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What Do Your Guides Need You To Know - Tarot Game

Hiii everyone! As a way to promote my paid readings opening back up again, I've decided to run a tarot game :3 The free readings currently in my inbox will still be answered, and you're welcome to continue sending in unrelated free reading requests; however participating in this ask game will give you a MUCH more detailed response than my typical free readings.

For this ask game, I will pull a card on “what your guides need you to know at this current time”. Upon request, I can also pull a card to answer who one of your guides is.

Participation Rules

Follow me.

Like & reblog this post, as well as my pinned post.

Send an ask saying you're participating, and letting me know if you want the additional "who is one of my guides" card.

Anons ARE allowed, so long as they send screenshot proof with the ask (you can crop your username out of the screenshot!) that they followed & reblogged. Non-anons, let me know if you want my response to be public or private!

And that's all! For now this game is OPEN and I will update it when I close the game. Much love to you all! <33

How to have a breakthrough & commit to identity shifting

There are three parts of a breakthrough. Usually, people go through these steps backwards, so it doesn't last.

Step 3: Strategy

the 'how'

simple is sexy

but willpower alone isn't enough, so we must look at step 2

Step 2: Story

the 'why'

what you believe to be true about life

what you tell yourself over and over again

let go of limiting beliefs

change your story to an empowering story

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Shifting your story exercise

Step 1: Our State

emotional, energetic, psychological state

energy is everything

good energy is a habit. you can choose your thoughts like you choose your lipstick

bad, stagnant energy leads to bad, stagnant decisions

what are you focusing on?

focus = feeling

pick good feeling thoughts. focus on your compelling future.

it happens over days, weeks, months

Become aware of your thoughts

becoming aware of your thoughts is half the battle

train your mindset like a muscle

"hey that was a thought that didn't make me feel good. Now I know what I don't want and I have more clarity on what I do want. So now I'm going to think more of what I do want and less of what I don't"

this thought makes me feel better so I'm going to think this way

creating new neurological pathways

your mind doesn't know the difference between reality and imagination

It's about identity shifting

don't try to just quit candy. believe you are someone who doesn't eat candy.

choose what is on brand for you / part of your new identity

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what was your old story?

what was your old identity?

what were your old beliefs and limiting beliefs?

what is your NEW identity?

what are your NEW beliefs?

those limiting beliefs were subjective, not true, based on experience not fact

_____________

Meditate, take out a notebook, and

𝒜𝓈𝓀 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝒾𝓇𝑒𝒹 𝓋𝑒𝓇𝓈𝒾𝑜𝓃 𝑜𝒻 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻

♡ what did you do to get there?

♡ What are you currently doing?

♡ What are you feeling?

♡ What are you thinking?

♡ What state are you in every day?

♡ What are your beliefs?

♡ What are your habits?

♡ Why does that work?

✧･ﾟ:* ~♡

Happiness

happiness does not come from the destination

progress is what makes us happy

becoming the person we have always wanted to be

changing for the better

How to have 'dream girl' energy?

Dream Girl Energy

•Create an air of mystery. Never reveal more than you need to about yourself. This generates interest and a desire to be involved in your life, considering you’re not bearing all of it on social media. It’s as if only certain people get access to you, and everyone is aware of that.

•Don’t take things too personally. Know that what others do is a reflection of themselves, not you. Everyone is acting on their own interest. You don’t know their full story, the same way someone doesn’t know yours. 

•Become a woman of substance. Have qualities that are hard to come by. Have talents that are enriching. Have emotional intelligence, as well as academic intelligence. Be well versed in multiple topics.

•Be a queen of socialization. It’s all about being skilled on how to hold a conversation and keep it. Be able to actively listen to the other person. Ask open ended questions. Have a conversation where you both mutually enjoy the topic. Small talk is everything (family, occupation, recreation, dreams, culture). Smile, have eye contact, calm body language, and an inviting voice that keeps them wanting more of you.

•Have a circle of friends that are genuine, loyal, high maintenance, and trustworthy. If not a circle, have one or two reliable best friends that match your level of energy. Everyone else may think they’re close to you, but they’re acquaintances. Let them think they know you. Follow up with close ones you care about. Make it a point to get back to them, and link up twice a month if possible.

•Ignore all negativity from outsiders. Don’t give them your energy. Be aware of what’s being said, but don’t react. Don’t confirm anything or deny. Avoid subliminal messages and petty banter. All of that is beneath you.

