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Re-doing my pinned post again, now that another birthday has passed and have returned from my paid reading hiatus.
I'm a 24 year old cosmic witch with a Cancer Sun, Pisces Moon, and Sagittarius Rising; I have a Cancer & 8th House Stellium. I'm transmasc, and my pronouns are he/they. I prefer gender-neutral and masculine terms, with "mom/momma" being the only exception.
This blog is dedicated to witchcraft. I will post about my life from time-to-time as well, but these posts will use the #abt me. If you are only here for readings and/or astrology, look at #readings or #astrology. I also have a #divination and #witchcraft tag. I do have a multitude of sideblogs for my other interests, feel free to inquire about them if you are interested.
This is my full-time job, so any and all support is appreciated. Ko-fi is the best way to tip me, which you can access by clicking here! If Ko-Fi doesn't work for you/isn't available, let me know and we can discuss other tip/payment options. I do also have 3 published poetry books that you can find on Amazon. Their titles are "I Call For You, Endlessly", "I Bleed Your Blood", and "Into The Floral Night" written by Alexandra Joan.
I started studying astrology, divination, and witchcraft somewhere between the ages of 7-9 years old. You can check my #reviews tag for reviews.
My free readings are always open! You can ask through DMs or my askbox. Please do not send more than 5 questions more message/ask, as it becomes a little overwhelming, however you can send multiple messages/asks! Do not ask about health, death, or pregnancy. If you tip with the free reading request, I'll give you a more in-depth answer to your question(s). As well, as a disclaimer, the answers you receive are not set in stone. You can make the decisions in your own life, and you should not base serious decisions on what a stranger on the internet says. You control your own life. Not me, or any other reader.
3 Card Reading - $6.25 - You can ask 1-3 questions for this reading, however only 3 cards are pulled. Meaning either a 3 card pull for 1 question, or 1 card per question if you ask 3 questions. Clarifiers to be pulled if needed. This can be done as a written reading or a video reading.
Multi-Question Reading - $13 - A 3 card, at least, reading where I pull a minimum of 3 cards to answer each question you have. Meaning if you ask 3 questions, you will receive 9 cards. Clarifiers are pulled as needed. This can be done as a written reading or a video reading.
All astrology readings require your birth date, birth time, and birth place. Some readings may require additional information.
Transit Analysis - $18.75 - A written reading to either provide you with a week-ahead forecast based on how the week's transits interact with your Natal Chart, or to let you know how a specific transit will affect you (such as Mercury retrograde). This reading does require your current place of residency.
Specific Placement or Question Analysis - $24.50 - A written reading to either give you further insight on a placement in your Natal Chart (this extends to asteroids as well!) or to answer a specific question you have (such as "what career suits me best") using your Natal Chart. This reading is best for someone who has already read their Natal Chart/understands it.
Natal Chart - $44.75 - A written reading analyzing your Natal/Birth Chart.
Composite Chart - $44.75 - A written reading analyzing your relationship with someone in your life. It is best for learning how the relationship exists as its own entity, the way the relationship changes and shapes you both, and the world around you. I will need the second person's birth date, birth time, and birth place as well.
Synastry Chart - $56 - A written reading also analyzing your relationship with another person, however this is best for learning how you & the other person interact with one another, where the pitfalls & shortcomings exist in the relationship, and the way you two can support each other & communicate healthier.
Solar Return - $56.50 - A written reading analyzing your Solar Return Chart. This Chart is created once a year, on/around your birthday, when the Sun returns to the same position it was when you were born. It helps provide an idea of what opportunities and obstacles your Solar Year holds for you, and how you can best take advantage of the year.
If there are any other readings you are interested in, and you don't see them listed here, let me know. As well, if you have an idea of what you want, but don't know what reading is best, also let me know!
Hiii everyone! As a way to promote my paid readings opening back up again, I've decided to run a tarot game :3 The free readings currently in my inbox will still be answered, and you're welcome to continue sending in unrelated free reading requests; however participating in this ask game will give you a MUCH more detailed response than my typical free readings.
For this ask game, I will pull a card on “what your guides need you to know at this current time”. Upon request, I can also pull a card to answer who one of your guides is.
Participation Rules
Follow me.
Like & reblog this post, as well as my pinned post.
Send an ask saying you're participating, and letting me know if you want the additional "who is one of my guides" card.
Anons ARE allowed, so long as they send screenshot proof with the ask (you can crop your username out of the screenshot!) that they followed & reblogged. Non-anons, let me know if you want my response to be public or private!
And that's all! For now this game is OPEN and I will update it when I close the game. Much love to you all! <33
Disclaimer: I'm releasing an old banger but a revised version as my perception has changed!These are just my personal beliefs, and it is completely open ended just like everything else. If you are searching for a “logical” answer this post isn’t for you, this post is for the shifting and manifesting baddies that are open minded to the “impossible” being possible. If you struggle with disassociation this post might not be for you.
We are constantly being told in the manifestation and reality shifting community that we are completely limitless. However, what does that mean exactly? EVERYTHING is made out of energy: our thoughts, emotions, physical bodies, nature, “physical objects,” etc at its ultimate core. Ultimately, we are pure consciousness not attached to any reality. We are the Multiverse experiencing itself. This is why manifestors say that consciousness is the only real reality, and when we enter the “void state” it’s already within us. The void state is just pure consciousness. We are simply entering our truest state of being where we always shift and manifest instantly, where negative thoughts, doubts, feelings, etc don’t exist because this isn’t our natural state of being. We are all “connected” to this energy, because we are all made out of the same energy that makes up the entire Multiverse: spirits, gods, deities, entities, yourselves, physical objects, animals, plants, planets, realities, dimensions, realms, and down to your thoughts. We are everything, everywhere, all at once. Everyone across the entire Multiverse shares a collective consciousness of “I AM” as we are all made up of the same energy. We are all One. I don’t say this to freak anyone out, this should be empowering to know that you have full control of your reality. You can be anything and anywhere right now no matter what. You can do anything and change anything instantly no matter what because time isn't real.
As pure consciousness who are the creators of our realities we have complete and ultimate freewill, so that you have the freewill to create your own beliefs and assumptions. There is no such thing as right or wrong, black or white, everything is grey including what you assume is true or not true. The only real reality is your imagination/consciousness/awareness, because everything is energy. The Multiverse is a paradox, everything and nothing exists at the same time because it all comes down to your dictation as to what is real and isn’t real in your reality. Everything that you can possibly imagine and desire already exists within you, as you are limitless and completely infinite. Nothing is impossible for you. Time is an illusion, and it doesn’t exist so in your imagination where the energy is at its rawest form you already have all of your desires (aka consciousness).
There are no laws of physics that dictate your reality, the concept of the laws of physics is simply your current awareness of reality, which can be easily changed as long as your awareness changes. You are all limitless and you can bend and change the laws of physics/the physical reality with your own assumptions. For example, you assume that you have the ability to fly, as long as you keep assuming that you can fly then your physical reality will transform that. ANYTHING is possible, you create your own rules down to the laws of physics of what is and isn’t possible in your realm of awareness of reality, which can differ for anyone else. Everything that you were taught: spirituality, religion, science, and witchcraft are simply real because you assume that they are real as you were taught since birth to accept certain things as “hardcore truths” when “hardcore truths” is simply an illusion. There are no such things as “ultimate truths” except the ones that you create within your own awareness of reality. This is why “fictional” realities exist, because they simply have a different awareness of reality/“laws of physics” than we do, which can easily be changed. For example, have you ever wondered why some people experience paranormal experiences and others don’t? While they may be real to you in your reality, may be unreal to others in their reality, and both are correct because it is your assumptions that dictates reality. In terms with death, spirits, gods, entities, the astral realm/concept of afterlife, laws of spirituality such as karma, reincarnation, etc-everything boils down to your assumptions as well. These energies are very real only if you perceive it to be real, but if you do not believe in them then they won’t exist in your reality because they will simply not abide by your personal laws of physics. Don’t limit yourself: you can manifest immortality, your desired reality, teleportation, manifesting instantly, time travel, time manipulation, whether you can fly or not, “fictional” characters shifting to your reality, etc as your “core” laws of reality, or lack of. It’s up to you.
Therefore, you completely create your rules to manifest, and how you manifest. Do you shift every time you manifest anything no matter what or simply manipulate the 3D? Up to you to decide, you are correct no matter what because this is your reality. "You" as pure consciousness is where your imagination, desires, assumptions, beliefs and thoughts reside and you already have your all you desires simultaneously because time is not real is the only place you should focus. The physical reality is simply an illusion, and is easily malleable and customisable. It can be changed and manipulated instantly so you can also always change your “laws” on how your reality works whenever you want to. Imagination is your only real reality, where creation is finished it is done. You are never creating anything you are simply being the person who already has your desire/are in your DR. It already exists within you as consciousness being the only real reality. Therefore, the concept of “fiction” and “impossible” isn’t real because what you deem as “fictional worlds” that are created already exist if you assume so. We have just been taught of certain things as “hardcore truths” within this perception of reality, which is completely false and can be changed instantly if we really wanted to. Every single little thing that you think of, desire, etc already exists in the imagination the only real reality right now. Essentially you are limitless you can be anything and anywhere no matter what because you already are that thing right now, no matter what it is. You just need to change your assumption to accepting it.
It should be noted that you do not need to enter the void state to be limitless. All you need to do is accept your true state that you are pure consciousness not attached to any reality or perception of reality, the void is already within you right now. You are the true, ultimate creator /God of your reality, you can even dictate your own “laws of physics” within your reality and what is “true” or “not true.” When you accept that you are more than just your physical body, you open a whole new world of possibilities you deemed “impossible.” You may ask yourself: If it’s the ultimate law that the physical reality must conform to the consciousness that I am (my desires) instantly no matter what then why doesn’t it happen? Whose to say that you can’t just blink right now and be in your DR or have your desired manifestation no matter what right now? Or that you can see the physical change before your eyes to fit your desires or DR? All of this is possible, the problem is that we have grown up in this current awareness of reality to overcomplicate and overthink everything. We think that we need to “believe,” “let go,” “feel happy,” etc. Also, let’s be honest subconsciously we also expect the physical reality to take “time” because we have been taught that we have to “wait” and “work hard” to get everything we want and put “limitations” to our desires. What you need to do is begin to assume that your physical reality instantly conforms to your desires before your eyes no matter what-you don’t need to believe, feel happy, let go, etc. Everything is energy, all you need to do is manipulate this energy by assume what you desire, and make it a dominant assumption. Your dominant assumptions (the energy you put mostly in) always create your reality. Don’t overcomplicate anything just keep assuming in your favour to manifest, shift, create your own laws of physics, etc because your imagination/consciousness already knows every single detail of what you desire since it already exists within you right now.
we’ve all been in this situation for different reasons, anxiety, procrastination, work, way too many assignments in a week. but fear not my friends, hopefully, this masterpost will help you get A’s and organize your study schedule.
also please don’t do this every time you need to study for a test, cramming is not good for learning and pulling all-nighters frequently isn’t healthy.
