对了让我来发一下疯：阿啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊金曲奖

…what if I’m happy with staying in my little cosy room? The club metaphor can be off-putting / hard to understand for neurodivergent people and people from different cultures. Maybe it’s hard for some western people to imagine that some immigrants like me need to learn from media and remind ourselves that parties really mean fun stuff, not stress-inducing, awkward, and boring chaos.

“she should be at the club” “but not everybody can handle loud music / likes going out / enjoys drinking / wants to—“ YOURE MISSING THE POINT. “she should be at the club” is not about the literal club!! it’s about the whimsy of youth!! it’s about the things you can get away with, body and mind!! it’s about having fun and ignoring the horrors for as long as you can!! it’s about the fact that you do not deserve to feel this pain and have these responsibilities, you do not deserve to be locked in your room with your sadness, you deserve to enjoy the music and the pretty lights and the ass shaking of life!!! it’s about how i wish joy for you, even if you do not wish it for yourself!!! you should be at the club!!!!

reddit上看到个外国人说在CN可以protest 还有好几个给89洗地的英文回复 真看吐了

I hate the bed when I’m not in bed, but I can’t leave it when I’m in bed

grandparents/family members etc do not count, of course. im talking someone that was paid to look after you

Been trying to avoid opening tumblr since Thursday night because I still haven’t watch The Last Weekend, but today I really needed to make a post. So, I couldn’t help but browsed. (Since i feel like if I don’t see them all the first time I open tumblr, there is high possibility that i will miss a lot of posts due to how tumblr displays them.)

I still need to see the episode for myself. But one thing interesting/weird is that when I knew this episode was supposed to be about ‘grief’, I thought maybe it’d be one of the main characters gets cancer since I had just rewatched that episode of Bake Off Reece was on.

Now I’m happy that I decided to rewatch A Light Never Goes Out in the cinema on Thursday. The whole movie is focusing on grief. I cried even during the second watch which was only two days after my first watch. Now I really need some gifs of that little dance and wallpapers too, but I know it’s probably impossible because there is like zero fanbase?

And I lowkey want an in9 london tube episode although I don’t know how it can be a 9. But the number itself doesn’t matter that much.

And I’m tired of 什么意思（主要是儒在）讲要和恐怖游戏里的强奸犯角色搞的笑话了，之前对跟踪狂角色就讲过几次我觉得行吧是在努力搞气氛，但能不能不要总是讲啊，不好笑又无聊又没品

冲水按钮很久坏了也不修 攒脏水冲马桶 （所以也是正好合了心意才不会去修吧）于是经常没有水用要等待 ｜ 我上厕所总不让我关门 是不是有病？？？

给翻看旧帖的自己：千万不要再回国。记得这次回国回家的遭遇有多难受。身体+精神+work受到多少影响。

dehumanization，比如蟑螂。以及我真的很讨厌这些词流传出去影响其他地方的人

港台这几年都出现了抵抗大陆流行语入侵的风气，林夕专栏也谈到过，认为没有必要。我个人觉得要做到语言完全不互相影响难度太高，但有时看到一些流传过去的流行语被滥用，我会惋惜它们作为一种捷径可能替代了原本更多样更真诚更本土的表达，或许不太科学但我确实觉得这是一种语言退化

Is soft white underbelly against transgender or what

The holy grail of searching through academic literature is coming across a string of publications that are like:

Here’s An Idea. Smith et al. 2016

Terrible Idea; a comment on Smith et al. 2016. Johnson 2016.

You’re Wrong Too; a response to Johnson 2016. Nelson 2016.

Guys Just Stop Fighting, None Of Us Know What’s Going On; a Review of the Current Literature. McBrien 2017.

《点解》曲子原唱原来是PSB……