The Reason Why You Are Limitless

How to have a breakthrough & commit to identity shifting

There are three parts of a breakthrough. Usually, people go through these steps backwards, so it doesn't last.

Step 3: Strategy

the 'how'

simple is sexy

but willpower alone isn't enough, so we must look at step 2

Step 2: Story

the 'why'

what you believe to be true about life

what you tell yourself over and over again

let go of limiting beliefs

change your story to an empowering story

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Shifting your story exercise

Step 1: Our State

emotional, energetic, psychological state

energy is everything

good energy is a habit. you can choose your thoughts like you choose your lipstick

bad, stagnant energy leads to bad, stagnant decisions

what are you focusing on?

focus = feeling

pick good feeling thoughts. focus on your compelling future.

it happens over days, weeks, months

Become aware of your thoughts

becoming aware of your thoughts is half the battle

train your mindset like a muscle

"hey that was a thought that didn't make me feel good. Now I know what I don't want and I have more clarity on what I do want. So now I'm going to think more of what I do want and less of what I don't"

this thought makes me feel better so I'm going to think this way

creating new neurological pathways

your mind doesn't know the difference between reality and imagination

It's about identity shifting

don't try to just quit candy. believe you are someone who doesn't eat candy.

choose what is on brand for you / part of your new identity

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what was your old story?

what was your old identity?

what were your old beliefs and limiting beliefs?

what is your NEW identity?

what are your NEW beliefs?

those limiting beliefs were subjective, not true, based on experience not fact

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Meditate, take out a notebook, and

𝒜𝓈𝓀 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝒾𝓇𝑒𝒹 𝓋𝑒𝓇𝓈𝒾𝑜𝓃 𝑜𝒻 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻

♡ what did you do to get there?

♡ What are you currently doing?

♡ What are you feeling?

♡ What are you thinking?

♡ What state are you in every day?

♡ What are your beliefs?

♡ What are your habits?

♡ Why does that work?

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Happiness

happiness does not come from the destination

progress is what makes us happy

becoming the person we have always wanted to be

changing for the better

guide to states

NO ONE TO CHANGE BUT SELF

-what is a state? it is a collection of thoughts, feelings, emotions, & beliefs that you identify with. it is who you are being. your I AM

you are ALWAYS in a state. we go in & out of states ALL day. there are INFINITE realities & YOU choose what state to occupy. when we say that creation is finished that is exactly what it means. you do not have to create anything. there's a version of you that is rich & one that is poor. one in a loving relationship & one where you are single. being a good student or a bad student. having your dream job or a job you hate. etc. YOU get to CHOOSE which state you experience. if you can see something in your mind & think what it would be like to experience those things, then it is possible. imagination is the only reality. nothing can happen unless it is experienced in imagination FIRST.

how do i get into a state?

decide what you want to manifest

fulfill yourself in imagination to get into the wish fulfilled

how do i get into the wish fulfilled?

you could just say "i am in the state" or "i am in the wish fulfilled" & you're in it! it is as easy as intending to be in it

use methods to help maintain the state

affirming- pick a few affirmations that help you to capture the feeling (knowing) that your desire is a fact in imagination. (how do i feel now that i have my desire? what would i be thinking if i had my desire?) whatever answer you had to those questions, would be great affirmations! make them yourself. don't ask someone to make some for you. affirmations should be NATURAL to YOU. affirming is not something that should be forced. there is a BIG difference between having natural thoughts & forcing yourself to think structured sentences. you do NOT need to affirm 24/7. why? bc that is not NATURAL & you were not doing that before you found out about the law. also, affirmations DO NOT get you into the state, they are a technique that is used to MAINTAIN the state of wish fulfilled. personally, when i enter the wish fulfilled, i feel calm, peaceful, and content. i feel the inner KNOWING that my desire is fulfilled (bc it is) and thoughts come to me NATURALLY. thoughts come from your state, so they are a great indicator to help you know which state you're in.

visualizing- spend time in imagination. (what would a a day look like with my desire?) visualize where you want to be/what you want to experience. visualize a scene that implies that you have your desire. keep doing this until you have the feeling that it is a fact in your imagination.

scripting- write a diary entry. describe what a day would look like with your desire. get as detailed as you want. you are the author.

inner conversations- this can kind of go together with visualizing. talk to someone in imagination about your desire, talk to the person you desire, or imagine someone congratulating you for obtaining your desire.