cramming
how to cram for a big test by @studyign how to cram efficiently by @study-studymore-studyhard test and cramming tips how to cram the night before a test and pass 10 ways to cram successfully
all-nighters (the last resort)
how to pull an all-nighter and pass your exam all-nighter survival tips by @rookiemag how to pull and effective all-nighter stay all night without feeling sleepy: pt1 / pt2 expert-approved guide to pulling an all-nighter pull the most efficient all-nighter how to pull an all-nighter how to pull and all-nighter : from the special forces do’s and don’ts of pulling an all-nighter
really do them if it’s absolutely necessary:
is it bad for you to pull and all-nighter why you should never pull and all-nighter
the night before the exam
study the night before by @renaissence study the day before by @getstudyblr night owl study tips by @lawjournalsandwine the night before the exam by @studyspoinspo how to study the night before a test the night before the exam tips top tips for the night before and the morning of the exam how to pass an exam if you forgot to study the night before study the day before the exam 10 things you should do the night before a test 7 mistakes you make on the night before an exam you’ll never make again
i have less than a week to study
five day study plan by @brandi-studies how to study for an upcoming exam by @noteblr how to remember everything for a test in 3 days by @getstudyblr when you have a test really soon study well in short time study for exams in limited time ace an exam that’s around the corner
tips
25 study tips by @studyign how to study more efficiently fastest way to memorize by @studyign common study mistakes by @studyign tips on study last minute by @milkystudies how to get things done by @lattenotlate study smart not hard 10 tips to study smart and save time useful tips to study in short time how to study for an exam effectively prepare for a exam in a really short time study for an approaching exam the secrets to study effectively in short time nice time management advice how to study in groups how to stay focused by @elkstudies finals week masterpost 22 science based tips to study for an exam 20 study hacks to imporve your memory
tips for during the exam
15 tips to boost your exam performance
how to answer exam questions
7 last-minute exam tips
28 top tips for exams and tests
top 10 tips for taking exams
last minute revision tips
how to mentally prepare for a test by @eruditicn
anti procrastination masterpost by @elkstudies
beat anxiety and stress in 1 hour and start studying!
how to stop procrastination
deal with exam anxiety by @attackonstudying
scientifically the best ways to prepare for an exam
how to get motivated
my motivation tag
app masterpost
DIY masterpost
food masterpost
how to: group work
printable masterpost
language masterpost
music masterpost
my study methods masterpost
affirmations for heartbreakers, vixens, and merciless temptresses
۵ everybody wants to make me theirs, but there’s simply no one truly worthy of my love and affection
۵ don’t think that i don’t notice the way heads turn to stare at me everywhere i go, the way eyes follow me across rooms, the way everyone instantly falls head over heels for me
۵ i am alluring. tantalizing. irresistible. im not a narcissist, im just stating the facts
۵ people are always tripping over themselves to do nice things for me, whether it’s holding a door, helping me put on a coat, or pulling out a seat. everyone just worships me.
۵ i understand that everyone wants me, but there’s simply no one in my league
۵ people become obsessed with me, addicted. all it takes is one look at me, and you’ll never be the same again
۵ my seductive glare is more powerful than a sirens song
۵ whoever i meet, i leave an ever lasting, indelible impression on. im simply unforgettable
۵ i’m just a heartbreaker, what can i say?
Why I’m literally an icon: how to make everyone fall in love with you
Similarly to my thread about how to make the world your oyster, you can make anyone you want fall in love with you. This stems from the most important part of the law of attraction/assumption: self concept.
Neville Goddard-pioneer of manifesting-says There is no one to change but self; that self is simply your awareness, your consciousness and the world in which it lives is determined by the concept you hold of self. It is to consciousness that we must turn as to the only reality.
This is the key to manifesting! Changing your self concept aka the way you see yourself is the key to getting everything you want. Your self concept is you in relations to the outer world. Change it and your entire world changes!
What can self concept do you for you? It can get you to manifestations quicker, make you beautiful, have people pay attention to you and pretty much automatically manifest anything for you. Once you switch your self concept to wealth, you’ll automatically manifest money. Once you see yourself as beautiful, you’ll be seen and become beautiful. It can also make people call in love with you(hence the thread name)
Ever met anyone who was just effortlessly cool, sweet and loveable? That can be you! But how can I achieve this? Self concept affirmations!
Repeat these every time you think of yourself, every free second you have or any time you might have negative thoughts about yourself. Be sure to engage in positive self talk and have a clean mental diet as well!
Here’s my favorite self concept affirmations! If you don’t see anything you’d like just affirm in present tense that you have and are what you want to be! You can even become like your favorite celebrities by affirming I’m like xyz!
Thank you for reading! Stay iconic.
*゚:༅ 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 ✿⌒*・゚
commanding your subconscious is so simple and so easy, just like any other manifestation technique. to do it, you don't need to do any specific prep or work, you just need to...
know what you desire and claim it
command your subconscious for your desire
trust, believe, and know that your subconscious will get you your desire
continue on with your day as usual without doubts or worries
and that's it! it's that simple. results can come in an instant if that's what you want and what you assume
*゚:༅ 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞 ✿⌒*・
let's say i want 50 dollars
first, i would know and claim my desire. my desire is 50 dollars.
now, i would command my subconscious for my desire by saying or thinking "subconscious, i command you to get me 50 dollars."
after that, i don't second guess myself or put doubts on my command. i live in the state of knowing that my subconscious is getting me my desire and that i will get my 50 dollars.
i continue on with my day, again, with no doubts or worries
i get my 50 dollars, however it may be, because i trusted my subconscious and knew i would get what i wanted.
( ✿ ) you can command your subconscious for anything, there are no limits. you can command it for instant results, getting into the void, self concept, anything.
don't overcomplicate it!
"HOW DO I MANIFEST WITH LOA?"
Im explaining this in case you are new here or need a reminder about how easy it is, manifesting is simple and im for real, its SO much more easy than you think, people are just complicating everything or you are .
MANIFESTING :
Know what you want, choose it with no limit.
Assume ( = think as if ) its yours . Get in the state of having it. Assuming is just being totally convinced of it without proof like validation of the 3d(=irl), that you don't need cause your only *true* reality is your 4d (= mind)
And finally just persist regardless of what you experience in your fives senses or in the 3d, just believe the 4d, cause thats the only true.
When I say you have to assume something is just getting in the mental state of already having it, in simple words, think that you have it and just persist in that thought, all time , like everytime someone or yourself say the opposite of having what you desire just flip that thought to the correct one of already having it. Change your mindset to having it!
As you can see, manifesting is really easy, in a few steps you got your desire. You just have to repeat yourself that you have it & continue thinking like that and that's it.
1 ★ Lay down on your back
2 ★ Take some deep breaths
3 ★ Relax
4 ★ Start affirming “It is done. I am in the Void”
5 ★ Enter the void
Entering the void can be that easy if you simply assume it is!!!
Turning your life around? Coming out of a funk? Getting over a breakup? Need to reignite your spark for life? Need to feel in control? Want a boost of confidence? Dealing with low self esteem?
Where to start:
Exercise every day
Skincare + makeup of personal preference (yes this includes not wearing makeup at all if that is your personal preference)
Hair done
Showered and moisturized
At least one hobby you engage with on a daily/frequent basis
At least one skill you are developing on a daily/frequent basis
If you haven’t gotten a 7 day workout streak and completed the other bullet points on this list yet, stop moaning, get to work, and kill your distractions.
This is level 0.
I feel soo confused on how to manifest? like......... IDK
Your assumptions create your reality, so assume you have what you want and persist in that assumption. To assume is to accept that you already have something without proof, and to persists is to basically continue with an opinion or action. So continue to accept that you already have what you want.
Hello, so I'm back with another challenge *jazz hands*
깨우다 (Kaeda/Kkaeuda) in korean means wake up, and I thought it would suit this challenge, as it's a wake up call for all of you, and you'll be waking up with all your desires
This is a void free challenge❗
Also, thank you so much for everyone who made these amazing posts, I had to add them here because they helped me, and so many others understand
So basically, here's what you are going to do, or basically what this challenge consists of
Make a list of what you'll manifest, preferably on tumblr posted so you're held accountable (tag me so I can see it)
Don't change the list
Live in the end
Persist
Vaunt for your desires as soon as you wake up, and before you sleep
SATS — before you sleep, imagine yourself waking up with all your desires (Optional: you can listen to this or this while doing this step, and loop it overnight if you'd like)
You can also keep a mini journal, or script online on notepad of how your day went, in the perspective of someone who has their desires (For example, if I wanted to move to Los Angeles, I'd write about my day in the city, and write about places I went, in Los Angeles. It doesn't have to be big, it can even be going to the supermarket or school)
Let go, knowing all your desires are yours and that the 3D will conform no matter what
I manifested my dream life this way, and this is basically my day to day manifestation routine! I did this for maybe 3 to 4 days, and then woke up with a lot of my problems being solved, and living in a different apartment away from my parents and changing schools to a nicer one
And that's basically it! Do tag me, and share your success stories <33
ℍ𝕠𝕨 𝕔𝕒𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕓𝕖 𝕞𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕠𝕥𝕚𝕔?
All the pictures are from Pinterest. If you like this post, do reblog.
Thank you.
By loving yourself more. Show the love you feel for people around you. You might keep everyone at a distance. Close but not close enough. Start showing your soft side more. Let more people into your life. Don't judge or assess every tiny little thing to see if someone might hurt you.
Take care of your mind. You might have too many negative thoughts that you end up agreeing with. You can tackle them one by one. If you won't let anyone else talk shit about you, then why are you doing it yourself? Create something. Declutter your mind, sit in a quiet space, put on some music and do whatever you want.
Accept every part of yourself; even if you think that it's ugly. Your body need more gentle love AND nutrients. You have a strong energy. Acknowledge how strong you are and how far you have come.
By being unapologetically yourself. By being confident and loving yourself. Be more assertive, don't let anyone walk over you. Be the living version of "Fire in my veins". Dress the way you want. For this group, there's something you want to do. You are not letting yourself do it. For some the reason can be the judgemental people around them.
You have a lot of potential, you are holding yourself back from achieving it. It can be due to fear. Although I am seeing confidence in this pile. It's a mixture of confidence "I am awesome, obviously everyone will talk about me" and "Shit what are they saying? Is it bad? Are they laughing? "
A quote I saw years ago might help. Something like "People who matter to me, don't judge me. And people who judge me, don't matter to me."
You have fire in your veins. Let me be free and see the things you achieve. You just have to realise your power.
You have to accept yourself. There are parts of you that you are ignoring. You will have to go through a journey and look into your soul. A lot of the people in this pile might think that they are weak. That there's something that you are missing and without it can't be strong. Or just your idea of an ideal you.
It feels like you have an immense power, but you are scared to touch it. Some are not acknowledging it and some are ignoring it all together. You will have to face your truth/shadows, and that might be what's scaring you. You can become your ideal version, you will just have to realise that you are powerful. Some people here are victimizing themself and that can be what's causing it. A very small portion, is people pleasing. Or it can just be pleasing your ego, telling yourself lies.
I haven't done one pile, but this one feels like the most powerful out of the three.
This is your reality. Stop worrying about the when or how. Forget about logic, forget about how it’ll happen, forget about when it’ll manifest, forget about the deadline. Forget about everything that makes you worry and doesn’t serve you!
You already have exactly what you want, as soon as you accept you have what you want then it is done. It has already manifested.
You make the rules. No more asking loa bloggers if you can have this and that, anything is possible if you say so. Struggling to enter the void? That’s on you. Why would it matter if you accidentally moved 5 minutes into affirming for the void, the void is within, you make the rules. If you say you enter the void after affirming once, then you enter the void after affirming once. “I spiralled, now all my progress is ruined” that’s only true if you accept it as true.
This is the law of assumption. Truly understand what that means. It means what you assume is what is real and true. So take this seriously, start to think in your favour. Don’t make rules for yourself that don’t serve you just because someone else said so.
I promise that once you start to actually think in your favour and only believe things that you want to believe you will be set free; you will find yourself at peace and manifesting will no longer be something you see as challenging and frustrating. Find salvation in your beliefs and assumptions.
⚐⠀this is an oppositional but still educational post.
you are in fact both. you affirm aka assume therefore think that you have your desire and persist in that aka enter the state of having your desire. you maintain that state by persisting.
you are in a state no matter what. you affirm no matter what as you are always thinking. simply stating that you have your desire is an affirmation. and all "ways" of manifestation require persistence. no matter how you manifest, no matter which method you use or which challenge you try, you are always — at all times — persisting.
also, what is a states girly? technically — no, quite literally — we are all "states girlies". or do you call yourself an everyone-is-you-pushed-out girly? or an assumption girly? or a self concept girly? or a fulfillment girly? or an imagination girly?
