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BECOMING THE EMBODIMENT OF EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE

a reminder. . .

we are all born so beautiful, its just that we are convinced all around us that we aren’t, but deep down you are so creatively beautiful, you’re special and unique. your opinions that you never share are important whether you think they aren’t. you deserve to be treated with the upmost respect and you deserve your dream life.

never think any differently, i want you to be consistent in your new mindset because one day you’re gonna be soo happy that you finally said NO you said NO to cutting yourself short, you said NO to hating yourself and you said NO to letting others walk all over you.

check out my other post here to find out how to become a powerful manifestor!

IMAGINE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE

imagine how they talk, how they act around others, how they treat themselves. what they tell themselves in the mirror, how they look like.

now..merge yourself in the feeling of being what you desire. that person you just imagined is you! in all it’s glory, so how do you feel? ecstatic? happy? fulfilled? satisfied? you should because its DONE. once you’ve imagined the person you want to be there is nothing else to do but mentally operate as that person.

INDULGE into that person you want to become and don’t hold back, start doing it now, start doing everyday and build yourself up. the more you continuously embody the person you want to be the more easier it becomes. START CHANGING YOUR THOUGHTS!

if at first you’re finding it difficult, do not WORRY. its normal, but just remind yourself that this will all work out in the long run, soon enough you’ll sit back and be like..wow “I made it” i got through the toughest obstacles and now look, i am unstoppable and so proud of myself.

STATE OF WISH FULFILLED

to get any desire you please all you really need to do is be in the state of the wish fulfilled.

WHAT IS THE STATE OF WISH FUFILLED?

“Man is All Imagination. Therefore, a man must be where he is in imagination, for his Imagination is himself. Imagination is active at and through any state that it is aware of. If we take shifting of awareness seriously, there are possibilities beyond belief.”

Neville Goddard – The Law and the Promise

in simple terminology; if you want your manifestations shift into the state you would be in it it was right here, right in front of you

for example lets say im manifesting an SP.

my current state is: worried, scared my sp is gonna leave me for another woman, always on my phone seeing if hes gonna text me back. im basically in the state of LACK

when you are in this state you cannot manifest what you want. for me to manifest my SP i have to move into THIS state:

fulfilled state: calm, not worried, confident, i know my sp is never gonna leave me and he always texts me.

if i was manifesting physical appearance i move into the state where i have all my desired features i would call myself pretty id be satisfied with how i look.

its all about the mental mind, CHANGE WITHIN -> CHANGE EXTERNAL.

you can change your makeup looks, you change your hair and dye it as many times as you please to “look better” the truth is- you don’t need to look better you need to change your assumptions about yourself.

TLDR; to change your reality, change within. start thinking like your dream person, start embodying your dream person. because thats how it all starts- it starts with YOU taking that first step.

How to have 'dream girl' energy?

Dream Girl Energy

•Create an air of mystery. Never reveal more than you need to about yourself. This generates interest and a desire to be involved in your life, considering you’re not bearing all of it on social media. It’s as if only certain people get access to you, and everyone is aware of that.

•Don’t take things too personally. Know that what others do is a reflection of themselves, not you. Everyone is acting on their own interest. You don’t know their full story, the same way someone doesn’t know yours. 

•Become a woman of substance. Have qualities that are hard to come by. Have talents that are enriching. Have emotional intelligence, as well as academic intelligence. Be well versed in multiple topics.

•Be a queen of socialization. It’s all about being skilled on how to hold a conversation and keep it. Be able to actively listen to the other person. Ask open ended questions. Have a conversation where you both mutually enjoy the topic. Small talk is everything (family, occupation, recreation, dreams, culture). Smile, have eye contact, calm body language, and an inviting voice that keeps them wanting more of you.

•Have a circle of friends that are genuine, loyal, high maintenance, and trustworthy. If not a circle, have one or two reliable best friends that match your level of energy. Everyone else may think they’re close to you, but they’re acquaintances. Let them think they know you. Follow up with close ones you care about. Make it a point to get back to them, and link up twice a month if possible.

