Ethnicity Vs Race From Diffen.com

do u ever think back on old conversations with people and think “oh! foreshadowing. that was real life foreshadowing.”

Ooops ☕️

Re-blog if you’re a Texas SB!

There’s no need for heartbreak warfare. It’s called ‘I love you’ — ‘I love you too’. ‘I need more love’ — ‘You got more love’, and you can get through life like that. Shouldn’t you just, on days where you want more love, be like ‘I had a bad dream that you were sleeping around, it’s really irrational, but just love me extra today’. Why can’t we just have this thing where you just say ‘Just love me extra today’. If I was with somebody and they said ‘Love me extra today’, I would love them extra forever.

John Mayer, Atlanta, 2010 (via kvtes)

John Mayer, melting panties off every day.

Date these SDs

I’ve never done ppm. I’ve never done “x allowance for y meets per month”. I wouldn’t do them now. If you really want a guys financial attention long term, make them care about you. Let them take care of you. Don’t let them know they’re paying for it. It doesn’t matter if he told you he loved you, that’s lust. Once it gets too expensive or the new shiny bauble comes by, you’re history.

If you want that to last, you need to make yourself indispensable to these men. You need them to think that you’re a one and only. You also need them to forget they’re paying you. Most men will quickly grow tired of their wallets being the only way to get his attention. Yes by then you might have gotten a lot of cash out of him, but think about how much more you could have gotten.

I’m not saying be clingy, i’m not saying be lovey dovey, i’m saying be special. become an integral part of their life, so those bank transfers feel normal, like paying bills, not like paying this girl to be nice to me. Don’t do nice things because they buy you stuff or give you cash. You might think that’s counter-intuitive but consider it. (Most of) These men aren’t stupid. they can tell that you only stay over when you get offered a gift. They can tell that you only responded to them when they said they’d send you a gift card. They can tell you only care about the money. And, unless he’s a financial submissive, he’s gonna drop a girl after a while if all she values in him is his cash.

That’s why I encourage you girls to get off these sugar sites. I’m not saying you can’t make money off them, i’m just saying the payoff to how much work you have to do is low. most SRs these days are just long term escort client relationships. Don’t be afraid to break the mold and actually date these dudes. You get so much more money when you actually mean something to them and aren’t just another piece of ass they have to pay for.

Dating these dudes is why I retired, its why I’m starting multiple businesses, it’s why I can comfortable stop working completely and not have my bank account go low. Spoiled GF gets you the most buck for your bang. 

Slowww Process...

So my POT #1 will be in town soon. We are going dress shopping before dinner. He'll be here for a few weeks before going back. I'm going to ask him to pay for my next semester of school or possibly some summer classes while he's here. 

POT #2 who took me to the comedy show last weekend has been calling and texting me all week. Since our first meeting was almost void of conversation  (aside from the 20 or so minutes before the show) I'm waiting for him to set up brunch or lunch. It will probably be sometime this weekend and we can talk about my allowance. I wan't to ask him to bring a gift but I'm not exactly sure how I'm going to do that yet. I'm so on the fence about this guy. He's cute, very funny, I have a genuine attraction to him and I don't necessarily  think he's Salty but my guy-dar is telling me there's just more about this man that meets the eye. Hopefully it's something good!

Our parents warned us about middle aged men stalking us on the Internet but oh how the tables have turned