Emotioncandau - Cocu Trouple

Whenever I explore the fantasy of a daughter knowing her dad is a cuckold, I get messages saying there's no place for that in the cuckold kink!

As someone who has lived this dynamic for over 14 years while raising kids, I both agree and disagree. Our children have grown up seeing their mom dress sexy, naturally flirt with other men, and occasionally leave for nights away with “friends.” You can only keep it hidden for so long. Eventually, we got tired of lying about where she was.

We never explicitly said, "Mom cuckolds Dad." But we did start being honest about who she was with, simply mentioning the guy’s name. It wasn’t a big revelation, just a natural progression. They’d overhear us talking about him, and my wife couldn’t help but mention other guys names more as their connection deepened.

Then she met someone different, a man she fell in love with. He wasn’t just another fling. She started texting him all the time, dressing up for dates, and spending more nights at his place. We talked about him often, and as their bond grew, his name naturally became a regular part of conversation between her and I but also in conversations with friends and family she would mention our "Friends" name.

We’ve never told the kids they have a sexual relationship. To them, he’s just a close friend. When my daughter once asked where her mom sleeps when she stays with him, I simply said, "With him, just like when you have sleepovers with friends."

The reality is, at some point, she’ll figure it out. She’ll understand that her mom dates and fucks other men. And as someone who writes about both real experiences and fantasy, I enjoy exploring that boundary, where reality meets the unspoken. It also is an arousing thought thinking about my wife openly cuckolding me like this, kissing him in front of others, even my children. Her falling in love was the ultimate cuckolding so it just adds layers on top of that.

She still loves you, but as her bond with her boyfriend deepens, that love is shifting. It’s not just the incredible sex they share, but the time, connection, and emotional intimacy they’re building together.

As a cuckold, you were raised with monogamous values, yet you've given her permission, and even encouragement to be with other men sexually. Enjoyed her being the slut you fantasize about and love.  In doing so, you’ve remained monogamous while inviting her into a non-monogamous life. That contrast creates a unique dynamic, one that challenges the very foundation of traditional love and partnership.

It can be hard at first to understand how your wife could fall in love with another man. How she can still love you and be in love with him. The angst, humiliation, feelings of insecurity and fear of her leaving you cloud your thinking. Even more the arousal you feel, how you jack off thinking about her with him. The way it makes you feel even more inadequate knowing he is fucking her better than you ever could and it is him she is desiring to fulfill that need while at the same time he is fulfilling other needs you used to. There are many kinds of love. Unconditional love we have for our children. Platonic love we have for friends who are there for you for support and encouragement the same way you are for them. There is compassionate love, being kind to people as a whole. And of course self love. The type of love and confidence a wife gains when she cuckolds her husband and learns she has her own freedom. Freedom to dress how she wants, flirt, have fun, see and do what ever she desires. 

The way we love our primary partner. That romantic and passionate love where you  desire just being with someone. That person you have a strong physical attraction to and chemistry that gives you that sexual fulfillment.  For you this is your wife. Even as she cuckolds you, gets fucked better by another man, it increases your own sexual fulfillment. Then all the kinky things. Licking her pussy after she has been fucked, cleaning cum out of it. Submitting to her and the men she fucks. Maybe even pleasuring other men yourself, being feminized and encouraged now by your wife. For your wife in love with her boyfriend this type of love may be shifting towards him. Then there is deep, enduring love. The love for a long-term partner. This is the love she may feel for you right now. Rooted in stability, a life built together, having children. A history of loyalty and encouragement. A comfortable place from a shared life and memories that are irreplaceable. She still loves you, but she desires you inside her pussy less and less and you fantasize about her pussy now only being available for other men. You are now having some of your best orgasms only being able to lick her, or rubbing your dick on her skin as she tells you about the amazing sex and weekend she had with her boyfriend. You are becoming more like to best girlfriends. Talking about men and how good they fuck, about their cock size, red flags that can be overlooked, about the next trip they will take and when. Then of course there is residual love. Our first girlfriend or boyfriend we fell in love with and had sex with. You never fully lose your love for them. An ex-husband or past partner. You can appreciate the time you had together, the shared history and memories. She may no longer be in love with you, but sill wants the best for you. When you step back and look at the full picture you can start to understand it. Be happy for her as you are aroused by it. The angst fades away. In the traditional sense, with the monogamous values you were brought up to believe it is hard to make sense of how she can love two people, how she can love another man the same way she loves or loved you. Share those intimate movements with him that used to be exclusively yours. Remember you encouraged it, and when you look at it with a clear view, it makes sense. You were part of making her happy both with you, then with another man as she cuckolded you, then with him she has fallen in love with.

It may have started as “innocent fun”, but things have changed.

A Gift

She looked so happy with him and they went together so well. She was thrilled when you suggested they tie the knot.

She took you to a nice restaurant to ask your thoughts on her leaving to be with her boyfriend who shes fallen in love with. Knowing how happy he makes her and being in public, you agree to let them be together, she is dying to call him and let him know the good news right in front of you.

Ultimate Feelings

If you have ever gone though it you know that feeling in your chest, the racing of your heart and that amazing sexual feeling that washes over you when you see your wife completely fall for another man.

Up all night talking to him, not wanting to wait to see him again, constantly talking to you about him. Nothing can ever replace these amazing feelings and the desire to have it escalate to deeper and deeper feelings.

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It has to be option #2…

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