SATS (state akin to sleep)- do this as you're about to fall asleep. visualize one scene that implies that you have your desire on a loop until you fall asleep. feel the scene to be real (bc it is). neville talked about this A LOT in his work & was his favorite method. he always said to fall asleep in the wish fulfilled.

lullaby method- create a short phrase that indicates you have your desire. neville suggested phrases such as "thank you" "it is finished" "it is done" i personally like to use the phrase "it is mine" bc it is more natural to me. say the short phrase of your choice over & over until you fall asleep knowing it is a fact. now when i say "say it over & over" i do NOT mean to say it like a robot. FEEL THEM. personally when i do this, i say the phrase slowly & calmly to myself to REMIND myself that it is done & is A FACT.

key takeaway from methods: do whatever is natural to you. do not have the mindset of doing them to get something. you are just reminding yourself of what you already have. you must have it in imagination first to get it in the 3d, so if you have the mindset of "i am gonna do xyz method to get my desire" i'm sorry but it will not work

persist- keep going back to the wish fulfilled. stay faithful to your imagination.

do i have to stay in the state all day?

NO! go back to the state whenever you think about your desire. it is NOT about how long you are in a state but the frequency (amount of times you go back to it) ex: if you think about your desire 5 times a day, but 3 of those times you are thinking from a state of lack (not having it), while the other 2 are the state of wish fulfilled. the state of lack is your dwelling state (which is what you will see in the 3d)

is manifestation really instant?

YES! what you are experiencing right now in the 3d is your CURRENT dwelling state. how do you change it? by going within & leaving the 3d alone. once you have made your desire state your dwelling place, it will instantly be reflected in the 3d. the 3d is simply showing you who you are being/identifying as. this is why we tell you that you have to change yourself first. the outer world is a mirror to our inner world. why would you expect to see rainbows & sunshine in your 3d, when your 4d is lightning & thunder? how could you see a change of clothes, unless you changed them yourself first? once you change, the rest will follow. it is LAW.

how do i know if i fell out of the state?

you may be checking the 3d, worrying, or having opposing thoughts. again, THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS. they are NOT what manifests. they have no power over you unless you give them power. don't identify (accept them as true) & let them pass. since your state manifests, a few silly thoughts that you don't accept as true mean NOTHING

how do i get back into the state if i fell out of it?

intend to go back & use the methods i described above to maintain the state

what do we mean by feeling?

feeling ≠ emotion. it is the KNOWING. you may feel calm, happy, peaceful, relief, etc. it is NOT some groundbreaking euphoric moment. it is NATURAL. you are in a dwelling state for EVERY aspect of your life (love, school, work, career, finances, etc.) so feeling your desire to be real, is not going to be some rainbow explosion. you know a lot of other things to be real that you are not placing as much focus on, so your desire is no different.

i stopped desiring it?

ex: you got a new pair of shoes. when you first got them you were excited to wear them. as the days went on, the "spark" kind of went away. it's not that you weren't excited to wear them, but you got used to having them & KNOW that they are yours

ex: once you start dating someone, you are excited to text them good morning and to hang out with them. over this, this becomes normal & expected. ofc you're going to be texting & hanging out with the person you're dating.

you may stop desiring your desire bc you KNOW that you have it. it's normal for you to have your desire. how could you continue desiring something you already have? that's like saying you want the pair of shoes you are wearing right now.

summary

STOP being a slave to your senses. shut the 3d out bc it is a reflection of your past dwelling state. since you're going to the wish fulfilled & thinking of your desire in your favor, the 3d doesn't matter. it is NOT who you are anymore. once your dwelling state is the wish fulfilled, it will reflected in the 3d INSTANTLY. stop bringing up the past bc it only exists in your mind. go within & fulfill your inner man. you desire something? see it in your imagination. want to talk to someone? have an inner convo or visualize talking to them. want to hang out with someone? do it in imagination. everything stems from imagination. it will not fail you. the world is a mirror that is reflecting who you are being. as within, so without. you MUST change FIRST to see the change in the outer world. there is nothing & no one to change but self.

reread this post as many times as you need until you understand. this all you need to know. apply what i mentioned & you WILL SUCCEED!

pdfs of all of neville's books

Neville references Christianity and the Bible a lot in some of his works, but even if you aren't Christian or religious at all there's still a lot you could learn from his more Bible-themed works!