•Embrace your individuality. No one else can be you. Fall in love with the way you speak, walk, talk, and operate. Everything is graceful and poised. Your energy is contagious and vivacious. People have nothing but good things to say, because you have the same respect for yourself.

•Growth is your goal. Dedicate your energy to things that feed your soul. Always look to better yourself. Strengthen your spirit and your faith. Look to God before you look to someone else. Never stop learning.

•Have boundaries, and enforce them. Never let someone disrespect your core boundaries. These boundaries are your personal code of ethics. Decide what that means for you, whether with self, love life, friendships, or family relationships.

•Be your own best friend first. The ins and outs of you should intrigue you just as much as they intrigue everyone else. Befriend yourself and date yourself. Acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses. Reflect on a healthy level, and assess what you can do differently when met with challenges.

•Create a signature presentation. Your hair, makeup, perfume, clothing, mannerisms, voice, and overall aura will all contribute to the signature dream girl presentation. Have your aesthetic down pat and be consistent. Only let up in the privacy of your home. When seeing others, always be in character.

•Have a routine. Whether you know it or not, your morning, night, and pampering routine will seal in your presentation and mental health. Be consistent with this, and notice when you need to check in with yourself.

•Take days off. To avoid burnout, center your off days around your mental health. Know what you need and what makes you feel better. Have your down days, so you avoid snapping on anyone or getting out of character. Never let anyone see you slip. Retreat privately, and face your battles privately before revealing them to anyone first. Give yourself time to process before allowing others in your space.

•Put your dreams, goals, and desires first. The outside noise does not matter. It’s about what you think and what you want. Make it happen, no matter how long it takes. It doesn’t matter how far fetched your dreams seem to others, make it a reality for you.

•Live a life of luxury regardless. Know that you don’t need material things to live a life of luxury and bliss. Remember that they are simply attainable perks to your life. Your life is already luxurious and blissful, because you expect nothing less out of yourself. It’s a mindset you’ve fostered.

•Remember that people look up to you. You are an object of desire for many. You have the power, and you possess more of it than you could ever imagine.

•Count your blessings. Be thankful for everything in life. Never feel entitled. This energy is rare in a world full of people who feel entitled to everything. Be humble, all while knowing what you deserve. You’ll be richly rewarded.

DO NOT OVERCOMPLICATE MANIFESTATION.

As you know manifestation is easy and even more when you manifest consciously. So stop overcomplicating everything and let me be clear. Manifestation = thinking. When you have a thought and you start believing it, thats manifesting. At this point, is not even manifesting , its deciding. Some people interpret "manifesting" as wanting something and doing a lot of things to have it (affirming, methods, visualization, meditation, learning about loa, reading neville, following blog, ect) BUT NO . manifesting is just deciding you have what you want. And to decide that, you use the law ( mostly unconsciously). And to decide, what do you do? You unconsciously do it 24/7 with just 3 steps ;

1. Choose an assumption/thought.

2. get in that state / mindset of thinking (= align your thoughts to that assumption)

3. Persist no matter what.

Easy, right? SO STOP CONSUMING SO MUCH UNNECESSARY INFORMATION AN APLY THE LAW. DECIDE YOU HAVE YOUR DREAM LIFE. you can consume info, like me, BUT APLY IT!!!!!! If you learned something new, WHY AREN'T YOU APPLYING IT? ITS SO EASY.

Thats all, pls don't underestimate your power, thx! XOXO

Class and Confidence:

In this #DreamGirlJourney post, I’ll be discussing everything I’ve done and do regularly to remain elegant and sure of myself. Self confidence takes time but these things make the journey much more easy, until it just feels natural. Keep reading if you’re interested on the very necessary foundation to reaching your highest self.

Stop caring what others say or think about you.

They’re thinking about you. You’re doing something right. Take that as a compliment keep it pushing. Don’t let anyone see you sweat. When I was in high school, girls would always tell me how so and so had this and that to say about me. And I don’t even know so and so. I’m sure it was to break me down but I never confronted anyone or threw a fit. I just didn’t care. I’d just think I don’t even know these b*tches’ names, but they’re having conferences about me. It actually boosted my ego and made the girls SICK.

Be seen and not heard.

