happy pride month to all the
-asexuals
-aromantics
-aroaces
-aromantic allosexuals
-asexual alloromantics
-aroace flux
-people who don’t fit the traditional aspec definitions but still identify as aroace
-poc aspec people
-young aspec people
-old aspec people
-romance/sex favourable aspecs
-romance/sex repulsed aspecs
-romance/sex indifferent aspecs
-romance/sex ambivalent aspecs
-romance/sex averse aspecs
-neurodivergent aspec people
-neurotypical aspec people
-disabled aspec people
-chronically ill aspec people
-aspec people with contradictory identities
-aspec people who do not fit any of these categories listed
-you are all valid 🏳️🌈
“delulu” is not funny or cute. it is an insult to actual delusional people/beasts. DO NOT say it. it is gross
“so psycho” is also NOT funny or cute. it again is a HUGE slap in the face to actual psychotic people/beasts.
a few examples of dumb terms they are disgusting and insulting. if you say them you don’t support the mental ill
am i being haunted rn?? all the electronics and lights just flickered hard out of nowhere, my wifi even went down fully
my paranoia aint helping the fact now that rn its dark and quiet
any other artists that just, can't, make up their minds about their own personas?
i'm already at like draft 32.. how many more will there be before i'm happy with it??
the thing about working on childcare these days is that I'm blown away by how open minded and genuinely curious these kids are. there are multiple openly queer kids, who are aware of the intricacy of the queer community and the multi-faceted nature of queer identity.
none of that was around 10 or 20 years ago. queerness wasn't even necessarily taboo during my childhood experiences, it just,,, wasn't taught or talked about, even from one child to another. I just didn't know it was a thing. but these little kids know about intersectionality!!!
and then when I was in high school, kids used 'gay' as an insult, but these kids at my job don't even blink differently when I told them the little queer flag pin on my messenger bag was the aroace flag. some of them ask what it means, because perhaps they've only heard of gay lesbian and trans. (and they've heard of gay lesbian and trans!!!!) I explain my flag and what it means, and it makes sense to them. that would have been alien for me as a ten year old.
some of these little lesbian girls and aroace and bisexual boys, the pan, poly, demigirl and nonbinary little ten year olds are the best friends that little me needed.
it's refreshing and heartwarming to see that the young ones of today are the kind of people this world needs.
PROTECT QUEER KIDS!!!! EMPOWER QUEER KIDS!!!!
There has been a massive increase in the amount of hate and ableism towards people with tourettes that is accepted.
It is now considered socially acceptable and seen as ok to mock, "fake claim," and insult people with tourettes. It is seen as ok to harm us, even by other disabled people.
I have had people close to me make a mockery of my disability. People who have said to my face they think tics are cute or said I looked weird. People who have mocked my tics in front of me. People who have made it clear that my struggles are a joke to them.
Tourettes is a real disability. A scary, dangerous disability to live with. Tourettes has hurt people. Tourettes has killed people.
It is not just saying inappropriate words and giggling about it afterwards. I've gotten bruises from tic attacks. I've spent nights laying in bed, with my head surrounded by pillows, unable to do anything other than accept that I'm gonna get hurt and wait for it to be over.
Tourettes is not cute. It's not fun. It's not something to mock.
It is traumatic. It is painful. It is debilitating.
Please, treat it that way.
Stop partaking in minimizing how serious this disability is. Stop allowing people to bully those with tourettes and mock the disability. Stop fake claiming or asking for "proof" that someone is suffering.
This shouldn't be seen as ok. This shouldn't be so commonly accepted.
NEVER feel bad for doing jack shit. if you didn't get anything done today, that's wonderful. and I love you.
you know what, shoutout to the neurodivergent people with "scary" symptoms.
the ones who:
-say dark things without realizing
-talk to themselves
-have homicidal thoughts
-get really, really angry
-make others uncomfortable on accident
-don't tolerate bullshit
-can't/won't mask
-have dark interests
-have genuinely hurt others before
-have been in a psych ward before
-obsess over people
-have intrusive thoughts about hurting people
-have sexual intrusive thoughts
-don't really care about others much
-always choose themselves first
-have low/no empathy
-are seen as creepy or scary by others
this goes out to my folks with autism that isn't "uwu cute". personality disorder havers. schizospec people. ocders. odd and ied havers. and anyone and everyone else.
this post does not support intentionally hurting people. but people who have hurt others in the past and have changed or are trying to change/in the process of changing are more than welcome here.
sincerest apologies to whoever's post i accidentally flagged, communities are bugging the shit out of me ;;
is it just candy, or do you have like a packet of ramen in there too? id really like that one :3
just take one please