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she has some of the most helpful posts ever and they're easy to understand. there's SO many of them too. hope it helps <3
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if you overconsumed info
manifesting FAQ
change your physical reality challenge
just do it challenge
revamp your whole life!
manifesting celebrity sp
money affirmation trick
for those who feel like they dont deserve the desire
fun manifesting hack
the only requirement for being a hot girl
break the pattern today or the loop will repeat tomorrow
manifesting equation
how to reality shift
make 2022 better
why having good self concept matters
celebrities that manifest
manifestation myths
everything is you pushed out challenge
remember this
difference betwee you and a bad bitch
the only issue you need to work on
self concept affirmations
self concept affirmations 2
self concept affirmations 3
how to persist
money affirmations
future tense affirmations work
answering your manifesting questions
the issue for asking others for affirmations
stick with it
beauty vaunt
you're meant to have an amazing life
how i manifested my celeb sp
quotes and key points from solar's guide
masterlist
how i personally manifest
what it feels like to actually know you have your desires
reminder
realize once you change your self concept
reminder it's impossible not to get your desires
the way i was able to manifest one of the biggest celebs
why law of assumption is better than law of attraction
🏹 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐅𝐄𝐒𝐓.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
step one : decide what you want, and decide that you have it.
you want something? you already have it! you want an ability? you already have it!you wanna shift somewhere? you're already there!
step two: maintain your faith to that decision by fulfilling yourself in imagination.
a.k.a. thinking as if or living in the end / knowing. when it comes to imaginal acts: if you get bored with affirming all the time, you can use other methods!
step three : persist and be consistent to your new assumption.
by persist, i mean i want you to stand firm in the feeling of acceptance & belief towards the fact that your desire is yours. not forcing yourself to become or believe. this is also super helpful when doubts pop up.
step four: repeat step three until the idea of having your desire feels natural and you naturally accept / believe your assumption to be true and normal.
decide -> maintain faith -> persist in new assumption -> assumptions / beliefs shift -> 3d instantly shifts to match.
REMEMBER! ☕
⭐️ your 4d creates and always comes first, your 3d reflects and follows.
⭐️ your past thoughts, experiences and states do not matter.
⭐️ you can't try to become something you already are.
⭐️ just because your circumstances are real, don't mean they're permanent and forever.
⭐️ it's the frequency of returning to fulfilling imaginal acts that counts, not how long you do them for.
⭐️ manifestation is inner work. not outer work.
⭐️ stop focusing on the fact that you don't have it and focus on the fact that you do.
⭐️ wishful thinking and inner fulfillment will never be the same thing.
⭐️ manifestation / shifting will always be instant.
⭐️ if you steer off track, dust yourself off and get back on it.
⭐️ never doubt the limitless power that resides within yourself and your imagination.
⭐️ acceptance is allowed from surrendering, not forcing.
⭐️ success is a choice. not an unattainable prize.
it's all about allowance, faith and acceptance.
i desperately need y’all to grasp how easy manifesting with the law of assumption is.
it’s really that simple:
• decide that you have something
• fulfill internally (aka thinking from / living in the end)
• and just persist in the belief that your desires are yours
the 3d will literally just reflect that because it has to LMFAOO
with persisting, it’s just having faith in the fact that everything that’s going on in your 4d is real and done. it’s fr just standing firm in your belief, man.
and you don’t have to try or do a lot of shit to get into the state of wish fulfilled cause the second you start believing you’ll naturally shift into it….MAN ITS THAT SIMPLE LIKE 😭
don’t overwhelm yourselves with how or when it’s gonna happen. even though you can do that, it’s just gonna instill more worry and fear of it happening than fulfillment. just dwell in the fact that you have it and RELAX. you got it, you shifted there, you’re fine. BREATHE bruh 😭😭
you don’t need to force or discipline yourself to do that, you just need to allow yourself to accept your new assumption. and everything will follow cause you accepted that your assumption is true and nothing can change that belief. that’s it 🤷🏾♀️
NO ONE TO CHANGE BUT SELF
-what is a state? it is a collection of thoughts, feelings, emotions, & beliefs that you identify with. it is who you are being. your I AM
you are ALWAYS in a state. we go in & out of states ALL day. there are INFINITE realities & YOU choose what state to occupy. when we say that creation is finished that is exactly what it means. you do not have to create anything. there's a version of you that is rich & one that is poor. one in a loving relationship & one where you are single. being a good student or a bad student. having your dream job or a job you hate. etc. YOU get to CHOOSE which state you experience. if you can see something in your mind & think what it would be like to experience those things, then it is possible. imagination is the only reality. nothing can happen unless it is experienced in imagination FIRST.
how do i get into a state?
decide what you want to manifest
fulfill yourself in imagination to get into the wish fulfilled
how do i get into the wish fulfilled?
you could just say "i am in the state" or "i am in the wish fulfilled" & you're in it! it is as easy as intending to be in it
use methods to help maintain the state
affirming- pick a few affirmations that help you to capture the feeling (knowing) that your desire is a fact in imagination. (how do i feel now that i have my desire? what would i be thinking if i had my desire?) whatever answer you had to those questions, would be great affirmations! make them yourself. don't ask someone to make some for you. affirmations should be NATURAL to YOU. affirming is not something that should be forced. there is a BIG difference between having natural thoughts & forcing yourself to think structured sentences. you do NOT need to affirm 24/7. why? bc that is not NATURAL & you were not doing that before you found out about the law. also, affirmations DO NOT get you into the state, they are a technique that is used to MAINTAIN the state of wish fulfilled. personally, when i enter the wish fulfilled, i feel calm, peaceful, and content. i feel the inner KNOWING that my desire is fulfilled (bc it is) and thoughts come to me NATURALLY. thoughts come from your state, so they are a great indicator to help you know which state you're in.
visualizing- spend time in imagination. (what would a a day look like with my desire?) visualize where you want to be/what you want to experience. visualize a scene that implies that you have your desire. keep doing this until you have the feeling that it is a fact in your imagination.
scripting- write a diary entry. describe what a day would look like with your desire. get as detailed as you want. you are the author.
inner conversations- this can kind of go together with visualizing. talk to someone in imagination about your desire, talk to the person you desire, or imagine someone congratulating you for obtaining your desire.
SATS (state akin to sleep)- do this as you're about to fall asleep. visualize one scene that implies that you have your desire on a loop until you fall asleep. feel the scene to be real (bc it is). neville talked about this A LOT in his work & was his favorite method. he always said to fall asleep in the wish fulfilled.
lullaby method- create a short phrase that indicates you have your desire. neville suggested phrases such as "thank you" "it is finished" "it is done" i personally like to use the phrase "it is mine" bc it is more natural to me. say the short phrase of your choice over & over until you fall asleep knowing it is a fact. now when i say "say it over & over" i do NOT mean to say it like a robot. FEEL THEM. personally when i do this, i say the phrase slowly & calmly to myself to REMIND myself that it is done & is A FACT.
key takeaway from methods: do whatever is natural to you. do not have the mindset of doing them to get something. you are just reminding yourself of what you already have. you must have it in imagination first to get it in the 3d, so if you have the mindset of "i am gonna do xyz method to get my desire" i'm sorry but it will not work
persist- keep going back to the wish fulfilled. stay faithful to your imagination.
do i have to stay in the state all day?
NO! go back to the state whenever you think about your desire. it is NOT about how long you are in a state but the frequency (amount of times you go back to it) ex: if you think about your desire 5 times a day, but 3 of those times you are thinking from a state of lack (not having it), while the other 2 are the state of wish fulfilled. the state of lack is your dwelling state (which is what you will see in the 3d)
is manifestation really instant?
YES! what you are experiencing right now in the 3d is your CURRENT dwelling state. how do you change it? by going within & leaving the 3d alone. once you have made your desire state your dwelling place, it will instantly be reflected in the 3d. the 3d is simply showing you who you are being/identifying as. this is why we tell you that you have to change yourself first. the outer world is a mirror to our inner world. why would you expect to see rainbows & sunshine in your 3d, when your 4d is lightning & thunder? how could you see a change of clothes, unless you changed them yourself first? once you change, the rest will follow. it is LAW.
how do i know if i fell out of the state?
you may be checking the 3d, worrying, or having opposing thoughts. again, THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS. they are NOT what manifests. they have no power over you unless you give them power. don't identify (accept them as true) & let them pass. since your state manifests, a few silly thoughts that you don't accept as true mean NOTHING
how do i get back into the state if i fell out of it?
intend to go back & use the methods i described above to maintain the state
what do we mean by feeling?
feeling ≠ emotion. it is the KNOWING. you may feel calm, happy, peaceful, relief, etc. it is NOT some groundbreaking euphoric moment. it is NATURAL. you are in a dwelling state for EVERY aspect of your life (love, school, work, career, finances, etc.) so feeling your desire to be real, is not going to be some rainbow explosion. you know a lot of other things to be real that you are not placing as much focus on, so your desire is no different.
i stopped desiring it?
ex: you got a new pair of shoes. when you first got them you were excited to wear them. as the days went on, the "spark" kind of went away. it's not that you weren't excited to wear them, but you got used to having them & KNOW that they are yours
ex: once you start dating someone, you are excited to text them good morning and to hang out with them. over this, this becomes normal & expected. ofc you're going to be texting & hanging out with the person you're dating.
you may stop desiring your desire bc you KNOW that you have it. it's normal for you to have your desire. how could you continue desiring something you already have? that's like saying you want the pair of shoes you are wearing right now.
summary
STOP being a slave to your senses. shut the 3d out bc it is a reflection of your past dwelling state. since you're going to the wish fulfilled & thinking of your desire in your favor, the 3d doesn't matter. it is NOT who you are anymore. once your dwelling state is the wish fulfilled, it will reflected in the 3d INSTANTLY. stop bringing up the past bc it only exists in your mind. go within & fulfill your inner man. you desire something? see it in your imagination. want to talk to someone? have an inner convo or visualize talking to them. want to hang out with someone? do it in imagination. everything stems from imagination. it will not fail you. the world is a mirror that is reflecting who you are being. as within, so without. you MUST change FIRST to see the change in the outer world. there is nothing & no one to change but self.
just a very quick fyi before we get started! this guide is going to be as in depth as i can possibly make it without it being too long or daunting. i'm going to try explain the who, what, when, where and why's to the best of my ability!
what is a method? A shifting method - to put it simply - is a set of steps that you can follow that can help you shift easier. there are sooo many possible ways that you can enter your desired reality, and it can be daunting to understand what will work and what wont for you. methods can help you if you have trouble entering that almost meditative state and help you break out of the confines of your current reality!
how do I use a method? depending on the method we're looking at, there will be a different set of steps to follow. e.i the raven method is the most simplest method there is, and it literally just consists of lying on your back and counting to a desired number (it's really good for baby shifters!). as long as you set your intention with FULL belief, any method will work.
do I need a method? are they compulsory? no! you don't need a method, it's completely your choice. you will be able to shift with or without one regardless, they're just there if you feel like you want some extra help on pushing through.
what is the difference between an awake and asleep method? the difference is actually really simple, but i struggled with understanding it at first so i added this section in haha. but in short, an awake method is one where you choose not to fall asleep and then wake up in your desired reality, instead you'd be awake the whole time and feel your surroundings change as you enter your desired reality. apposed to an asleep method where you fall asleep and when you awake, your eyes will open and you'll be in your desired reality.
