sweet femmes. femmes like sugar that melt under your touch. femmes with flesh to grope and squish and kiss and bite. femmes that wrap themselves in lace and ribbons like pretty presents. femmes that wear pink lipstick and leave kiss marks on your face. femmes that are soft like bunnies and cuddle all the time. femmes that smell like vanilla and marshmallows and sweet dreams. femmes who need hands on them at all times to feel good. femmes who whisper in your ear during functions and drag you home. femmes who wear lacy bras and tiny skirts and like parading in front of you. femmes who like being carried around, hands wrapped around your biceps. cute femmes. sweet femmes. just femmes.
🌈 some soft things to stay alive for:
seeing a heart-shaped cloud
music you could fall asleep to
warm blankets straight from the dryer
gifts with a lot of thought in them
surprise breakfasts in bed
hot cups of cocoa when it’s cold
rainbows during a sun shower
cute artwork that you connect with
little hopes that come true
feeling safe with someone you love
taking care of a used plushie
yummy edible cookie dough
Maybe in another universe I'm not the sick girl.
Honesty, some of these genuinely changed my life once I started to really listen and incorporated them into it
collection of useful things tumblr has taught me:
even if you can't fall asleep, laying down with your eyes closed will still rest your body
you don't have to brush your teeth standing up
you don't have to do any chore standing up, from dishes to showering
you don't have to shower with the lights on
if you can't brush your teeth, flossing and a tongue scraper gets rid of plaque and bad breath
if you can't do that, mouthwash kills a lot of bacteria
eating "unhealthy" food is better than eating no food
you can make the same meal everyday for however long you still want it
some pills come in syrups or chewables if you can't swallow them
kids nutritional shakes can be a quick way to get fuel if you can't eat/don't have time
if walking hurts/exhausts you on a regular basis, canes and rollers are for you, no matter how young you are
we have free will—if doing something "out of the ordinary" makes life easier for you, do it
Greece by Dimitris Tamvakos
@ august please be a little gentle with me I’m so tired
It’s easier to think of someone as “lazy” than to face the fact that school costs too much, that better jobs are inaccessible, that childcare is unaffordable, that people are forced to work so hard for so little that there’s no way they could have enough energy to attempt schooling or finding better work, and that what we give to people who can’t work is insufficient to the point of being shameful. I could say that calling people lazy is, in itself, lazy, but it’s not just an intellectual shortcut. It’s a defense mechanism.
ukraine: edgy vampire sets whole stage on fire
spain: 3 month anniversary date singing to all of europe
solvenia: pink hair and her gal pals
lithuania: no please no not a ballad
austria: mmmmm heart eyes #bae
estonia: opera? really? okay rainbow dress, they did get the memo after all!
norway: not fairytale (2009)
portugal: they're gay and in love for sure
uk: british katy perry, got sabotaged, liked her more because of it
serbia: cult leader and sister wives feat. Albert Einstein on the pipe
germany: ballad but forgivable because its totes emosh
albania: adam lambert is that you? tattoos so good, china banned them
france: je suis bored
czech republic: backpack boy, sounds like talk dirty to me?
denmark: this viking ballad got me sailing straight to valhalla
australia: shE DOESNT EVEN GO HERE
finland: third time lucky saara?
bulgaria: washed up boyband???
moldova: no led staging? moldova don't need it
sweden: red lights I think? I skipped out for a toilet break lol
hungary: screaming into the void #mood
israel: the birdie song but new and improved (feat. body positivity)
netherlands: america? what are you doing here?
ireland: beautiful gay love story, don't hate us cause you ain't us China xox
cyprus: absolute banger, looks like Queen Bey
italy: absolute tune, powerful lyrics, anti-terrorist
about chronic illness and the constant search for blame.
everyone tells you this shit constantly until you start to believe it, and every time it flares up you wonder what you did wrong. on top of the pain, fatigue, and everything else, it starts to feel like a personal failing — like you just aren’t trying hard enough, even if you’re trying as hard as you possibly can just to get through the day.
MOOD
Lol true
the disability is disabling today folks
24, they/them, nonbinary lesbian, disabled. Studying medicine, working on my internalised ableism, prioritising finding out what I like to do. I write, ish, or try to at least and that's something
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