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Plush doll winter

winter is approaching ! you all know i love the holiday season !! so here’s a few essentials & tips to make your winter the best ! ❄️🎄🎀

wardrobe essentials & colors ❄️

i love winter clothes !!! believe it or not, i used to hate winter clothing because i love summer outfits so much, but i’ve learned to love the comfy & cute style winter brings. it makes me feel safe & warm !! especially when it’s raining outside. ⛈

tracksuits ( pink, light purple, white, black )

boots ( demonia’s, uggs, anything fluffy & comfortable ! )

fur coats, they have super cute ones on fashion nova !!

comfortable velour tracksuit bottoms & jackets

leg warmers & gloves

color palette pink, purple, blue, ( white, black, gray ) mainly pink for me though !

your space ❄️

i always include this in any type of post, because your space is so important. during the christmas time, it’s so much fun to clean & put up decorations.

start off by cleaning up any trash, dirt, or anything you must clear.

vacuum, clean your bedding, and wipe surfaces. i love to use mr clean products

i recommend buying some holiday wildflowers from bath and body ! they make your room smell so festive & fun

after your room has been deep cleaned, add fun decorations !!!

investing in a new bedding set, and holiday themed throw blankets or pillows is very essential as well !

for my room i have a mini pink tree, hello kitty ornaments, christmasy candles, and small items i like to put on my desk, vanity, and shelves.

skincare wishlist & essentials ❄️

these are some products i wanna try/already love ! i really enjoy switching up my products for different seasons. these are very gentle/hydrating. perfect for the winter !

tatcha the essence

tatcha cleansing oil

tatcha violet-c serum

olehenriksen truth gel crème

shopping and tips ❄️

this holiday season i’ll be shopping mostly from VS, sephora, ulta, and bath & body !

a run down of what i’ll mostly be shopping for 🛍

cute pajamas ( VS, fashion nova )

gifts for family, + friends ( cards, bags )

slippers ( VS )

fuzzy socks ( tj maxx, marshalls )

holiday scented products ( b&bw )

lip gloss ( most likely the VS ones ! )

skincare ( sephora, ulta )

perfume ( ulta, sephora )

shoes !!!!! ( online )

plushies, other fun accessories ( sanrio, amazon )

extras ! ❄️

invest in a cute new bag !!

make sure to always have an essential robe to put on in case you get cold in the mornings

take care of your skin & carry hand cream with you always !

create a set of “winter affirmations”

make a playlist of comfort movies/songs !

get your nails done a super cute color !!

splurge on jackets, and other essential winter pieces

make handmade cards for your loved ones

declutter your phone & reset your wallpaper to something fun and christmasy !

do things you loved as a child, become in-tune with your child-self & what they enjoyed during this season

last but not least, put yourself first & make sure you’re happy !!!

happy holidays dolls !!!! have fun ❄️💕

I am in control!!!!

I control my own life. I control what I eat. I control what I drink. I control my own actions. I control my own life.

If I get a little skinnier, can I be your baby?

Infused Water!

A lot of people probably think infused water is bullshit and only makes gives the water some flavour but I personally disagree. While you won’t drop 20 pounds overnight, or never get sick again I find that it does help. I have experienced minor benefits from drinking infused water. Plus it will help you drink water AND if your someone who doesn’t finish fruit and things like me it’s a good way to use it. Anyway here’s a little master post on infused water.

some ana tips

i do not condone eating disorders at all ; these are just tips I’ve found or come up with over my 3+ years of having an ED.

keep in mind , i’m 48kg & 5'7" so these are altered to my weight/bmi

never go over 1000 calories , ever. No exceptions

no red meats or pork ( only chicken & fish)

don’t use Just tumblr for thinspo , use instagram , pinterest , snapchat etc. Every social media so you can see More thinspo.

do not listen to other peioles perceptions if your body unless its negative.

no snacks , only eat when your stomach starts to make noise for more than 2 hours.

when you Do need to eat something , 2 carrots, cut into many small pieces ( small sticks ) & steamed with ginger & garlic for 5 min.

frozen steamed vegetable packs are your best friend! one of them is only about 125 cal, microwave it for a couple minutes & throw in some seasoning n youve got a whole meal.

no condiments that aren’t low sugar/fat/carb etc

no white bread by Any Means

buy clothes purposefully too small

TAKE YOUR VITAMINS

seriously , take your vitamins. Your immune system begins to break down if you dont take care of it & your skin, hair, nails and lips will suffer.

i personally don’t like meanspo , so i prefer to imagine what it’d be like to have someone Admire my body. Look at the positives rather than negatives.

you’re always smaller in mens sizes! ( i’m a small womens, xs/xxs mens ! )

find new hobbies to do instead of eating. I sew & make costumes instead of eating during the day !

By no means , should you ever have any food from the candy/chips aisle ( except for gum )

Walk for at least an hour every day , i use the opportunity to have a couple of smokes & get some vitamins

Never walk while fasting , you risk passing out in public

Swap out bad calories ( chips & candies ) for good calories ( vegetables & some fruits )

If you’ve got a sweet tooth , try bubblemint gum! sweet & sugarfree. good appetite suppressant

Replace meals with drinks. I’m addicted to spiced chai & coffee so often my breakfast & lunch will be liquid.

throw out/sell/put away clothes too big for you. Don’t think about what you used to weigh so you don’t go back to it.

stay on your feet! move around, put an excersize bike in front of the tv or something! don’t stop moving.

learn dances , it doesnt matter if you suck. It creates lots of endorphins (natural happy drug!) & you can burn a lot of calories from it! I learn primarily kpop/love live dances but anything works! have fun w/ it

‘dorm workouts’ and ‘apartment workouts’ on youtube are really handy , quiet so you can do them late at night / in private.

wear tight bottoms & baggy tops to make your legs look thinner

wear baggy clothing in general , it makes you feel smaller.

platform shoes ( im talkin goth platforms ) make your leg muscles flex & legs look smaller. Wear platforms.

create excuses to not eat Before you have to face people. Already have a plan ( eg. “i ate some toast and jam earlier” ) something specific so nobody questions it.

stop feeling guilty about lying to your friends.

be there for other people before yourself ( if you’re capable ) Its easy to distract yourself by worrying.

cook for other people , you get the satisfaction without having to consume it.

If thinspo isn’t your thing , look at pictures of fat people. It can motivate you to not become that.

be cold as much as you can , you burn calories shivering

if you’d like more tips please let me know ! this is just the top of the barrel

you can be beautiful too🖤🖤

Be extra. Enjoy things and show it. Stop apologizing for it.

being skinny and beautiful is hard

but being fat and ugly and disgusting is worse

I know your inbox is probably full but, uh I got a question about adhd. Can people with adhd do well in school and stuff? Everything I’ve read about it suggests otherwise and even the psychiatrist i met today suggested the same

Sent 8th September~

Yes, people with ADHD can do well in school! Usually it’s because we’ve learned coping mechanisms (whether we realise it or not), or we just… work harder than everyone else, and don’t realise that we’re putting in so much extra effort.