what are common methods? there are endless amounts of methods that are used but the most common i have found are the following (i was gonna link these to video guides where ppl explain it but they are SO hard to find for some so i've explained it instead):
raven method this one is super super simple, it's usually used as an asleep method where you're required to be at least a little tired before hand. in this method, you basically lay down on your back in a starfish position and count to 100 in your head. while doing so, repeat affirmations between each number (or each 10, whatever you wanna do) such as "i am shifting" "i have shifted" "i will shift" etc. after this you'll awake in your desired reality. pillow method this one's REALLY simple too! just write down your affirmations on a piece of paper, repeating them to yourself before bed, and then going to sleep with the piece of paper with the affirmations on it under your pillow. you'll wake up in your desired reality. julia method this method can be used as either an asleep method or an awake method. you're simply required to find yourself in a comfortable position (lying down, in a chair etc.) and repeat the words "i am" until you feel symptoms. once you start feeling shifting systems, switch to saying affirmations like "i am shifting" or "i am in my desired reality". heartbeat method this method is a bit more complex and requires a bit of visualization. when doing this method, find an audio of a beating heart (preferably no longer than 15-20 minutes) and place it under your pillow before bed. with your head resting on your pillow, visualize yourself in your desired reality, with your head on top of a person you trust (could be your comfort character or s/o). visualize the heartbeat audio being their heartbeat. once the audio has finished playing, visualize this person waking up and leading you to a door, once you reach this door, imagine them asking you "are you ready to go home?" if you are, follow them through the door. if not, repeat a few more affirmations until you feel ready. when you step through he door, the room will fill with a bright white light, and eventually, you'll feel like you're falling. as you fall keep affirming you are in your desired reality, and once you finish your fall, you'll wake up in the reality you wish!
our favourite methods and what worked best for us
my current favourite method is the' dr strange method'! it personally really works purely because i love visualizing and it's easy for me. i know a lot of people can struggle with the visualizing part so it may not be the best method for everyone! i also love the 'cinn's method' which is a slightly more in-depth version of the raven method. 'the raven method' was the first one i ever used and initially brought me the closest to reaching my desired reality. another one that i've been meaning to try out is the 'dream-walking method' which might already be a thing but i know Fen is working on making an in-depth guide to it right now!
[an loa rant, ⚠️blunt, honest not sugarcoating !!]
i usually try to be nicer BUT i just needed to put this out there.
i love answering asks and helping everyone. i love hearing when people get success. but sometimes i get the same asks over and over again and I'm repeating myself over and over again. and then i see a lot of bloggers getting the same ask. honestly, this is the law of assumption. it's nothing more than assumptions creates reality.
baby, if u feel tired, take a break. practice self care and pamper urself. if ur gonna constantly scroll on tumblr or whatever, then that's on u. if ur donna decide to overconsume instead of apply, instead of deciding that your desires are already yours, well i can't do anything about that. only you can change yourself. only u can change ur reality. nobody else can manifest for u. only if you change yourself first, you 3d will change. it's the law. aint nothing can be done about that. either apply and get ur desires or do nothing and get nothing.
and literally manifesting should take no effort. it's just thinking and accepting and knowing that it's already happened. if ur too lazy to even do that, then what are you gonna do? u didn't even need to move a finger to do this and yet you decide it's too much "work" for you? you keep copy and pasting the same ask to 9999 bloggers and that aint enough for you? you keep asking for "motivation" when you wouldn't even put in the work? and this "work" you refuse to put in doesn't even require lifting a damn finger? what?? i don't understand then. you gotta put in that "work" before you even feel motivated. trust me, you won't feel motivated until you get started and start applying and get towards ur goal. get off ur damn phone already. please. at least go outside and touch grass.
sweetie, you don't need to put ur life on hold either. literally give urself a break. let go of those non-existent "doubts." go take a walk, do some self care, spend time with friends and family. enjoy life while manifesting. if 3d circumstances are tough, be tougher. don't let it break you down. use ur imagination. take care of responsibilities in the 3d but persist in ur assumptions still. oh my god, what else is there that u need to know? please apply it alright.
i wrote this in this ask but i feel like i should put it in a separate post.
get off tumblr stop reading this info u already know what to do u don't need bloggers to give u advice or motivate u. u need to change and control urself. i keep getting the same asks again and again and i keep repeating the same thing over and over again. apply. accept and know it's done bc creation is finished. persist. be consistent. I'm so sorry if this sounds cold or blunt but i feel like I'm sugarcoating way too much when i answer asks so they never actually apply what i say. doesn't matter if there's motivation or not. u need to actually apply before u feel motivated.
whenever you have the tendency to use the word "trying" to describe your current situation, it means you're doing too much and it's good for nothing, certainly not for you.
i'm trying to manifest... i'm trying to become... i'm trying to make it happen... i'm trying to let go...
etc. etc.
the name of God is I AM, not I TRY or I DO. it doesn't matter what you're trying to do, for God you ARE just someone who is trying at that moment.
BEING is the core of our existence. if you think that there's something more that you have to do, if you think that you cannot just BE but have to try to do something more, then you are overcomplicating things.
your new desired identity (state) might seem tiny at first. that is okay. what matters is that it's what you want. just like a mustard seed is tiny but will grow into a big lush plant. the size doesn't matter, what matters is that it is a mustard seed. the same way your desired state might feel tiny at the beginning. let it be tiny. it'll grow through you the more you come back to it.
this also applies to areas of life outside of manifesting:
you're not trying to love. you either love or you don't. you're not trying to change. you're either changing or you're not. you're not trying to heal. you're either healing or not.
the speed doesn't matter. baby steps are still movement. don't label them as just "trying". trying is a trap. trying is an artificial effort of your conscious self (the outer man). being is a divine act. just let the mustard seed be at the size where it is right now. it'll grow, but let it be where it is at this moment.
God is I AM, so who ARE YOU? someone who IS or someone who is TRYING?
✨️Reminder✨️
Live in the desires
What I meant with this is that, you need to accept that you have what you want, in your mind first, and from that, start living your day to day with that acceptance.
If you've been in the community, I'm pretty sure you must have read a post about how "your desires are like ordering something and knowing it will arrive" and ngl, I've been in this community for 2 whole years now, and it's only just recently that I *finally* got it.
So I'm going to explain it to you, in the way I understand it, and hopefully it can clear some doubts away💕
Disclaimer, long post a head and I'm explaining things my way, pls take what resonates with you and leave the rest✨️
Number 1:
By this point, we know that reality is only a reflection right? Good, now that you know it, I want you to really grasp it and accept it.
Our imagination is our real reality, but the imagination is not what you think it is. Hear me out, imagination is not that meme of Bob square pants about rainbows and daydreams, (it could be if that's what you want) nooo, the real imagination that i am talking about is the one that you are always using to think things, the one that says: "I have to do this hw", "I'm getting hungry, I should eat something", "my celebrity crush is so cool" "wow I can't stop remembering that cringe moment from years ago" etc.
Now that's your real imagination and that's the one that we need to learn how to "control". Not by force but by understanding how it works.
When we have a desire, it's easy to think of it from a place where you don't have it yet, and the mind just like an algorithm, it's going to keep creating more thoughts that imply you don't have it yet, and since the 3D reflects our imagination, well we keep not seeing our desires.
Knowing this, we can go to number 2:
When you enter any page, you see something you like, so you naturally order it, and what is the feeling that you get when the order is already placed?
You feel that the item you ordered, is yours already, so you start thinking about how to use it and when you are going to use it.
When you get a desire, you liking it and wanting it, is choosing it, when you decide you are going to manifest it, that is you placing the order. From that moment on, you need to start thinking is yours already, there's no "if" anymore, there's only now, whatever you desire, start feeling it yours.
If you want a desired face? Start telling yourself you're pretty, start owning the fact that you are the most beautiful person in the world.
You want your sp? Start relating to the happy love songs, start owning the fact that you have a happy relationship
Whatever you desire, start owning the natural things that will come with your desire.
You need to know that the only difference is that with manifesting, there's no waiting time. Why? Because you control everything, and you can even control when and how you are getting your desire.
And you know the best part? You can decide if you want to know how it manifests, if you just want to wake up with it, if you want to shift for it, or even if it manifest as a complete surprise.
From one reality creator to another reality creator.
You can do this, you got this!!!
NO ONE TO CHANGE BUT SELF
-what is a state? it is a collection of thoughts, feelings, emotions, & beliefs that you identify with. it is who you are being. your I AM
you are ALWAYS in a state. we go in & out of states ALL day. there are INFINITE realities & YOU choose what state to occupy. when we say that creation is finished that is exactly what it means. you do not have to create anything. there's a version of you that is rich & one that is poor. one in a loving relationship & one where you are single. being a good student or a bad student. having your dream job or a job you hate. etc. YOU get to CHOOSE which state you experience. if you can see something in your mind & think what it would be like to experience those things, then it is possible. imagination is the only reality. nothing can happen unless it is experienced in imagination FIRST.
how do i get into a state?
decide what you want to manifest
fulfill yourself in imagination to get into the wish fulfilled
how do i get into the wish fulfilled?
you could just say "i am in the state" or "i am in the wish fulfilled" & you're in it! it is as easy as intending to be in it
use methods to help maintain the state
affirming- pick a few affirmations that help you to capture the feeling (knowing) that your desire is a fact in imagination. (how do i feel now that i have my desire? what would i be thinking if i had my desire?) whatever answer you had to those questions, would be great affirmations! make them yourself. don't ask someone to make some for you. affirmations should be NATURAL to YOU. affirming is not something that should be forced. there is a BIG difference between having natural thoughts & forcing yourself to think structured sentences. you do NOT need to affirm 24/7. why? bc that is not NATURAL & you were not doing that before you found out about the law. also, affirmations DO NOT get you into the state, they are a technique that is used to MAINTAIN the state of wish fulfilled. personally, when i enter the wish fulfilled, i feel calm, peaceful, and content. i feel the inner KNOWING that my desire is fulfilled (bc it is) and thoughts come to me NATURALLY. thoughts come from your state, so they are a great indicator to help you know which state you're in.
visualizing- spend time in imagination. (what would a a day look like with my desire?) visualize where you want to be/what you want to experience. visualize a scene that implies that you have your desire. keep doing this until you have the feeling that it is a fact in your imagination.
scripting- write a diary entry. describe what a day would look like with your desire. get as detailed as you want. you are the author.
inner conversations- this can kind of go together with visualizing. talk to someone in imagination about your desire, talk to the person you desire, or imagine someone congratulating you for obtaining your desire.
SATS (state akin to sleep)- do this as you're about to fall asleep. visualize one scene that implies that you have your desire on a loop until you fall asleep. feel the scene to be real (bc it is). neville talked about this A LOT in his work & was his favorite method. he always said to fall asleep in the wish fulfilled.
lullaby method- create a short phrase that indicates you have your desire. neville suggested phrases such as "thank you" "it is finished" "it is done" i personally like to use the phrase "it is mine" bc it is more natural to me. say the short phrase of your choice over & over until you fall asleep knowing it is a fact. now when i say "say it over & over" i do NOT mean to say it like a robot. FEEL THEM. personally when i do this, i say the phrase slowly & calmly to myself to REMIND myself that it is done & is A FACT.
key takeaway from methods: do whatever is natural to you. do not have the mindset of doing them to get something. you are just reminding yourself of what you already have. you must have it in imagination first to get it in the 3d, so if you have the mindset of "i am gonna do xyz method to get my desire" i'm sorry but it will not work
persist- keep going back to the wish fulfilled. stay faithful to your imagination.
do i have to stay in the state all day?
NO! go back to the state whenever you think about your desire. it is NOT about how long you are in a state but the frequency (amount of times you go back to it) ex: if you think about your desire 5 times a day, but 3 of those times you are thinking from a state of lack (not having it), while the other 2 are the state of wish fulfilled. the state of lack is your dwelling state (which is what you will see in the 3d)
is manifestation really instant?
YES! what you are experiencing right now in the 3d is your CURRENT dwelling state. how do you change it? by going within & leaving the 3d alone. once you have made your desire state your dwelling place, it will instantly be reflected in the 3d. the 3d is simply showing you who you are being/identifying as. this is why we tell you that you have to change yourself first. the outer world is a mirror to our inner world. why would you expect to see rainbows & sunshine in your 3d, when your 4d is lightning & thunder? how could you see a change of clothes, unless you changed them yourself first? once you change, the rest will follow. it is LAW.
how do i know if i fell out of the state?
you may be checking the 3d, worrying, or having opposing thoughts. again, THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS. they are NOT what manifests. they have no power over you unless you give them power. don't identify (accept them as true) & let them pass. since your state manifests, a few silly thoughts that you don't accept as true mean NOTHING
how do i get back into the state if i fell out of it?
intend to go back & use the methods i described above to maintain the state
what do we mean by feeling?
feeling ≠ emotion. it is the KNOWING. you may feel calm, happy, peaceful, relief, etc. it is NOT some groundbreaking euphoric moment. it is NATURAL. you are in a dwelling state for EVERY aspect of your life (love, school, work, career, finances, etc.) so feeling your desire to be real, is not going to be some rainbow explosion. you know a lot of other things to be real that you are not placing as much focus on, so your desire is no different.
i stopped desiring it?
ex: you got a new pair of shoes. when you first got them you were excited to wear them. as the days went on, the "spark" kind of went away. it's not that you weren't excited to wear them, but you got used to having them & KNOW that they are yours
ex: once you start dating someone, you are excited to text them good morning and to hang out with them. over this, this becomes normal & expected. ofc you're going to be texting & hanging out with the person you're dating.
you may stop desiring your desire bc you KNOW that you have it. it's normal for you to have your desire. how could you continue desiring something you already have? that's like saying you want the pair of shoes you are wearing right now.
summary
STOP being a slave to your senses. shut the 3d out bc it is a reflection of your past dwelling state. since you're going to the wish fulfilled & thinking of your desire in your favor, the 3d doesn't matter. it is NOT who you are anymore. once your dwelling state is the wish fulfilled, it will reflected in the 3d INSTANTLY. stop bringing up the past bc it only exists in your mind. go within & fulfill your inner man. you desire something? see it in your imagination. want to talk to someone? have an inner convo or visualize talking to them. want to hang out with someone? do it in imagination. everything stems from imagination. it will not fail you. the world is a mirror that is reflecting who you are being. as within, so without. you MUST change FIRST to see the change in the outer world. there is nothing & no one to change but self.
Why I’m literally an icon: how to make everyone fall in love with you
Similarly to my thread about how to make the world your oyster, you can make anyone you want fall in love with you. This stems from the most important part of the law of attraction/assumption: self concept.
Neville Goddard-pioneer of manifesting-says There is no one to change but self; that self is simply your awareness, your consciousness and the world in which it lives is determined by the concept you hold of self. It is to consciousness that we must turn as to the only reality.
This is the key to manifesting! Changing your self concept aka the way you see yourself is the key to getting everything you want. Your self concept is you in relations to the outer world. Change it and your entire world changes!
What can self concept do you for you? It can get you to manifestations quicker, make you beautiful, have people pay attention to you and pretty much automatically manifest anything for you. Once you switch your self concept to wealth, you’ll automatically manifest money. Once you see yourself as beautiful, you’ll be seen and become beautiful. It can also make people call in love with you(hence the thread name)
Ever met anyone who was just effortlessly cool, sweet and loveable? That can be you! But how can I achieve this? Self concept affirmations!
Repeat these every time you think of yourself, every free second you have or any time you might have negative thoughts about yourself. Be sure to engage in positive self talk and have a clean mental diet as well!
Here’s my favorite self concept affirmations! If you don’t see anything you’d like just affirm in present tense that you have and are what you want to be! You can even become like your favorite celebrities by affirming I’m like xyz!
Thank you for reading! Stay iconic.
a reminder. . .
we are all born so beautiful, its just that we are convinced all around us that we aren’t, but deep down you are so creatively beautiful, you’re special and unique. your opinions that you never share are important whether you think they aren’t. you deserve to be treated with the upmost respect and you deserve your dream life.
never think any differently, i want you to be consistent in your new mindset because one day you’re gonna be soo happy that you finally said NO you said NO to cutting yourself short, you said NO to hating yourself and you said NO to letting others walk all over you.
check out my other post here to find out how to become a powerful manifestor!
IMAGINE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE
imagine how they talk, how they act around others, how they treat themselves. what they tell themselves in the mirror, how they look like.
now..merge yourself in the feeling of being what you desire. that person you just imagined is you! in all it’s glory, so how do you feel? ecstatic? happy? fulfilled? satisfied? you should because its DONE. once you’ve imagined the person you want to be there is nothing else to do but mentally operate as that person.
INDULGE into that person you want to become and don’t hold back, start doing it now, start doing everyday and build yourself up. the more you continuously embody the person you want to be the more easier it becomes. START CHANGING YOUR THOUGHTS!
if at first you’re finding it difficult, do not WORRY. its normal, but just remind yourself that this will all work out in the long run, soon enough you’ll sit back and be like..wow “I made it” i got through the toughest obstacles and now look, i am unstoppable and so proud of myself.
to get any desire you please all you really need to do is be in the state of the wish fulfilled.
WHAT IS THE STATE OF WISH FUFILLED?
“Man is All Imagination. Therefore, a man must be where he is in imagination, for his Imagination is himself. Imagination is active at and through any state that it is aware of. If we take shifting of awareness seriously, there are possibilities beyond belief.”
Neville Goddard – The Law and the Promise
in simple terminology; if you want your manifestations shift into the state you would be in it it was right here, right in front of you
for example lets say im manifesting an SP.
my current state is: worried, scared my sp is gonna leave me for another woman, always on my phone seeing if hes gonna text me back. im basically in the state of LACK
when you are in this state you cannot manifest what you want. for me to manifest my SP i have to move into THIS state:
fulfilled state: calm, not worried, confident, i know my sp is never gonna leave me and he always texts me.
if i was manifesting physical appearance i move into the state where i have all my desired features i would call myself pretty id be satisfied with how i look.
its all about the mental mind, CHANGE WITHIN -> CHANGE EXTERNAL.
you can change your makeup looks, you change your hair and dye it as many times as you please to “look better” the truth is- you don’t need to look better you need to change your assumptions about yourself.
TLDR; to change your reality, change within. start thinking like your dream person, start embodying your dream person. because thats how it all starts- it starts with YOU taking that first step.
this post was inspired by this tiktok: here
okay first realise..realise you have the power to change ANYTHING. its never too late to change your reality. dont think that you’re too “old” and that its late for you. people are in their 40s, 50s, 60s trying to find themselves and their true identity and trying out new hobbies! this idea that life ends when you’re 30 or whatever is such bullshit. you have so much time to change anything you want and nothing is impossible. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.
once you realise that, you can conquer anything. your problems are so small compared to you, because you’re magnificent. in this time of age we do not stop to congratulate ourselves because we are always comparing ourselves to other peoples lives on social media, or our parents are comparing us to other peoples kids. take time to CONGRATULATE YOURSELF for atleast wanting to try doing better for yourself. thats already an achievement and a step closer to achieving your dream life. some of you guys have been through hell and back, yet you’re still here. just congratulate yourself on that, because thats amazing. really.
now..lets start a funeral.
write down or take mental note of all your “bad habits” than can include something simple as procrastinating or idk nail biting. GET RID OF THEM. DECLARE THIS NOW that you will stop doing those habits, these bad habits do not benefit you. now, its pretty easy to cling back onto these “bad habits” so dont even worry about it. if you do it again do not belittle yourself, do not beat yourself up about it omg. literally dont you’re still amazing and hey..maybe you won’t completely get rid of them so start minimising how much you do those so-called bad habits
secondly, the mental glow up
mental glowups are also important aswell as physical glowups. mental glowups really do wonders and can impact your physical appearance!
• don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake.
i feel like its so normal for us to do this and i think if you were in a household that was not particularly great at emotional wellbeing you would struggle whenever you make mistake cus you would beat yourself up about it, its a tactic we’ve learned to do and its not a very good one.
• treat yourself with kindness.
how you treat a little child under your care, treat your mind and yourself as so. when you feel under pressure, when you feel caught up with everything. take it slow. and realise, you’re amazing and you can get through any obstacle.
• treat yourself like a QUEEN!
honestly, we should all start treating ourselves like the beautiful people we are?? like yeah i woke up messy hair and all but i am still beautiful. i am still shockingly pretty and i rock any hairdo.
• prioritise yourself. stop prioritising others.
now dont get me wrong, when the moment is right you can put others before yourself..BUT NOT ALL THE DAMN TIME! treat yourself, love yourself and prioritise yourself.
thirdly, the PHYSICAL GLOWUP!
now whatever you want to look like, visualise, script, command your subconscious or affirm that what you look like is IN YOUR REALITY! and nothing can stop that, literally nothing can. and in the meantime literally just love yourself, congratulate yourself..i mean your physical glowup is here and you look absolutely stunning.
take plenty of selfies cus you’re beautiful.
go outside and hang out with friends PLEASE DO NOT PUT A HAULT ON YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR MANIFESTATIONS.
pretend you’re a celebrity on vogue doing your routine in the bathroom. literally have fun, do hairstyles you wanna try, spend a lil bit of money on skin care + makeup.
NOW..COMBINE EVERYTHING IVE JUST SAID.
okay, now combine everything and just do it, dont be scared. why are you scared? you still have plenty of time to make mistakes and try again, and get your dream life, you still have time to love yourself and gain knowledge of YOU and stuff you like. now..you dont need the “perfect life” i feel like that is being so targeted towards young people nowadays searching for that “perfect life” that builds up so much more pressure, tbh. all you need is stability. become stable and consistent in habits, relationships, your body and your mind. (if u want, u can obvi have ur perfect life hun)
At home spa day
Beforehand:
Declutter your space
Light scented candles
Put on a playlist/podcast/audiobook
Pour yourself a drink
Make sure you have all materials within reach
Feet:
Remove old nail polish
Soak feet in a foot bath prepared with salts
Exfoliate & remove death skin
Cut nails
File nails
Take out gunk between nail & skin
Cut cuticles if needed + push them back
Apply a new coat of nail polish
Apply cuticle oil and foot cream
Hands:
Remove old nail polish
File nails in desired shape and length
Apply cutticle remover and push back/cut any cuticles
Buff nails
Apply a new coat of nail polish
Apply cuticle oil and hand cream
Hair:
Latter your hair in a hair oil/mask
Double rinse with first a cleansing and then nourishing shampoo
Apply conditioner to only the ends and rinse
Dry as needed for your hair type
Body:
If you wax, dry exfoliate
Apply baby powder to desired areas
Wax desired areas
If you shave, exfoliate in shower
Shave desired areas
Use body scrub over entire body
Lather yourself in nice smelling soap
Apply anti hair growth serum
Moisturise
Face:
Remove makeup
Cleanse thoroughly
Steam your face
Exfoliate
Pluck/wax eyebrows and any other facial hair
Apply face mask
Rinse
Massage face
Tone
Add serum and any other product needed for your specific skin type/condition
Moisturise
“As soon as we succeed in transforming ourselves, the world will melt magically before our eyes and reshape itself in harmony with that which our transformation affirms.” - Neville Goddard, No One To Change But Self
What we're going to cover:
What is Self Concept
Advantages of investing in your self concept
You are God
What does an ideal self concept look like?
How to acquire an excellent self concept
Maintaining your self concept
How to know if your self concept is perfect or needs improvement
What to do
Warning: this post is long
I. Introduction/ What is Self Concept
This is genuinely one of if not the most important topic you’ll ever educate yourself on in regards to the law of assumption so I’m gonna need your full, undivided attention. Okay? Let’s start.
