今天一件非常非常trivial的事情她非要变得很大 现在打这些字我都觉得滑稽:

今天一件非常非常trivial的事情她非要变得很大 现在打这些字我都觉得滑稽:

晚饭时间她觉得我脚有汗但是冷于是要求我洗脚然后穿上袜子 我说我不冷也不需要现在洗脚 睡前再洗就可以 她非要我洗 我说那样的话我必须睡前再洗一次 她说不行不能洗两次 然后给我倒了水非要我现在洗 那我总不能这么小的事非要不给面子把水晾一边儿去不管吧 于是我就去洗了

睡前我较早在洗漱 心情也不错 结果她走进来说正好今天简单也不用洗脚了 我就说我还是要洗一下的 非常快一两分钟就洗完 她非不让我洗 我很纠结难受地站在那里因为我1回家住后很快就已经妥协了没有再每天睡前洗澡(回家后第二天就意识到并自我调整和安慰)2我明明已说过如果晚饭洗脚那么睡前仍然要洗脚 但她完全不把我的话当真 我的话在她眼里就不是一个“人”说话的分量 然后她看到我的样子就说“有病就去看” 与此同时她每天通宵拖地却从来不觉得需要咨询或改变

然后她又过来 我说我不明白这么小的事情为什么一定要控制我即使是明知道我会不舒服的情况下 她说了一堆我这是刻板行为 是需要纠正的 否则以后就会吃亏比如别人会用异样的眼光看待、找不到结婚对象 我说根本没有人注意也不影响别人又能让我感到舒服的行为是不需要改变的

她做了什么:忽视 不尊重 歧视

我做了什么:第一次听从 第二次最终没有洗并觉得难受

就这样她还天天说以后要和爸爸跟我住一起 给我做饭(无论是他们上次去看我 还是这次我回家 我每天吃他们做的饭都吃不饱 可以说饥肠辘辘 自己在外面还能回去再加餐 现在在家饿得要死)、梳头、穿衣(说到这个我真是受够了 从小到大只要在家住我从来不能自己选买什么穿什么衣服 最近回家这段时间也是一样 审美不同而她永远觉得她的审美对 我的审美错)

记在这里 回国意味着每天吃不饱饭&不能带东西回来&好几天不能洗澡

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1 year ago

I see a lot of posts saying "teach boys about consent".

While that is true, a lot of parents will do that and fail to see how their own actions are the problem.

If you've spanked him, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've forced him to sit on Santa's lap, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've forced him to give hugs and kisses to family members, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've grabbed him in order to force him to sit still, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've labeled him as "too sensitive" for not wanting to be touched, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've assumed he's okay with something because he technically allowed it even though he felt pressured, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you're only going to criticize his actions but not your own, it won't work.


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1 year ago

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3 years ago

我的心仍旧会被这种事情割伤

1 year ago
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3 years ago

没收我喜欢的衣服 只有她觉得好看的衣服才是好看

在我很忙有事而且腹泻的时候非要美其名曰给我买衣服实际上是去她喜欢的一家小店非要买 店主姗姗来迟带着一只不拴绳汪汪叫的小狗

给翻看旧帖的自己:千万不要再回国。记得这次回国回家的遭遇有多难受。身体+精神+work受到多少影响。

3 years ago

看到一个歌名《明日再会》。在听《mad》,想起颁奖礼。羡慕徒弟。想看小林给黄填歌词,顺便想起《最高分数》。

3 years ago

看见《如何说再见》五个字都感觉林夕可能写过这标题的歌 果然猜对了

3 years ago

很难想象我今天才第一次看到花好月圆夜粤语版歌词。也太可爱。但“飞天再去遁地”原来林夕已经写过了,今年听《魔药》还很惊艳来着。

kkbox推了中秋歌单,给在不同地方望着同一轮圆月的人。从歌单里我第一次看了《爱回家》歌词,但又想到,他没有妈妈了。

3 years ago

ahhhhhhhhh

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1 year ago

friends and partners have asked me before why i need to show them so many movies and so many songs and so many books and why i wax poetics for so long and i have to explain hi hello these were my only companions for so long, this is where i learned how to love, this made my heart sing, this brought me such joy and understood my sadness and held me so tenderly, i need to show you because it’s a part of me it’s a piece of me, it understands me in a way i want you to understand me, it’s one of the ways i can tell you i trust you with this strand of my dna, i offer these pieces of me to you because i love you.


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