not to be an asshole but i think a lot of disability discourse on this website cannot comprehend the idea of being physically disabled in a way which is like. not at all negotiable or flexible. like i think it's great that we're pushing people to understand that disability is nuanced and that there are disabilities which are not visible forms of physical disability but also like. sometimes you straight up cannot climb stairs. no not even on a good day not even when you "have enough spoons" it is just not physically possible. or you cannot get on and off a bus without struggling or without help. or it is physically not possible for you to bathe yourself. and it's not about "and you force yourself to push through it because of the internalized ableism" because you literally cannot physically fucking do it. like i am not trying to be mean but i feel like it frequently strikes me that people talking about disability seemingly do not understand the concept of I Literally Cannot Do This No Matter How Much I Want To Or Try Like It Is Physically Not Possible
ah yes, the two genders:
man and bath
on colors and being different and not being enough for yourself
(please reblog instead of liking)
Harry Potter is fucking unsalvageable at this point and it doesn't matter how much you seperate yourself from the artist/author when the author's bigotry and transmisogyny heavily overshadows anything in that mediocre book.
at this point it signifies that you are complicit in the genocide of trans people, especially trans women and that you don't care that Rowling is profiting off of HP while pushing for the removal of our existence.
love our trans sisters, especially trans sisters of color, more than this fuck ass book.
Screaming crying because I hate every piracy guide I come across on here.
PokƩmon fans are literally the funniest people in the universe.
Oh my god. I need to share another story of my new friend making today. So my friends husband says, very casually, as weāre about to leave for the ren faire, āYeah, itās like my story about fucking a chicken.ā
And of the four people present I was the only one who was shocked. The others all nodded as if to say, yes yes, we know, the chicken fucking.
So he explained, when a progressive person is analyzing a behavior they will typically use the metric, Harm/No Harm. They may not like things in the No Harm category but they wouldnāt object.
Conversely, a more conservative mindset used something like eight metrics. Authority/No Authority Moral/Not Moral, things like that.
So, he posited if you want to sound out someoneās mindset (and youāre willing to live with the repercussions) you can ask: if a man buys a dead chicken from the store, cleans it thoroughly, then fucks it, and then eats it himselfā¦?
I listened in dawning horror, both rapt and disgusted. But into the growing pause I whispered, āNo harmā¦ā because it really has no effect on me or anyone else if a man fucks a dead chicken. I donāt like it, I think heās a weird dude, but like. Thatās his dick. But a more conservative person will hear that and object on moral grounds despite not being harmed.
Itās been haunting me all day, so please enjoy.
āHozier is a lesbianā āHozier is a man written by a womanā āHozier is like if a man was raised by lesbian mothersā āHozier is like if a man was a womanā quick give me one reason why a man canāt be soft and gentle and poetic and in love without sounding like a terf or a misogynist
woah dudeā¦.. your hurt sound is vaguely sexualā¦.. im trying to kill you but im. im getting a bit flustered