•Ignore all negativity from outsiders. Don’t give them your energy. Be aware of what’s being said, but don’t react. Don’t confirm anything or deny. Avoid subliminal messages and petty banter. All of that is beneath you.

•Embrace your individuality. No one else can be you. Fall in love with the way you speak, walk, talk, and operate. Everything is graceful and poised. Your energy is contagious and vivacious. People have nothing but good things to say, because you have the same respect for yourself.

•Growth is your goal. Dedicate your energy to things that feed your soul. Always look to better yourself. Strengthen your spirit and your faith. Look to God before you look to someone else. Never stop learning.

•Have boundaries, and enforce them. Never let someone disrespect your core boundaries. These boundaries are your personal code of ethics. Decide what that means for you, whether with self, love life, friendships, or family relationships.

•Be your own best friend first. The ins and outs of you should intrigue you just as much as they intrigue everyone else. Befriend yourself and date yourself. Acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses. Reflect on a healthy level, and assess what you can do differently when met with challenges.

•Create a signature presentation. Your hair, makeup, perfume, clothing, mannerisms, voice, and overall aura will all contribute to the signature dream girl presentation. Have your aesthetic down pat and be consistent. Only let up in the privacy of your home. When seeing others, always be in character.

•Have a routine. Whether you know it or not, your morning, night, and pampering routine will seal in your presentation and mental health. Be consistent with this, and notice when you need to check in with yourself.

•Take days off. To avoid burnout, center your off days around your mental health. Know what you need and what makes you feel better. Have your down days, so you avoid snapping on anyone or getting out of character. Never let anyone see you slip. Retreat privately, and face your battles privately before revealing them to anyone first. Give yourself time to process before allowing others in your space.

•Put your dreams, goals, and desires first. The outside noise does not matter. It’s about what you think and what you want. Make it happen, no matter how long it takes. It doesn’t matter how far fetched your dreams seem to others, make it a reality for you.

•Live a life of luxury regardless. Know that you don’t need material things to live a life of luxury and bliss. Remember that they are simply attainable perks to your life. Your life is already luxurious and blissful, because you expect nothing less out of yourself. It’s a mindset you’ve fostered.

•Remember that people look up to you. You are an object of desire for many. You have the power, and you possess more of it than you could ever imagine.

•Count your blessings. Be thankful for everything in life. Never feel entitled. This energy is rare in a world full of people who feel entitled to everything. Be humble, all while knowing what you deserve. You’ll be richly rewarded.

What Do Your Guides Need You To Know - Tarot Game

Hiii everyone! As a way to promote my paid readings opening back up again, I've decided to run a tarot game :3 The free readings currently in my inbox will still be answered, and you're welcome to continue sending in unrelated free reading requests; however participating in this ask game will give you a MUCH more detailed response than my typical free readings.

For this ask game, I will pull a card on “what your guides need you to know at this current time”. Upon request, I can also pull a card to answer who one of your guides is.

Participation Rules

Follow me.

Like & reblog this post, as well as my pinned post.

Send an ask saying you're participating, and letting me know if you want the additional "who is one of my guides" card.

Anons ARE allowed, so long as they send screenshot proof with the ask (you can crop your username out of the screenshot!) that they followed & reblogged. Non-anons, let me know if you want my response to be public or private!

And that's all! For now this game is OPEN and I will update it when I close the game. Much love to you all! <33

Turning your life around? Coming out of a funk? Getting over a breakup? Need to reignite your spark for life? Need to feel in control? Want a boost of confidence? Dealing with low self esteem?

Where to start:

Exercise every day

Skincare + makeup of personal preference (yes this includes not wearing makeup at all if that is your personal preference)

Hair done

Showered and moisturized

At least one hobby you engage with on a daily/frequent basis

At least one skill you are developing on a daily/frequent basis

If you haven’t gotten a 7 day workout streak and completed the other bullet points on this list yet, stop moaning, get to work, and kill your distractions.

This is level 0.

Some unpopular opinions I wanted to say:-

1. Negative and intrusive thoughts don't hold any power, ofc. The roof isn't gonna fall off if I imagine so. But if negativity is your lifestyle, it's how you normally think, then yes it will manifest.