Some of the most frequently asked questions I receive as a law of assumption blog are always: How can I manifest instantly? How can I know my desires are coming? How can I feel like my manifestation is mine? How can I feel it real/know it’s coming? Two words: Self Concept.
Self concept is how you see yourself in relation to the world and how you see the world in relation to you. What does that mean? Let me explain.
How you see yourself in relation to the world - who you think you are and established notions that have been cultivated through your upbringing, how secure you feel about yourself and how that’s exhibited as you interact with others as well as how you carry yourself on a day-to-day basis
How you see the world in relation to you - what you think others think about you and how you expect people to treat you, the beliefs you have about the world you live in and how they manifest into your life experiences
The assumptions you have carried up until this point have been shaped by your surroundings and life experiences. If you were bullied growing up you may have convinced yourself that you’re not good looking, not smart and not deserving of good things or perhaps you think the world is nothing but suffering and bad things are always happening to you. Maybe you’ve had several bad experiences in life which you fixated on and consequently adapted the “I’m gonna expect the worst case scenario to happen so in the chance it does I won’t feel disappointed”. Since our 3D is shaped by our assumptions they will inevitably manifest. You’ve had thoughts running on autopilot about yourself and your world that you’ve accepted as truths. By working on your self concept you are essentially throwing out an nonserving mindset and replacing it with a more favorable, practical and fruitful one.
When you have a good self concept, every facet of manifesting will fall into place, you’ll feel much more centered mentally and life simply becomes better! The world around you is a mirror of the world within you and it will inevitably reflect back to you what you think about yourself and what you think about your world.
“Consciousness is the one and only reality. We are incapable of seeing other than the contents of our own consciousness.” - No One To Change But Self
Your self concept is the key to unlocking all of your desires. Literally. The relevance of a strong self concept within the law of assumption is imperative because when you know you are God, you know you can do and have whatever you want and there’s nothing in this world that is out of your reach. When you acquire this sense of power, you will be devoid of doubts and setbacks and your desires will come to you with ease! Don’t believe me? Take a look at all of the people who have acquired results as a direct cause of investing in their self concept
II. Advantages of investing in your self concept
Self concept is so exciting to work on because it’ll help you embody your unlimited potential! When you work on your self concept you will no longer deal with:
Victim mentality - Instead of seeing yourself as someone who always has bad things constantly happen to them you’ll see yourself as THE one on the pedestal, the one who is loved and respected and admired, You hold yourself accountable for your life and what goes on around it.
Sᴛʀᴏɴɢ ᴅɪsᴄʟᴀɪᴍᴇʀ: Aɴʏ ᴅɪsᴄᴜssɪᴏɴs ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ᴇɪʏᴘᴏ, ᴠɪᴄᴛɪᴍ ᴍᴇɴᴛᴀʟɪᴛʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴀɴɪꜰᴇsᴛɪɴɢ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜɪɴɢs ɢᴏᴏᴅ ʙᴀᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ɪɴᴅɪꜰꜰᴇʀᴇɴᴛ ᴀʙsᴏʟᴜᴛᴇʟʏ ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ᴇᴠᴇʀ ɪɴᴄʟᴜᴅᴇ ɪɴsᴛᴀɴᴄᴇs ᴏꜰ ᴛʀᴀᴜᴍᴀ ᴏʀ ᴀʙᴜsᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴀɴʏ ᴋɪɴᴅ.
“Aware of what your senses and reason dictate, you may believe that you are limited, unwanted, ignored, and mistreated; and your world confirms your belief in your imaginal activity. And if you do not know that your awareness is causing this mistreatment, you will blame everyone but yourself; yet I tell you the only cause of the phenomena of life is an imaginal activity. There is no other cause.” - Believe It In
Wishful thinking - You know how you’ve always wanted to be this or do that? You can! Or how you always wanted to play the guitar? You can! Date your celebrity crush? Doable! Look exactly like Jennie? No problem! Study abroad in your dream ivy league university? Yup! Even with a terrible GPA? Even with a terrible GPA! Nothinggggg is out of reach and when I say that I’m dead serious! You no longer need to think about how nice it would be if you could travel, draw, sing, dance whatever it is it can be yours!
Regrets - If you’re someone who resents the past for any reason because you feel like you didn’t have a great high school experience or because you missed out on a huge opportunity let me just say… It means nothing. Seriously, you can revise, you can time travel back to the past and relive it as you would have liked, whatever it is now that you know just how powerful you are as God you realize that resentment and regret don’t need to be an issue anymore! As I will repeat multiple times in this post you are in control of every single aspect of your reality. Past, present and future. Time isn’t real and whatever it is you feel like you missed out on you can have it, you can do it, you can be it.
Insecurities and jealousy - Gone are the days of you seeing some girl on Instagram you want to look like. No more wishing you could also be as artistically gifted like that person on TikTok. Bye bye to desperately wishing you could achieve your goals. Who cares whatever x person is doing, where they’re vacationing at or who they’re dating. You can have it all too!
Being treated poorly - If you assume that the people around you often screw you over, leave you, lie to you and so on, that will be exactly what you experience. With a good self concept, you will be treated with love and respect by others because you’ll come to understand that since the people in your reality have no free will, you can determine how they see you and how they behave with you!
Desires on the pedestal - When your desire is on a pedestal it means that you either see it as above you, out of reach or as something you don’t deserve. Whatever it is, know that you CAN have it and you DO deserve it. Nothing is on a pedestal when you realize just how easily you can attain it. There is no such thing as a “big” or “small” manifestation. Manifesting a $47 million mansion in Beverly Hills is just as easy as manifesting a Costco hot dog with ketchup. I don’t care what it is or how “hard” it would be for the average person to acquire. Just say the word.
Impatience - A LOT of y’all struggle with this and I understand. You want your desires NOW and you are DONE waiting. What if I told you that it is absolutely up to you when you get your desires. Yes. You can determine how long it takes, whether it’s a month, a week or a minute. You get to decide that and before you ask me how the short answer is you need to believe that you can. How can you believe that you can? Through self concept!
III. You are God
“I urge you not to limit yourself to a little body of flesh and blood, for you are spirit. Flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, so one day you must take it off. And he who takes it off is immortal. He is your own wonderful human imagination who is God, the Father of all life. When you learn to live this way, life becomes so exciting. Your days are full and you are never alone...I close my eyes and travel the world…It expands me and makes me become more aware of the infinite being that I really am.” - Brazen Impudence
When I say you’re God I mean it literally. It’s not a figure of speech baby, you ARE GOD. You are powerful, divine and limitless. You can manifest whateeeeever the hell you want and nothing is out of reach for you. It means that your desires are inevitable because nothing can interfere with the commandment of God. If you need further context for the God thing stop and think for a second about what God cannot do... Nothing. Because God is omnipotent. God can do ANYTHING, God can HAVE anything and God can BE anything. There are NO limits to what you can do!
Nonchalance - (of a person or manner) feeling or appearing casually calm and relaxed; not displaying anxiety, interest, or enthusiasm. When you know you’re God, you’re always feeling calm and relaxed because manifesting something is as easy as deciding that it’s yours.
No more surrendering your power to external sources, okay? - As God, YOU are the one in control of everything around you. Cancel that tarot appointment, delete Co—Star and The Pattern, they do not define you nor do they get to dictate your life in any way. YOU get to decide who you are and what goes on in your life. The future is not predetermined and neither is your personality. External sources are not necessary. Think of it as hiring a tutor for your mother tongue… very unnecessary and very silly. Why would you seek something else to help you on something you can do yourself?
It is logical for God to do the illogical - To label anything as "impossible" is to severely discredit yourself. Whether it’s having bright purple eyes, bringing back someone who’s passed away, breathing underwater, becoming immortal, I could go on but you get it. Who cares what it is or how unrealistic it sounds. You can have it because you are God. And before you hit me with “if that’s true then why aren’t there success stories?” First of all, not everyone rushes to the internet to brag about what they’ve manifested. Second of all, just because there is no success story out there that does not mean you cannot do it yourself. What’s stopping you from being the first success story?
Limiting beliefs ❀ - A limiting belief is a belief that impedes you from manifesting your desires. If it sounds dumb, requires a lot of work and stop you from living your dream life it is a limiting belief. Limiting beliefs will cease to exist as you work on self concept because the more you start to pick up on the fact that you’re God you’ll soon realize that you are absolutely limitless. You can have anything and everything you want.
To list a few:
✧ You can’t always get what you want
✧ Life is not always fair
✧ The one that got away
✧ Once in a lifetime
✧ Fate/Destiny
✧ You can’t change the past
✧ You have to work hard for what you want
✧ Everything happens for a reason
✧ Not everyone will like you.
✧ If it’s meant to be, it will be/Divine timing
These are all beliefs you can let go of once and for all because God has no limits… so these are not applicable to you.
Circumstances don’t matter - I don’t care what’s going on or what’s going on. Circumstances do not matter. In the slightest. You can manifest becoming a billionaire despite being dirt poor. You can manifest your specific person even if their wedding is next week. You can manifest the scholarship even though you’re failing every subject. Whatever it is, circumstances absolutely do not matter in the slightest and I cannot emphasize this enoughhhh like seriously if you’re limitless it doesn’t make sense to have limits whatsoever…
You control the details - Since you’re God you can pretty much dictate how a circumstance plays out. When you know this, you realize that there are a multitude of ways to handle an unfavorable situation. Let’s suppose you and your best friend who’s shown their true toxic colors had the worst fight ever and you both decided to no longer be friends. Let’s consider what you, as God, can do about the situation:
✧ manifest a sincere apology
✧ revise never having had that fight
✧ manifest them having a personality change
✧ simply manifest a new best friend.
“Are you really convinced that Jesus Christ is in you? Have you tested him? If you have and are still not sure, then you have failed the test… I tell you that Jesus Christ is your own wonderful human imagination, who is the eternal creative power of God. If you do not know that, you do not know Jesus Christ!” - God’s Creative Power
IV. What does an ideal self concept look like?
When you’re manifesting, there are no backups,There are no what ifs. There’s just you and your desire. Period. Circumstances are absolutely irrelevant and you don’t resort to “backup plans” and speaking of backup plans…
Elle Woods as a self concept model ❀ - Let’s talk about one of my favorite self concept icons Miss Elle Woods for a bit, specifically that scene in Legally Blonde where she sets her heart on going to Harvard law school despite the fact that her qualifications were a bit iffy. When she met with an advisor, they suggested she have some backups upon going through her transcript. Did Elle let that discourage her from applying anyway? Did she listen to her and go “hmm, maybe she’s right I should pick some backups.” Nope. She said “I don’t need backups, I’m going to Harvard”. You know what happened? She went to Harvard. Even though her application wasn’t the most suitable for law school as a fashion merchandising student, even though she was initially struggling when studying. Even with the circumstances not being in her favor, Elle persisted and got in because she didn’t let rejection be an option.
What can we learn from Elle?
✧ Know what you want and be brazenly impudent
✧ Don’t take no for an answer
✧ Pay no mind to unfavorable circumstances, if any
✧ Approach your desires with the confidence and certainty that they’re yours the moment you claim them, because they are!
Experiencing life with a strong and affirmative self concept is like viewing a catalogue of absolutely anything you can have for yourself. Scrolling through tumblr and see your dream face and body? You can look like that. Inspired by your comfort character’s personality? You can be just like them. An angelic singing voice like your favorite artist? You can have it. Obsessed with the latest Versace collection? You can own it. You watched a K-Drama with the most dreamy romantic love story you’ve ever heard of? You can experience that. Your world famous celebrity crush? You can date them. You can have anything you lay your eyes on. Nothing is off limits ❀
The thought process you should be having should look something like this:
“I can have whatever I want. Nothing is out of reach for me. That can be me too, there’s no need for me to be jealous. I know that circumstances do not matter when it comes to my desires and I do not need to lift a finger to manifest. I don’t need to freak out over not having something when I know it’s mine the moment I say it is.”
