this used to be a sometimes fantasy thing, before anything real actually happened. (Now it happens frequently and a lot of what she says is real).

Get a lap dance from a female stripper

- we did this nearly a year ago, the last time we went away for a few nights. She had a sensual massage, with one orgasm, in the afternoon then we went to a strip club the night. Louise had a private dance with one of the girls, one she thought had the sexiest arse ever. Then we sat by the stage and paid a bit extra for two girls to get it all off right in front of us.

Another guy gives you a nude massage.

- has happened with four different guys now, one was actually very early in our marriage, but it was non-sexual.

Another guy gives you a nude, sensual massage. With orgasms.

- I have lost count of how many individual times this has happened but she has done it with three different guys, just once with two of them, then heaps of times with her now regular, local guy.

- I am hoping for a repeat visit to the second guy this summer, with more to happen this time.

Touch or hold your masseur’s dick, through his jeans is ok but not preferred.

- this happened a fair bit with the first massage guy, she held and squeezed his bare dick after he basically put it in her hand. Interestingly, she didn’t actually tell me about that bit for many months, she was too worried I’d be jealous and get angry.

- she felt the second guy’s hard on, against her arm but didn’t touch it herself.

- her regular guy is usually naked and she does more than just hold his dick.

Suck your masseur’s dick.

- this has only happened with her regular guy.

- still hoping for it to happened with the second guy if/when we head interstate and include a visit with him again.

Have sex with your masseur

- as above, it has only happened with her regular guy. There isn’t much they haven’t done now too, except for something mentioned below.

Make out with someone

- well, that has happened with four guys now

Give a hand job

- Grant, Tom and the regular massage guy have all had hand jobs. I would love there to be someone, maybe a stranger, that it is the only thing she does with him.

Receive oral sex from someone else, double points if I get to watch

- all four guys have enjoying going down on Louise, I have watched it with three (not the masseur).

Give oral sex to someone else, double points if I get to watch

- ditto, I have seen it with the three.

Send texts telling your husband what another man is doing to you

- maybe not quite to the letter of this one but she has texted me, between fucks, to tell me what Grant has been doing to her.

Spit roast - suck one cock while getting fucked by another

- she has done this with Grant and Tom, with Grant and me, and with Steve and me.

Do anal with someone other than your husband

- both Tom and Grant have been lucky enough to do this. Tom has done it twice, I don’t know how many times with Grant now but I’d guess at least three or four. She said the first time with Grant was quite scary, as he’s big, but she was surprised how quickly she relaxed and started to enjoy it. It is now something we do far more regularly that we ever did before, I especially love doing it when she has her vibrator on her clit. Feeling her orgasm while I’m in her ass is pretty amazing.

Don't clean up before letting your husband fuck you after getting fucked

- yeah, ok, this has happened plenty of times now. After all four guys actually. It used to be something she said she couldn’t understand and, even if she did ever sex with another guy, she didn’t want me to have “sloppy seconds.” I can’t help it if my dick gets really hard after she has been fucking someone can I?

Jerk a man off in a hot tub across from your husband

- I paid this one because it has happened in Grant’s swimming pool. Close enough. She gave him a full handjob (making him cum) while I sat next to them and watched.

Fuck another guy with your husband watching

- I have watched her with Grant and with Steve a couple of times

Fuck two other men with your husband watching

- Just the once. With Grant, Tom and I taking turns and them doing it to her together while I watched.

Go on a vacation with another man for sexual adventures - text and send pics to hubby at home

- paid this one as she had a dirty weekend away with Grant once. I got some dirty texts but no pics. It’s another thing she is paranoid of, the boys accidentally intercepting naughty pics or them sharing across our cloud accounts.

Have bareback sex with someone

- all four guys have done this now.

Have someone cum inside you.

- as above, all four guys have done this

Find a boyfriend for regular sex

- Tom would have fit in this category.

Try dp

-she first did this twice with Tom and Grant before I got to experience it.

- the first time was with Tom in her ass then, later that same day, the other way around.

Do something sexual that you’ve never done with your husband.

- per the dp above one, I had only dreamt of this before she did it with Tom and Grant.

- this dare is one that I can put out there again, now that I have been lucky enough to do the dp thing too!

Sucking two guys

- I don’t believe she has tried to get two into her mouth at the same time but I have watched her take turns on Tom and Grant as they sat side by side on the edge of Grant’s pool and again, in his bedroom, as she knelt in from of them.

And that is it, for now at least. Finding some new sexual dares, to include in the ten, is going to be tricky. she has now done almost everything I could have ever dreamed of.

Finally, here’s the other 51. I need to pick my next top ten soon.

Wear a dress that is very see through, with sexy underwear

Go braless in public

Go braless in public while wearing something a bit see through

Flash your boobs to another man in public

Wear a thong bikini at a public pool or beach

Wear a sexy bikini top, preferably too small

Take sexy or nude photos in public places, upskirt, bend over, flashing

Wear a bikini that goes see through when wet, then get wet

Wear a very small or micro bikini

Give a down blouse view without a bra on

Answer the door wearing something sexy

Answer the door in just a t shirt and sexy undies

Answer the door topless

Answer the door bottomless

Answer the door in a towel

Answer the door in a towel and drop it

Give the landscapers/repair men a show (I could probably almost pay this, given that she did go braless under a t shirt once, something she just never does)

Go topless in the hot tub when friends are around

Go nude in the hot tub when friends are around

Send nude photos to another man

Get a small risqué tattoo, or one in a private place

Change into your bikini at the beach, you must be a little bit careless

Stay topless on the beach for a while

Change into your bikini at the beach, it can be quick but make no effort to cover up

Do a nude walk, outside somewhere where there is some chance of being seen

Perform the hallway challenge

Go topless on the balcony

Pantyless in restaurant, short dress, one that is risky

Same as above but flash the waiter

Submit a sexy review photo to an online shopping site

Naked in hotel spa

Let a guy feel your boobs, clothes on

Let a guy squeeze your arse, clothes on

Let a guy feel your bare boobs

Let a guy squeeze your bare arse

Let someone finger you

Have sex with a stranger

Send a picture of you holding a big cock

A female gives you a nude, sensual massage. With orgasms.

I watch a guy give you a sensual massage

Have a threesome with another man and another woman

Make husband lick your clit while another man fucks your pussy (I’m not sure I actually want to do this, at the time I picked it to be a little controversial).

Have someone cum on you and pic for hubby

Give someone a blowjob and pic for hubby

Have someone take naked pics of you on their bed and send to hubby

Shower with someone and Skype it for hubby

Have sex with more guys since you've been married than you had sex with before

Have sex on a boat

Be a unicorn for another couple

Go down on another woman

Have an MFF threesome while I watch (there is no point in even listing one where I participate).

Thinking back to about three weeks ago and I was on the verge of deleting this whole blog. It felt stupid, it felt wrong and I guess I figured I was just done talking about the fun things. I wrote a whiny post, but deleted that before it even went up. I suppose I’m glad I didn’t now. For one, it has become a bit of a record of the fun we’ve had, then it touched on something that has taken some working through and now, thankfully, I have several more things that I want to write.

I really want to tell the more real side of what happened with J, as I said my last post was a blend of my overactive imagination and what really happened. I am also dying to get down a little bit about something they (Louise and J) have talked about, something I still don’t really believe she will do. I am fast learning not to underestimate a couple of things though - her capacity to surprise me and her out of this world, exploding sex drive.

None of that relates to her earlier affair by the way, that’s another topic. There is probably just one more thing, on that topic, that I’ll touch on sometime.

But first, and what I’ll get on with here, is something we talked about last night. She had actually started the conversation about a week ago, when she said something like if I was truthful I would admit that I think the sluttier she is the better. Something like that. We weren’t exactly in looking ahead mode at that time, it was more of a “told you so” kind of thing to say. Last night was different.

She told me about the thing her and J had been discussing again, I asked her if she was seriously considering it. She didn’t exactly answer me, as is her way. Instead she used it to turn around the conversation, so that she could ask me some questions. We had already booked our little May getaway and we had already gone past the point where we had decided neither of us wanted things to stop. She started to ask me how far was too far, under the guise of “understanding my limits,” she said. I said there was some sick stuff that was definitely way past my interest limit, I made her laugh and then nearly made her gag with a couple of them, that part was fun.

I did say that I like to think I would try my hardest, my very hardest, to do anything she really wanted to do. After all, she has been living out my wildest fantasies, I feel a bit of payback would be warranted. I guess she was really trying to understand a few things though, she did want to explore limits.

“Ok, would you suck Tom’s dick if I asked you to?”

I said I’d prefer not to and, besides, I know full well he wouldn’t have me within a foot of it. Maybe even further.

“Right, what about Grant’s? Or someone else’s?”

If I had to strap on a lie detector and state my choice, then I would choose to suck a dick before I let one anywhere near my arse. So that’s what I told her.

“That’s a yes then,” she said.

“Ok, if your life depended on it then yes, it’d be a yes. But I’d still rather you put a drawing pin in my nipple.”

I figured she’d laugh at that, but she just looked more thoughtful. It was almost scary.

“What about a strap on, me doing you with one that is?”

I sighed, deliberately and loudly. “Sure, as long as it was a small one.”

“Ok then,” she said, exaggerating the look of taking mental notes on that one. I am confident she won’t do it by the way. I’ll keep telling myself that too.

She got a bit serious for a few minutes then. She asked me about another woman, if I wanted to be with one. For the umpteenth time I said no.

“Not even for a bit of revenge?” she asked. “I would hate it but I will let you if you want to.”

It’s not what I want. I reiterated my usual stance, I don’t want that. I did add, as I have done from time to time, unless it was a threesome with you and another woman and you wanted it.

“Not happening.”

I already knew that.

She went a bit quiet for a while, obviously thinking of the hurt stuff. I figured patience and quiet was my best option at that stage.

“I’m sorry babe,” she said after a short while. “I had more.”

She got my best impression of a sexy, reassuring smile in return.

She asked me if i remembered the afternoon in the pool, the day with Tom, Grant and I. I assured that yes, I totally and absolutely remember it.

“Does three guys count as a gang bang?”

My phone was handy, I actually searched for “how many giys needed for a gamg bang.” Thankfully, google figured out what I meant. I was able to inform her that Quora, Reddit and even Wikipedia seemed to agree that three or more guys, with one woman, would indeed be deemed a gang bang.

“Ha,” she said, “so I’ve had a gang bang.”

“And you’ve been in one too,” she added a few seconds later.

She was thinking about something, I was very fucking intrigued. I waited.

“Different question then… umm (she was hesitant)… how many guys would you think are too many… you know, to gang bang me?”

“Twenty five,” I said, without the slightest bit of hesitation. You should have seen how wide her eyes went.

“Really… twenty fucking five. Twenty fucking five would be too many.”

“Yeah, I think so babe, well and truly.”

The penny dropped.

“Righto, smarty pants. How many is one too many then?”

I couldn’t think of any trick ways to answer the question when it was put that way. So I told her my truth, I said I don’t really know. I said more than three is clearly fine, “hot as fuck” I added.

“Any number where they stand around, go for a beer or a sleep, come back for seconds feels like too many.”

I actually didn’t want to say, I really wanted to hear where she was going with this, what her limits would look like. I desperately didn’t want to ruin the chances of hearing her real number by saying something lower. I stalled, I ummed and I avoided answering.

“How about ten then, is that too many?”

The look on her face suggested she was hoping I’d say it was, at least that was how I read it.