I recommend starting with The Law and the Promise, it's the first Neville book I read and it's still my favorite.

At Your Command (1939)

Your Faith is Your Fortune (1941)

Freedom For All (1942)

Feeling Is the Secret (1944)

Prayer, the Art of Believing (1946)

Out of This World (1949)

The Creative Use of Imagination (1952)

The Power of Awareness (1952)

Awakened Imagination (1954)

Seedtime and Harvest (1956) (also here)

The Law and the Promise (1961) (also here and here)

What Do Your Guides Need You To Know - Tarot Game

Hiii everyone! As a way to promote my paid readings opening back up again, I've decided to run a tarot game :3 The free readings currently in my inbox will still be answered, and you're welcome to continue sending in unrelated free reading requests; however participating in this ask game will give you a MUCH more detailed response than my typical free readings.

For this ask game, I will pull a card on “what your guides need you to know at this current time”. Upon request, I can also pull a card to answer who one of your guides is.

Participation Rules

Follow me.

Like & reblog this post, as well as my pinned post.

Send an ask saying you're participating, and letting me know if you want the additional "who is one of my guides" card.

Anons ARE allowed, so long as they send screenshot proof with the ask (you can crop your username out of the screenshot!) that they followed & reblogged. Non-anons, let me know if you want my response to be public or private!

And that's all! For now this game is OPEN and I will update it when I close the game. Much love to you all! <33

💟💕 MY SIGNATURE LOOK 101

⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ how to get the prissy grl look

hair:

i’m a natural bouncy curl girl. depending on the weather and my time, there’s a good chance I’m wearing my hair in it’s curly state

୨୧ with just a bit of leave in conditioner and and oil on my scalp.

although I love the ease and the natural beauty of my curls, I prefer my hair straightened.

୨୧ I feel I look more mature and sleek that way. it’s also very hot opposed to the sweet soft and innocent look i think my natural hair gives. and oddly, it’s less maintenance but gives the illusion of being higher maintenance.

I used to love my hair bone straight, with my curtain bangs and a part down the middle. but lately my style has been shifting towards bombshell curls on straightened hair with a flipped bang and side part. my hair is pretty long (about an inch past my bra hook) so that gives me room for versatility which I love so I’ll switch it up every now and then

୨୧ my fav styles include: half up half down style (fave omg) or flexi rod set creating loose beach waves on my hair, loose messy bun

fashion:

bougie girl 101!!! is my closet!!

color palette: black, white, gray, pinks (typically soft), lavender and browns/nudes. it enforces my ethereal, hyper girly brand. the color I wear most often has to be BLACK. i swear it is the sexiest color to exist and it makes me look amazing and feel even better.

୨୧ i love one piece bodysuits, again, so sexy on me.

loungewear is very special to me. it takes up more than half of my wardrobe overall. and if styled correctly, it can be worn out

୨୧ one of my fav things to do is finish my head to toe routine and throw on a pair of my victoria’s secret slippers, comfy matching lingerie and a matching lounge set.

i also have MANY fuzzy/faux fur pieces in my collection. these including bags, shoes, tops, etc.

rhinestones are a staple in my closet. i have so many tops that have sassy sayings in rhinestones. one of my favs being my “high maintenance” rhinestones tank top.

animal prints are my SIGNATURE more specifically leopard print; i am a true cheetah girl. i have everything from purses, head accessories, tops, notebooks, etc in cheetah print

୨୧ my fav features to show off: my legs, feet, and collarbone

i go out of my way to avoid: neon colors, biker shorts, tacky one pieces, clothes that do nothing for my silhouette, big bulky accessories