2. Physical reality isn't what it looks like but what you take it as. If you are someone who hates their body, you'll find a way to make yourself believe that your body looks bad even if it looks amazing. You gotta do the same now just the opposite.

3. Logic can help in manifesting because for the conscious mind it makes more sense and is easily acceptable. This could be my assumption so it's manifesting but I'll still point this out.

I manifested being the head in school twice before knowing loa. Did I have doubts? Yes. Did I think the other candidates could be better? Yes. But I kept telling myself that, "I've done so much for the school, I'll be the one to win definitely. Besides, I'm the only one who could manage this". I put logic in this. I found excuses as to why I deserve my manifestation. Do the same. If you want a lot of money but don't see any way of getting it, just think, 'Well I've worked so hard all my life, I'll definitely get the money or I deserve a raise in job". Find excuses to stick to your new story. This will make you focus more on the new story.

4. You shouldn't focus on the how cause manifesting is extremely natural. For your subconscious, it's literally obvious to have your desires. If you see you don't see any movement, you should understand that for your subconscious, it's normal. What movement? You have what you want. I was manifesting being better at English and now random big words come to me and I'm like...???? Did I always knew this word? I can't even remember if I ever knew it before. So yeah, it's natural for you to have your desires. If you feel stressed with the feeling of how, remember this.

YES! Thank you!

if you’re unsure where to start with manifesting, let me help you.

there are, in my opinion, 3 steps to manifesting anything. literally anything… (see next slide).

1. decide: decide what you want/who you want/where you want to go. you don’t have to be specific, your brain already knows what, but it just helps if you fully know what you want. for example, for a desired person do you wanna be fwb or a fully committed relationship ?

2. affirm: you don’t have to have set affirmations, but it can help for some. if you’re wanting a committed relationship you could affirm anything from ‘_ are so in love with me’ to ‘_ and i have a healthy relationship.’ whenever this desire comes to mind say an affirmation, like i said it doesn’t have to be a thing you’ve prepared. affirmations can be random, it’s all up to you. duh !

3. persist: a very important stage, a stage people hate to admit they skip. this doesn’t mean ignoring your emotions, bottling up your sadness and frustration. rather, it means even when it feels hard or ‘impossible’ you keep affirming and you keep working toward that manifestation. it is already yours ! as soon as you think it, as soon as you want it, it is yours. done and dusted.

and that’s it ! of course you can go further by using methods, which i can do a post on if wanted. 🎀

your personal way of manifesting 🫐

to find your own favourite way of manifesting (that will be naturally the best one for you, simply because you enjoy it the most) take a look at who you are and what you enjoy doing outside of the law. then find a way to put those activities into loa context.

if you love music, create playlists that embody your desired life and listen to them

if you love meditating, go for the void

if you love stories, find books/tv shows that have the vibes of your desired life and project yourself into them

if you love writing, write your own stories with your desires

if you love baking, take this kinda witchy approach and see every ingredient you're adding into the dough as one of your desires while the bowl is your life

if you're competitive, try loa challenges and put set dates for your manifestations to motivate yourself

if you're chill and can't be bothered by anything, simply know that your desires are yours

if you love drawing, draw yourself living your dream life

if you love tarot, create your own rigged readings where you pull out just the cards you want

if you love astrology, rewrite your birth chart and give your placements the meaning you want for them to have

if you're religious, pray to your god(s) and know they'll bring your desires to you

if you're a daydreamer, daydream and know that its real

find your own way cuz that will be the smoothest one for you. everything works. don't force yourself to do anything that doesn't sit right with you. manifesting is supposed to be fun, not a chore.

💟💕 MY SIGNATURE LOOK 101

⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ how to get the prissy grl look

hair:

i’m a natural bouncy curl girl. depending on the weather and my time, there’s a good chance I’m wearing my hair in it’s curly state

୨୧ with just a bit of leave in conditioner and and oil on my scalp.

although I love the ease and the natural beauty of my curls, I prefer my hair straightened.

୨୧ I feel I look more mature and sleek that way. it’s also very hot opposed to the sweet soft and innocent look i think my natural hair gives. and oddly, it’s less maintenance but gives the illusion of being higher maintenance.

I used to love my hair bone straight, with my curtain bangs and a part down the middle. but lately my style has been shifting towards bombshell curls on straightened hair with a flipped bang and side part. my hair is pretty long (about an inch past my bra hook) so that gives me room for versatility which I love so I’ll switch it up every now and then

୨୧ my fav styles include: half up half down style (fave omg) or flexi rod set creating loose beach waves on my hair, loose messy bun

fashion:

bougie girl 101!!! is my closet!!

color palette: black, white, gray, pinks (typically soft), lavender and browns/nudes. it enforces my ethereal, hyper girly brand. the color I wear most often has to be BLACK. i swear it is the sexiest color to exist and it makes me look amazing and feel even better.

୨୧ i love one piece bodysuits, again, so sexy on me.

loungewear is very special to me. it takes up more than half of my wardrobe overall. and if styled correctly, it can be worn out

୨୧ one of my fav things to do is finish my head to toe routine and throw on a pair of my victoria’s secret slippers, comfy matching lingerie and a matching lounge set.

i also have MANY fuzzy/faux fur pieces in my collection. these including bags, shoes, tops, etc.

rhinestones are a staple in my closet. i have so many tops that have sassy sayings in rhinestones. one of my favs being my “high maintenance” rhinestones tank top.

animal prints are my SIGNATURE more specifically leopard print; i am a true cheetah girl. i have everything from purses, head accessories, tops, notebooks, etc in cheetah print

୨୧ my fav features to show off: my legs, feet, and collarbone

i go out of my way to avoid: neon colors, biker shorts, tacky one pieces, clothes that do nothing for my silhouette, big bulky accessories

୨୧ some more elements i enjoy: thin dainty chain detailing, velour, small heart details, satin, tartan, saffiano, charms

୨୧ some current favs include: hunter boots, vs pink loungewear sets, pink uggs, clear pumps

makeup:

perfect. i love to look perfect. never too done looking because i hate the cakey, obvious look. i love the soft glam, fresh face routine i use.

i shape my brows by adding short little hairs to my tail going upward on the arch part. i like my brows nice and thin with that meagan good arch. i like them lighter in the front and darker and sharp on the end. i ofc finish my brows off with foundation and a concealer brush.

then i buff a radiant concealer on my eyelids and blend that with the concealer or foundation i used around my brows.

i prime my face with maybelline poreless primer for that soft and blurry skin look.

୨୧ final touches: inner corner highlight, arch highlight, and nose bridge highlight + smooth and bright undereye

୨୧ big soft pretty pink kissable lips!! *or nude*

bronzed and blushed cheeks *come to think of it i only really contour my nose now, i use bronzer everywhere else*

୨୧ current favs: nars powder blushes, kiss false lashes, buxom glosses, mac lipstick, legit lashes mascara, makeup forever pressed powder

nails:

୨୧ i literally never wear anything but pink, white or a creamy pinky nude, and yes this includes french tips

i do my own feet, i just don’t trust salons to really get my feet as perfect as possible. they always cut my nails too short or give a WEAK exfoliation. no. i’d rather do it myself.

i don’t believe in white toe supremacy when my hands are another color. i like my nails to match. if my fingers are frenched out so are my toes. but my go to color that i’m wearing most of the time is ‘it’s a girl’ by opi and a matching gel for my hands.

accessories:

hoops r my signature acc. i’m literally recognizable to ppl who don’t even know my name. their the simplest feminine addition to my looks.

either that or diamond studs. i have a pair of heart shaped studs i love.

speaking of hearts i love heart shaped charms on necklaces purses and bracelets

honestly anything dainty and pink i’m rocking!!

୨୧ my fav jewelry atm: my signature studded hoops, my juicy charm bracelet, my hello kitty necklaces, my hello kitty faceplate ring, my tiffany heart choker

୨୧ satchels and small totes!!!

୨୧ glitter phone cases

୨୧ vs wristlet straps

another signature of mine are my fluffy pens i made myself. i keep one on me and only write with my own pens in public.

i try my hardest to match my metals to my looks, cool tones, white gold. warm tones, yellow gold. neutral, sterling silver. i never mix metals. if my bag has yellow gold detailing so do my jewelry for that look.

