Your Desired Self Would Not Be Worrying How Your Best Life Is Going To Come About. You Are Already Living

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RE-INVENT YOURSELF FOR 2022

this post was inspired by this tiktok: here

okay first realise..realise you have the power to change ANYTHING. its never too late to change your reality. dont think that you’re too “old” and that its late for you. people are in their 40s, 50s, 60s trying to find themselves and their true identity and trying out new hobbies! this idea that life ends when you’re 30 or whatever is such bullshit. you have so much time to change anything you want and nothing is impossible. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.

once you realise that, you can conquer anything. your problems are so small compared to you, because you’re magnificent. in this time of age we do not stop to congratulate ourselves because we are always comparing ourselves to other peoples lives on social media, or our parents are comparing us to other peoples kids. take time to CONGRATULATE YOURSELF for atleast wanting to try doing better for yourself. thats already an achievement and a step closer to achieving your dream life. some of you guys have been through hell and back, yet you’re still here. just congratulate yourself on that, because thats amazing. really.

now..lets start a funeral.

write down or take mental note of all your “bad habits” than can include something simple as procrastinating or idk nail biting. GET RID OF THEM. DECLARE THIS NOW that you will stop doing those habits, these bad habits do not benefit you. now, its pretty easy to cling back onto these “bad habits” so dont even worry about it. if you do it again do not belittle yourself, do not beat yourself up about it omg. literally dont you’re still amazing and hey..maybe you won’t completely get rid of them so start minimising how much you do those so-called bad habits

secondly, the mental glow up

mental glowups are also important aswell as physical glowups. mental glowups really do wonders and can impact your physical appearance!

• don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake.

i feel like its so normal for us to do this and i think if you were in a household that was not particularly great at emotional wellbeing you would struggle whenever you make mistake cus you would beat yourself up about it, its a tactic we’ve learned to do and its not a very good one.

• treat yourself with kindness.

how you treat a little child under your care, treat your mind and yourself as so. when you feel under pressure, when you feel caught up with everything. take it slow. and realise, you’re amazing and you can get through any obstacle.

• treat yourself like a QUEEN!

honestly, we should all start treating ourselves like the beautiful people we are?? like yeah i woke up messy hair and all but i am still beautiful. i am still shockingly pretty and i rock any hairdo.

• prioritise yourself. stop prioritising others.

now dont get me wrong, when the moment is right you can put others before yourself..BUT NOT ALL THE DAMN TIME! treat yourself, love yourself and prioritise yourself.

thirdly, the PHYSICAL GLOWUP!

now whatever you want to look like, visualise, script, command your subconscious or affirm that what you look like is IN YOUR REALITY! and nothing can stop that, literally nothing can. and in the meantime literally just love yourself, congratulate yourself..i mean your physical glowup is here and you look absolutely stunning.

take plenty of selfies cus you’re beautiful.

go outside and hang out with friends PLEASE DO NOT PUT A HAULT ON YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR MANIFESTATIONS.

pretend you’re a celebrity on vogue doing your routine in the bathroom. literally have fun, do hairstyles you wanna try, spend a lil bit of money on skin care + makeup.

NOW..COMBINE EVERYTHING IVE JUST SAID.

okay, now combine everything and just do it, dont be scared. why are you scared? you still have plenty of time to make mistakes and try again, and get your dream life, you still have time to love yourself and gain knowledge of YOU and stuff you like. now..you dont need the “perfect life” i feel like that is being so targeted towards young people nowadays searching for that “perfect life” that builds up so much more pressure, tbh. all you need is stability. become stable and consistent in habits, relationships, your body and your mind. (if u want, u can obvi have ur perfect life hun)

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♈️ Aries: you’ve been to hell & back, but baby look at you now.

-Knight of Swords & Six of Swords-

Aries.. whew, you went through it, huh? It wasn’t easy, was it? I know it was a lot to deal with it, and at the time it seemed completely unfair & overwhelming, honestly it may have been rather paralyzing to feel so much at once...

♉️ Taurus: Unexpected, but you’re on the come-up!

-0 • Fool & Three of Swords-

Okay Taurus, yep, that hurt. You were dealt a card you weren’t expecting more than likely, this could be a big heartbreak from someone you never expected it from, this could have been a disappointment from something you were expecting..

♊️ Gemini: Secure your bag, but don’t fizzle yourself out before then.

-King of Wands & Knight of Wands-

Okay Gemini I see you 👀 you’ve been really moving lately, huh? It feels like life may have thrown you some curveballs these past couple weeks, but don’t let that stop you..

♋️ Cancer: Time to clear the air about what happened— let’s be real.

-VIII • Strength & XI • Justice-

Okay Cancer, lets talk about it. Something didn’t go exactly like you had been planning either a situation or it was a connection with someone, whatever it is it’s got you seriously bummed out..

