it's not a want it's a need
I attended a Dungeon Meshi themed dinner last weekend and wanted to share what was brought/devoured! Enjoy the comparison of what the dishes looked like irl vs the show
genius. I must try it
Good news everyone I have accidentally discovered the stupidest fucking conceivable way to make myself to do chores
It goes like this…..
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My car: *low gas light on*
Me: I mean, I COULD stop at the gas station on the way home… OR! I could just NOT do that and deal with it tomorrow
Me: but what if I get stuck in a time loop starting tomorrow and every day I wake up and my car is on empty that would be so annoying
Me: uggghhh FINE I will stop at the gas station.
****LATER THIS EVENING:****
My sink: *has all my bowls and tea mugs in it*
Me: okay I don't actually care about this problem for tonight I am not planning on eating soup or tea
Me: …yeah but if i do end up being stuck in a time loop starting tomorrow it is going to SUCK to have only dirty tea cups in the morning forever
Me: uuuuughhhh okay clean sink it is
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I hate this. My brain must have an extremely low opinion of me to even try it, and it worked.
But hey, I don't have to try to remember to leave 5 min early tomorrow for a gas run?
Using ambiguous labels/being unlabeled has genuinely been so freeing for me as a queer dude.
I get that for some, more specific labels and identities are affirming, but for me, when I was still trying to find "my label" ©️ I ended up constantly questioning every feeling I had about myself, my gender, my attraction, etc.
I became obsessed with finding the "correct" collection of terms that could fully encompass me as a person.
But I can't be contained in any number of labels. No one flag or idenity will truly be able to tell others who I am. Only *I* can tell you who I am.
I'm genderqueer, trans, and achillean. What does that mean? Just ask me! Let me use my words and my experiences to connect with you and tell you who I am.
Anyway queerness is beautiful, and I am beautiful, and so are you, no matter how you choose to define yourself.
This. If someone knows better, then yeah absolutely tell them to do better. But most cis people know jack shit about being trans. They're gonna fuck up. But if you know for a fact they're real allies and they want to support you, then damn right im gonna be happy when they get my pronouns right. I'm gonna appreciate it all.
“stop congratulating cis allies for doing the bare minimum” NO!!! i want to encourage speaking out and being on trans people’s side!!! stop being assholes to people just trying to support you and give them room to grow!!!
I think this might be the most beautiful thing I've ever seen
✷ Heliophile ✷
[ID: A digital illustration of a trans masculine figure, cropped from the shoulders to the thigh. They are shirtless with top surgery scars, and wearing lacy briefs with a flower design. They have symmetrical leaf tattoos on their shoulders, and a star tattooed on their chest. There’s a rectangular decorative border framing the figure, with a flower stem on each side, a flame bladed dagger underneath, a small floral motif at the top, and a blue sawtooth star in each corner. The figure is colored in a warm golden yellow, and various warm greens in the border. /. End ID]
*nsniff*
really?
grabs your hand. you've had enough plot and exposition and character development lately im taking you to the beach episode
Crying shitting throwing up and wheezing and dying because oh my god they're so cool and such a good friend and what if they think im a creep? Its fine if they're not into me that's fine but pleeeeaseee don't hate me
AND it would have fit his character more!! since when does Five just go with something because others told him to? Even if they were other versions of himself, he's never been the type to just accept defeat, he's a dense, stubborn mf who will find a way around because no matter how deep he buries it beneath cynicism and doubt, the guy has hope and love for his family.
I think a better ending and message of The Umbrella Academy should have been that Five doesn't tell the others what he learns in the subway and about breaking the timeline, but instead he simply lives with his family, endlessly saving and trying to save the world. To live despite how dark it is and how hopeless it is.
To live in spite of hardship. To live and spit in the face of how hard and bleak it is.
To say, 'I lived' in spite of it all.
That should have been the message at the end.
SUIDAE FuRRIES HELL YEAH
AND THEYRE LESBIANS?? AMAZING
ppl wanted more Butch Pig and Femme Boar ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ…