I'm not going to be following anyone's teachings on this, instead I'll be drawing on my own experiences, so sorry if this doesn't exactly match up with what everyone else is saying about this topic.
Also please note that this is my opinion based on my experiences, and so the process may be different for you!
As a community, I genuinely believe that we have manifestation very backwards. We start off by learning that thoughts create your reality, and we go towards self concept to help the thoughts, and affirmations to force your brain to accept it, and then eventually you'll have it and you'll be happy or whatever. This is actually backwards (at least for me, and I hope this helps other Neurodivergent ppl too).
It started with the States talk for me. My eyes kinda opened to a new way of doing things, and let me tell you it's been SO MUCH EASIER to start with having the feeling/ state of mind that you would have if you had what you wanted, because the thoughts progress naturally from there. I'm not saying affirmations don't work, I'm just saying that starting with affirmations is like trying to force your way through a room filled with molasses, and starting with changing you state of mind is like walking through a room full of air in comparison.
Let me be clear: I'm NOT talking about self concept. I'm talking about FEELING and STATES OF MIND. It's not about the affirmations or the self concept, it's about how you approach them and yourself. From what I've noticed within myself, better self concept comes naturally during this process, just like affirmations do. It all starts with your state.
Let me start off by saying that a state is the seed of a manifestation. It's the very beginning point that everything else branches off of. If you start off with a state of lack, for example, you'll constantly be battling thoughts that come from that lack ("where is it? Why is it taking so long? Etc."). However, if you start off with a state of fulfillment, you'll notice that those negative thoughts don't come as often, if at all, and it's much easier to progress when you're not constantly fighting with your own thoughts.
But let's say you don't know what state to start with. That's perfectly fine! All you have to do is choose a state that will affect everything else in the long run. The state is the seed, remember, and the rest of the thoughts you have will branch from that seed, so you have to plant the right one. Write out or think of this sentence, "I desire ___ because it will make me feel ___" now, don't start with the "I desire ___" instead, start with "it will make me feel ___" that's the state you have to start from, that's your seed.
I started with the state of "I want ___ because it will make me feel Happy" so I chose happiness to be the state I tried to be in. It can start out with you consciously entering that state, and as you learn to do that, and keep doing it, you will find that you naturally do it more often because it becomes familiar.
Then the thoughts come! You go from feeling happy, to thinking happy. You know how when you feel sad, you naturally think thoughts that make you feel sad? The same thing happens with positive states! It comes very naturally. The best part about this is, you know exactly where you want to end up ("I desire ___"), and so you start to guide your naturally positive thoughts towards your desires (affirming). You start off with the "I'm happy. I like being happy." And go towards "I'm happy because I have ___, I'm so happy to have ___." Your mind will start to make that connection automatically, and before you know it, you're affirming (thinking about your desires) all the time without having to force it to happen!
The longer you get into the state, the more natural it feels, and the more easily your affirmations will come. As you progress naturally through this process, you will find that you start to believe your affirmations more and more, and you may even start affirming for things you didn't even know you wanted! This is the seed growing and branching out. Your mind naturally creates connections between your thoughts, and so as you continue to affirm and persist in that state, you will start to form very natural connections between how you feel and how you think. This also improves your self concept along the way, because as you think better, you'll believe better about yourself, and your views on the world will change to match your desires!
During this process, the only thing you have to do is return to your desired state and guide your thoughts towards your goals. Instead of battling yourself constantly and struggling to get to where you want to be and doubting all the time, you naturally go towards your desires in your 4D, thus changing your 3D along the way!
In my opinion, this is the way we are meant to go about manifesting. We realize we're feeling bad, and as we start to change that into feeling happy, our thoughts follow us along the way!
to find your own favourite way of manifesting (that will be naturally the best one for you, simply because you enjoy it the most) take a look at who you are and what you enjoy doing outside of the law. then find a way to put those activities into loa context.
if you love music, create playlists that embody your desired life and listen to them
if you love meditating, go for the void
if you love stories, find books/tv shows that have the vibes of your desired life and project yourself into them
if you love writing, write your own stories with your desires
if you love baking, take this kinda witchy approach and see every ingredient you're adding into the dough as one of your desires while the bowl is your life
if you're competitive, try loa challenges and put set dates for your manifestations to motivate yourself
if you're chill and can't be bothered by anything, simply know that your desires are yours
if you love drawing, draw yourself living your dream life
if you love tarot, create your own rigged readings where you pull out just the cards you want
if you love astrology, rewrite your birth chart and give your placements the meaning you want for them to have
if you're religious, pray to your god(s) and know they'll bring your desires to you
if you're a daydreamer, daydream and know that its real
find your own way cuz that will be the smoothest one for you. everything works. don't force yourself to do anything that doesn't sit right with you. manifesting is supposed to be fun, not a chore.
I feel soo confused on how to manifest? like......... IDK
Your assumptions create your reality, so assume you have what you want and persist in that assumption. To assume is to accept that you already have something without proof, and to persists is to basically continue with an opinion or action. So continue to accept that you already have what you want.
