“—I want to change: I want to stop fear’s subtle / guidance of my life—”
— Frank Bidart, from Half-light: Collected Poems; “California Plush” (via luthienne)
1. developing your own passions, hobbies, and goals
2. If you’re feeling insecure or needing reassurance, communicate it calmly and constructively rather than seeking constant validation.
3. respect your personal boundaries. Boundaries protect your individuality
4. nurture relationships outside of your romantic one.
5. your worth isn’t dependent on your relationship status.
6. Each time you do something independently or handle an insecurity well, acknowledge it
7. Relationships take time to grow. Instead of trying to rush things, enjoy the journey, trust your connection
8. knowing your value make you less likely to seek constant validation.
Got solution to ur proble.
Cry every night
Take off that mask
N cry it out
And listen to the songs tht lift ur mood
Repeat this every night
And be bold n the cheerful girl u r the next day
“Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.”
— Maya Angelou
“If you still talk about it, you still care about it.”
— Unknown
“At the end of the day, people will let you down, they will label you as something you are not, it is all to make them feel better, it is about them not you.”
— Leon Brown
I am not finding quotes nor posts that can hold up my side..
I just wish someone could give their all ears.... so that i can admit it "yes i am wrong "
“The most important thing in life is to stop saying ‘I wish’ and start saying ‘I will’. Consider nothing impossible, then treat possibilities as probabilities.”
— Charles Dickens
All I want rn is to be left alone
“Just keep showing up. Most people quit.”
— Unknown
Not anymore:)
abandonment issues make you crave the chase. you wanna feel fought for as if it proves someone’s care for you. and if they don’t chase, you tell yourself it wasn’t real, they left you anyway.. even if you’re the one who pushed or left. it’s a unhealthy cycle to break for sure.