୨୧ some more elements i enjoy: thin dainty chain detailing, velour, small heart details, satin, tartan, saffiano, charms

୨୧ some current favs include: hunter boots, vs pink loungewear sets, pink uggs, clear pumps

makeup:

perfect. i love to look perfect. never too done looking because i hate the cakey, obvious look. i love the soft glam, fresh face routine i use.

i shape my brows by adding short little hairs to my tail going upward on the arch part. i like my brows nice and thin with that meagan good arch. i like them lighter in the front and darker and sharp on the end. i ofc finish my brows off with foundation and a concealer brush.

then i buff a radiant concealer on my eyelids and blend that with the concealer or foundation i used around my brows.

i prime my face with maybelline poreless primer for that soft and blurry skin look.

୨୧ final touches: inner corner highlight, arch highlight, and nose bridge highlight + smooth and bright undereye

୨୧ big soft pretty pink kissable lips!! *or nude*

bronzed and blushed cheeks *come to think of it i only really contour my nose now, i use bronzer everywhere else*

୨୧ current favs: nars powder blushes, kiss false lashes, buxom glosses, mac lipstick, legit lashes mascara, makeup forever pressed powder

nails:

୨୧ i literally never wear anything but pink, white or a creamy pinky nude, and yes this includes french tips

i do my own feet, i just don’t trust salons to really get my feet as perfect as possible. they always cut my nails too short or give a WEAK exfoliation. no. i’d rather do it myself.

i don’t believe in white toe supremacy when my hands are another color. i like my nails to match. if my fingers are frenched out so are my toes. but my go to color that i’m wearing most of the time is ‘it’s a girl’ by opi and a matching gel for my hands.

accessories:

hoops r my signature acc. i’m literally recognizable to ppl who don’t even know my name. their the simplest feminine addition to my looks.

either that or diamond studs. i have a pair of heart shaped studs i love.

speaking of hearts i love heart shaped charms on necklaces purses and bracelets

honestly anything dainty and pink i’m rocking!!

୨୧ my fav jewelry atm: my signature studded hoops, my juicy charm bracelet, my hello kitty necklaces, my hello kitty faceplate ring, my tiffany heart choker

୨୧ satchels and small totes!!!

୨୧ glitter phone cases

୨୧ vs wristlet straps

another signature of mine are my fluffy pens i made myself. i keep one on me and only write with my own pens in public.

i try my hardest to match my metals to my looks, cool tones, white gold. warm tones, yellow gold. neutral, sterling silver. i never mix metals. if my bag has yellow gold detailing so do my jewelry for that look.

୨୧ my fav bags atm: my rose ballerine damier azur neverfull, my pink and black ted baker arycon bags, my louis vuitton alma, my striped vs tote bag, my medium bubblegum telfar

MOOD ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*

"HOW DO I MANIFEST WITH LOA?"

Im explaining this in case you are new here or need a reminder about how easy it is, manifesting is simple and im for real, its SO much more easy than you think, people are just complicating everything or you are .

MANIFESTING :

Know what you want, choose it with no limit.

Assume ( = think as if ) its yours . Get in the state of having it. Assuming is just being totally convinced of it without proof like validation of the 3d(=irl), that you don't need cause your only *true* reality is your 4d (= mind)

And finally just persist regardless of what you experience in your fives senses or in the 3d, just believe the 4d, cause thats the only true.

When I say you have to assume something is just getting in the mental state of already having it, in simple words, think that you have it and just persist in that thought, all time , like everytime someone or yourself say the opposite of having what you desire just flip that thought to the correct one of already having it. Change your mindset to having it!

As you can see, manifesting is really easy, in a few steps you got your desire. You just have to repeat yourself that you have it & continue thinking like that and that's it.

How to have 'dream girl' energy?

Dream Girl Energy

•Create an air of mystery. Never reveal more than you need to about yourself. This generates interest and a desire to be involved in your life, considering you’re not bearing all of it on social media. It’s as if only certain people get access to you, and everyone is aware of that.

•Don’t take things too personally. Know that what others do is a reflection of themselves, not you. Everyone is acting on their own interest. You don’t know their full story, the same way someone doesn’t know yours. 

