So my POT #1 will be in town soon. We are going dress shopping before dinner. He'll be here for a few weeks before going back. I'm going to ask him to pay for my next semester of school or possibly some summer classes while he's here.
POT #2 who took me to the comedy show last weekend has been calling and texting me all week. Since our first meeting was almost void of conversation (aside from the 20 or so minutes before the show) I'm waiting for him to set up brunch or lunch. It will probably be sometime this weekend and we can talk about my allowance. I wan't to ask him to bring a gift but I'm not exactly sure how I'm going to do that yet. I'm so on the fence about this guy. He's cute, very funny, I have a genuine attraction to him and I don't necessarily think he's Salty but my guy-dar is telling me there's just more about this man that meets the eye. Hopefully it's something good!
I’ve never done ppm. I’ve never done “x allowance for y meets per month”. I wouldn’t do them now. If you really want a guys financial attention long term, make them care about you. Let them take care of you. Don’t let them know they’re paying for it. It doesn’t matter if he told you he loved you, that’s lust. Once it gets too expensive or the new shiny bauble comes by, you’re history.
If you want that to last, you need to make yourself indispensable to these men. You need them to think that you’re a one and only. You also need them to forget they’re paying you. Most men will quickly grow tired of their wallets being the only way to get his attention. Yes by then you might have gotten a lot of cash out of him, but think about how much more you could have gotten.
I’m not saying be clingy, i’m not saying be lovey dovey, i’m saying be special. become an integral part of their life, so those bank transfers feel normal, like paying bills, not like paying this girl to be nice to me. Don’t do nice things because they buy you stuff or give you cash. You might think that’s counter-intuitive but consider it. (Most of) These men aren’t stupid. they can tell that you only stay over when you get offered a gift. They can tell that you only responded to them when they said they’d send you a gift card. They can tell you only care about the money. And, unless he’s a financial submissive, he’s gonna drop a girl after a while if all she values in him is his cash.
That’s why I encourage you girls to get off these sugar sites. I’m not saying you can’t make money off them, i’m just saying the payoff to how much work you have to do is low. most SRs these days are just long term escort client relationships. Don’t be afraid to break the mold and actually date these dudes. You get so much more money when you actually mean something to them and aren’t just another piece of ass they have to pay for.
Dating these dudes is why I retired, its why I’m starting multiple businesses, it’s why I can comfortable stop working completely and not have my bank account go low. Spoiled GF gets you the most buck for your bang.
When and how did you start being a SB?
I started searching for an SD when I was 20.
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white people don’t need my help to be demonized. there’s all…. -waves in general direction of centuries of colonialism, imperialism, racism, and current globalized capitalism- ….that.
Spare change works well for me
I really wanna keep bricks in my car to throw at dumb ass drivers. Like oh, you jump in my lane without turning on your turn signal? Oop, there goes your back window.
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Make yourself so happy so that when others look at you they become happy, too.
Yogi Bhajan (via fuckinq)
Lol my cheating, lying, mentally, verbally, emotionally abusive, “boyfriend” who refuses to even publicly acknowledge me is upset because i won’t kiss him.