♌️ Leo: You had a Tower moment, it kicked ass, but you’re on your way back up— better than ever.

-X • Wheel of Fortune & Knight of Pentacles & Five of Pentacles (Card jumped out)-

Oh Leo, where do we begin? It appears we’ve all came out of a really funky situation & time where releasing our need for control & submitting to the Universe was literally our only &..

♍️ Virgo: How we look at the past is completely up to us, it’s time to move on.

-Nine of Swords & Knight of Cups-

Viiiirgo, lets talk. Specifically about what’s on your mind right now: the past. You know you can’t change what’s happened, right? So.. why worry? You’re only hurting yourself, and honestly..

♎️ Libra: Work it baby, you’ve been on the MOVE, just take some time to relax.. also, there’s love in the air 👀

-Four of Cups & Page of Cups-

Libra, can you hear me? are you paying attention? snap out of it for a minute. I can see you’ve been hot & heavy on self-growth and deep, personal-introspection lately, you’ve been reeeally inside yourself and reflecting..

♏️ Scorpio: You know & I know you’re on the ball, but there’s some things we should talk about.

-Three of Wands & Knight of Swords-

So, Scorpio, congratulations on all the progress you’ve made, I’m REALLY proud of you— like seriously. But let’s try and get realistic a little here. So, there’s no denying you’ve made progress, but how are you feeling?..

♐️ Sagittarius: It’s over. It’s done. But it’s also okay, let’s work through it.

-Ten of Swords & Two of Pentacles-

Oh Sagittarius honey, y’all went THROUGH it. Most importantly, for some of y’all still feeling stuck, listen to me, it is OVER. Something has/had left you absolutely defeated, it all was just a lot on you, and I get that..

♑️ Capricorn: Look, you literally cannot do everything alone, nor can you juggle a million things at once.

-Three of Pentacles & Two of Pentacles-

Okay Capricorn, this is looking pretty neat and straightforward. This is telling me that it’s wanting you to know that it’s okay to let people help you, whether it’s in terms of a work environment &..

♒️ Aquarius: You’ve been through the ringer, but you’re gonna pull out of it— if you try.

-Six of Swords & Six of Wands-

Aquarius, listen in. It seems the majority of you are going through a pretty rocky time right now emotionally & spiritually, well I’m here to let you know this isn’t a resting place, it’s a transition from instability to stability;..

♓️ Pisces: Ideas, ideas, ideas. Family, family, family. Here we go!

-Page of Swords & Ten of Cups-

A sweet pull here, Pisces. I’m seeing some pretty direct and easy energies here. You’ve been having a lot of ideas lately, a buuunch of thoughts, this is all divine and creative inspiration!..

Love & Light to you all! ✨💛

The longest rampage for realizing you’re the god of your reality

Make it normal for you to always have everything you want

results guaranteed after reading ! (warning: may work better than expected)

Even if I have doubts, fears, anxiety, worries I know I am the god of my reality and whatever I say goes, so my affirmations always become my reality immediately because I recognize my power as the only creator. My words and thoughts manifest overnight. They change my entire reality over night. I get my results overnight. I am so powerful, I am literally the most powerful creator ever. I am above anyone and everything. I am so sure of myself, I know I can have whatever I want. I am ambitious and always get what I want because I am persistent and never give up. I am strong af and so are my affirmations. I create and remodel my reality in seconds just because I embody so easily the state of knowing I am the most powerful creator. I am convinced what I want is meant for me and meant to be in my life. The reason I embody the state of assuming I get what I want when I want it is because I trust my affirmations and myself. I am convinced there’s a special place reserved to my desire in my reality. My reality changes overnight in the one in which I’m living my dreams. I am the person I’ve always dreamt to be. My affirmations are permanent and always work. I manifest everything in no time. It’s enough for me to affirm once to get my desire, that’s how powerful I am. I recognize my power. I have the mindset of a god because I am one. It’s enough for me to just think about my desire to get it because my mind is so powerful that I naturally embody the state of a god in my reality, so my imagination is manifested in real life. My reality is how I’ve always wanted it to be. The only reassurance I need is from my affirmations because my affirmations are the only things that recreate and create my desired reality. I live in the reality in which I already have what I want. I am capable of gaining everything I desire and want. I know it’s very possible and very normal for me to have what I want and what I’ve always wanted. I am sure of myself and my affirmations, I have faith in my manifestations, I trust myself and my manifestations as the God of my reality. I am always at peace, I got rid of bad feelings like anxiety, worry, stress, doubt because now i realize my power. My power is limitless, I am limitless. I am the most powerful and influential force that creates my reality overnight. For me, doubts, fears, anxiety, worries are temporary and ineffective/irrelevant, they have no meaning, they even barely exist, they’re just an illusion. Even if I have doubts, fears, anxiety, worries my affirmations always work because my affirmations turn into assumptions as soon as I think or say them. Even if I have doubts, fears, anxiety, worries I always assume I have everything I want and desire. Having what I want when I want it, having faith and trust in myself and my affirmations have already become an assumption, that’s why I’m the most successful manifestator/creator. I excel at everything I do, I am naturally excellent and successful. I succeed at everything I do. I only manifest good things and the best and most favorable outcome for me. I focus on myself and my self concept, that’s why I’m radiant and always assume I get everything I want. I always assume the best and most favorable outcome for me. I know I always have what I want because I am God and I blindly trust my affirmations. My success is promised to me.