“Fuck babe, it does feel like a lot to me, when I think about it. If you really wanted to go that far we could talk about it I guess.” It does actually feel a bit too far out there but I didn’t want to slam the door shut.

“Eight?”

“Eight, ten, what’s the difference?” I asked.

“Good,” she said. Clearly I had said something right there. Not all that intentionally I might add.

Haha, she hasn’t read these posts for a long time by the way. I just send her the really hot memes and screen shots of other sexy stuff.

“What are you thinking?” I asked, I figured I’d treaded water enough by then.

“Yeah, something like that too. Four or maybe even five might be fun.”

“Six?” I asked. I suddenly wanted to know if there was actually a hard limit on this thing. I believed I had also figured out where this was coming from. Finally, it should have been obvious actually, it was from her conversations with J.

“Possibly… if they were all sexy… and they’d have to be gentle.”

She meant so she wouldn’t get too sore, at first I wasn’t certain that was it, so I checked. Sorry, guy thing, just making sure I understood.

This is getting long now, but it has been fun to write. She didn’t ask me any more questions, we kinda lost track of that part of our conversation. We did, however, get back onto the being slutty part of the conversation, once she established that a gang bang with, say, three or four guys (she toned it down a little), unfortunately none of whom would be me, would not be considered too slutty by me.

To wrap this up, it all led to her telling me that she liked my little lists. First she said she is absolutely going to do everything left on that list, I haven’t said anything but I am dying to know if she even remembers that list includes an FFM threesome. Surely she has forgotten.

Anyway, she said she will do the rest of the list and will add things to get it back to a total of ten. Wow. She actually has six to go, but I feel like I want to say a couple more have been done, just to see what she would add to the list herself. I asked her how she felt about me doing a new list as well, she could tell I was thinking of almost evil things for her to do. She is very fearful of being arrested you know!

So, now I wait. If I know my Louise, this list will take a long time to write. I actually shouldn’t even get my hopes up, it may not ever even happen. Fingers crossed.

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This is an interesting post. I firmly believe in an “each to his own” type of situation and understand that some husbands and “bulls” want it this way. For us though, it would be highly unlikely that these kinds of guys would even get close to the bedroom with Louise. Still, I feel like offering a different perspective to a few of these comments, the husband’s perspective, according to me.

1. I like fucking a married woman if her husband has no idea etc. If it was us, you might think I have no idea but rest assured it would all be part of our fun. We have no intention of ever mistreating or misleading any guy but if, for some reason, you ever got there you would not be the one in control.

2. I like watching the faces of husbands etc. I imagine this would be valid in any kind of dynamic. I can well imagine how my face looks and, especially, how it looked the first time I saw. Some kind of mix of elation, anguish, excitement and maybe even a bit of confusion perhaps.

3. Irrelevant.

4. Unlikely that you’d be the one doing the seducing. If, by chance, you were Louise would still be the one in control.

5. I enjoy coming all over a married woman etc. Being cum all over is something Louise enjoys so yes, you would get to enjoy it. There would be no turf marked though, any “ownership” washes away as simply as the cum does.

6. I love keeping a married woman out overnight etc. Yes, you are right, I would quite possibly be awake all night wondering too. If you were a good guy and did it respectfully you might get to enjoy such a treat.

7. I love fucking a wife in front of her husband etc. Your comments regarding your appreciation of her would be welcome if said in the right way. Do it with humiliation as the intent and you would be on your way home in a flash.

8. I like the first time a married woman sees my cock etc. Fair enough, I too would like the lucky guy to have something bigger, better or different about him. Something that gives Louise a different kind of pleasure is always welcome.

9. I like cumming on a married woman’s face etc. It might be something that a guy might get to do, if he’s lucky enough then he should enjoy the experience. Like number 5, it would be because Lou wanted it and, also, it washes away and means nothing more than some dirty fun for all.