Women who feel the need to always be the center of attention often lack confidence and couth. This usually results in short lived attention and it’s commonly negative. Women who know how to sit back, observe, and mind their business draw interest appear put more together, and kindle a little jealousy even because many want to be this unbothered woman but can’t because... well, they’re bothered. Some women get offended by the header statement which is understandable in the appropriate setting; no one needs to hear your voice in the grocery store or during class lectures. Also try not to curse so much. Those with vulgar language lack an adequate vocabulary. It’s not classy. Don’t be that loud girl in the morning, already eating hot chips with an Arizona tea in high school.

Don’t take the bait.

It’s inevitable that negativity will meet you. Whether it be physical violence, bullying, immaturity, etc., a woman with class chooses not to be lured into this interaction. A woman who knows she’s top tier knows these encounters can drop her stock, hurt her mind and/or pretty face. Just walk away with a quick read if you must respond. If met with violence, defend yourself and invest in devices of protection. Also, depending on circumstances, take him/her to court. We don’t fight, honey. 💅🏾

Get physical.

Baby, you can just be walking down the street. Get up and move. It’s revitalizing and strengthening. Give your fingers a rest and move your limbs. I personally love jumping jacks to get the blood flowing and cardio is my preferred workout. You’ll become more healthy and look better. You’ll get better sleep also. (luv sleep)

Primp and pamper yourself.

Make yourself pretty. Carry a mirror to remind yourself who you are: your own dream girl. Apply your lipgloss and pout. Fluff your hair in the mirror. There’s nothing wrong with a little vanity. Don’t feel guilty or ridiculous about this. You have a responsibility to make your vessel feel good about herself. You’ve gotta look good to feel good in my humble opinion. Go get your lashes and nails done. Keep up with yourself at home. Walk with one foot in front of the other, head up, shoulders back, hips swaying. Just a strut makes a woman feel amazing.

Set goals and stick to them.

This is the biggest confidence booster I’ve implemented in my life. Figure out what you want to accomplish in life. Outline the necessary steps. Write them and set deadlines. @angeldiscovery has a great post on scripting. Then do the work. Don’t sit on visions or just say “I manifest a luxury home,” girl, work for that. People confuse the phrase “don’t worry about the how” when it comes to manifestation, with not aligning your actions with your wishes. If you want a luxury home, NO, don’t stress about getting from A to Z, but YES, make plans to get from A to B, B to C, and so on and so forth. Make some boss girl moves.

Best of luck,

Send messages on your progress or any questions

Hope you enjoy,

-DreamGrlArchive

How to have a Hot Girl Semester: Fall 2022 📝🎀📚

As summer is unfortunately slowly coming to an end it’s time to prepare for a hot girl school year and semester. Having a hot girl semester to me means being organized, studious, consistent, disciplined, motivated and looking hot doing it 💅🏾💕. Beauty 🎀and brains 🧠. We’re getting good grades, handing in our assignments early, being on top of everything and being THAT student.

Organization and Productivity:

Get an academic planner or just a general planner when you get your syllabus for your classes write all your due dates and assignments.

Notion is an amazing app for productivity and organization. Especially for school. There’s academic templates like due dates, grade calculators, study notes and etc. you can customize and make everything your own add pictures and designs to make everything look cute.

Download your required apps. Some schools may require you to download grammarly, Microsoft teams or etc. read your syllabus and make sure you download everything required before hand and make accounts.

Create a back to school shopping list. Essentials needed for school ( eg. backpack, purse, laptop, headphones, tablet, dorm items, textbooks, stationary).

Motivation and Discipline:

All the mood-boards on my blog are motivation I try to make them for all majors, to be able to print out and place in your school binders, or use as screen savers to look at, to get you started when you feel like giving up. Remember why you’re doing this. When it gets hard remember the goal, your future self and the lifestyle and career you want.

We all know Legally Blonde is THAT Movie, it’s great to watch before the school year. I like to watch it before each semester because even though it’s fictional we can all learn a lot from Elle woods. Her determination, her discipline and motivation we see that brought her success. “ I’m going to Harvard, I don’t need back ups”“ What like it’s hard?” “ I’ll show you how valuable Elle Woods can be”

Motivation is the start, discipline keeps you consistent. Sometimes you may be lazy or don’t feel like studying but you need to get into a routine and form habits that you do everyday to keep you in a consistent cycle. It takes 21 days to form a habit. If you create a routine and a schedule after a while it’ll become a natural thing for you.

Study Techniques:

Active recall

pomodoro technique (study with Elle woods pomodoro technique)

Flash cards

Listening to recorded lectures

Reflecting on what you took from a lesson and writing down everything you remember ( mind map)

Teaching what you learned to someone

Study Habits:

Putting away your phone or putting it on DND mode

Cleaning and organizing your space prior to studying

Making sure you study on a full stomach or snack while studying

Studying in a quiet calm space

Studying to learn and understand, not just memorize

Having group study sessions or study dates

Physical Appearance:

Physical appearance is important. When you look good you’ll feel better. It’s about confidence and self esteem. Presenting your best self. A new school year a is fresh start. Buy a new wardrobe, a new bag, new accessories. Upgrade your appearance, upgrade your style. Back to school shopping is my favourite, it’s so refreshing and cleansing in a way. After summer, a back to school glow up is essential.

As much as it’s annoying to do, for online school looking good and turning your camera on during class meetings and lessons is important. It lets your professors get a better impression of you and they will remember you more. Because of pretty privilege it’s possible physical appearance can = better grades in school. Look presentable for online classes as much as you would for in person and you’ll see a difference with the relationship between you and your professors and your grades. But of course you can’t just rely on that alone you need to also do the work.

Multitask beauty regimes and studying. Study at the salon while getting your hair or nails done, study while doing a face mask and waiting for it to dry, listen to lectures while at the spa or getting your eyelashes done. Don’t neglect your beauty regime and appointments because of school. You can do both or schedule time do complete both.

Mental health and well-being:

Be aware of accessibility services and accommodation services within your school like counsellor, social workers, child and youth workers and tutors and book appointments in advance or as needed.

Talk to your professors about extensions on assignments for when you feel overwhelmed or alternative spaces to do test if available.

Practice stress relieving habits like exercising, going on walks, deep breathing, journaling when feeling overwhelmed and under pressure.

Academic baddies, we got this 🧠💅🏾🎀

Not the same anon but I have a couple questions. Can I put self concept affs into one aff or is it better to do multiple. And what amino community has the how to shift effortlessly post because on google when I go it takes me to the website where it says 502 bad gateway.

Hi dear, I recommend you to put self concept affs into one aff because it will be easier for you to loop in your mind. Also, smh...the entire app Amino has been down all day today. I will give you a summary of the article. You don't need to do anything to shift, shifting can be effortless as long as you think it is. Simply affirm: "Shifting is so effortless for me," "I can shift on command at any time," "I can shift whenever I desire," "I can shift at any time of the day." Loop these affs in your mind and persist no matter what. Eventually the person said that they were able to shift with their eyes open but do keep in mind it will take time to get to this point depending on how much you affirm and how disciplined you are with your mental diet. Shifting is all about your mindset and setting that intention. I hope that this helps

💟💕 MY SIGNATURE LOOK 101

⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ how to get the prissy grl look

hair:

i’m a natural bouncy curl girl. depending on the weather and my time, there’s a good chance I’m wearing my hair in it’s curly state

୨୧ with just a bit of leave in conditioner and and oil on my scalp.

although I love the ease and the natural beauty of my curls, I prefer my hair straightened.

୨୧ I feel I look more mature and sleek that way. it’s also very hot opposed to the sweet soft and innocent look i think my natural hair gives. and oddly, it’s less maintenance but gives the illusion of being higher maintenance.

I used to love my hair bone straight, with my curtain bangs and a part down the middle. but lately my style has been shifting towards bombshell curls on straightened hair with a flipped bang and side part. my hair is pretty long (about an inch past my bra hook) so that gives me room for versatility which I love so I’ll switch it up every now and then

୨୧ my fav styles include: half up half down style (fave omg) or flexi rod set creating loose beach waves on my hair, loose messy bun

fashion:

bougie girl 101!!! is my closet!!

color palette: black, white, gray, pinks (typically soft), lavender and browns/nudes. it enforces my ethereal, hyper girly brand. the color I wear most often has to be BLACK. i swear it is the sexiest color to exist and it makes me look amazing and feel even better.