1 β Lay down on your back
2 β Take some deep breaths
3 β Relax
4 β Start affirming βIt is done. I am in the Voidβ
5 β Enter the void
Entering the void can be that easy if you simply assume it is!!!
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my life is literally perfect, I have everything I want because i successfully manifested it. Manifesting is so easy and effortless , so getting this life where I have everything without doing nothing is as easy and effortless as manifesting. Im pretty , ethereal, angelic, addicting, out of this world, gorgeous and everyone faith just by my sight. Im smart, I have the best grades, im educated in all topics, my vocabulary is perfect. Im funny, my personality is out of this world, my vibe is unmatched, being with me is such a blessing . Im rich and priceless, money flows in me and my family, I can afford anything, nothing is too expensive for me and everything is too cheap for me. My body is perfect, everyone that see it just think "body goals omg" or "I wished I looked like her" , every part of my body is perfect and im proud of it. I have no insecurities cause I have no flaws, im leaving THE dream. I have THE privilege, I'm THE standard and THE exception . Everyone wanna be me and be with me. Im so perfect that i dont know what to manifest next and , for me, is not even manifesting anymore, I just decide I have everything I want because im the creator of my reality. I want it, i instantly got it. I decide what happens in my reality and it happens. Im successful in everything and thats a fact.
NO ONE TO CHANGE BUT SELF
-what is a state? it is a collection of thoughts, feelings, emotions, & beliefs that you identify with. it is who you are being. your I AM
you are ALWAYS in a state. we go in & out of states ALL day. there are INFINITE realities & YOU choose what state to occupy. when we say that creation is finished that is exactly what it means. you do not have to create anything. there's a version of you that is rich & one that is poor. one in a loving relationship & one where you are single. being a good student or a bad student. having your dream job or a job you hate. etc. YOU get to CHOOSE which state you experience. if you can see something in your mind & think what it would be like to experience those things, then it is possible. imagination is the only reality. nothing can happen unless it is experienced in imagination FIRST.
how do i get into a state?
decide what you want to manifest
fulfill yourself in imagination to get into the wish fulfilled
how do i get into the wish fulfilled?
you could just say "i am in the state" or "i am in the wish fulfilled" & you're in it! it is as easy as intending to be in it
use methods to help maintain the state
affirming- pick a few affirmations that help you to capture the feeling (knowing) that your desire is a fact in imagination. (how do i feel now that i have my desire? what would i be thinking if i had my desire?) whatever answer you had to those questions, would be great affirmations! make them yourself. don't ask someone to make some for you. affirmations should be NATURAL to YOU. affirming is not something that should be forced. there is a BIG difference between having natural thoughts & forcing yourself to think structured sentences. you do NOT need to affirm 24/7. why? bc that is not NATURAL & you were not doing that before you found out about the law. also, affirmations DO NOT get you into the state, they are a technique that is used to MAINTAIN the state of wish fulfilled. personally, when i enter the wish fulfilled, i feel calm, peaceful, and content. i feel the inner KNOWING that my desire is fulfilled (bc it is) and thoughts come to me NATURALLY. thoughts come from your state, so they are a great indicator to help you know which state you're in.
visualizing- spend time in imagination. (what would a a day look like with my desire?) visualize where you want to be/what you want to experience. visualize a scene that implies that you have your desire. keep doing this until you have the feeling that it is a fact in your imagination.
scripting- write a diary entry. describe what a day would look like with your desire. get as detailed as you want. you are the author.
inner conversations- this can kind of go together with visualizing. talk to someone in imagination about your desire, talk to the person you desire, or imagine someone congratulating you for obtaining your desire.
SATS (state akin to sleep)- do this as you're about to fall asleep. visualize one scene that implies that you have your desire on a loop until you fall asleep. feel the scene to be real (bc it is). neville talked about this A LOT in his work & was his favorite method. he always said to fall asleep in the wish fulfilled.
lullaby method- create a short phrase that indicates you have your desire. neville suggested phrases such as "thank you" "it is finished" "it is done" i personally like to use the phrase "it is mine" bc it is more natural to me. say the short phrase of your choice over & over until you fall asleep knowing it is a fact. now when i say "say it over & over" i do NOT mean to say it like a robot. FEEL THEM. personally when i do this, i say the phrase slowly & calmly to myself to REMIND myself that it is done & is A FACT.
key takeaway from methods: do whatever is natural to you. do not have the mindset of doing them to get something. you are just reminding yourself of what you already have. you must have it in imagination first to get it in the 3d, so if you have the mindset of "i am gonna do xyz method to get my desire" i'm sorry but it will not work
persist- keep going back to the wish fulfilled. stay faithful to your imagination.
do i have to stay in the state all day?
NO! go back to the state whenever you think about your desire. it is NOT about how long you are in a state but the frequency (amount of times you go back to it) ex: if you think about your desire 5 times a day, but 3 of those times you are thinking from a state of lack (not having it), while the other 2 are the state of wish fulfilled. the state of lack is your dwelling state (which is what you will see in the 3d)
is manifestation really instant?
