"I Treat Myself Like I Would My Daughter. I Brush Her Hair, Wash Her Laundry, Tuck Her In Goodnight.

♡

HARPER’S BAZAAR MAY 1949

KODACHROMES BY ERNST BEADLE

START FUCKING AFFIRMING

and this is YET the nicest way to put it, you guys. speaking generally, I am sickandtired of y‘all going through every manifesting page on tumblr, instagram and god knows where to collect the information YOU ALREADY KNOW. you know damn well to affirm for your desires and to simply stick to that no matter what, WHAT‘S STOPPING YOU???! babygirl I need you to start right now. put away all of your notes on your phone trying to plan yourself an ideal routine on when exactly to affirm, when to do this and that, etc. I‘m saying this just to remind you that manifesting is something NATURAL. I even hate declaring it as "manifesting" BECAUSE YOU ARE SIMPLY THINKING AND BRINGING IT INTO LIFE. the only thing you need to know about manifesting is that it’s just your thoughts! what you are thinking at any given moment, most of the time and during the day.

I WANNA GENTLY REMIND YOU THAT

your dominant thoughts manifest.

you can manifest anything anywhere anytime.

the way you affirm doesn’t matter.

you don’t have to believe your affirmations (thoughts!).

circumstances don’t mean shit.

your desires are there, literally right here.

the 3d will catch up BECAUSE IT HAS TO.

you and you only are in control.

you are god.

you want it? you got it.

just start. it doesn’t matter how you do it, if you do it right, aesthetically enough, "technically" correct… even if your affirmations feel unnatural to you, there is no wrong way to manifest. yesterday I was so fed up with myself being unproductive and not starting shit (and yes, it’s because of mercury retrograde), I affirmed for 30mins STRAIGHT, only thought about my desire and did it a few times during the day. and I reached my goal.

everytime you "jokingly" say "I have my desired …", it counts. it matters to your process. and it brings you one step closer to your desire manifesting into the 3d. I know it might feel weird. for many people, manifesting feels so difficult to do because they all have this "I gotta plan x and y" mindset. don’t overcomplicate it. you have it. fuckin act like it sorry for being so mean oh lord please I love you and I believe in you babygurl!! :( ♡

wearing lace dresses, reading Dostoevsky and Tolstoy, being obsessed with the art and classical music, drinking coffee with your friends where you discuss the latest finished book

SEONGHWA / UNI-KON 2022

You deserve to thrive in your femininity and be with a masculine man. A masculine man that plays his role, therefore giving you space to be in your feminine and live your ultimate soft life. Don’t settle! Real men are out there, just make sure to use this time to prepare and work on yourself so you can attract- not chase.

Honour the little girl inside of you, the little girl that was abused, hurt, abandoned, who felt she was never enough. Let her feel safe, let her know she is loved, tell her everyday. Make her feel so special, she deserves it, keep her clean and warm and nourish her with the nutritious foods. Let her feel free. Let her embrace the things she loved doing, skating in the park, jumping on the trampoline, painting, running, swimming, making sandcastles, girly sleepovers, making stories, playing dressup. It might sound silly, it might sound irrelevant but honouring the little kid inside of you is going to bring you so much joy and fulfilment. That little version of you, still exists, and deserves to be honoured. Give yourself the love and care, and joy that was stolen from you as a child.

playlists for angelic moods~

you feel sensual and are ready to rejuvenate - you step into your clawfoot bathtub that’s full of rose petals, lavender oil, and pink salt

you’re wandering Paris - the sky looks like cotton candy, the Eiffel Tower is starting to twinkle, and there’s a fresh raspberry macaron in your hand

you’ve stumbled upon a fairy garden - the fairies whisper sweet compliments into your ears and sprinkle their dust atop your hair

there’s an extravagant ball tonight - you’re a princess, dressed in a beautiful gown and delicate tiara, and have just been asked to dance

you’re walking in New York City - you’re wearing your favorite silk dress and heels, lightly buzzed on rosé, hailing a taxi for a night out

it’s the early 2000s - you’re in your bedroom with your best friends, gossiping about your crush and wearing baby pink Juicy Couture pants

the afternoon is hazy - you’re having a picnic with your lover on a soft blanket, surrounded by wildflowers, the air is full of pink lemonade and kisses

the year is 1946 - your pearl necklace decorates your neck, everything is in black and white, live jazz softly serenades your ears as you make unexpected eye contact with an attractive stranger

You're so inspiring and your blog is so cute and aesthetic, I just wish I had the motivation or willpower to do anything, or let alone the discipline for any of it. I've tried but it never turns out good and I almost feel like giving up

hey honey 🤍

start by stop worrying about it, change the way you look at it, tell yourself that you are capable of doing anything and you always feel very motivated what do you want to do? do you want to create healthier habits in your life? commit yourself to do it, make it your goal, but always remember to start small for me what has helped me the most to stay motivated are two things: small daily goals and a good routine

for example, when i started on this "journey" i was motivated to start incorporating little by little healthier habits into my days, like starting to do 10 minutes of exercise every day, here you say what you want for your days, what is it that you want to feel motivated to do for this, you can support yourself with a journal, start writing either in a notebook or on your phone 3 things you want to achieve during the day and commit yourself to fulfill, believe you will feel very satisfied and that will give you motivation

and the routine can really help you feel motivated because liking your routine is what gets you up and energized to start your day every morning. i always say, you're not going to create the perfect routine in a week, but you can try it out until you find what works best for you, and don't be afraid to change anything! on my blog, you can find many examples of routines that you can try out

and the best way to stay motivated is to start being aware that this is a promise you make to yourself and do it for you, to get everything you want

have a beautiful day and i hope I have inspired you 🤍🧿✨

Punta del Este,Uruguay