My Brother’s Shifter Girlfriend: Update

　　do less than nothing. get more than everything.

law of assumption. simple. absolute. you assume, and it is. not later. not someday. not after a trial period of proving yourself worthy. now. immediately. because reality doesn’t gatekeep. it doesn’t ask for credentials. it reflects. that’s all it does.

assumption is the mechanism. reality is the mirror. you do not negotiate with a mirror. you do not convince it to show you something different. you assume, and it has no choice but to comply.

do you check every morning to make sure you still exist? do you investigate gravity before stepping out the door? no. you assume. and in assuming, you make it real. same with this.

you assume you’ve shifted, and you have. assume you are already living in your desired reality, and reality follows. even with something as minuscule as wanting to be pretty. congrats, know you are and expect results. there is no ‘trying.’ no ‘waiting for proof.’ no refreshing the page to see if it’s working. the moment you assume, it is.

this isn’t work. this isn’t effort. this isn’t some esoteric practice requiring discipline and sacrifice. this is law. mechanics. assumption does not require proof. assumption is the proof.

what you assume, you experience. not because you worked for it. not because you manifested ‘correctly.’ because that’s how this works. reality takes instruction. stop acting like it needs a second opinion.

so stop hoping. stop questioning. stop pacing back and forth waiting for confirmation. the world is not holding its breath, waiting for you to ‘get it right.’ you already have. you assumed. that’s enough.

do less. take more. not because you’re special. not because you got lucky. because this is how it works.

stop reaching. let it come to you.

I don’t care I don’t care I am shifting I don’t care I am shifting I am shifting I am shifting I don’t care I am shifting I DON’T CARE I AM SHIFTING

Detachment won't do shit if you still assume you can't shift. You’ve probably seen these posts: “Just detach! Stop obsessing! Don’t use shifting as an escape, or you’ll never shift!!” And yeah, sure, taking a chill pill and not stressing yourself into oblivion can help. But just detachment alone isn't a magical one way ticket to your DR. You can detach all day, but if you still assume shifting isn’t gonna happen for you, nothing’s gonna change. -> The real problems are your assumptions, not a lack of detachment You can be obsessed as hell with shifting and still do it - if you assume you can and will. You can shift purely to get the fuck away from here - if you assume you can and will. You can put your DR on such a high pedestal that it has its own damn orbit and still shift - if (we can say it together at this point) you assume you can and will. The problem isn’t wanting something too much - it’s what you’re telling yourself every day all day long. Wanting to escape? Not the problem. → Thinking you’re stuck forever in your CR? That’s the problem. Seeing your DR as perfect? Not the problem. → Assuming it’s too good for you? That’s the problem. You heard of people that stopped trying and suddenly shifted? They probably saw sudden success not because detachment is a magic band-aid fix, but because they stopped reinforcing their old bullshit assumptions. Instead of stressing over how to pretend you don’t want what you obviously want, start questioning what you actually believe about shifting. it isn't about that, it's about assuming that what you want is already yours and that you can do it. Deserve it, whatever doubt is holding you back. Fight it, beat it and fold it into an origami bird ^-^ (Obligatory "this is only my personal opinion and not necessary a fact, if it resonates great, if not also nice"- disclaimer :3)

kinda bored, might script a new dr just to feel something

　 　reasons why you're waking up in your cr ,

if it's not happening, it's because you’re still treating the 3d like it's anything but your own assumption reflecting back to you. still assuming lack while saying abundance. still looking for signs instead of stepping into the thing as if it's already yours.

nothing external needs to change. your state does. and that can happen in one second, in one thought.

　　you keep checking . . . ౨ৎ　 the second you look over your shoulder to see if it worked, you're signalling it hasn't. assumption doesn't need confirmation. assumption doesn't peek.　 ꒰  what to do , stop asking. stop waiting. decide it's done and get on with your life. keep walking.　

　　subconscious doubts . . . ౨ৎ　　 somewhere deep, under the clean sentences you say out loud, there's a voice. 'what if it's not real?' 'what if i'm not good enough?' it camps out in the marrow, slowing you down before you ever start.　 ꒰  what to do , rewire yourself. not once, not wistfully. daily, methodically. affirm it until it's more instinct than wish.　

　　overthinking the methods . . . ౨ৎ　 you're not assembling a bomb. you're not cracking the human genome. shifting isn't method worship. it's assumption.　 ꒰  what to do , pick what feels natural. raven, lullaby, drift, whatever stops the noise. trust the simplicity. complexity is a coffin.　

　　intellectualising it to death . . . ౨ৎ　 you read every shifting post, watched every youtube guide, diagrammed every method.　 ꒰  what to do , get out of your head and into your body. shifting is sensation before it's strategy.　