୨୧ i love one piece bodysuits, again, so sexy on me.

loungewear is very special to me. it takes up more than half of my wardrobe overall. and if styled correctly, it can be worn out

୨୧ one of my fav things to do is finish my head to toe routine and throw on a pair of my victoria’s secret slippers, comfy matching lingerie and a matching lounge set.

i also have MANY fuzzy/faux fur pieces in my collection. these including bags, shoes, tops, etc.

rhinestones are a staple in my closet. i have so many tops that have sassy sayings in rhinestones. one of my favs being my “high maintenance” rhinestones tank top.

animal prints are my SIGNATURE more specifically leopard print; i am a true cheetah girl. i have everything from purses, head accessories, tops, notebooks, etc in cheetah print

୨୧ my fav features to show off: my legs, feet, and collarbone

i go out of my way to avoid: neon colors, biker shorts, tacky one pieces, clothes that do nothing for my silhouette, big bulky accessories

୨୧ some more elements i enjoy: thin dainty chain detailing, velour, small heart details, satin, tartan, saffiano, charms

୨୧ some current favs include: hunter boots, vs pink loungewear sets, pink uggs, clear pumps

makeup:

perfect. i love to look perfect. never too done looking because i hate the cakey, obvious look. i love the soft glam, fresh face routine i use.

i shape my brows by adding short little hairs to my tail going upward on the arch part. i like my brows nice and thin with that meagan good arch. i like them lighter in the front and darker and sharp on the end. i ofc finish my brows off with foundation and a concealer brush.

then i buff a radiant concealer on my eyelids and blend that with the concealer or foundation i used around my brows.

i prime my face with maybelline poreless primer for that soft and blurry skin look.

୨୧ final touches: inner corner highlight, arch highlight, and nose bridge highlight + smooth and bright undereye

୨୧ big soft pretty pink kissable lips!! *or nude*

bronzed and blushed cheeks *come to think of it i only really contour my nose now, i use bronzer everywhere else*

୨୧ current favs: nars powder blushes, kiss false lashes, buxom glosses, mac lipstick, legit lashes mascara, makeup forever pressed powder

nails:

୨୧ i literally never wear anything but pink, white or a creamy pinky nude, and yes this includes french tips

i do my own feet, i just don’t trust salons to really get my feet as perfect as possible. they always cut my nails too short or give a WEAK exfoliation. no. i’d rather do it myself.

i don’t believe in white toe supremacy when my hands are another color. i like my nails to match. if my fingers are frenched out so are my toes. but my go to color that i’m wearing most of the time is ‘it’s a girl’ by opi and a matching gel for my hands.

accessories:

hoops r my signature acc. i’m literally recognizable to ppl who don’t even know my name. their the simplest feminine addition to my looks.

either that or diamond studs. i have a pair of heart shaped studs i love.

speaking of hearts i love heart shaped charms on necklaces purses and bracelets

honestly anything dainty and pink i’m rocking!!

୨୧ my fav jewelry atm: my signature studded hoops, my juicy charm bracelet, my hello kitty necklaces, my hello kitty faceplate ring, my tiffany heart choker

୨୧ satchels and small totes!!!

୨୧ glitter phone cases

୨୧ vs wristlet straps

another signature of mine are my fluffy pens i made myself. i keep one on me and only write with my own pens in public.

i try my hardest to match my metals to my looks, cool tones, white gold. warm tones, yellow gold. neutral, sterling silver. i never mix metals. if my bag has yellow gold detailing so do my jewelry for that look.

୨୧ my fav bags atm: my rose ballerine damier azur neverfull, my pink and black ted baker arycon bags, my louis vuitton alma, my striped vs tote bag, my medium bubblegum telfar

pdfs of all of neville's books

Neville references Christianity and the Bible a lot in some of his works, but even if you aren't Christian or religious at all there's still a lot you could learn from his more Bible-themed works!

I recommend starting with The Law and the Promise, it's the first Neville book I read and it's still my favorite.

At Your Command (1939)

Your Faith is Your Fortune (1941)

Freedom For All (1942)

Feeling Is the Secret (1944)

Prayer, the Art of Believing (1946)

Out of This World (1949)

The Creative Use of Imagination (1952)

The Power of Awareness (1952)

Awakened Imagination (1954)

Seedtime and Harvest (1956) (also here)

The Law and the Promise (1961) (also here and here)

lovilyy’s archive.

living in the end completely.

the core of the law.

unpopular loa opinions. facts

shifting and manifesting explained.

what is inspired action ?

self concept is important period.

confidence is the key to life.

you desire yourself.

self concept.

i bestow on to you wisdom/j.