If You Feel Secure With Who You Are, You Won’t Need To Rely On The Relationship For Your Sense Of
1. developing your own passions, hobbies, and goals
2. If you’re feeling insecure or needing reassurance, communicate it calmly and constructively rather than seeking constant validation.
3. respect your personal boundaries. Boundaries protect your individuality
4. nurture relationships outside of your romantic one.
5. your worth isn’t dependent on your relationship status.
6. Each time you do something independently or handle an insecurity well, acknowledge it
7. Relationships take time to grow. Instead of trying to rush things, enjoy the journey, trust your connection
8. knowing your value make you less likely to seek constant validation.
If you feel secure with who you are, you won’t need to rely on the relationship for your sense of worth
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Now I realize, it isn't a bad trait of me! Its something of my own,that marks my identity. I am sorry if I had been hard on you, I can't change. So decision is yours to whether stay or move on😊. I should be fine with anything . But I will definitely miss it.
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Help yourself and others from agony
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If it's okay to not be okay , then it's also okay to not be okay without any reason
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I come first, alwaysssssssssssssssss
Me: I hate to be alone.
Mind: Learn to Love it
Me: I tried.. didn't work out
Mind: You need to face your fear.
Me: It makes me vulnerable
Mind: That will make you strong too.
Me: What if i fail?
Mind : What if u succeed..?
Me: I am just too afraid to face it..
Mind : The biggest fear is fear itself.
Me: Yes..
Mind: : Only way to get rid of it is through exposure..
Me: Never
Mind: Begin with a positive mind
Me: ..
Mind: Positive beginning will lead to positive ending
:)