Pay attention to the thoughts you have daily and what you think instinctively when it comes to something you want. It may take some time, but soon enough you’ll let go of the lacking mentality and gradually acquire the knowing mentality. When you do, you will feel closer to your desires and see them as something you can obtain rather than something you could.
I hope I get the job → I’m getting the job
If he asks me out → When he asks me out
I wish I could do that → I can do that too
I want to look just like them → They look just like me
V. How to acquire an excellent self concept
Use your favorite manifesting method - Manifesting is not a one size fits all! I really suggest you tryout different methods and see which one you like most
Command your subconscious mind
The easiest and quickest method. Command your subconscious mind to give you the best self concept ever! Do it once and know that it’s yours.
Use the State Akin To Sleep ❀
You can try the lullaby method and affirm “I have an excellent self concept” over and over again until you fall asleep. Or you can always try vaunting, imagine yourself bragging (emphasis on bragging) to a friend about how you have a brand new self concept and it’s successfully given you your every desire.
Visualize
I want you to imagine yourself as the best possible version of you. You’re someone who always gets what they want, who excels at everything, manifests effortly, who’s the center of attention everywhere they go, nothing feels out of reach for you, you live such a happy and fulfilled life because you never have to deal with failure, rejection, stress or sadness ever again.
Know - The other easiest and fastest method is just knowing. If you dwell in knowing that you have a good self concept and you naturally embody that it’ll quickly harden into fact
Affirm - I like to stick to five affirmations or less because it’s easier for me to remember them, but you can have 2157 affirmations for all I care. Make affirming fun for self concept! It should not feel like you’re feeding a newborn and you’re forcing yourself to do that once every few hours. Please do not make it a job. Amp up your affirmations or do whatever else necessary so it doesn’t feel like you’re affirming robotically. Remember, state your affirmations as FACTS. Don’t just read through them once and call it a day. Embody them, feel them, acknowledge them. It’s okay if you don’t actually believe the affirmation itself, just keep affirming because eventually they will harden into fact!
Vaunting ❀ - My absolute favorite way to affirm. If you don’t know what vaunting means, it’s literally just bragging! This method is perfect if you struggle to focus while affirming and if you’re not sure how to affirm in a way that doesn’t come off dull and boring. When I was vaunting I would script and go on tangents about how I’m God and I can do all these different things and because I love you all so much I went ahead and wrote out a little self concept vaunt example:
My life has been so wonderful lately! Everything always works out in my favor, I always get what I want and whatever I say goes! Every aspect of my life is ideal because all of my desires have been fulfilled. I am the one who has it all and I am living the life of my dreams. You know why? Because I literally have the best self concept ever. I know for a fact that I am the architect of my life and the world around me is my own ideal creation. I’m not even impatient anymore because I know that whatever I want is mine the moment I say it is. Manifesting is the easiest thing in the world for me to do. Because I am God, I know for a fact that I manifest instantly, perfectly and without fail every single time.
When to affirm
✧ During the State Akin To Sleep - The first 30 minutes after waking up and right before you go to bed
✧ Anytime you think of yourself or your desires
A few self concept affirmations to choose from:
✧ Whatever I want is mine the moment I say it is
✧ I am the architect of my life
✧ The world around me is my own ideal creation
✧ Everything always works out in my favor
✧ I do not take no for an answer
✧ Whatever I say, goes.
✧ It is mine the moment I say it is
✧ Manifesting is the easiest thing in the world for me to do
✧ I always get what I want
✧ Every aspect of my life is perfect
✧ All of my desires have been fulfilled
✧ Whatever I want is mine the moment I say it is
✧ I am the one who has it all
✧ I am living the life of my dreams
✧ Every aspect of my life is ideal
✧ I am secure, successful and happy
✧ Everything always falls into place for me
✧ Because I am God, I know for a fact that I manifest instantly, perfectly and without fail every single time. ❀
VI. Maintaining your self concept
It’s so easy to come on Tumblr and feel powerful after reading a single post only for you to go back to your day-to-day routine and that power wears off and you start to feel average again, so here are a few tricks that helped me maintain my self concept.
Read Neville - What really truly helped cultivate and maintain my self concept was reading Neville. I would go days without reading his lectures and my self concept would shrivel like a prune and I noticed when I was most consistent in reading and listening to what he said I felt sooooo much better and reassured. Indulging yourself in Neville’s work will have you feeling and KNOWING that you are God. His books and lectures are FILLED with success stories of people who’ve done what would’ve otherwise been considered impossible!. I cannot emphasize enough the importance of reading Neville when indulging in the law of assumption, especially as a beginner. He will make you feel SO powerful and your self concept will skyrocket! Neville’s work is a good way to keep educating yourself about the law of assumption as well as to continue reminding of the success that comes with applying the law.
Any Neville lecture will do because his diction is impeccable and so motivating! There aren’t any books nor lectures that specifically focus on self concept since many of the principles of the law are discussed across many of his lectures briefly. However, any lecture with the words “God”, “I” or “I am” will touch on self concept for sure. Don’t forget the ones i’ve repetitively quoted as well. Here are a few great ones:
✧ No One To Change But Self
✧ God’s Creative Power
✧ Your Faith Is Your Fortune
✧ At Your Command
✧ God Became Man
✧ Brazen Impudence
✧ I Am The Lord
✧ The Law and The Promise
Read success stories - I think this is slightly underrated but also a bit of an obvious one. I love reading success stories because I get to see what I can manifest too and Neville's work is filled with them! Below are 160 stories from the wonderful Angel’s page.
85 success stories from my page using my advice
75 success stories from my page using my advice
Mental diet - Mental diets are great and I love them so much. This is what helped me to keep my new mentality in check. Be selective as hell with what gets your attention and what’s worth thinking about. When you indulge in a mental diet you’ll learn to become more aware of the thoughts you are having as you go out into the world. Have a bad thought? Correct yourself immediately but also don’t drive yourself crazy doing this. You don’t have to FLIP EVERY SINGLE THOUGHT you have. We have about 6,000 thoughts a day, so… This could take some practice, so start slow and you’ll get the hang of it little by little.
Manifest “small” things - This one is also a no brainer because why wouldn't you be trying it out? Here are some little things you can manifest:
✧ the saturn emoji 🪐
✧ a purple butterfly
✧ a message that says ily
✧ the number 555
✧ an orchid
As you manifest all of these successfully you’ll become more and more certain about your capacity!
Use a notebook - This is a great little habit you can also use to track what you’ve successfully manifested as well as to point out the changes you’re starting to see in your life. If you have tangible evidence of the progress you’re making it’ll only encourage yourself more and more to continue! If you’d be doing so for self concept some points could look like this:
✧ I am being treated much better by my loved ones
✧ My manifestations come so much quicker
✧ I am not as insecure as I used to be
Scripting tangents - I mentioned this for vaunting but I used to loveeeeee scripting tangents about being God and how I was going to give myself the life of my dreams and I was done being a victim and how I will be able to travel and be wealthy and date whoever I want live wherever I want literally anything I could think of as I wrote because as I’ve said over and over again, you are limitless. You’ll never run out of things to list that you can manifest because there is nothing you cannot have, do or be!
VII. How to know if your self concept is perfect or needs improvement
You know you have a good self concept when:
✧ You no longer deal with negative emotions
✧ You stop wondering if you can manifest _ because you know the answer is always yes
✧ You don’t bother settling or taking no for an answer
✧ You no longer seek external validation of any kind
✧ You’re in a good mood more frequently and feel better overall
✧ You acknowledge your desires matter-of-factly
✧ You don’t care about the how, it’s happening no matter what
✧ You’re naturally optimistic
✧ Good things happen more frequently
✧ You don’t get impatient about manifesting
Some indicators that your self concept needs improvement are:
✧ You validate logic
✧ You accept defeat
✧ You’re still checking the 3D
✧ You still see life as something that happens to you
✧ You have that little intrusive voice whenever you read a success story
✧ You have beliefs that stop you from manifesting what you want
✧ You’re pedestalizing anything, whether it’s a specific person, a desire or a method
✧ You still think you cannot manifest certain things
VIII. What to do
Note that regardless of what you’re struggling with you absolutely can manifest. Don’t worry! When I first started working on my self concept I remember encountering circumstances that challenged my affirmations. I didn’t always get what I wanted, but that didn’t matter. Internally, I continued to affirm “I always get what I want :)” and that’s what I would encourage you to do as well. Remember that your subconscious mind cannot tell right from wrong, think about the thoughts that you’re feeding it and what it’s hearing from you (again, mental diet 101).
“The signs always follow. They never precede. Things have no reality other than in consciousness. Therefore, get the consciousness first and the thing is compelled to appear.” - At Your Command
Persist - Also another issue I’m frequently asked about. Not seeing results? PERSIST, BITCH. PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER. Remind yourself of who you are and what you're capable of! If you’re not getting what you want, remind yourself “This stemmed from me and the same way I can manifest what I didn’t want I can also manifest what I dowant.” Take responsibility where it’s due. Whatever happens do not give up and do not take no for an answer.
“And you can believe anything in if you will not accept the facts your senses dictate; for nothing is impossible to imagine, and imagining - persisted in and believed - will create its own reality.” - Believe It In
Impatience and dwelling on failure - What I absolutely do NOT want you to do is dwell on the fact that you’re struggling. It’s okay to acknowledge that your desires haven’t arrived YET, but as long as you persist in what you DO want (to have an excellent self concept) it’s okay! But please stop fixating on how you’re not getting results and how you’re not doing this or don’t have that, what you focus on GROWS
“Man insists on talking about his problems. He seems to enjoy recounting them and cannot believe that all he needs to do is state his desire clearly. If you believe that imagination creates reality, you will never allow yourself to dwell on your problems, for you will realize that as you do you perpetuate them all the more.” - Believe It In
Intrusive thoughts - We’ve all dealt with intrusive thoughts at one point or another and people will deal with them different ways. Some people decide not to process such thoughts as negative and let them pass by naturally. I’m going to list three different ways I dealt with my intrusive thoughts
Interruption
I had two methods of interruption I opted for. When I had “what if” moments I often interrupted those thoughts by affirming “it is done” and I said that over and over again every single time that came up, like this:
“What if it doesn’t hap-”
“It is done.”
“But-”
“It is done.”
The other method wasI would finish the intrusive thought off in a positive note like this:
“why is my life so-”
“perfect in every possible way? I’m honestly so in love with my life like I am literally the happiest person on earth I think”.
Telling them to shut up
I would envision my intrusive thoughts coming from someone else despite knowing it was me but anyway when I would have one literally respond mentally with “shut up, BITCH” the same way the rock did (like I would LITERALLY use his exact same tone and aggression while doing this lmao) and counter affirm and they stopped!
Deciding I didn’t have any
After so much redundancy of combatting my intrusive thoughts I had the sudden epiphany that I could just manifest them away… I was so surprised I didn't think of it earlier. Whenever one was coming up I would just be like “nope nope nope I don’t have intrusive thoughts I have never had one of those in fact, what’s an intrusive thought? Never heard of that” and they went away in two days <3
Doubting the law - If you have felt like this because you somehow think it’s too good to be true then you’re not alone, I was once there too. I constantly thought to myself, what if the law ends up not being real after all and what if i have to go back to struggling? I’m here to tell you that doubt is completely normal. Besides, get a load of how much Neville Goddard’s work is out there… a lot of us follow his teachings and have reaped the benefits of doing so! It’s not like we all mutually agreed to conjure up a random figure from the seventies and founded a community around him and pretend we have our desires just to troll people on the internet… That’s weird as hell. Anyway! If you’re feeling like this, read my post on doubt. As I have stated previously, having just a little bit of faith will take you so far in your manifesting journey.