　　fear of success or change . . . ౨ৎ　 self-sabotage wears a hundred faces. sometimes it's something that says you're safer in longing than in arrival. the mind clings to its ruins because they are familiar. ꒰  what to do , dig out the rot. write out your fears like you're testifying. remind yourself that change is not exile. you're allowed to cross thresholds.　

　　you want it to feel like magic . . . ౨ৎ　 you expect fireworks. epiphanies. sensations. if it doesn't sparkle, you think it didn't happen.　 ꒰  what to do , stop chasing signs. reality shifts quiet. like changing the channel. no drama, just difference.　

　　impatience . . . ౨ৎ　 you feel ready. you want it yesterday. but checking the oven every two minutes doesn't bake the cake faster. it breaks the heat.　 ꒰  what to do , behave as if it's already yours. embody the arrival. impatience is a leak, seal it.　

　　you think there's a gap . . . ౨ৎ　 a gap between you and your desire. between thought and result. between you and your dr.　 ꒰  what to do , there is no gap. the second you decided, it existed. the delay's a hallucination.　

　　comparing yourself to others . . . ౨ৎ　 watching other shifters score touchdowns doesn't mean you're fumbling. you're running a different play entirely.　 ꒰  what to do , stay on your field. trust your timeline. celebrate every inch forward like you invented it.　

HOW to stop coming from a state of lack? Show me your ways master Emma

same . i am currently attempting to repair my soul using a roll of glitter tape and derealised self-talk, so like. welcome to the coven.

but. you are not lacking. you are looping.

lack is a trick of the light, and the light is currently being filtered through like… your seventh grade math trauma and whatever weird alchemical slop your brain decided to stew together from three unhealed tiktok videos and one badly-scripted childhood memory. you’re not lacking. you’re remembering something wrong.

manifesting / shifting from lack is like baking a cake while crying about how you don’t have a cake. girl you are the cake. you're literally in the oven. you’re halfway frosted. like yeah it feels hot and sticky and stupid in here but that’s just because you’re becoming dessert. trust the process

it’s not about trying to get something. it’s about being the version of you who already has it.

start assuming. start lying (but sexy). your current life is just fanfiction of the life you actually have, and every time you remember that, you shift. assume it’s done, assume it’s easy, assume you always get what you want.

you’re not waiting for it to happen. you’re relaxing into the fact that it already did. your desire isn’t a gap. it’s a memory.

and i’m hugging you now. it’s already done. you’ve already shifted. we’re just waiting for the light to catch up. <3

p.s. you’re not manifesting from lack anymore because we killed the idea of “lack” in a basement with a philosophy degree and a glock. i love when we commit semantic murder for healing. anyway. go be ethereal now. go be deeply, disgustingly abundant.

I get all giddy just thinking about my dr like what do you mean that’s my life? What do you mean I’m literally there right now? I’m giggling and kicking my feet.

emma, how to embrace the fulfillment state? do you have any tips to stay motived or not care when you don't shift at the same night? like, what tools do you use to stay connected and enjoyed? example: listening to music that reminds of your dr or scenarios. ‧ ౨ৎ   thank you, love. ♡

you want to be in the fulfilment state . . . then enjoy things. actually. on purpose. like an insane person. stare at the ceiling like it’s a renaissance painting of your dr bedroom. listen to music that makes your chest hurt a little because it reminds you of the hallway you pace in your dr when you're pretending not to wait for him (you know the hallway. it echoes when he walks). live like you’re the unreliable narrator of a niche novel being turned into an arthouse tv show no one will understand until season 3. eat it up. embody it. haunt your own plot.

tips for staying motivated when you don’t shift that night: girl. do you stop being in love with your crush just because they didn’t text you back one (1) time? (ok maybe you do. relatable. but try to not do that here.) your dr is a place, not a prize. a home, not a finish line. not shifting one night doesn’t mean you’re not shifting. it just means your brain had the audacity to be tired. that’s not failure. that’s maintenance. like ok fine i didn’t quantum-leap into my hot little dreamverse, but did i romanticise the bus ride to school while listening to a fan edit soundtrack?? yes. did i do an 8-second visualisation while brushing my teeth and accidentally dissociate into another realm for a minute? also yes. so i won. every day is shifting. every second is evidence. every blink is a rehearsal.

and yes. i use tools. god i love tools. i’m like an inventor but instead of building machines i make deranged playlists that emotionally manipulate me into believing i’m already living inside a jane austen x kubrick crossover episode.

anyway. you are not failing to shift. you are literally in the foyer of your dream life eating strawberries and lying on the carpet. stay there. rearrange the furniture. hum a little song

Currently looking back at my old scripts from like 2021/22… chat what was I dOING ???? Who did I think I wAS ???? Baby Shifter Jello was a different breed but she was happy and she was free so you know what you go girl…

I will be changing everything about my Outer Banks dr now that i’m bringing it back though.