୨୧ my fav bags atm: my rose ballerine damier azur neverfull, my pink and black ted baker arycon bags, my louis vuitton alma, my striped vs tote bag, my medium bubblegum telfar

THE PROBLEM WITH AFFIRMATIONS | also instant manifestation and states

Affirmations are merely just a way to focus your attention on the wish fulfilled. It is a way to maintain your thoughts and keep you on track. We use affirmations to REMIND us that we already have our desires now in our 4d.

When you affirm you guys act like ur performing for someone?? Like omg ok if i affirm 29373518 time maybe the manifesting fairy will give it to me11!1!1!!11! NO!

When you affirm dont forget that you sre talking to yourself. You are making sure that YOU understand that its done. So do and say whatever will make YOU feel that way. *thats why premade affirmations from bloggers may feel not natural to u**

I see so many people use affirmations to TRY TO GET their desire. No. You arent living in the end. You are not trying to get something!! You are already it. And im not just saying that.

Since consciousness is the only reality, whatever you are aware of being is what you are amd what will be reflected on the the 3d .

So you are already that which you want to be IF you decide and claim it. You shouldnt be desperatley affirming to GET IT. NO! Affirmations are used just to remind yourself of who you are and to keep you in the state of having it.

You are not pretending to have it. Stop pretending. You actually do have it. You dont pretend to have it and THEN youll get it.

You have it now like actually. Living in the end IS THE END. You dont live in the in order to get it!

You choose your state and you stick with it! Wanna be pretty? You decide that you are now in the state of being pretty and thats that. That is your state now. You are in the end. You just persist so it becomes your dominant state because in the past your dominant state was “im ugly” .

Instant manifestation

I have a problem with this. I know we can manifest instantly and i will never deny that. However heres where the mix up is

Lots of new manifestors get so hung up on manifesting instantly that they arent living in the end. Stop it. If u know u have ita dm you are living in the end you wouldnt even worry about it.

Manifesting is instant, as in the decision is instant. As in when you decide that you are pretty rn that it. Its done. Your manifestation is done there is nothing more to do. Just maintain that state amd persist in it. Dont go out of the state of having it.

But what about when it comes in the 3d?

Well neville says:

The time it takes your assumption to become fact, your desire to be fulfilled, is directly proportionate to the naturalness of your feeling of already being what you want to be — of already having what you desire.

And i agree. Does that mean that instant manifestation isnt possible? No! It is definitley possible.

If you know you have it amd it feels natural to you like a fact then it will happen instantly if you believe so.

The problem is that people get SO HUNG UP on it. Stop thinking about when things manifest instantly.

This is all from my experience. I got my shit when i stopped worrying about getting it instantly. Because if i truly knew i had what i wanted i wouldnt be thinking of getting it instantly.

So just make sure that you feel like you have ti. Make sure you ACCEPT your desire. Bc if you are trying to get it then you havent accepted it as fact yet.

stop tryna force it bruh!

Thank u for coming to my ted talk

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐅𝐄𝐒𝐓

how to manifest 

you can manifest however you desire. you like to do x instead of y when you want to assume your desires? then do that. make yourself comfortable, don’t stress. and even if you feel those emotions, it’s fine and completely valid! you’ll always find a way to get your desires. the law always works. it's the LAW! you will get your desires regardless!

simplify the law of assumption as much as you can. don’t overcomplicate it. don’t feel like you need to know everything about it. don’t feel like you need to follow three hundred thousands steps to manifest or that you need to affirm 24/7, script daily, and do a million methods. you don't go to every blogger, youtuber, and coach asking how to manifest, etc. it’s actually super easy to just assume and watch the process unfold instantly. stick to the basics. the basics are all that you need.

here are the basics :

1. think of what you want

2. affirm/visualise you having it already (or do any method that you desire)

3. ignore the 3d (do not give it power: you decide, not the 3d)

4. let the process unfold

lia’s thoughts

manifesting is extremely easy. all it needs is a little discipline, mental diet, and putting your mind to work. persistence is key. living in your imagination is key. make your own rules and have fun with manifesting.