Spiraling - Okay bff if you’re spiraling stay with me okay you can get through this now let’s take three deep breaths okay? In……[Hold for five seconds and then]……Out (3x) Now repeat after me:
“I am capable of manifesting anything I could ever want because my word is gospel. Even if the 3D has not conformed yet, I know that it will no matter what. Intrusive thoughts and negative emotions hold no power over me and nothing can interfere with the manifestation of my desires. I am in control of every aspect of my reality and what I say goes. Because I am God, I know for a fact that I manifest instantly, perfectly and without fail every single time.”
The reason why I have literally never dealt with a spiral (aside from having a great self concept) is because I’m conscious of just how much control I have over my reality. No matter what the predicament is, there is always always a solution because you are always in control. Recall my previous example of the toxic best friend and the multitude of ways you could deal with it. Whenever an issue comes up it’s pretty much “whatever, I can just manifest myself out of this predicament”. That’s literally why I don’t bat a lash whenever something would happen that I would’ve been stressed over. Think about it, as God you’re in control of everything, why would you freak out? It’s completely silly, baby. The world is entirely yours.
“There is no limit to the power of belief or to the possibilities of prayer, but you must be brazenly impudent and not take No for an answer. Try it! When I say you are all imagination, I mean it.” - Brazen Impudence
Feeling overwhelmed or anxious - Manifesting should NOT be stressing you out so if you’re feeling awful take a break! Don’t beat yourself up if it didn’t work out! Pick yourself back up and try again. Go back to the basics and have a fresh start. Get back to that beginner level and take a few baby steps, manifest little things to gradually build up your confidence. Take it slow and don’t impose so much pressure on yourself to do this correctly from the start. Didn’t go out as planned? Don’t worry, just try again. Take all the time you need until you feel more calm and relaxed. Your self concept won’t collapse in itself if you take a little break from it, I promise.
Doing without belief - A HUGE no-no, my love! Belief is a must when applying the law. If you’re not believing you are performing in vain. If this is what you're struggling with I recommend reading my post: How To Cultivate Your Belief In The Law.
Overconsumption - If you’ve over consumed info and thinking “oh no, I have confused myself to the point of no return” and idk where to go from here, here’s what I want you to do
Delete Tumblr (or the social media you consume from)
Stick to a single source (Neville of course)
Work on your self concept (use this post)
Now, here’s a little motivational rant:
Think about everything you'd be surrendering if you quit now! You deserve to live the life you've always wanted. You deserve to wake up every single day fulfilled knowing that you are living out all of your wildest greatest dreams. You deserve to be able to look at yourself in the mirror in disbelief at how ethereal you look. You deserve to feel ecstatic every time you get what you want. You deserve to indulge in every pleasurable experience the world has to offer. You deserve love, peace of mind, abundance and joy. You are worthy of that and so much more! Stop entertaining ideas that suggest that you are not good enough to manifest your desires. Do not take no for an answer. Do not let the 3D discourage you. Actually, don't let ANYTHING discourage you. Pay no mind to the intrusive thoughts that insist you can't manifest. Yes you can and yes you will. No matter what happens, persist in the fact that you are a master at manifesting and you're not gonna accept anything else. You'll be damned if you settle for mediocrity when you know you can have it all. You are so so so close to having the world at your fingertips, don't stop now! All of the doubts lingering are simply your old self trying to get you to stay where you are because this is new territory for you and it can feel scary. Don't let it win! Discomfort, uncertainty and doubt are signs that you're growing out of your old self concept and transitioning into a new state of awareness. Keep going! Take it little by little and know that you can do this. There's no "maybe I can", there's no "everyone can manifest but me". You can have and do absolutely anything you want except fail to manifest. I believe in you and I know you have what it takes to go the distance and manifest the life of your dreams. It's your birthright. You're God. Not a God, the God. Whatever you say has to and will pull through because you're limitless and inevitable, my love. You can do this!
For a bit of a twist I’m about to get a little mean for those of you that wanted this so if tough love isn’t your cup of tea keep scrolling
Is it not dumb as hell for you to be whining and bitching about not getting something you CAN get? Why are you crying over a situation YOU caused? you literally cannot lose unless YOU let that be an option. Enough complaining and crying WHEN are you gonna get tired of standing in your own way? You are the one who literally gets to determine whether or not you get your manifestations, how quickly you get them you are responsible for EVERYTHING. You’re the only one who’s capable of sabotaging that for you. It is literally nobody’s fault but your own if you’ve been struggling to manifest. At some point you just have to put your foot down and decide that you’re DONE not getting your desires and you’re TIRED of your own shit. All of it CAN be yours at YOUR command. Why are you victimizing yourself? Why are you having all these pointless intrusive thoughts about how you can’t manifest this or you can’t have that. WHY? Why are you making up fake bs ass scenarios in your head? Why are you focusing on shit you don’t want? Your only task is to think about what you DO want and forget about what you don’t. That’s such pathetic behavior coming from someone who’s limitless. I'm sorry. Worrying about what you don’t want is such a huge waste of time. The only thing that should be receiving your attention is your desires and nothing else. Enough of this victim complex of yours. You can have, you can do, you can be as you please without a single limit and here you are thinking you can’t have something or someone? Please. Don’t discredit yourself like that. Enough of you whining and bitching about this and that idc you’re getting your desires and that is FINAL. Stop getting in your own way B!TCH! “This is hard :(“ “No I can’t :(” no it isn’t and yes you can. Please stop crying about how you can’t manifest and how you are the exception now the hell you are not. The same god within me is the same God within you. Argue with the wall, I don’t wanna hear it. Anyway, when you’re done crying and whining, pick yourself back up and persist. You’re not gonna be a fucking loser on my watch.
IX. Outro
I hope this post has drilled the indispensability of a great self concept into your head! I cannot urge you enough to work on your self concept because it is the key to everything. No more looking for the perfect post, the perfect technique, the confirmation. Everything starts with you. Manifesting is your birthright and an excellent self concept will make it EASIER QUICKER and EFFORTLESS, you will not deal with intrusive thoughts impatience spirals none of that BS will come about with a good self concept You can still manifest with all of these issues but why not just refrain from dealing with them to begin with? Persistence in your new conception of self will create a new world for you. The life of your dreams starts here, baby. For more in-depth context on being on the pedestal, becoming your most confident self and transforming yourself into that bitch stay tuned for my upcoming spinoff of this post: How To Become The Most Iconic It Girl In Your Reality. Until then, my loves!
Bonus: Here is a Google doc version of this post so you can have it on you if you ever need it!
“You are already that which you seek and you have no one to change but self in order to express it.” - No One To Change But Self
law of assumption: a basic guide
so you’ve probably heard of the terms “manifestation” or “law of attraction,” and maybe you became curious and decided to learn about what this means. or maybe this is your first time hearing these terms and want to learn more about it!
if you’re the first one, i want you to FORGET everything that you know about the “law of attraction” and any manifestation techniques you learned. if you’re the latter, i will explain what these terms mean...
( in this context), manifestation is the act of “attracting” specific circumstances, events, people, material objects and even physical/mental aspects about yourself.
the law of attraction (LOA) is the principle/ideology that “like attracts like.” what you put out into the universe (i.e vibrations, energy etc.), is what you will attract back to yourself.
so now that i’ve explained these terms, i’ll now explain why the law of attraction is incredibly faulty. while the inherent principle of the LOA is mostly true, how to actually manifest using the LOA isn’t as straightforward. most LOA teachers will teach their students a BUNCH of techniques on how to “raise their vibrations” or “align themselves with the universe.” they will say that scripting, visualizing, drinking water etc. is what will give them their manifestations. but that is NOT true at all !! you do not need any of those things to manifest. all you need is…
...ok so what does that mean?
the law of assumption (in the most basic terms) states that “your thoughts and assumptions create your reality.” what you assume to be true, is what will be reflected onto your outer reality (aka the 3D).
to understand this concept, you MUST understand that you are constantly manifesting, whether you are intentionally doing so or not. before you learned about manifestation, you were STILL manifesting!! think about it: you didn’t have to script or visualize to manifest failing a test or your SP not liking you. it just manifested unintentionally because you weren’t conscious of your thoughts!! with the law of assumption, you are consciously making the effort to manifest what YOU want, instead of leaving everything on “auto-pilot.”
you also must understand that you can manifest ANYTHING YOU WANT. anything. you want a million dollars? done. you want to marry your celebrity crush? done. nothing is impossible, at ALL!! you are the creator of your reality. you call the shots, no one else!
the reason why LOA teachers claim that their techniques absolutely work is because...they do work! but why do they work? because they ASSUME that they work. they are literally using the law of assumption while practicing those law of attraction techniques. they assume that scripting, visualizing, 369 method etc. is what gives them results and therefore it gives them results. however, you do not need to do ANYTHING whatsoever to manifest. you only need two things: your assumptions and persistence.
so what even is an assumption? the definition of the word assumption is: “a thing that is accepted as true or as certain to happen, without proof.”
we all have assumptions about something. whether it be about people or circumstances, we all have an idea about these things that we have accepted to be true, and often without proof. according to the law of assumption, what you assume to be true is what you will manifest. if you assume that you’re always broke then you’ll always be broke. if you assume that your crush never wants to be around you, then they will never want to be around you.
so the best way to manifest your desires is to CHANGE your assumption about your desires. that’s it.
example: let’s say that i want to date a certain guy. however, my current assumption about this guy is “he is not my boyfriend, he's not interested in me .” therefore, this guy is carrying out my assumption and is not interested in me at all. however, if i wanted to manifest him being my boyfriend, i would change my assumption from “he is not my boyfriend” to “we’re in a relationship together” or “he’s completely in love with me.” etc.
these short statements are known as affirmations. by repeating these affirmations consistently, you will change your assumption about your desire. and once you change your inner assumption about your desire, the 3D (outer reality) will reflect your assumption back to you. you also don’t have to believe these affirmations. as long as you keep affirming them they will still work. you may also be wondering: “how often should i affirm for my desire?” personally i would recommend every time you think about your desire, but some people like to affirm 24/7. the amount of times you affirm doesn't really matter, if you assume that a certain amount works for you then it will work for you!
however there’s another very important component in the law of assumption...
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the whole point of repeating affirmations is to change your inner assumptions and beliefs about your desire. you want to get into the state of KNOWING that you already have your desires even if you don’t see your desire in the 3D. this is the key!!
example: let’s say i want my bf to text me more. so i decide to affirm “he texts me constantly.” however, in the 3D, i see that he didn’t text me. well instead of going back to the old story of, “he never texts me” i just ignore it and keep affirming “he texts me constantly” REGARDLESS of what i’m seeing in the 3D. cause guess what: it’s not real at ALL. your outer reality is just a collection of your old thoughts, beliefs, and assumptions. therefore by not reacting to it, you will manifest the change that you want. also, whenever i’m reminded of my desire for him texting me, i will affirm “he texts me constantly, he gives me all of his attention etc.”
now whenever you affirm, the most important thing to remember is to NOT let your thoughts slip back into its old pattern of thinking, even if you see that you don’t have your desire in the 3D. this is because the 3D reality is just a collection of your previous thoughts, beliefs, and assumptions. when you react to the 3D, you’re just reaffirming your undesirable assumptions. therefore, instead of getting discouraged and upset that you “don’t have your desire yet,” JUST KEEP AFFIRMING AND PERSISTING!! the 3D will conform to your new assumptions but only if you keep persisting in them. you must remember that you already have your desires the second you want them. the 3D literally has NO choice but to conform and reflect those desires. it’s literally the law!!
your thoughts and assumptions manifest
you can manifest anything
affirm as if you already have your desires, (because you do)!
your 3D is only a collection of old assumptions, an illusion. so don’t react to it as if it's the truth.