YES! what you are experiencing right now in the 3d is your CURRENT dwelling state. how do you change it? by going within & leaving the 3d alone. once you have made your desire state your dwelling place, it will instantly be reflected in the 3d. the 3d is simply showing you who you are being/identifying as. this is why we tell you that you have to change yourself first. the outer world is a mirror to our inner world. why would you expect to see rainbows & sunshine in your 3d, when your 4d is lightning & thunder? how could you see a change of clothes, unless you changed them yourself first? once you change, the rest will follow. it is LAW.
how do i know if i fell out of the state?
you may be checking the 3d, worrying, or having opposing thoughts. again, THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS. they are NOT what manifests. they have no power over you unless you give them power. don't identify (accept them as true) & let them pass. since your state manifests, a few silly thoughts that you don't accept as true mean NOTHING
how do i get back into the state if i fell out of it?
intend to go back & use the methods i described above to maintain the state
what do we mean by feeling?
feeling β emotion. it is the KNOWING. you may feel calm, happy, peaceful, relief, etc. it is NOT some groundbreaking euphoric moment. it is NATURAL. you are in a dwelling state for EVERY aspect of your life (love, school, work, career, finances, etc.) so feeling your desire to be real, is not going to be some rainbow explosion. you know a lot of other things to be real that you are not placing as much focus on, so your desire is no different.
i stopped desiring it?
ex: you got a new pair of shoes. when you first got them you were excited to wear them. as the days went on, the "spark" kind of went away. it's not that you weren't excited to wear them, but you got used to having them & KNOW that they are yours
ex: once you start dating someone, you are excited to text them good morning and to hang out with them. over this, this becomes normal & expected. ofc you're going to be texting & hanging out with the person you're dating.
you may stop desiring your desire bc you KNOW that you have it. it's normal for you to have your desire. how could you continue desiring something you already have? that's like saying you want the pair of shoes you are wearing right now.
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STOP being a slave to your senses. shut the 3d out bc it is a reflection of your past dwelling state. since you're going to the wish fulfilled & thinking of your desire in your favor, the 3d doesn't matter. it is NOT who you are anymore. once your dwelling state is the wish fulfilled, it will reflected in the 3d INSTANTLY. stop bringing up the past bc it only exists in your mind. go within & fulfill your inner man. you desire something? see it in your imagination. want to talk to someone? have an inner convo or visualize talking to them. want to hang out with someone? do it in imagination. everything stems from imagination. it will not fail you. the world is a mirror that is reflecting who you are being. as within, so without. you MUST change FIRST to see the change in the outer world. there is nothing & no one to change but self.
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fun ways to script !
THE NIKKI MAXWELL METHOD
if you've read dork diaries then you know what i'm talking about! @heart-shaped-tears has a post about how nikki manifested her dream life!
just write as if you are writing in your diary! make it fun! doodle, add colours, gossip! just focus on your dream life and make it as fun as possible!
DRAWING METHOD
draw your desires. you can draw your desired face, body etc. this is helpful if you can actually draw (i can't lmao)
LETTERS TO YOUR GODSELF
this is pretty self explanatory. write about your desires asking / thanking your godself for your desires and trust that they will come ! this can help with obsessing / worrying about your desires.
THE GREG HEFFLEY METHOD
(i had to lmaoo)
very similar to the dork diaries method! greg is from the diary of a wimpy kid. unlike nikki, greg complains about his life. however you can use this to your advantage! complain about your desired life!
i know this sounds silly but if you complain in real life, then complaining about having your desires can help you feel it real!
WRITE AFFIRMATIONS
just write a list of affirmations out. you can decorate around them or write them in bubble writing. make this fun for yourself!
SCRAPBOOK METHOD
take photos of examples of your desired life / desires and write around the pictures as if they are yours!
eg. a pic of dubai - "dubai was so fun! i loved every minute there and i can't wait to go back!"
you can even date them to make it feel more real.
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At home spa day
Beforehand:
Declutter your space
Light scented candles
Put on a playlist/podcast/audiobook
Pour yourself a drink
Make sure you have all materials within reach
Feet:
Remove old nail polish
Soak feet in a foot bath prepared with salts
Exfoliate & remove death skin
Cut nails
File nails
Take out gunk between nail & skin
Cut cuticles if needed + push them back
Apply a new coat of nail polish
Apply cuticle oil and foot cream
Hands:
Remove old nail polish
File nails in desired shape and length
Apply cutticle remover and push back/cut any cuticles
Buff nails
Apply a new coat of nail polish
Apply cuticle oil and hand cream
Hair:
Latter your hair in a hair oil/mask
Double rinse with first a cleansing and then nourishing shampoo
Apply conditioner to only the ends and rinse
Dry as needed for your hair type
Body:
If you wax, dry exfoliate
Apply baby powder to desired areas
Wax desired areas
If you shave, exfoliate in shower
Shave desired areas
Use body scrub over entire body
Lather yourself in nice smelling soap
Apply anti hair growth serum
Moisturise
Face:
Remove makeup
Cleanse thoroughly
Steam your face
Exfoliate
Pluck/wax eyebrows and any other facial hair
Apply face mask
Rinse
Massage face
Tone
Add serum and any other product needed for your specific skin type/condition
Moisturise