doing an assignment rn about educational identity & i was reading through literature about identity
“my identity is how i define who I AM”
it is only YOU who decides what your identity is. want to be rich? then IDENTIFY as being rich. want to be the most beautiful person on earth? then IDENTIFY as the most beautiful person ever!!!
anyone else’s perceptions about you does NOT matter because it all comes down to your “I AM”, whatever you identify as, everyone around you will naturally identify you as THAT
it rlly is so easy!! just define who you are & persist in that identity. personally i love going into my notes app and just describing who I AM in my imagination & everytime i read it, i feel so fulfilled & happy that this identity is who i am!! <3
˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚ 𝑯𝒐𝒘 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒖𝒑 𝒃𝒂𝒅 𝒉𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒕𝒔 ˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚
First off, giving up an old bad habit is difficult, that I know; however, it is not impossible. I've had a lot of difficulties in my life where I repeated the same habit over and over again and I thought for me I would never overcome them. But you know what changed? trying. I tried my best every day and even if I failed, I slowly accepted that I am not perfect and I am only human. That is who we are, and that is why Allah the Almighty is so merciful, because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala himself knows we humans will slip up and fall. But listen, it's not impossible and as annoying as it is, as long as you keep trying, keep having that good intentions of becoming better and to do better; trust me those habits will be history.
Whenever we do something for the sake of our lord, everything works out, everything clicks together. These habits you have won't be vanished for one day of course, or a week, it's a process--a journey that we all need to accept. Think of it as a fitness journey, you won't get fit in one day. These things take time and after feeling so negative about myself I realized as long as you try, asking Allah for help, and doing the most you can--it is possible.
I hope these tips do help you, and everyone is different as everyone has different struggles and bad habits. These will either help you or guide you to overcome those habits in your own way. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make it easy for us.
I have seen a video of someone asking a scholar why do I still commit these bad deeds/habits if I am performing my five daily prayers? and the answer to this was the quality of your namaz. Do you rush into prayer, are you zoning out, are you not on time for namaz, and etc.
There is of course a lot to this but the quality of your namaz and how much time you spend with our lord does affect our hearts.
One of many ways to re-connect with our lord to become better with our daily prayers are:
Performing your prayers on time (I understand how our laziness could get in the way or how we are so into whatever we were doing before and cannot detach ourselves from this but, a quote I read and did help me at times like this was "Put your time and effort to Allah, and Allah will put his time and effort to you too.")
Recite a dua/surah after your namaz (Ayetel kursi, a repentance dua, La ilaha illallah, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul hamdu, yuhyi wa yumitu, wa huwa ala kulli shay'in qadir, and etc.)
Perform your wudhu 15-10 minutes earlier (Let me tell you when I did this it was so effective. When you perform wudhu earlier, you are in a clear-minded state and are purified. Along with you being on time for namaz, this additionally helps you become more focused during namaz)
Perform Dhikr (Subhanallah, Alhamdullilah, Astaghfirullah, La illaha illallah, Allahu Akbar)
Learn the meaning of what you are reciting (When you learn and understand the meaning of the surah/dua's you are reciting, being focused becomes easier and the connection becomes stronger)
Create distractions for yourself to not commit those deeds/habits!
Do what you love and enjoy (Go back to those hobbies you used to enjoy! or hang out with your friends and family.)
Educate yourself (Look up interesting things; Learn something new; Watch an islamic podcast)
Get to work (If you have any outstanding work or homework, get straight to it.)
Learn a new surah (Let's say you REALLY have nothing else to do, then what better way to spend that time in something worthy--learning a surah!)
Go outside and enjoy nature!
Along with giving up those bad habits, create new good habits to incorporate in your day-to-day life!
Each day, add something in your routine--even if its small! For instance, get back to that skin care routine you were so lazy to do; or go on that walk you kept saying later to; or even folding your clothes and organizing your closet. Each time you add a good habit to do, you become distracted to those bad habits, have less time do commit them, and on the long run you are creating habits for a better difference!
With this in mind, please do not do everything at once. To prevent a negative on-going cycle, just like that book "Atomic Habits" said, that "If you can get 1% better each day for one year, you'll end up with 37 times better by the time you're done."
A habit to always include and progress even more is repentance! Recite and repeat Astaghfirullah; Ya Gaffar and Ya Gafoor; as well as the repentance surah's! Before doing anything, always say Bismillah and whether you're doing chores or scrolling on your phone, always say Astaghfirullah. This helps you be more aware of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala!
And lastly, remember you can do it!
: ̗̀➛ Allahumma musarrifal-qulubi, sarrif qulubana 'ala ta'atika
O Allah! Controller of the hearts, direct our hearts to Your obedience.
you don't have to visualise to manifest.
imagining is NOT the same as visualising. many people have also manifested without visualising, so you don't need to force yourself to visualise if you don't wan't to or can't. DO NOT worry if you don't visualise.
i personally also like to affirm & have inner convos more than visualising because i'm just more comfortable with it. everytime i "try" to visualise a scene my mind would drift away to something else that's unrelated lmao so i don't fancy visualising as much, though once in a while it's fun to visualise i would say! it's really all about YOUR preference.
just do whatever is most comfortable and natural for you, the whole point of it is just to make you feel fulfilled. visualising is just ONE out of the many many methods out there.
VOID STATE SUCCESS STORY
I finally after 1 and a half year entered the void state aware it was pink it was so beautiful and I know I did since I affirmed I always enter the void state aware instantly and manifested clear skin when I woke up I got the clear skin now I will enter it tonight and manifest my dream life (I have a list it 70+ pages long )
I did it by counting down from 100 to 0 a lit of time till I was sure I was relaxed and then I affirmed I'm a pure consciousness and I'm aware I'm in the void state
I wanna thank @gorgeouslypink @voidprincessblog @gloriousrunwayninja @thedoona and more
can people stop lying about void success?😭❓
like people on loablr alr have a lot of limiting beliefs and second thoughts, maybe don't add fuel in it? and what's the point of lying like dat?you're achieving nothin outta it. stop breaking people's trust like dat.
I'm so tired of this shi bruh
SIDE NOTE: void is real we'll achieve void and get all our desires <3
Does anyone know why @rosinrs-deactivated20231229 deactivated?
Who is denying you your desire? You and you only.
hi i just wanted to ask u to make it clear for me, you listened to subs 6 hours a day? 1 hour each for desired life and the luck sub and rest of the subs playlist for 4 hours right?
also congratulations!!!!
Yes, 6 hours a day and also the itkuzome void sub overnight. And Thank You 😊
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At night, when everyone else is asleep, I remain seated at the entrance of my tent, gazing at the dark sky, reminiscing about days gone by… about my home that was once filled with warmth. Yet, I still find remnants of hope in my heart—a hope that one day peace will return, and my children and I will live in a new home, filled with joy. 🌙🏡✨
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