how to visualize your desires easily:

here’s your daily reminder to visualize the person you want to and will become as soon as you wake up and as soon as you’re about to sleep.

you can do this process through using the 17 second method (steps listed below), guided visualization meditations, or whatever aligns with you.

the 17 second method:

“maintain a thought in your mind for 17 seconds, you can stimulate its energy vibrations. Going further, if you can hold on to the same thought for 68 seconds, the vibrations will rise dramatically and get amplified enough to manifest the thought”

steps:

1. set the mind on a positive note (i recommend listening to affirmations or sound healing to do so)

2. choose what you want to manifest. if you are a beginner, it may be easier to focus on one manifestation at a time.

3. think about the goal you want to manifest for 17 seconds. try to not let your mind wonder, if it does, be gentle with yourself. it is 100% okay!

4. when the 17 second alarm goes off, turn your attention back to your goal. now set a timer for 51 seconds. continue to focus on a sequence of thoughts related to your goal for 51 seconds.

5. let it go. remember: manifestation is a butterfly.

“manifestation is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder”

- quote inspired by nathaniel hawthorne

the guided meditation i used today:

https://youtu.be/6JgMOEINKqw

Time for a digital declutter:

Clear desktop

Delete apps you don’t use

Delete downloads/screenshots

Organise everything into folders

Give every document a clear name

Delete your emails (!!!)

Unsubscribe from email lists

Check and install updates

Turn off any social media notifications you don’t need

Organise your pictures into folders

Do the same with apps

Go through your Facebook friends list/people you follow on Instagram

Unfollow anything that makes you feel insecure

Clear browser history and bookmarks

Back up anything that’s important

Depression plan

This is the plan I have in my nightstand to give myself ideas to cope.

High energy activities

High energy yoga

Exercise (go to the gym)

Clean your space

Get dressed

Go for a walk

Go to a plant nursery

Bake while listening to big band

Make a healthy snack - apples and peanut butter, yogurt, tangerines.

Make yourself look nice

Buy snacks and wine

Light the fire pit and sit by it

Go to bed on time (use valerian if needed)

Dessert in a mug

Plan something!

Redecorate

Garden

Low energy activities

Make my bed

Open window

Use crystals

Watch a movie

Watch a show

Use orange scented things

Gentle yoga like yin or restorative or seated yoga.

Asmr

Meditation

Write or read in journal

Cup of tea

Take a bath

Light a candle

Do a face mask

Write a love letter to yourself

Drink ice water with lemon or mint

Pray

Make hot cocoa

Sit outside

Make a tumblr post

Make a fort

Animal crossing

Listen to upbeat music and dance

Talk it out

Femme Fatale Morning Routine: How To Start Your Day With Dark Feminine Energy

Rise in a matching pajama set or night dress. Indulge options made from silk, satin, lace, or cashmere in the colder months.

Wake up with a tall glass of water. Add lemon, if desired.

Vitalize your skin with a well-curated, short skincare routine that's perfect for your skin type and concerns (don't forget sunscreen).

Listen to music that awakens your body and spirit. Dance, EDM, or pop music are all great options. Look for 'happy,' 'productive,' or 'baddie' playlists for your enjoyment.

Brew a cup of luscious coffee or tea to energize your day.

Meditate for 5-10 minutes. Life becomes so much more effortless when you just breathe.

Write out your top 3 affirmations and goals. Bonus points for listing 3 things you're grateful for today.

If you have 10-20 minutes, read some text that inspires you or a couple of articles related to your industry or interests to get your brain powered up for the day.

Get dressed in an outfit that makes you feel your best. Try tailored trousers, your favourite jeans, silk skirt, button-down blouse, blazer, or a leather jacket for the office. A matching knit or cashmere set is perfect for WFH. Don't forget the accessories (slippers, too, if remote).

Perform your morning beauty ritual – makeup, hair, perfume. Find what works for you to help you feel confident and beautiful for the rest of the day.

Eat a wholesome, plant-based breakfast. Oatmeal with fruit and seeds, natural peanut butter, and avocado toast are all great options.

Review and revise your most important tasks, meetings, and to-do list for the day. Time block similar tasks and admin routines like email and updating spreadsheets.

Practice self-care and discipline to reap success. Once you master a routine that feels good, your desires and dream life become your destiny.

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