10 to 13. All irrelevant, the guy has no power, she gets plenty at home, you will never get near our bed (Louise’s rule, not mine) and you might think of her as those things but she is neither, nor will you get another chance if that is how you treat her.

14. I like walking into a hotel etc. It might happen if you became a regular partner for her, which would only happen if you respect us both and appreciate what you are blessed to enjoy. All of which means your little power buzz from taking a married woman to a hotel room is irrelevant.

15 to 18. All irrelevant. We might thank you for joining us, or for having us at your house. I might get you a beer after sex, as an equal. She will never be yours to give to anyone but, if you’re awesome, you might suggest a friend of yours joins you or us for some extra fun. Her pussy will never be yours. Her heart belongs to me, her pussy is hers and even I appreciate it as such.

16. I love when a wife tell me fantasies or experiences etc. Highly unlikely she will tell you experiences that I don’t know about, even if there are any. Interestingly, the fantasy thing is close to a current reality. Louise is talking about a fantasy with a new guy, someone she might see when we return from our vacation. With him she is exploring (by messages) some BDSM related things that she is finding a turn on. As yet I don’t know many specifics and that is just fine by me (it is tantalising, intriguing and the cause of some highly arousing jealousy too).

17. When a married woman wants to do things with me that she doesn’t do with her husband etc. This is fine by me, doing something she hasn’t done with me is actually a fantasy of mine, one that she knows about. There is not a lot left to choose from but the BDSM thing should open up an option or two.

18, 19. I like to call a husband etc. You may call me on speaker, sounds like fun. But you won’t be owning anything. It would be far more likely for Louise to call me to pick her up in the morning, if you ever got so lucky as to have her stay the night.

20. The drug store to buy condoms. It simply wouldn’t happen.

21. I like cumming n a wife’s pussy etc. I would hope you would like it, if you ever were to blessed with such an opportunity.

22. I like getting a wife to tell her husband how much bigger etc. Yeah, she might tell me that I guess but it is very unlikely she would do so just because the other guy wanted her to.

23 to 25. Irrelevant, they just would not happen.

26. I like having a married woman tell me I’m the best fuck etc. Wow, you must be good to get such a compliment and, if you were that good, I would be ecstatic for Louise. Who knows, in the moment and if you really were that good, she might tell you that but the reality is that she would be more likely to tell me in private how good you really were.

27. I like to make a husband stand guard etc. Neither Louise or I would enable you to “make” me do anything. Standing guard while you get lucky somewhere public - yeah, I could see it happening, it is definitely a turn on for Louise and I would be doing it for her not because you “made” me.

28. I get off making a husband jealous while I fuck his wife. Good for you, I would definitely be jealous, especially during your first time.

29. I enjoy feeling up a wife in a public place etc. So you should enjoy it, it hasn’t happened for us so far but it wouldn’t be out of the question I guess.

30, 31. Irrelevant, neither would happen. She wouldn’t allow you to introduce you as her girlfriend. Me catching you implies I wouldn’t know, that would only happen if it was part of Louise’s game and, then, me catching you at it would be what she intended.

32. It’s fun having a married woman tell her husband she can’t do without me. This one actually relates to my fear with the whole hotwife thing. Louise totally assures me it could never happen but what if she did truly fall in love with someone? Maybe the risk of it is something that adds to my jealousy and the thrill of it all?

33. Getting off fucking her ass in front of me. Again, so you should if you get so lucky. This is something that has happened a couple of times now and it is excruciatingly arousing. Especially the way she looked at me the first time, right in the eye with the dirtiest, aren’t I bad look on her face.

34. I like showing up unannounced etc. I just can’t see it happening but, if it did, it would be because Louise set it up to look that way to me.

35, 36. Both are probably irrelevant. Like the one earlier, if you think I don’t know, or if I genuinely don’t, then that is all because it is how Louise wants it, part of her game and there is no risk regarding getting caught. Haha, other than a risk that I might “punish” her in some way later. The club one, unlikely but if it did happen like that so what.

37. Hmm, Louise has one friend who knows pretty much everything. I have one who knows a bit (my mate who happened to get lucky with Louise a couple of times). Very recently, as written about, we have shared some things with our neighbours - well, Louise shared a few details at least. I totally love our dirty little secrets and have enjoyed the fact that a select few know a bit about some of them at least.

Things “Bulls” Like

I recently read a post about the collected thoughts of “Bulls.”  A Bull is the “other man” in a hotwife / cuckold relationship.  I got so aroused reading this.  I’ve selected some of the hottest ones.  I’ve also added a few that I’ve heard myself.

I like fucking a married woman if her husband has no idea. It’s great knowing I can convince her to cheat.  

I like watching the faces of husbands as they deal with the emotions of watching their wife get fucked by another man.  

I get off rubbing in a husband’s face how slutty his wife is with me.  

I love seducing a married woman and making her husband a cuckold for the first time ever.  

I enjoy cumming all over a married woman.  It’s like I’m marking my turf.  

I love keeping a married woman out overnight or taking her home with me.  I know her husband is sitting awake, wondering what she’s doing.

I like fucking a wife in front of her husband and telling him what a good piece of ass she is, or how good her pussy feels.

I like the first time a married woman sees my cock and tells me that I’m bigger than her husband.

I like cumming on a married womans face knowing she has to clean up before she goes home, and cumming in her mouth knowing it will mean I’m always a part of her.  

I enjoy seeing her wedding ring while I’m fucking her. It’s a power trip fucking someone else’s woman.

I love hearing a married woman beg me to fuck her, because I know she doesn’t get it at home.

I love fucking a wife in their marriage bed.  

I love claiming another man’s wife as MY slut or girlfriend.

I like walking into a hotel to get a room with a married woman.

I like hearing someone’s wife thank me after I fuck her, or if its a couple I like hearing her husband thank me for fucking her.

I like sending her husband to get me a beer or something while she sucks my dick.

I like giving her to a friend to use and treat her like my property. They love that shit.

I like telling her husband that his wife’s pussy is mine now.  

I love when a wife tells me fantasies or experiences she’s had that she’s never told her husband about.  

I love when a married woman wants to do things with me that she doesn’t do with her husband.  

I like to call a husband on speaker phone while I’m owning his wife in bed.

I like to call a husband and tell him I’m done with his wife and to come pick her up.

I like to take a married woman with me into a drug store, stand in line together and have her buy a box of condoms for us.

I like coming in a wife’s pussy while her husband watches and waits his turn.

I like getting a wife to tell her husband how much bigger I feel inside her.

I like to show up at a married woman’s work place and pick her up for a lunch quickee with her coworkers watching her leave with me.

I ]like to call a husband at work and and tell him his wife is servicing me.

I love to make her lose track of time so her husband comes home and catches us in the act.  

I like having a married woman tell me I was the best fuck she ever had, especially if it’s right in front of her husband.

I like to make a husband stand guard while I fuck his wife in a public place, or fuck a wife in the back of a car in a parking lot while her husband is in the driver seat.

I get off trying to make a husband jealous while I fuck his wife.

I enjoy feeling up a wife in a public place, where others might see her.

I like introducing someone’s wife to my friends, telling them she’s my girlfriend.

I dig the risk of knowing her husband might catch us.

It’s fun having a married woman tell her husband that she can’t do without me.

I get off big time fucking a married womans ass in front of her husband.

I like showing up unannounced and lead her off to the bedroom.

I get off knowing that she might get caught but is willing to risk that to get laid.  

I love to go out with a wife and her husband to a bar or club, and have the whole place know it’s me that she’s going home with.  

I like when a wife I’m fucking tells her friends about us.

Tom had been on a bit of a golf trip and my wife went to join him for the last night. He left her a key to his room, so she could get settled before he got back from his last round. She sent me a text like this soon after arriving.

Yeah, these are questions I like to get answers to.