•Become a woman of substance. Have qualities that are hard to come by. Have talents that are enriching. Have emotional intelligence, as well as academic intelligence. Be well versed in multiple topics.

•Be a queen of socialization. It’s all about being skilled on how to hold a conversation and keep it. Be able to actively listen to the other person. Ask open ended questions. Have a conversation where you both mutually enjoy the topic. Small talk is everything (family, occupation, recreation, dreams, culture). Smile, have eye contact, calm body language, and an inviting voice that keeps them wanting more of you.

•Have a circle of friends that are genuine, loyal, high maintenance, and trustworthy. If not a circle, have one or two reliable best friends that match your level of energy. Everyone else may think they’re close to you, but they’re acquaintances. Let them think they know you. Follow up with close ones you care about. Make it a point to get back to them, and link up twice a month if possible.

•Ignore all negativity from outsiders. Don’t give them your energy. Be aware of what’s being said, but don’t react. Don’t confirm anything or deny. Avoid subliminal messages and petty banter. All of that is beneath you.

•Embrace your individuality. No one else can be you. Fall in love with the way you speak, walk, talk, and operate. Everything is graceful and poised. Your energy is contagious and vivacious. People have nothing but good things to say, because you have the same respect for yourself.

•Growth is your goal. Dedicate your energy to things that feed your soul. Always look to better yourself. Strengthen your spirit and your faith. Look to God before you look to someone else. Never stop learning.

•Have boundaries, and enforce them. Never let someone disrespect your core boundaries. These boundaries are your personal code of ethics. Decide what that means for you, whether with self, love life, friendships, or family relationships.

•Be your own best friend first. The ins and outs of you should intrigue you just as much as they intrigue everyone else. Befriend yourself and date yourself. Acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses. Reflect on a healthy level, and assess what you can do differently when met with challenges.

•Create a signature presentation. Your hair, makeup, perfume, clothing, mannerisms, voice, and overall aura will all contribute to the signature dream girl presentation. Have your aesthetic down pat and be consistent. Only let up in the privacy of your home. When seeing others, always be in character.

•Have a routine. Whether you know it or not, your morning, night, and pampering routine will seal in your presentation and mental health. Be consistent with this, and notice when you need to check in with yourself.

•Take days off. To avoid burnout, center your off days around your mental health. Know what you need and what makes you feel better. Have your down days, so you avoid snapping on anyone or getting out of character. Never let anyone see you slip. Retreat privately, and face your battles privately before revealing them to anyone first. Give yourself time to process before allowing others in your space.

•Put your dreams, goals, and desires first. The outside noise does not matter. It’s about what you think and what you want. Make it happen, no matter how long it takes. It doesn’t matter how far fetched your dreams seem to others, make it a reality for you.

•Live a life of luxury regardless. Know that you don’t need material things to live a life of luxury and bliss. Remember that they are simply attainable perks to your life. Your life is already luxurious and blissful, because you expect nothing less out of yourself. It’s a mindset you’ve fostered.

•Remember that people look up to you. You are an object of desire for many. You have the power, and you possess more of it than you could ever imagine.

•Count your blessings. Be thankful for everything in life. Never feel entitled. This energy is rare in a world full of people who feel entitled to everything. Be humble, all while knowing what you deserve. You’ll be richly rewarded.

At home spa day

Beforehand:

Declutter your space

Light scented candles

Put on a playlist/podcast/audiobook

Pour yourself a drink

Make sure you have all materials within reach

Feet:

Remove old nail polish

Soak feet in a foot bath prepared with salts

Exfoliate & remove death skin

Cut nails

File nails

Take out gunk between nail & skin

Cut cuticles if needed + push them back

Apply a new coat of nail polish

Apply cuticle oil and foot cream

Hands:

Remove old nail polish

File nails in desired shape and length

Apply cutticle remover and push back/cut any cuticles

Buff nails

Apply a new coat of nail polish

Apply cuticle oil and hand cream

Hair:

Latter your hair in a hair oil/mask

Double rinse with first a cleansing and then nourishing shampoo

Apply conditioner to only the ends and rinse

Dry as needed for your hair type

Body:

If you wax, dry exfoliate

Apply baby powder to desired areas

Wax desired areas

If you shave, exfoliate in shower

Shave desired areas

Use body scrub over entire body

Lather yourself in nice smelling soap

Apply anti hair growth serum

Moisturise

Face:

Remove makeup

Cleanse thoroughly

Steam your face

Exfoliate

Pluck/wax eyebrows and any other facial hair

Apply face mask

Rinse

Massage face

Tone

Add serum and any other product needed for your specific skin type/condition

Moisturise

A GUIDE TO SHIFTING METHODS !

just a very quick fyi before we get started! this guide is going to be as in depth as i can possibly make it without it being too long or daunting. i'm going to try explain the who, what, when, where and why's to the best of my ability!

what is a method? A shifting method - to put it simply - is a set of steps that you can follow that can help you shift easier. there are sooo many possible ways that you can enter your desired reality, and it can be daunting to understand what will work and what wont for you. methods can help you if you have trouble entering that almost meditative state and help you break out of the confines of your current reality!

how do I use a method? depending on the method we're looking at, there will be a different set of steps to follow. e.i the raven method is the most simplest method there is, and it literally just consists of lying on your back and counting to a desired number (it's really good for baby shifters!). as long as you set your intention with FULL belief, any method will work.

do I need a method? are they compulsory? no! you don't need a method, it's completely your choice. you will be able to shift with or without one regardless, they're just there if you feel like you want some extra help on pushing through.

what is the difference between an awake and asleep method? the difference is actually really simple, but i struggled with understanding it at first so i added this section in haha. but in short, an awake method is one where you choose not to fall asleep and then wake up in your desired reality, instead you'd be awake the whole time and feel your surroundings change as you enter your desired reality. apposed to an asleep method where you fall asleep and when you awake, your eyes will open and you'll be in your desired reality.

what are common methods? there are endless amounts of methods that are used but the most common i have found are the following (i was gonna link these to video guides where ppl explain it but they are SO hard to find for some so i've explained it instead):

raven method this one is super super simple, it's usually used as an asleep method where you're required to be at least a little tired before hand. in this method, you basically lay down on your back in a starfish position and count to 100 in your head. while doing so, repeat affirmations between each number (or each 10, whatever you wanna do) such as "i am shifting" "i have shifted" "i will shift" etc. after this you'll awake in your desired reality. pillow method this one's REALLY simple too! just write down your affirmations on a piece of paper, repeating them to yourself before bed, and then going to sleep with the piece of paper with the affirmations on it under your pillow. you'll wake up in your desired reality. julia method this method can be used as either an asleep method or an awake method. you're simply required to find yourself in a comfortable position (lying down, in a chair etc.) and repeat the words "i am" until you feel symptoms. once you start feeling shifting systems, switch to saying affirmations like "i am shifting" or "i am in my desired reality". heartbeat method this method is a bit more complex and requires a bit of visualization. when doing this method, find an audio of a beating heart (preferably no longer than 15-20 minutes) and place it under your pillow before bed. with your head resting on your pillow, visualize yourself in your desired reality, with your head on top of a person you trust (could be your comfort character or s/o). visualize the heartbeat audio being their heartbeat. once the audio has finished playing, visualize this person waking up and leading you to a door, once you reach this door, imagine them asking you "are you ready to go home?" if you are, follow them through the door. if not, repeat a few more affirmations until you feel ready. when you step through he door, the room will fill with a bright white light, and eventually, you'll feel like you're falling. as you fall keep affirming you are in your desired reality, and once you finish your fall, you'll wake up in the reality you wish!

our favourite methods and what worked best for us

my current favourite method is the' dr strange method'! it personally really works purely because i love visualizing and it's easy for me. i know a lot of people can struggle with the visualizing part so it may not be the best method for everyone! i also love the 'cinn's method' which is a slightly more in-depth version of the raven method. 'the raven method' was the first one i ever used and initially brought me the closest to reaching my desired reality. another one that i've been meaning to try out is the 'dream-walking method' which might already be a thing but i know Fen is working on making an in-depth guide to it right now!