专业态度是一点也 比不上那啥魅影

Suddenly struck with a need to explain to you how boat pronouns work (I work in the marine industry).

When you're talking about the design of the boat, you say "it".

When the boat is still being built, your say "it".

When the boat is nearing completion, you can say "it" or "she".

When the boat is floating in the water you probably say "she", unless there is still a lot of work to be done (e.g. no engine yet) then you say "it".

When the boat is officially launched and operating, you say "she". If you continue to say "it" at this point you are not incorrect but suspiciously untraditional. You are not playing the game.

If you are referring to a boat you don't really know anything about you may say "it" ("there's a big boat, it's coming this way"). But if you know its name, it's probably "she" ("there's the Waverley, she's on her way to Greenock").

If you are talking about boats in general, you say "it" ("when a boat is hit by a wave it heels over")

If you speak about a boat in complimentary terms, it's "she" ("she's a grand boat"). If you are being disparaging it may be it, but not necessarily ("it's as ugly as sin", "she's a grotty old tub").

If she has a boy's name, she's still she. "Boy James", "King Edward", "Sir David Attenborough"? The pronoun is she.

If it's a dumb barge (no engine), you say it. But if it's a rowing boat (no engine), you say she.

I hope this has cleared things up so that you may not be in danger of misgendering floating objects.

To think Bermondsey was more than ten years before Maurice!

今天一件非常非常trivial的事情她非要变得很大 现在打这些字我都觉得滑稽：

晚饭时间她觉得我脚有汗但是冷于是要求我洗脚然后穿上袜子 我说我不冷也不需要现在洗脚 睡前再洗就可以 她非要我洗 我说那样的话我必须睡前再洗一次 她说不行不能洗两次 然后给我倒了水非要我现在洗 那我总不能这么小的事非要不给面子把水晾一边儿去不管吧 于是我就去洗了

睡前我较早在洗漱 心情也不错 结果她走进来说正好今天简单也不用洗脚了 我就说我还是要洗一下的 非常快一两分钟就洗完 她非不让我洗 我很纠结难受地站在那里因为我1回家住后很快就已经妥协了没有再每天睡前洗澡（回家后第二天就意识到并自我调整和安慰）2我明明已说过如果晚饭洗脚那么睡前仍然要洗脚 但她完全不把我的话当真 我的话在她眼里就不是一个“人”说话的分量 然后她看到我的样子就说“有病就去看” 与此同时她每天通宵拖地却从来不觉得需要咨询或改变

然后她又过来 我说我不明白这么小的事情为什么一定要控制我即使是明知道我会不舒服的情况下 她说了一堆我这是刻板行为 是需要纠正的 否则以后就会吃亏比如别人会用异样的眼光看待、找不到结婚对象 我说根本没有人注意也不影响别人又能让我感到舒服的行为是不需要改变的

她做了什么：忽视 不尊重 歧视

我做了什么：第一次听从 第二次最终没有洗并觉得难受

就这样她还天天说以后要和爸爸跟我住一起 给我做饭（无论是他们上次去看我 还是这次我回家 我每天吃他们做的饭都吃不饱 可以说饥肠辘辘 自己在外面还能回去再加餐 现在在家饿得要死）、梳头、穿衣（说到这个我真是受够了 从小到大只要在家住我从来不能自己选买什么穿什么衣服 最近回家这段时间也是一样 审美不同而她永远觉得她的审美对 我的审美错）

记在这里 回国意味着每天吃不饱饭&不能带东西回来&好几天不能洗澡

Steve: You said you put a cat in a box and buried it.

Reece: NO I DIDN’T

George Segal as Corporal King & James Fox as Flight Lt. Peter Marlowe 1965 · KING RAT · dir. Bryan Forbes · WWII · LGBTQ+

Another thing I’ve been thinking about Freddie Fox is in one of his interviews the journalist writes that Freddie refers to Stephen Fry as a family friend. But I read this interview after I had seen the clip of QI where SF did an impression of Edward Fox, and I got it mixed up and became really confused, but later when I rewatched it I realised two people did impressions of EF in that clip and it’s actually not SF who implied EF was kind of homophobic. (Btw the term used is very curious and I could never understand: ‘a fleet of berties’ ?????? Came to think about it I did a search again and found a discussion that I’ve already bookmarked but it still doesn’t seem totally clear to me: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskUK/s/4KPv0ELFuE)

觉得我认真就是有病 然后又数算我多么一事无成 那是要我怎样？又骂我没成绩又说我努力是有病？背后逻辑到底是什么？

给翻看旧帖的自己：千万不要再回国。记得这次回国回家的遭遇有多难受。身体+精神+work受到多少影响。

Guest star for stage/fright -

At first I was like why was I not there when Emilia Fox appeared? I would very much like to see her!

Then it’s Julian Clary, I was like what why was I not there????? ok I’ll buy tickets for his tour or maybe panto later.

Today I learned they also had Stephen Fry!!! I didn’t even realise they know each other (same with the other two but)! Also I had this weird obsession with SF but I don’t think I’ll ever specifically buy tickets to see him so missed opportunity

不看她pyq=下一步杀母

给翻看旧帖的自己：千万不要再回国。记得这次回国回家的遭遇有多难受。身体+精神+work受到多少影响。