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i love xenogenders because they reveal how arbitrary gender symbolism already is.
we can say ‘my gender is space, cool rocks, and curiosity.’ 👽
is that any more strange than saying, ‘femininity is empathy, flowers, and the color pink’? 🌸
gender is what we make of it, whether practical, picturesque, poetry or prose <3 💖
[ID: the above text in a facebook post by MC Perrin, along with a symbol-less version of the xenogender flag: stripes in dark pink, salmon, pale orange, pale yellow, blue, lavender, and magenta. /end ID]
CW: artistic nudity!
And also anthropomorphic(?) bee (Mostly human)
Sorry if my handwriting is bad. Her name is Deliah and goes by She/He/Bee!!! Bee is a transbian that has a paper wasp boyfriend!!! (it calls him bee-utiful all the time) His nicknames include Buzzy bee, Honey, buzz, Eli, Lilah, and beebee!!
Haha get it. Transbian. TransBEEan. More like uhhhh transbien!!!
I love fat women!!!! Five billion more years of fat, queer, gnc beauties!!!!!! Five billion I say!!!!!!!!!!
Ok y’all, I need you to drop links for free binder services. It’s November which means that parents won’t think it’s odd for their children to request that they not inspect packages. They’ll simply assume it’s a present for whatever holiday they observe. So please do your part by dropping links in the reblogs and trying to get this seen by those who need it
edit: k, so I mean this in nicest way possible. Liking isn’t going to help anyone. This isn’t just for me, other people need these links. If you if you can’t/don’t have the energy to find and post links to ACTIVE donations. Please at least reblog so someone who follows you can. Please and thank you <3
Using ambiguous labels/being unlabeled has genuinely been so freeing for me as a queer dude.
I get that for some, more specific labels and identities are affirming, but for me, when I was still trying to find "my label" ©️ I ended up constantly questioning every feeling I had about myself, my gender, my attraction, etc.
I became obsessed with finding the "correct" collection of terms that could fully encompass me as a person.
But I can't be contained in any number of labels. No one flag or idenity will truly be able to tell others who I am. Only *I* can tell you who I am.
I'm genderqueer, trans, and achillean. What does that mean? Just ask me! Let me use my words and my experiences to connect with you and tell you who I am.
Anyway queerness is beautiful, and I am beautiful, and so are you, no matter how you choose to define yourself.
Trauma is werid bc how do i explain that i dont go by a different bc im trans (im gnc) but bc i can't stand people calling me smt that sends me into a panic.
Like guys jm not detransitioning i swear im just getting comfortable with me as a concept
the way I relate to this soooo much <3
Gender is so weird guys
I'm one of the girls, I'm a girl's girl and I'll cry if you say I'm not, but I'm not a girl's girl.
I'm also Just Some Guy, y'know? I'm a little weirdo, a freak, a little girl with dirt on his knees and fire in his eyes.
I'm her husband but I'm also her girlfriend.
I'm neither a man nor a woman but a weird recluse writer who lives on the edge of a cliff where its always stormy.
I dress like an alt older brother from an early 2000's movie but also like a 90's lesbian (sometimes it's the same outfit).
In conclusion, labels are weird. I'm a boyfriend and a girlfriend, a husband but not a wife, a girl but not a woman, a guy, a man, a friend.
All that being said, he/him and they/them are still very much my pronouns (never she/her).
Peace and love!!
Just because I don't mention something doesn't mean I don't know what it is,,, (refering to egg culture) and there's nothing in homestuck that shows the characters excommunication people for not being any certain gender or forcing people to be a gender. No characters are forcing any labels on june.
And I'm sorry anon went through that, they deserve sm better. I myself am agender. I get how hard it is with people not respecting your labels and pronouns. I genuinely hope they find people who accept them and if they have already found those people then I'm glad
Keyword is try though. You cant rewire a person's brain to think a different way, at least not when it comes to things like gender.
If this is about viewing June as nonbinary then you're free to your interpretation. June is a trans character. Nonbinary is still under that transgender umbrella, even if it's not necessarily mtf or ftm
xx-cringe-factory-xx And vriska, while yes, does have a habit of pushing people to do things before their ready, she can't force a guy into being transgender. No one can!!
... So who's going tell them about egg culture? Or the sheer amount of trans people in the community pressuring their GNC friends into being trans? Or all the detransitioners that get excommunicated at gunpoint for not being trans anymore? Or all the parents that are making their toddlers and young children trans because they wanted to play with trucks or wear dresses that week? Detrans people and the detrans experience is not terf rhetoric, y'all just think that way because the only people ballsy enough to make safe spaces for detransitioners are terfs and the small minority of fence sitters.
Vriska would be the exact type of trans person to force people to "discover their truth" aka harass and beat and batter and bruise them into something that'll finally fit into a trans mold.
And before you go jumping down people's throats, I am very nonbinary, very pansexual, and very panromantic. I'm also biologically a dude. I have had times where I've wanted to go around wearing a dress. I have had times where I couldn't decide if I wanted a gown or tux when I got married until I watched Steven Universe and got my answer from Garnet. I don't force GNC people to take on my truth because they're not nonbinary! And I sure as fuck don't let trans people say that I'm a hardline MTF instead of nonbinary, because I know that's not right for me. It doesn't stop the fact that I had an entire friend group chanting "break the egg" every time I said or did something feminine over chat. I thought I was a woman for three whole years because of that and I hated it, I hated how miserable I felt the further I went into femininity. I got so fucking sick of it that I left. I've got three partners now who all respect me for who I am, and their friends are equally chill with me. So yes, people CAN try to force people into being trans.
@xx-cringe-factory-xx
I wish I was an already established male character so I can be as fem as I want but the narrative will never refer to me as anything other than he/him
i love being t4t I love gender nonconformity... i love girls who arent girls and women who are men and people with a million xenogenders and dykefags and femme trans men and butch trans girls. nothing is sexier than someone who spits in the face of the gender binary, and our very existence is not conforming to gender ideals
mfers will be like "transmascs are privileged because no one cares if a girl crossdresses" as if stone butch blues is not a book full of horrific state violence against that exact thing & the ways it impacts transmascs